Recommendations for first timer/someone without much experience

[FlyPanAm 22]

So by most people's definitions, I'm not a virgin. But it's been a few years, the sex sucked, and I couldn't finish, so I kind of am. But at the end of the day, whether or not I am (because virginity is a construct and doesn't matter), I don't have much experience – and that is what matters. So I am hoping to see someone who is good with people in my situation, who will have nerves, and for whom it's kind of a big deal, and all the other things.

I know that it also matters a lot what I am looking for. For what it's worth, I prefer curvier women with natural breasts, but by no means am I exclusively attracted to them. Being foot fetish friendly would also be a big plus, but I'm not thinking of an exclusively fetish experience. 

Are there any providers you guys would recommend?

[StephanieMystique 1892]

Any providers on this board would be happy to.

Contact them in the manner they wished to be contacted. Make sure to view they're websites/read the ads so hopefully they'll be more what you are looking for. 

 

P.s. asking for sexual services (even in the acronym form) is against community guidelines here and most providers won't discuss it prior to seeing you as it's illegal for you to purchase. 

 

[FlyPanAm 22]

3 minutes ago, StephanieMystique said:

Any providers on this board would be happy to.

Contact them in the manner they wished to be contacted. Make sure to view they're websites/read the ads so hopefully they'll be more what you are looking for. 

 

P.s. asking for sexual services (even in the acronym form) is against community guidelines here and most providers won't discuss it prior to seeing you as it's illegal for you to purchase. 

 

 

Thank you for your reply!

As for the P.S., I'm so sorry!! I hadn't realized, but I 100% should have known it was against the rules. That's on me and it's my fault. I edited out the second post, but unfortunately it wont let me edit my first post so I can tidy it up as well.

I really did not mean to disrespectful, either of the rules or the community, or to be crude or crass. I feel bad and a little embarrassed, because I can understand why it would put providers in a compromising position (as well as me)... so I feel like I owe you and others an apology at the very least. 

[Almostoldguy 45]

If you are lucky enough to book Stephanie she will treat you like a king. As always be polite and respectful. Being a proper gentlemen while respecting boundaries will get you a long way. Have fun. There are alot of beautiful, kind, sexy af women in the maritimes and on this forum.

[East Coast Kimmy 1080]

For gorgeous, natural curves, a beautiful natural bust & foot fetish friendly -- I'd definitely recommend @Exotic Touch Danielle 

[MsManda 25685]

@AVA MARIE would absolutely blow your mind 😈

She's excellent with first timers and lovessss foot fetish 😍

[Exotic Touch Danielle 31728]

4 hours ago, East Coast Kimmy said:

For gorgeous, natural curves, a beautiful natural bust & foot fetish friendly -- I'd definitely recommend @Exotic Touch Danielle 

Thankyou for recommending me babe❤️

[East Coast Kimmy 1080]

3 hours ago, Exotic Touch Danielle said:

Thankyou for recommending me babe❤️

You're the first person who came to mind & you truly deserve the recommendation. Hands down. 😘💕

[Exotic Touch Danielle 31728]

2 hours ago, East Coast Kimmy said:

You're the first person who came to mind & you truly deserve the recommendation. Hands down. 😘💕

Appreciate you❤️

[FlyPanAm 22]

19 hours ago, Almostoldguy said:

As always be polite and respectful. Being a proper gentlemen while respecting boundaries will get you a long way.

 

I will! The last thing I ever want to do is make someone uncomfortable or cross a line. I probably need need to learn to be less sensitive and timid. I still feel bad for accidentally breaking the rules and worry I got off on the wrong foot  and was too forward in my post and was disrespectful.

Thank you everyone who has replied! 

[Mokejomes 50]

I don’t know how deeply rooted the foot fetish is for you, but if it’s a big thing, and not any pair of feet will do, it’s hard to find around here. I would equate it to the people who travel to Nepal, climb mountains and then wait out there for weeks on the off chance they might get to spot a snow leopard. Aka - it’s rare. 

If your foot fetish is specific - requiring a certain type of foot, and a certain type of personality - you’re automatically eliminating 60% of providers. On top of that a lot of girls typically aren’t into it, turned off by it, or whatever. So you’re probably cutting another 30% of the escorts. So now you’re down to a 10% chance of finding a provider who meets the standard you’ve set in your mind for you to indulge in your fetish. And of that 10% I’d wager 7 to 9% are only doing it because of payment, they don’t actually enjoy it, which will be obvious to you, and kill the buzz. 

 

Judging by your post you need to gain some confidence , so you’d need a provider who naturally slants more to the submissive side , so who you’re looking for is @Daddysgirltasha 

 

She has not toured here for quite some time, and I have no idea if and when she will again, but if she does you would be left happy after seeing her. 
 

Otherwise for a first timer I would suggest Tallia (enhanced but she’s amazing), or “Loren” . I have not indulged in foot fetish with either of them, so can’t attest to that side of things. 

Good luck! 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

[Johnboy43 158]

Emily or Tailia are super nice girls and you'll never forget either..

[stevenwilson 73]

Here's best advice : Have a date with anyone from YFL, you wont regret. I tried independent SP's when i started this hobby but its was one of most terrible experiences I've ever had. It all seemed forced and i didn't feel comfortable doing anything in that kind of environment. Coming from someone, who was in your shoes before i would highly suggest to go with YFL than any other independent SP. Another thing with YFL is that booking is soo easy and safe. but if you are not smart enough booking an independent SP then you might scammed, robbed or even blackmailed. Hence be careful and do your research before taking anyone's words. I know for sure people will come to comment and reply with explaining in paragraphs but idgaf, m just saying what i've experienced. Idc what others says. I am just saying whatever i've experienced. Take it if you want or just move on with your own things.

[FlyPanAm 22]

On 9/16/2023 at 4:24 PM, Mokejomes said:

I don’t know how deeply rooted the foot fetish is for you, but if it’s a big thing, and not any pair of feet will do, it’s hard to find around here.

 

It's not a necessity, really, I don't think. It would be nice, but I'm not imagining a primarily foot fetish date. Thank you for all your advice! Out of curiosity, why do you think someone who leans towards submissive? I would think someone who leans towards dominant woudl be better for osmeone without confidence, because they could lead.

[SarahAlexxx 2025]

I love foot fetish boys.

I love new people who contact me and follow protocol. 

I love putting people at ease, because I'm super fucking chill. 😉

[peacectryguy 12547]

I think if you read the lady's website and ads and follow up on here or elsewhere with reviews/ recos, you can get a pretty good feel for her personality. Most of the well reviewed and professional ladies are really easy to talk to and feel comfortable with, in my experience. My advice would be a slightly longer date maybe with someone who you can have a beverage with and chat a bit first to get a comfort level. Even after all these years, I still get a little nervous when seeing a lady for the first time and the ladies are only human too and are a little nervous sometimes. My motto has always been just be respectful, polite and courteous and relax and enjoy myself. Go with the flow and not sweat the details too much and more often than not, I leave happy and the lady is happy and we have a great shared memory of a fun time together. Trying to recommend a specific lady for your wants is a little tricky, imo. All these ladies are good in their own way but chemistry has to come naturally and we all have our own personalities. It's not going to always be perfect but it will most often be very pleasurable. The women I've met over the years have all been very good at figuring me out and catering to my personality. 

[Mike0198 37]

Save up and see @StephanieMystique, @Cheeky.char (my recommendation) or @Geekygirl902. 

[[email protected] 4]

As forever be affable and deferential. Being a legitimate courteous fellows while regarding limits will get you far.

[Mokejomes 50]

On 9/17/2023 at 4:57 PM, FlyPanAm said:

 

It's not a necessity, really, I don't think. It would be nice, but I'm not imagining a primarily foot fetish date. Thank you for all your advice! Out of curiosity, why do you think someone who leans towards submissive? I would think someone who leans towards dominant woudl be better for osmeone without confidence, because they could lead.

I’m assuming you want to gain confidence so when you meet a woman in the “real” world , you will have gained confidence from your experience with escorts? Because escorts is not the real world. Hiring escorts is either 1. A pain in the ass unless you do your research due to all the scams, bait and switches , and if you do find a real and a good one it is (2) A FANTASY. 
 

In my experience a lot of women in the real world are not dominant, do not want to naturally lead, and will want a guy who can take charge, at least a little. By only seeing dominant providers when you do meet a woman in the “real” world, you will have zero experience in being more take charge, make moves, etc. By seeing an escort who slants more to the submissive side you will learn and discover it within yourself, so when the time comes to be intimate with a partner your brain will be like “oh yeah, ive done this before, I know what to do.” 
 

at the end of the day the going soft stuff, it all boils down to a lack of confidence , and then anxiety . Getting to know a girl and being comfortable with and around her will relax you and fix this. Putting so much pressure on yourself to perform will only get you stuck in your head, and then the anxiety kicks in and boom, it doesn’t work. 
 

this has happened to tons of dudes, just know that you’re not the first one to experience it , and you won’t be the last . It’s much more common than you think. 
 

Good luck. 

[FlyPanAm 22]

7 hours ago, Mokejomes said:

 

this has happened to tons of dudes, just know that you’re not the first one to experience it , and you won’t be the last . It’s much more common than you think. 
 

Good luck. 

Well, whatever the issue is, I hope I can over come it. I'm in my 30's now. I want to be able to have the ability to be in a relationship. So this is good advice.

Not that I'm expecting this to fill that void (if it's even right to call it a "void" for me). This is just about experiencing physical intimacy and touch.

[Mokejomes 50]

2 hours ago, FlyPanAm said:

Well, whatever the issue is, I hope I can over come it. I'm in my 30's now. I want to be able to have the ability to be in a relationship. So this is good advice.

Not that I'm expecting this to fill that void (if it's even right to call it a "void" for me). This is just about experiencing physical intimacy and touch.

You can and will overcome it. But before resorting to escorts to boost your confidence there’s better routes to take basically setting goals , small at first; and then working on achieving them. This will basically create new neuropathways in your brain & boost your self confidence and self esteem, which will naturally get you to raise your head a little bit when you walk & in turn make you more attractive to women. I’m not trying to steer you away from escorts, or in any direction at all  - I just think from what I’ve read there are bigger issues at hand that hiring escorts isn’t going to fix . And if you do hire an escort and then meet a woman, NEVER tell her you’ve visited escorts. 
 

however, there’s nothing wrong about wanting physical touch. It’s normal, you’re human. I think it’s actually considered a psychological need. Just be careful who you see. 
 

I would recommend like I said Tasha or Tailla. Tailla is actually really chill, great convo . Tasha, too, but not sure if she’s working anymore. 
 

im rooting for you dude. Please keep us updated on how it goes if you decide to pay one a visit. 

[FlyPanAm 22]

On 9/22/2023 at 9:21 PM, Mokejomes said:

You can and will overcome it. But before resorting to escorts to boost your confidence there’s better routes to take basically setting goals , small at first; and then working on achieving them. This will basically create new neuropathways in your brain & boost your self confidence and self esteem, which will naturally get you to raise your head a little bit when you walk & in turn make you more attractive to women. I’m not trying to steer you away from escorts, or in any direction at all  - I just think from what I’ve read there are bigger issues at hand that hiring escorts isn’t going to fix . And if you do hire an escort and then meet a woman, NEVER tell her you’ve visited escorts. 
 

however, there’s nothing wrong about wanting physical touch. It’s normal, you’re human. I think it’s actually considered a psychological need. Just be careful who you see. 
 

I would recommend like I said Tasha or Tailla. Tailla is actually really chill, great convo . Tasha, too, but not sure if she’s working anymore. 
 

im rooting for you dude. Please keep us updated on how it goes if you decide to pay one a visit. 

 

Is it alright if I shoot you a DM?

[Mokejomes 50]

On 10/15/2023 at 1:28 AM, FlyPanAm said:

 

Is it alright if I shoot you a DM?

Yes 

[meredith 115]

When I first started exploring this hobby I was a nervous wreck. It wasn't until I read your post that it made me reminisce about my first encounters. I can think of three ladies that help make me feel at ease. Emma Alexandra, who I think may be retired now, Cristy, and Exotic Danielle. Two of those three are still here and active, so that must speak for something. I don't get to as often as I like but I have seen both Danielle and Cristy over the past year or so. Both visits made me question why I don't go more often, lol. Hope that helps you out, best of luck in your search 👍 

[Exotic Touch Danielle 31728]

1 hour ago, meredith said:

When I first started exploring this hobby I was a nervous wreck. It wasn't until I read your post that it made me reminisce about my first encounters. I can think of three ladies that help make me feel at ease. Emma Alexandra, who I think may be retired now, Cristy, and Exotic Danielle. Two of those three are still here and active, so that must speak for something. I don't get to as often as I like but I have seen both Danielle and Cristy over the past year or so. Both visits made me question why I don't go more often, lol. Hope that helps you out, best of luck in your search 👍 

Thankyou so much for thinking of me ❤️ would love to see you again

I always try my best to make everyone feel relaxed and comfortable when with me