Visiting the Greek Isles?

[teched 418]

Well, not sure where to start. I have been in this hobby for a number of years and have seen much talk about the wonders of a trip to Greece. I'm thinking, there must be something to it, so let's give it a try.

 

Problem is, it seems to me there must be some protocol to follow when visiting the islands.

 

First off, the lady involved MUST be agreeable. But then what?

 

I assume lubricants must be involved. But beyond that what are the rules? What can be done, what can't be done? IE how often do you need to change the little guys cover? Every time you change his location? I could see jumping back and forth, from the islands to the mainland from time to time :-)

 

Anyone, particularly the ladies, want to provide some insight before I book my 1st trip.

 

(I can see this thread heading off in a tangent, but I hope there will be some answers among the posts)

 

Thanks

[Malika Fantasy 144625]

First off, greek will always be YMMV, it will vary for each girl. Most of the time it's based on the level of comfort and the size of junior.

 

Second...don't rush it! this hole don't lubricate at all, so take take, be gentle, start by finger or small toys to help loosen it a bit. Don't start by doing deep stroke, it hurt at the beginning trust me. I enjoy greek, but bloody hell those that think that just a bit of lube at the end of the penis will do the job...no!

 

And you need to change condom EACH TIME you plan on changing hole...the change of getting an infection are REALLY high if you go directly from the rectum to the pussy

 

Also...if you do greek, please don't try to have the lady give you a BJ after even if it's is bbbj or change the condom without going to the washroom and clean it! it isn't fun trust me!

 

and except that...enjoy:D

[Chanel Reign 28097]

What Mailka says is very true. All Ladies mileage may vary. Some can accommodate a Mac truck where others prefer an F150. And yes go slow. The woman is always in the drivers seat and you will know if she is enjoying herself.

 

YES condoms for different entrances always; however thats the smart and popular rule but there may be exceptions. I don't know.

 

If done in the right order everyone can be happy as long as the 2 involved are on the right page beforehand.

 

And hygiene is number one importance in my opinion no matter which activity one is playing at, but especially this one.

 

Opening this subject up further :), the same applies to men. None of us are built the same and any new an*l play on a Gentleman requires a slow and steady pace before any of the "real action" takes place.

[teched 418]

Malika, Chanel Reign: Thanks to you both for your clarity and advise. Your comments make perfect sense.

 

Now, I have a call to make.:icon_wink:

[chavez 641]

I will add my 2 cents here because this may be helpful. What the ladies say is correct, we are not all built the same. The lady needs to be able to accomodate you. In my experience that ability is 60% physical and 40 % mental.

I suggest that you choose a lady that is open to the idea even if she has never done this ( read here fully open minded). Then book a long appointment. Your partner should be fully relaxed before you attempt this.

I wish you a wonderful mind blowing experience.

Oh one final note; don't leave this item from your wish list until you are so old that it takes a leathal dose of Viagra to get you stiff enough. You are not going to get any sloppy sausage past those gates , even with the most willing partner..... chicas/chavez

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are there lubricants that are better for this activity over others ?

[Lexy Grace 103697]

are there lubricants that are better for this activity over others ?

 

I always use H2O Anal Lube - Water Base

 

http://www.adultsensations.ca/lubricants-anal-lube-water-base-p-904.html

[SamanthaEvans 166767]

are there lubricants that are better for this activity over others ?

 

If you check out a good adult toy store--a high end one--the staff will be able to recommend several different lubricants. Basically, you want something that stays slippery a long time, that's water soluble and that's not made with any sugar ingredients.

 

More important than the exact brand is that you actually use the lube and use more than you think you'll need. Too much is far better than not enough! When everything is well-lubricated, you'll slide into her more easily and have a much better experience, overall, because she'll find it much easier to relax. But if you don't have enough lube, your entry will be more difficult and your movement inside her will be more intense and has the potential to be painful for her, as well. That will make the next time more of a challenge because she may be anxious and have a hard time relaxing, etc. A vicious circle gets going and that's not what you want!

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Lexy902 , SamanthaEvans , thank you .

[mrgreek 350]

are there lubricants that are better for this activity over others ?

 

The best lubricants for anal sex are silicone based. The only downfall with silicone based lubricants is that it stains your sheets while "doing the deed", however, since you presumably (I hope) wash your bed sheets shortly afterwards, these stains come out very easily.

 

The difference between water based and silicone based lubes are night and day. Silicone lubes keep their "slippery-ness" a lot longer than water-based lubes. Silicone lubes are more expensive than water-based lubes but well worth the extra cost. My silicone-based lube of choice is Wet Platinum which can be found at any adult store.

 

One important note when using silicone based lubes ... do not use it with silicone made toys as the lube will degrade the toy.

 

MrGreek :aol_anal:

[Lexy Grace 103697]

The best lubricants for anal sex are silicone based. The only downfall with silicone based lubricants is that it stains your sheets while "doing the deed", however, since you presumably (I hope) wash your bed sheets shortly afterwards, these stains come out very easily.

 

The difference between water based and silicone based lubes are night and day. Silicone lubes keep their "slippery-ness" a lot longer than water-based lubes. Silicone lubes are more expensive than water-based lubes but well worth the extra cost. My silicone-based lube of choice is Wet Platinum which can be found at any adult store.

 

One important note when using silicone based lubes ... do not use it with silicone made toys as the lube will degrade the toy.

 

MrGreek :aol_anal:

I prefer the water base for Greek but only use Wet Platinum for Lexy's Platinum kitty for sex. I always use a condom when using toys on others that are for penetration.

 

Most adult stores in Halifax have samples so you can feel what the lube is like and to see if you like the consistency.

[newboy 4919]

I thought silicon based lubes were a no-no with latex condoms?

 

What about the lube brand named, "astroglide"?

[Lexy Grace 103697]

I thought silicon based lubes were a no-no with latex condoms?

 

What about the lube brand named, "astroglide"?

 

I've tried "astroglide" but it's not my preference at all.

 

I like silicone for sex and water base for Greek and the water base type I use for Greek is just what works for me.

 

"Silicone based lubricants are longer lasting as compared to water based lubricants and they are more compatible with latex based contraceptives, condoms and toys as opposed to oil based lubricants". It's all about the material of the toy when choosing a lube.

 

http://www.malesexualhealthshop.com/2243/how-do-you-use-a-silicone-based-sexual-lubricant/

[PistolPete 61421]

Three words come to my mind while reading this thread.....'long and deep'

[NotchJohnson 214132]

I found this and thought I would share all of you, I don't know if this will help but hope it does.

 

 

 

There are so many elements which you need to have a pleasurable, pain-free anal sex experience: lots of foreplay and warm-up, plenty of lubrication, and communication and trust between you and your partner. Anal sex should never, ever be painful. If it hurts, stop. Pain is your body's way of telling you that whatever you're doing isn't working. You should always listen to your body. Your butthole knows what is best for you. At the first sign of pain, you may want to stop all activity or simply slow it down: maybe use one finger only, change to a smaller butt plug, decrease the depth of penetration, or switch to external anal stimulation only. Work your way back up, but never force anything. Go as slow as you need to, continue to add more lube, and talk to your partner so he knows exactly what does and doesn't feel good.

I'd also like to address your mention of using products like "Anal Ease" or even OraGel. Anal Ease is the brand name of a lubricant (of which there are several) marketed for anal sex which contains a numbing agent. I absolutely do not recommend using products like Anal Ease ever. Because they have the effect of numbing your anal area, you cannot feel your ass literally and you are in danger of hurting yourself. Using products like these often lead people to go farther than they normally would, take something bigger in their ass than they should and the result is a sore ass, possible tearing and damage to the delicate lining of the anal canal and rectum, and pain after the fact that isn't exactly going to want to make you rush right out and try anal sex again. There are plenty of great water-based lubricants that are thick and work well for anal sex (I like Astroglide Gel or ID), so use one of those. As for the OraGel, common sense and warnings on the label should let you know the answer: no. Just don't go there.

Using butt plugs on a daily basis is a good way to get your butt used to having something inside it. Butt plugs don't actually "stretch" your butt; they simply help you learn to relax your pelvic and sphincter muscles. In terms of exercises, many women find that Kegel exercises (which exercise your PC muscles) are very helpful. In order to locate your PC muscles, pretend that you are trying to stop peeing (or while you are peeing, you can actually stop the flow of urine). The muscles you contract to stop the flow are your PC muscles. If you put your finger on your perineum-the area between your vagina and your anus-while you do this exercise, you can feel the contractions.

Kegel exercises (named for the scientist who studied PC muscles and popularized the theory of exercising them) can help you to become more aware of your sphincter and PC muscles and learn to control and strengthen them. They will help you get in tune with the feelings in your pelvic area, increasing your sensitivity and responsiveness. The exercises will also tone the pelvic muscles, making them more flexible and more receptive to pleasurable sensations; when you exercise the PC muscles, other muscles in the area are also exercised and strengthened.

Women who regularly exercise their PC and pelvic muscles report some very positive benefits: heightened pelvic sensations and greater anal sensitivity; increased pleasure during clitoral stimulation, vaginal and anal penetration; more control over orgasms; and better, more intense orgasms. For more information on Kegel exercises, check out Anal Pleasure and Health by Jack Morin and The Complete Guide to Safer Sex from the Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality. There is also a masturbation tool called the Kegelcisor, designed like a barbell for your pussy, which works wonders on those muscles!

But there is another crucial ingredient to great anal sex, the most important one-which may be missing for you, according to your letter: desire. You really have to want to be fucked in the ass. First, you may want to think about why you don't enjoy anal sex. Many people have fears and anxieties which, when kept to themselves, can result in tension and a butthole that just won't let anything inside. Meditate on your feelings about and associations with anal sex, your past experiences with buttfucking, what you liked and disliked about it. Share your thoughts with your partner-sometimes talking about things can help you assuage your fears and relax. If you come to the conclusion that you don't want to do it, then don't do it. All the exercises, butt plugs, and lube in the world won't do a damn thing if your heart's not in it.

[Chanel Reign 28097]

On my site I have a "training" tab that basically says this, just not so eloquently.