Guest gagagaga Report post Posted July 15, 2011 One of the reasons I like going to clubs so much is the thrill of the experience. You see a hot girl, ask for dances, go to the CR and see what transpires. Will she let you touch, will she touch you....how far will you get to go. It is a fun "game". I'm sure many of you have read some of my reco's, and if so, you know that I often get quite good mileage. here's my issue' I go to the champagne room with a beautiful girl, we sit down, the dancing starts, halfway through the first or second song she says "so, what would you like??". Some people may think that this is fortunate that I am getting the offer so openly, and I guess in some ways it is nice, but when it happens that way I find it (pardon the pun) very anti-climactic. Maybe the girl thinks she is saving me some cash by offering quickly...i am sure there is no negative intention on her part. Maybe I am being too picky. Either way, all I know is that I like to spend time, play, have fun, and see what happens. comments?? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest **n****er Report post Posted July 15, 2011 I have to start going to clubs with you. I have been fairly regular over the past couple of years but haven't enjoyed NEARLY the success you have. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
silverado17 12689 Report post Posted July 15, 2011 i have been to them but lately i find them not good why pay a girl to give you a little touch or dance in front of you when u can take that money you give them and spend it on an escort where you can get more bang for your buck some of them escorts are very hot looking i'll stick to the escorts or even the mp's Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
The General 11309 Report post Posted July 15, 2011 I enjoy the chase, and like those that are pretty playful. My pet peeve is of course, the ladies that act all sexy and playful when you talk to them and hardly want to have any close fun in the CR. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
r__d 12698 Report post Posted July 15, 2011 Guess I'm of two minds about this. On the one hand I understand about the sense of adventure and not knowing how things will turn out but feeling the anticipation - especially with a new dancer. On the other hand it can be nice to know what to expect - there's a different kind of anticipation (without the uncertainty) when you see a fave and recall a good experience from the past. If the thrill of the hunt is more your style I suppose you will tend to prefer exploring the possibilities that remain unknown until fully investigated. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Dipper 1033 Report post Posted July 16, 2011 Ladies coming up to you without introducing themselves and asking for a dance right away. I`m not asking for their bio but I find it poor client relation. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Megan'sTouch 23875 Report post Posted July 16, 2011 Ladies coming up to you without introducing themselves and asking for a dance right away. I`m not asking for their bio but I find it poor client relation. Depends on the night. If it's a slow day shift, this does not make good business sense. If it's a packed Saturday night, I waste no time and just ask people if they want a dance until I find someone, then repeat. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
slurp 7020 Report post Posted July 16, 2011 If I'm in the CR with a dancer I already have myself worked up enough in anticipation. I chose her because she drives me wild and I want to do unspeakable things with her. I've imagined what it would be like if somehow I could convince her to let me do some or all the things I want. If she wants to throw herself at me I take it as a compliment and go with it. If she's that much fun I will probably throw her a few extra $$$ to thank her for saving me time and making my day. Beautiful women who throw themselves at me, even if only for money, give me a wonderful woody LOL Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Dipper 1033 Report post Posted July 16, 2011 Depends on the night. If it's a slow day shift' date=' this does not make good business sense. If it's a packed Saturday night, I waste no time and just ask people if they want a dance until I find someone, then repeat.[/quote'] Megan: I have a hard believing you would not at least present yourself first... Not even a `Hi, I`m... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Megan'sTouch 23875 Report post Posted July 16, 2011 Megan: I have a hard believing you would not at least present yourself first... Not even a `Hi, I`m... In Ottawa, yes. In Thunder Bay, no I didn't. Different clubs, different environments/norms. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DocMyles 616 Report post Posted July 17, 2011 Interesting thread. I tend to have the same pet peeve as well... I'm quite selective with who I dance with, so a girl who doesn't give me any indication why she's unique enough to dance with is not getting anything from my wallet. I will agree with Megan in that it does depend on the club, time of day, type of customers etc. I find that few night girls are decent conversationalists (with a wide variety of potential customers), therefore will struggle during the day. At the same time, day girls don't tend to fare well in the meat market atmosphere at night, and get frustrated wasting energy on some broke frat boy who's only response is "show me your tits". It's why days and nights are two different worlds, and attract distinctively different dancers. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest **n****er Report post Posted July 18, 2011 My pet peeves inlcude: 1. Asking me to dance without even a smile or any pre conversation. 2. Complete disintrest in the CR dance...hello, I'm paying for this! 3. Terrible bad breath. 4. Walking up to my table and saying "by me a drink". Not asking. 5. Not getting the hint after the soft let down. 6. Getting told I look like a "pimp" despite my obvious business attire...solely based on my pigment. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest gagagaga Report post Posted July 19, 2011 I almost forgot my other pet peeve; I pay a hot dancer several hundred dollars for a blast in the CR and then she immediately asks me to buy her a drink. I usually answer... "you open your purse, I'll open my wallet, and whoever has the most cash buys"...fully knowing that she now has several hundred dollars and i dont....lol Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sc_addict 100 Report post Posted July 19, 2011 As indicated with my handle (username) I enjoy and frequent strip clubs, notably Pigales, more than your average male. I get the whole thrill of the experience aspect so far as to say I enjoy having my "pick" of any of the women/ladies working that night. As for being propositioned with available extras or services, regardless of when there being offered, it doesn't bother me in the slightest. In fact my personal preference is the sooner the better in knowing, rather than play the "will she or won't she" game. I should mention I don't expect this from every dancer, but generally speaking I do alright. That said I sure as shit wouldn't pass up on tagging along with joeblow1969 to a titty bar if the opportunity arose. Also I would have to agree with ciego5757's pet peeve of dancers that approach you without so much as a "Hi" and ask to go to the CR. I would go even further to add in situations where you're trying to be polite in declining their invitation, and all you get is a huge sigh and them instantly leaving...how about some common courtesy. It would be no different if I were approached by a dancer and before she could even get the words out to ask I sternly said NO and proceeded to ignore them. Lastly, and you can probably tell why my account is still moderated after a years time...I don't like to reply much as I tend to turn my responses into short stories hahaha...but I did find DocMyles take on the contrast between the day and night shift @ Strip Clubs interesting, his point of view probably carries a significant amount of truth. In my experiences anyway I found that to be the case. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Daddio99 100 Report post Posted July 19, 2011 I can see Megan's point of view for sure. I mean depending on my mood I sometimes like when a girl is straight to the point and just wants to get to business. Other times I enjoy the chase and the playfulness of it all. Either way in the end I am just hoping for a hit experience when we get to the back room :-) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ngtime 560 Report post Posted July 19, 2011 Everyone is different. I guess it's being older but a little warmth and some GFE before sets up the mood for a good CR experience. That 'menu' thing is just a turn off. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest S****an Report post Posted July 31, 2011 My pet peeve is actually with what happens after the dance and I've paid the lady. I've found with most dancers of course you'll get treated well, exchange a few friendly words and maybe get a goodbye hug or peck on the cheek. All in all a positive experience. But if the second the $ changes hands she turns cold and starts scanning for the next customer like a Predator drone, there's a 100% chance I'm not repeating lol. I've met a few over the years like that seem to have an on/off switch like this, and even if the dances were great, the total change in attitude is a turnoff. Of course it could always be me :), and doubtless many ladies have to deal with some customers who are "Kling-ons", so to speak, who want to waste their time with idle chit-chat after the dance (BTW it would be fun to hear some dancers experiences with Klingons). But an SC is about the fantasy, after all; not the reality. For a few minutes we get to pretend we're the object of a beautiful girl's attention and not the middle-aged schlep we actually are :). An abrupt change in attitude brings the reality home quick I guess lol. Oh, and my other pet peeve is paying $6 for a coke :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
moonshadow 369 Report post Posted August 3, 2011 This has happened twice to me recently in Ottawa by 2 different dancers. A dancer will come to my table and immediately ask if I want to go for a dance. I'm not even sure if a "hello" or "Hi" was uttered. When I politely refuse, and say I am just there to have a beer or two, then they ask me for a tip. Lol Posted via Mobile Device Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Malika Fantasy 144625 Report post Posted August 3, 2011 This has happened twice to me recently in Ottawa by 2 different dancers. A dancer will come to my table and immediately ask if I want to go for a dance. I'm not even sure if a "hello" or "Hi" was uttered. When I politely refuse, and say I am just there to have a beer or two, then they ask me for a tip. Lol Posted via Mobile Device Wow seriously? this is the first time I hear it...0_o not that great for selling yourself... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CerbForInfo 100 Report post Posted August 14, 2011 I would have to agree with sc addict on this one.I haven,t been to the clubs in awhile and should re-read the rules of strip clubs.But I usually ask the dancer what the club house rules are because i don,t want to get into any trouble.I have never been straight forwardly asked " what would you like".I wouldn,t be turned off.I would be thankful to know what was allowed and what wasn,t. Rg Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ripleymonroe 794 Report post Posted August 15, 2011 Wow seriously? this is the first time I hear it...0_o not that great for selling yourself... Sadly, this happens a lot! My biggest pet peeve is a bit different because I'm a woman.. sometimes, if I strike up a great conversation with a dancer and then ask her to go to the CR (or she asks me, either way), the talking continues.. there's a bit of dancing, and then more talking....usually about womanly things... like we're old pals or something. I mean, I understand that dancing for a woman is rare and it's fun and I don't mind this behaviour if it's a free dance (which I tend to get a lot.. again, maybe because I'm a woman?). But when I'm paying for a dance, that bothers me big time. I regards to the statement about predatory behaviour, that used to bother me too, but I've learned that a lot of the time, they just want to get out of there. As long as the experience in the CR is enjoyable, I don't care if the dancer then goes on to try to get other dances. If she can just work for two hours a night doing that, then good for her. This is the commission system that she has to work within. But if she works longer and forms relationships with the patrons, it may help her more in the long term, I would imagine. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rdymango 673 Report post Posted September 6, 2011 I'm in agreement with others who have mentioned their pet peeve is a dancer who won't bother to sit down and introduce herself. A big part of the sex appeal is the personality. If I'm going to open my wallet, I want to open it to someone who'll make the effort of at least trying to create the fantasy. Another pet peeve of mine (and I say this somewhat tongue in cheek)... ...so often the waitresses or shooter girl are hotter than the dancers!! Sometimes I'll spend my time checking out the shooter girl! What is up with that?!?! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ripleymonroe 794 Report post Posted September 9, 2011 Another pet peeve of mine (and I say this somewhat tongue in cheek)... ...so often the waitresses or shooter girl are hotter than the dancers!! Sometimes I'll spend my time checking out the shooter girl! What is up with that?!?! Hahaha, yeah I went to a club with a buddy of mine recently and he was totally infatuated with the waitress. He felt that she was the most beautiful woman in there. For me, it's service over looks when it comes to waitresses but I know what you mean. My pal kept asking me if she was a dancer too but I had to tell him that she wasn't. :P Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
scribbles 6031 Report post Posted September 9, 2011 I've got a crush on the brunette waitress with the tattoos at the Mate. *sigh* One of my biggest strip club regrets was when I was in the US. The waitress at the club I used to go to was probably one of the hottest women I have ever seen in my life. One night, one of the bouncers asked me if I had been there the night before when they'd finally talked her into getting up on stage. He seemed pretty amused that I had missed it. I wasn't. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest blo*****s Report post Posted September 9, 2011 ...so often the waitresses or shooter girl are hotter than the dancers!! Sometimes I'll spend my time checking out the shooter girl! What is up with that?!?! Me too - but hey, EVERYONE wants the Shooter Girl !!! :-) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
