walter2010 139 Report post Posted June 28, 2023 Thinking about the easy ones . - Be polite and respectful with communication’s before and during appointment. - Be punctual. If running behind due to unexpected circumstances beyond your control then be respectful and reach out . - Best topic to discuss to break the ice ? - Verbal or not so verbal while enjoying each other while being more intimate. - Compliment her on her appearance. - if it’s a good idea or not to discuss briefly boundaries before or just go with the flow ? - Be well groomed . Above and below . - Clean cut nails . - Freshly brushed teeth and fresh breath . - Freshly showered and clean washed hair . - Are the ladies more impressed and turned on with suit and tie sort of guy or casual or jock type dress ? - Like a little small talk to get comfortable or just get to the action ASAP ? - Being more dominant or rather more submissive? What is the biggest turn on ? - Lights fully on or dimmed ? - Music or No Music ? Type of music ? - Preferably receive or give fist ? What’s the biggest turn on ? - Use of Toys or no Toys - Is it acceptable to bring along a New Toy to the date ? Or rather ask if provider if Toys are ok ? Honestly maybe the Sp needs a toy to get to the next level after multiple dates in the same day ? - What’s considered to be a low volume provider and how does that compare to a higher volume provider and her ability to be actually be turned on ? I genuinely feel that it’s so much more of an enjoyable experience when you know that the parter is turned on as well and is enjoying herself . - Hard and aggressive or soft and sensual? What order ? One or the other or both ? - For out of towns gals . When you first arrive to meet or just before you leave ? What’s the best time to have the best experience? Morning or later at night ? - Booking way in advance? Does that make for a better experience for the provider or does it even really matter ? - Is eye contact important or irrelevant to provider ? - Language barrier if applicable to the experience? - Location Does Provider enjoy in calls or out calls more ? What’s most likly to give the best experience? - Be interesting to have the ladies give their take on what truly is the bigger or biggest turn ons ? - Thanks in Advance Ladies Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RobertDion 70 Report post Posted June 30, 2023 I'm guessing this a bit over done, so, correct me if I'm wrong, to simplify and to not over-think this, it's mostly common sense, here's my advice... Be on time, or call if you will be more than 10 minutes late: Get ahead of the traffic, if it's incall, make sure you plan ahead, arrive early, plan for traffic, be right on time, not early, not late. Always be clean. Very, very clean. If you just came from work or whatever, take a quick shower at the location. Wherever you find your escort, research her: Does it say she likes flowers or wine? Go the extra mile, get that stuff for her. Bring it with you, greet her with a smile. Know what's on menu in advance and do not deviate from it: Escorts use the usual codes, CIM, Greek, GFE, DOM, etc, ask ahead of time for services or extras like these (if it's not already listed in her ad) and either way let her know what you would like, and if she can accommodate, and there's no arguing with her for anything she doesn't want to do. Never ever discuss sexual acts or money in person: first thing you do you leave it on the table for her, that's it, don't hand it to her, if you have flowers, hand them over first, then go to the night table or counter and leave the money there. Be nice, treat her like a lady, and be respectful. She is a real person, you don't need to be intimidated and you certainly shouldn't feel superior either. Try to read her cues. Don't feel like you need to blow her mind sexually. While noble, and very sweet, she is there for you. Do not hold back at the beginning because you want to last for her, this often ends in not being able to finish at all. Which nobody wants. You can take care of her after if you enjoy that, and if she wants that. Tip! Always tip. No one care if it's $20 or $200, tip your escort. Unless she was terrible. Tipping lets the woman know that you liked her and that you appreciate her time and effort. This is especially important if you want to see the escort again. Ask her if she would like to be reviewed. If yes, keep it simple, and do not fabricate. If you say she did something that she didn't, other clients may expect that same service in the future. She will not be offended if you need to leave right after. Whether you need to get back to work, or just aren't into idle chit-chat and cuddling, do your thing. She will enjoy the extra down-time. If you have a genuine rapport or chemistry, or if you are just enjoying the company and a break from real life, then stay the whole time! She will be happy either way. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
walter2010 139 Report post Posted July 1, 2023 Great points to add for sure. 👍 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites