Ladies, Please Understand

[T. Parsons 5]

I would like to ask the escorts to consider their clients.  I can't speak for all clients obviously but I'm sure many feel as I do.  You have a client because reality is not that great and you are a fantasy.  You may be much younger than your client, I guess he is reliving his youth, please understand that his body parts may not work as well as they once did, if you think he doesn't realize that he can't do what he wants to trust me he does, when he does realize it he may just be happy to lay in your arms while you are both stark naked.  You may be the only female comfort that he has had in a long time.  Due to my wife's health I've not had sex in 13 years, however over such a long time I really didn't notice when the words I love you stopped, when she stopped hugging me and when she stopped kissing me.  You ladies are there to be a comfort to someone in desperate need and your client may be as nervous of meeting you as you are of him.  Not only do I agree that the escort industry is necessary in our society, I believe that peoples perception of escorts should be changed, you are often needed for comfort and the health of your clients.  I would hope that with most older clients you will find that they are both generous as well as considerate of your needs and concerns.  I for one have a philosophy, you may all have heard of the golden rule (He who has the gold makes the rules), well there is another rule that is greater than that, "She who owns the vagina makes the rules".  I have had 3 encounters with escorts, all three have ended in disaster the first because she was new to it and I was nervous as hell so things didn't work, the second because she felt I was a bit too old (she thought my money was a good age though) and the third because of poor communication.  I don't intend to use the services of an escort again.

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T.Parsons...don't give up...sorry 2 read this...But communication goes a long way...I know there will be some sp's who will reply 2 this & will help you out....also other members will respond & also offer suggestions for you...

[StephanieMystique 1892]

As a professional, age (very rarely) and ability shouldn't ever be a factor. I say age very rarely, as I don't see anyone under 19. 

 

What disappoints me is the expectations some clients have that end up hurting the experience more than anything. I have older clients that understand their limits and we enjoy the time they have allowed us. I have others that love to share stories of their glory days. Then I get the few that still expect to perform like it's their glory days. 

 

A general note at introduction with age, a quick note if you have performance issues will go along way. Do keep in mind, we may still decline seeing you for whatever reason. 

 

I will tag @RayRenpelle in this. As his wisdom may be of benefit to you. 

[StephanieMystique 1892]

@clearbluesky15 HYGIENE!! Is the biggest in my books. If you don't have clean foreskin and a clean bum, I can't continue. My terms have been set by others because they failed to be at their freshest or because other's have had to deal with the issue(s). 

Followed by safety and reliability. If I can count on the client for whenever I am touring the area or when I am home, they show up everytime they book (extreme life happens, I totally understand) and I feel safe and continue to feel safe in their presence. 

Generosity is never expect over my rates for my time but I do appreciate those clients that do. Especially gas, groceries, restaurants and bridge tolls. If it helps keeps business expenses down while touring. It's more for me to keep pushing my goals and making them happen sooner. Also, for me, or your favorite companion, to come visit more often. 

 

Communication is hugely important to us. As we don't want to legally compromise our time together (you ask for illegal activities), and for us to feel safe enough to bring you into our space for a discreet experience (i.e. the location, room number, and what happens in that time is between the sober consenting adults) for us and for other clients that will visit us in that space. Keep it polite and brief. Most professionals want to know their safe to see you and that you will show up for our time together. Most don't need skin colour, or health shape. I am going to appreciate you and your body as it is, in that moment and where it is. No need to overly perform or put on a show. I know I have, and I am sure other's, have created complete magic and miracles from absolutely nothing. 😘 Nervousness is common and most SWs instinctually know how to work with it. Honestly, there is clients I have been seeing for 4+ years, that our time together keeps getting better. First time nervous are a tip to the excitement to come. 

 

Overall, if you take your time to go through Lyla and chat with a couple of the good gentlemen and SPs here. I am sure you will find the right companion for you. 

[RayRenpelle 429]

On 7/6/2022 at 12:59 PM, StephanieMystique said:

As a professional, age (very rarely) and ability shouldn't ever be a factor. I say age very rarely, as I don't see anyone under 19. 

 

What disappoints me is the expectations some clients have that end up hurting the experience more than anything. I have older clients that understand their limits and we enjoy the time they have allowed us. I have others that love to share stories of their glory days. Then I get the few that still expect to perform like it's their glory days. 

 

A general note at introduction with age, a quick note if you have performance issues will go along way. Do keep in mind, we may still decline seeing you for whatever reason. 

 

I will tag @RayRenpelle in this. As his wisdom may be of benefit to you. 

Thank you for the commendation @StephanieMystique. I have recognized from the very beginning that my ability to perform would be limited by age and health. I have gone on visits with no expectations. Dreams and fantasies, yes, but mostly I am content to be spending time with a beautiful lady, or two even once three. Again no expectations. Just go with the flow. I have been fortunate to have my experiences with three wonderful ladies namely you, Stephanie and also @KylieJane and @charlottequinn123. Experience solo and also as duo. KylieJane being my regular companion. All have shown great understanding and have been very professional. Our visits are successful because we just do what we can to please each other whatever acceptable way it may be. Age and health continue to take a toll on me but the pleasure of being together continues unabated although it may take different form.

Something I always make sure that will never forget

is etiquette. I try never to cancel, always be on time, definitely never "no show". I make sure my hygiene is 100%. Water and soap does not hurt. It is a plus with the ladies if you don't smell, have clean hands and your genitals and butt thoroughly washed. And don't barter with the rates.

I Also remember that I am going on a date with a lady. So I always bring flowers. Did that from my first visit onward. And, as I got to know them better, other little gifts came along. And tipping, I am not a huge tipper but I always try to leave a little extra that is worthwhile.

I always remember that they go out of their way to please me, so I should do all I can to show my appreciation and respect for them. 

WE are lucky in our area to have many such fine, beautiful ladies. All are professionals and desire to please. They really are not concerned about our physical appearance or ability but more that, at the end of the visit, we are satisfied.

I am always nervous but I find it makes for a good visit. She will be your guide in overcoming your nervousness. 

 

[T. Parsons 5]

Thank you all for the encouragement, perhaps if I had read the guide for new clients on the first page of Lyla before trying I would have been more successful.  I'm not really sure why the timings for locations is as important and concerning as it is but then I've not been in such a vulnerable position as these women place themselves daily then maybe I would understand.  I am going to try again this time I will drive to Moncton.  3 hours drive for 1 hour with a beautiful short haired blonde woman sounds fantastic.