Boomer 33202 Report post Posted June 30, 2011 This in the Ottawa Sun today. I think it's a bit extreme, why tamper with something beautiful that really doesn't need any improvement. They're all beautiful and come in all shapes and sizes. http://www.ottawasun.com/2011/06/29/women-getting-drastic-surgery-below-the-belt 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sensual Erin 33935 Report post Posted June 30, 2011 Oh, I agree. Reading this article sent a shiver down my spine. I have heard of women having the surgery after having children just as women seek breast augmentation as well. The vaginal muscles may become too large due to child birth and sensation is lost. Having children is harder on a woman's body, but mother-daughter specials? I would say this is exploitation. "Baby boomers drove the acceptance of these procedures and fuelled the growth of this subspeciality," said Dr. Red Alinsod in a statement on his website. "Women did not want to live with unflattering, sagging, and large labias, nor did they want to live with gaping open vaginas and lack of sensation when having sexual relations." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest gagagaga Report post Posted June 30, 2011 I think it sucks too...there is nothing I like better than a big, meaty, pouty pair of pussy lips. YUM YUM YUM!!! If a woman I was dating changed that, I'm not sure I could still enjoy eating her. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
toine 30556 Report post Posted June 30, 2011 Well, a woman's body is her own and she may well do whatever she pleases, but I too find it rather strange and quite possibly disturbing. 'The Barbie', what an unattractive model. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kyra.Graves 23779 Report post Posted June 30, 2011 (edited) A very interesting Doc on the topic... http://topdocumentaryfilms.com/perfect-vagina/ Edited June 30, 2011 by Kyra.Graves Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Malika Fantasy 144625 Report post Posted June 30, 2011 I did actually consider doing it and may actually do it... I have what you call "meat curtain", really long inner labia lips...I never had any problem when being an SP with them...but in my personal life...twice I was in a bar and had one night stand...got all into making out..and when they are going down on me...said what the hell is that? It hurt. It hurt having someone commment on how your pussy actually look like just because you have big pussy lips. You get concerned after about how it look. 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cleo Catra 178382 Report post Posted June 30, 2011 They want to 'beautify' a vagina??? What the hell, all vaginas are beautiful! I'm quite a fan of mine actually, it's so pretty. So please keep all needles, sharp things, or anything that could change it away from me! This makes me think back to female circumcision in third world countries. I remember studying that back in University. So disgusting and sad, and those women had no choice - now these women are choosing to mutilate themselves? What. The. Fuck. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Megan'sTouch 23875 Report post Posted June 30, 2011 I did actually consider doing it and may actually do it... I have what you call "meat curtain", really long inner labia lips...I never had any problem when being an SP with them...but in my personal life...twice I was in a bar and had one night stand...got all into making out..and when they are going down on me...said what the hell is that? It hurt. It hurt having someone commment on how your pussy actually look like just because you have big pussy lips. You get concerned after about how it look. Honey, I already said this in person but I'll say it again on the board. Those immature loser boys had likely only ever seen pussy in Playboy and when they got their first look at real pussy, they were shocked. Grown, mature men understand that pussies come in all shaped and sizes. I'm with Cleo. I love my pussy and if anyone comes at me with a scalpel, watch out!! 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cleo Catra 178382 Report post Posted June 30, 2011 I did actually consider doing it and may actually do it... I have what you call "meat curtain", really long inner labia lips...I never had any problem when being an SP with them...but in my personal life...twice I was in a bar and had one night stand...got all into making out..and when they are going down on me...said what the hell is that? It hurt. It hurt having someone commment on how your pussy actually look like just because you have big pussy lips. You get concerned after about how it look. Hey lady! I've seen that vagina - I like it :D Don't let stupid boys get you down, I'm pretty sure every part of my body has been insulted by some idiot at some point. And I don't care, I'm hot :D Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Malika Fantasy 144625 Report post Posted June 30, 2011 Hey lady! I've seen that vagina - I like it :D Don't let stupid boys get you down, I'm pretty sure every part of my body has been insulted by some idiot at some point. And I don't care, I'm hot :D thanks pretty lady! I like your also:D I know at the end I won't do it...but it's just really hard to have people commenting on it, saying it's gross...but now I do realize...it's more to love:D Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ottanon 2930 Report post Posted June 30, 2011 There is nothing wrong with your set. I have seen much bigger. You have nothing to worry about. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300292 Report post Posted June 30, 2011 Any guy making demeaning insulting comments about a woman, no matter what they are, is probably hiding some insecurities about himself Malika, don't let a couple jerks get you down But just on a lighter note everyone, well how about a Daily Affirmation But seriously, for the most part, I haven't seen a site like this where there is so much mutual respect for one another RG Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Boomer 33202 Report post Posted June 30, 2011 I did actually consider doing it and may actually do it... I have what you call "meat curtain", really long inner labia lips...I never had any problem when being an SP with them...but in my personal life...twice I was in a bar and had one night stand...got all into making out..and when they are going down on me...said what the hell is that? It hurt. It hurt having someone commment on how your pussy actually look like just because you have big pussy lips. You get concerned after about how it look. My dear girl that is just plain cruelty, and I wish I could apologize for assholes like that. Some day when you settle down with some guy, I'm sure he'll think he's won the lottery. Hold your head up and don't let it affect your self esteem. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nicolette Vaughn 294340 Report post Posted June 30, 2011 Anyone who has had a child knows that things do change down there and even though it may not look or feel different to a man, a woman can certainly notice and sexual gratification isn't as enchanced as it once was. The labia minoria stretches and sometimes produces unflaterring results afterwards. Other women just feel it's too big. I've had plastic surgery and have no qualms about it. The way I see it is like if you don't like the look of your nose or other body part, you can do something about it. For some people it makes no difference if the body part is on your face or down below. It's not for everyone. As long as you're doing it for yourself and be realistic in your expectations. I personally wouldn't do that procedure but that vaginal rejeuvenation thing... hell yeah! Not that I've had any complaints but I would do it for my own satisfaction. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PistolPete 61421 Report post Posted June 30, 2011 If I may Malika, I always found that the bigger area, and labia to tease and arouse on a lady while going down on her, is a sure arousal even for me. In fact performing DATY, really gets me aroused, where she is thoroughly enjoying it and listening to her moan,can make me pre-cum, and I really enjoy watching a lady's 'flower bloom', it is part of her natural body. No matter the size, it is simply heaven and of course orgasmic to be part of, I thoroughly enjoy it, so hopefully you do not consider it ever. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Meg O'Ryan 266444 Report post Posted June 30, 2011 I am well endowed and VERY proud!!! Good to hear my soul mate is in the same arena :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300292 Report post Posted June 30, 2011 I am well endowed and VERY proud!!! Good to hear my soul mate is in the same arena :) And guys want to come back to see you again...you have every right to be proud Meg, your beautiful head to toe. RG Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
thedriver 6179 Report post Posted June 30, 2011 It is funny how our first experiences in life form our tasts as well as our personalities. I remember when I was about 9 and playing doctor with a group of friends that included an older girl in her early teens. When my turn came to be alone with her I got my first live view of a womans genitals. She was hairy (not surprising in the early 70's) and she had large labia. After that day every time I looked at a Playboy I was disapointed that I could not see a girls labia through her bush. When I started having sex with girls I always liked the girls who larger labia and when I met my ex-wife and found that she had the largest lips I had ever seen, she called them her "Beef Curtains", I thought I was the luckiest guy on earth! Malika I truely hope that you do not go through with such a surgery. For every jerk that makes an asinine coment there a hundred guys that would feel they were the luckiest guy on earth to be with you! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
northoe 100 Report post Posted June 30, 2011 Hi Malika, Big lips are beautiful. I would have been down there for hours. Jim Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest 9**A***** Report post Posted July 1, 2011 Exactly the right attitude Malika, it is more to love! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Malika Fantasy 144625 Report post Posted July 1, 2011 Thanks everyone for the love:) When I was younger I did consider the surgery way more then I am doing now...I am getting more and more accept-ant of my body with the time and since I am meeting more ladies...and eeeh get intimate with them, I see I am not the only freak:D Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Phaedrus 209521 Report post Posted July 1, 2011 When I was younger I did consider the surgery way more then I am doing now...I am getting more and more accept-ant of my body with the time and since I am meeting more ladies...and eeeh get intimate with them, I see I am not the only freak:D Good for you. Glad to hear it. Something else that jumped out at me from the article... Concerned physicians are also seeing women who have had other cosmetic alterations that originate in the pornography industry, including anal bleaching and injection of silicone into the G-spot, inside of the anterior wall of the vagina. Injection of silicone into the G-spot? WTF? Am I the only person who's never heard of this? And what is it supposed to achieve? I assume it's not for the looks of the thing... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lovethegirls 127 Report post Posted July 1, 2011 I honestly cannot believe that any woman would even think of changing God's beautiful creation! They are ALL beautiful and unique. I shiver at the thought that all you ladies were made to look alike. I have NEVER seen a bad looking pussy yet! Shaved or unshaved, natural pussies, all beautiful ! Hear's a thought.....sew it up and make it tight for us men! Does that not just sound stupid? You ladies feel great no matter what some guys may say. I have never complained either way! If the guy is complaining that you are too loose, maybe he is too small, lol. ALL you ladies are just perfect the way you are!!!!!! Libia Minora RULES !!!!! Additional Comments: Just take his money and run! He is not worthy of your time! Additional Comments: I think it sucks too...there is nothing I like better than a big, meaty, pouty pair of pussy lips. YUM YUM YUM!!! If a woman I was dating changed that, I'm not sure I could still enjoy eating her. I so agree with you Joe! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest **cely***r***ne Report post Posted July 1, 2011 I myself had been contemplating this surgery...for me, I thought a meaty puss was abnormal. Nothing says sexy like a confident woman, although I do not believe in young girls getting plastic surgery, a grown woman who is not happy with herself has the option to change that. I have been fighting with self esteem issues my whole life. I used to be over 200 lbs and have lost quite a bit of weight. (140+) Because of this my body has changed and my self image has changed. I am happier with the way I look now not to mention my health is a lot better, but there are certain areas of my body I look at in the mirror and I just wish to god that I could change it. After a couple of years, and being in relationships with a few women, I now understand that every woman's genitalia is different. I am who I am, and we all have different tastes. I have a "take me as I am" attitude now, even though I have a consult in the next few weeks for a tummy tuck and breast augumentation. And yes I may be hypocritical here, but Ive been working my abs so much and to no avail, I feel surgery is my only option. I know when I feel better about my bod in a bikini I will definitely feel better as a whole. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SamanthaEvans 166767 Report post Posted July 2, 2011 I've only recently learned that this is an issue for anyone. I'm surprised and saddened by it. I'm an artist. Life drawing classes and sessions have been the most important things for me and my artwork. Paying significant attention to human figures has helped me to recognize how difficult it is to see accurately not only our own bodies, but human bodies in general. It's still a heck of a lot easier for me to draw get a true likeness of a golden retriever than to draw another human. That's because of the assumptions I make about human bodies--sizes, proportions and the relationships between different body parts. My mind tries to convince my eyes that I'm seeing things that aren't there, or aren't where I think they are. How we experience others' bodies also depends on context. In a life drawing class, I will work on whole figures standing, sitting, lying down or in motion. But in an intimate context, I experience the other person up close and in terms of feel, scent, taste, warmth or coolness and, most of all, mood. I spend much less time seeing a partner as a whole, from a distance, than engaging with them in a personal, intimate and dynamic way. I think this is why it matters little to me what my partner looks like but it matters a great deal to me that they're warm, welcoming, attentive, considerate, clean and genuinely interested in engaging with me erotically. I experience physical differences as expressions of the person's individual character and personality. I don't assess them in terms of ideal images. I don't conform to some conventional ideals or standards of female beauty, myself. I frankly think this is part of my charm and allure. I am not a Barbie doll by any means. I'm a real woman, unlike any other. Discovering what makes me who I am is part of the adventure I offer my companions just as discovering such things about them is part of what I seek in our encounters. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
