dirtybobbie 100 Report post Posted July 14, 2011 Hey Everyone, I am planning on my first experience with a sp in august when I go to TO for work. I read through some of the tips about tipping and what sp's like and dont like. I have a couple questions. 1 - Do we bring our own condoms or does the sp bring them. Do they have differnet sizes as I need the magnum and would bring my own if neccesary. 2 - Would they like it if I brought a vibrator or would they prefer not to use it. and any other first timer tips would be great! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
qwertyaccount 15793 Report post Posted July 14, 2011 Welcome! 1. They provide them. If you have special needs, it's best to make arrangements in advance with the lady so that she can accommodate you. 2. Depends, everyone is different, ask ahead. She may have one that she prefers. Answers to so many, many more questions can be founds in the "New to this forum: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=207 Escpecially the article "How To Have Sex With Escorts: A Primer": http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=38622 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Andee 220524 Report post Posted July 14, 2011 I would let the SP know that you need to use magnums. She may say that she will provide them or suggest you bring your own. As for the vibrator, if your intention is to use it on yourself, fine. But if you wish to use it on the lady, you need to know first of all if she is even receptive to that. I would caution you though, I believe most SPs prefer to use their own vibrator. Another idea is bring her a new one in a gift box that she can keep. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300292 Report post Posted July 14, 2011 Angela's advice is good Are you having an incall (at her place) or outcall (your hotel) If outcall, stay at a quality hotel, not a motel. And a little tip, hotels downtown Toronto are more expensive than out by the airport, and there are good hotels out by Pearson. Also, make sure the lights are on in the entry hallway and bathroom, and bathroom door opened, just so she can feel secure (she might wonder if someone is behind a closed door) If you are offering anything to drink, be it wine, water, fruitjuices etc, keep the bottle sealed, and don't open except in front of the lady Specific questions should be directed to the lady you are seeing, what is fine with one lady may be out of bounds to another lady RG Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dirtybobbie 100 Report post Posted July 14, 2011 Thanks for all the advice everyone. This will help alot. Planning on doing a outcall. The hotel is a very nice one by the airport. Good tips on the bathroom door and drinks etc. I was thinking of the vibrator for the sp, so thanks for the advice. Cheers DB Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SamanthaEvans 166766 Report post Posted July 15, 2011 If you have a particular vibrator in mind, consider asking your companion whether she already has one. I know that many of us have a virtual trunkful of toys! If you were seeing me and I have the toy you're interested in, I'd be happy to bring it to the meeting. Otherwise, I would be happy to accept it as a gift, provided it's still in its original packaging and hasn't been opened. Have fun! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lexy Grace 103697 Report post Posted July 15, 2011 Most SP's do have what I call my goody bag of toys for encounters and a variety of condom types and sizes. I take the smaller goody bag for out calls and a variety of condom types and sizes. Communicate with the SP and see if there is one they may like as a gift. Like the others have said if you buy one as a gift for the SP, keep it in its original package unopened. A bottle of toy cleaner would also be nice to go along with the gift, I like the spray rather than foam toy cleaners. Ask your companion what they prefer. If you have one of your own that you like and prefer for yourself, I can't see a problem with you bringing it along for use on you. I myself prefer to use my own on me and put a condom on my toys when using during an encounter with others. Communication is key and letting the SP know your fantasy. There is no harm in asking questions, as long as they are polite and tasteful. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dirtybobbie 100 Report post Posted July 15, 2011 Thanks. I was thinking of it for the sp. I thought i read in one of the forums that the experience should be just as satisfying for the sp as for me and thought maybe the vibrator would help the sp have a orgasm too in case i could not provide one with daty or however the sp perfered. Do most sp's have a orgasm with their clients? I know the experience is for me but i thought maybe the more mutally enjoyable the better experience for me. Would you recommend me trying to give her a orgasm first? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
twoblues 258 Report post Posted July 15, 2011 If you have a particular vibrator in mind, consider asking your companion whether she already has one. I know that many of us have a virtual trunkful of toys! Trunkful, you say?!?!?!? :boobeyes: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
