Tiffany Amber 7031 Report post Posted June 30, 2011 While I was away on my little "vacation" I had the weirdest phone call. It was a woman freaking out. She was barley coherent, but after a few minutes she calmed down and explained why she was calling. My phone number was supposidly on her mans phone. Now I dont think this was an SO of one of my gentlemen friends, this was a Toronto number, one that I do not recognize. I think she was strolling threw one of the sites that I advertise on and was bored and made a phone call to me. I politly told her she has the wrong number and hung up, she never called me back. This is just a reminder: Please delete your phone calls/texts messages BEFORE you go home! Double check, triple check if you have too!! We, Sp's are not in this to get you in trouble or even having to deal with an agered SO. We make it our priority to protect your privacy and well being, in return we expect the same!! Of course we would never say "Is your husband Mr.XXX? Yes, I've seen him many times. FYI Iam an escort" No! We will say you must have the wrong number and hang up. But if our number is either programmed in your phone or you have multiple phone calls to us, it does look very very suspecious! If you need to program our number in your phone find a guys name that sounds like or is simular to our name! Ex: Paula, put Paul. Or get on of the pay as you go phones. They are really cheap. Turn it on when you need it and turn if off when you dont. Hide it in your office or the trunk of your car. If your wife, SO, GF finds it, just tell her it's Bobs phone from work. He forgot it when you two went to Timmie's at lunch! Simple and believable lie!! Don't be too elaborate, she'll know somethings up! lol Just a friendly reminder!! 5 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300292 Report post Posted June 30, 2011 That's why I posted this thread about removing ladies numbers from contacts after you see her, you can always get the number again And this is coming from a single guy RG http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=57388 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nicolette Vaughn 294340 Report post Posted June 30, 2011 I've had this happen to me a few months ago and I also plead ignorance and said she must have the wrong number. She kept texting me, being verbally abusive and I told her to stop or I would turn her number over for harassment. Never heard back from her again. If you're going to put your number in my phone, put it under the name "Nick" so a wife or girlfriend will think it's a guy friend or acquaintance. I will always play dumb whether it' a wife contacting me or you see me in public or end up knowing me personally. I will pretend not to know you for my privacy as well as yours. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
qwertyaccount 15793 Report post Posted June 30, 2011 I'm another single guy that always deletes the call history. Could a plausible cover for the ladies be something like "This is a horoscope line lady, do you want today's horoscope or not" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Boomer 33202 Report post Posted June 30, 2011 Some good advice regarding the use of cell phones. This doesn't help you ladies, but I would point out that if you've got an SO whose checking the history on your cell phones and then harassing the Sp's you've got a serious trust issue at home. Maybe the guys should use a few hobby dollars to to smooth the waters at home (flowers or dinner out). Pay a little more attention to the home front and then maybe your recreation pursuits won't get as much attention. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300292 Report post Posted June 30, 2011 (edited) Some good advice regarding the use of cell phones. This doesn't help you ladies, but I would point out that if you've got an SO whose checking the history on your cell phones and then harassing the Sp's you've got a serious trust issue at home. Maybe the guys should use a few hobby dollars to to smooth the waters at home (flowers or dinner out). Pay a little more attention to the home front and then maybe your recreation pursuits won't get as much attention. Not getting in an argument here, nor passing judgement (everyone's relationship is personal and different) but under those circumstances (with the married guys seeing SP's) the lack of trust issue would in fact have a basis in reality. But that having been said, the ladies shouldn't have to put up with harassing phone calls, so show discretion. The ladies shouldn't be dragged in the middle of a clients marital problem. The encounters should be NSA and fun. They aren't the "other woman," and as much as there are ladies I like, I'm not oblivious to the fact that this is their livelihood, they aren't looking to steal a man. I don't leave my contact information on the phone, I can re-enter it prior to another encounter by taking it off the ladies' website/CERB, and I'm single, no S/O to be concerned about. Discretion is the key, for both the gentlemen and ladies RG Edited June 30, 2011 by r__m__g_uy Had my second pot of coffee Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
qwertyaccount 15793 Report post Posted June 30, 2011 Married guys - don't forget about detailed billing! Here is a reminder: http://toronto.ctv.ca/servlet/an/local/CTVNews/20100517/affair-sues-rogers-100517/20100517/?hub=TorontoNewHome 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Tiffany Amber 7031 Report post Posted June 30, 2011 Some good advice regarding the use of cell phones. This doesn't help you ladies, but I would point out that if you've got an SO whose checking the history on your cell phones and then harassing the Sp's you've got a serious trust issue at home. Maybe the guys should use a few hobby dollars to to smooth the waters at home (flowers or dinner out). Pay a little more attention to the home front and then maybe your recreation pursuits won't get as much attention. I understand what your saying but I didnt start this thread to be puttin down what guys are doing or not doing on the home front!! Everyone have their marital issues, this is was just a reminder and some tips to help gents not get in any trouble! Someone mentioned billing. Well if you recieve paper billing, maybe switch to online billing. You can still find out who your calling, but maybe an SO wouldnt be so much inclind to log on, search the bill and so on. But if there is still a chance of that. Program our number and show her, "Oh, thats Jack!" Seriously guys, the more your open about certain things and not hesitating and thinking for an elborate lie, she will belive it!! I am talking from experience! Dated a pathelogical liar for a long time!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest tr*****e Report post Posted June 30, 2011 Program our number and show her, "Oh, thats Jack!" Seriously guys, the more your open about certain things and not hesitating and thinking for an elborate lie, she will belive it!! I am talking from experience! I couldn't give you any more rep points, Tiffany. Simple lies work waaaaaay better! A bunch of simple lies strung together don't. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300292 Report post Posted June 30, 2011 I couldn't give you any more rep points, Tiffany. Simple lies work waaaaaay better! A bunch of simple lies strung together don't. I've tried the simple lies and a bunch of simple lies strung together, but my cat is just too smart and sees right through them RG Additional Comments: Shortcake He says he'll be quiet and would be out of the way...he promised RG 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Phaedrus 209521 Report post Posted July 1, 2011 Married guys - don't forget about detailed billing! Again, an entirely separate pay-as-you-go phone is your friend here. No bills, with or without details :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
qwertyaccount 15793 Report post Posted July 1, 2011 Again, an entirely separate pay-as-you-go phone is your friend here. No bills, with or without details :) You can get one from Virgin mobile for about $10 a month ($113 a year including HST). Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
