dirtybobbie 100 Report post Posted July 22, 2011 Hey, My first time with a sp will be coming up in a few weeks. Looking for anyone recommendations on should my first time be a 1 hr appt or 1.5 hrs. I will be in TO for a few days so I was thinking of 2 - 1hr appts with 2 different sp's. Will 1 hr be rushed for my first time or will it be ok? also, should I worry about trying to give SP one first before i have one? Thanks for help Cheers Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300292 Report post Posted July 22, 2011 Personally I go for one two hour encounter, but that's me...everyone has a personal preference. I've found an hour is up before you know it Are you looking for an outcall or incall. If outcall to your hotel, the hotels around the airport are far more reasonable than downtown. I'm not clear what your asking in your last question though Do you know who you want to see RG Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest W***ledi*Time Report post Posted July 22, 2011 ...should I worry about trying to give SP one first before i have one? ... Don't worry about it one way or another. You'll have an idea of what you'd like ... but don't worry about playing out a script, or about who's going to do what when. Going with the flow can be half the fun. Let things develop naturally. Each time is different - the only golden rules are: be respectful, relax, and have fun! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kyra.Graves 23779 Report post Posted July 22, 2011 From a womans perspective I can say that I agree with WIT in that you should just let everything flow naturally, if you try to follow a script or worry too much about what you read on the board about how things should go then you'll end up missing out on a good time, just enjoy the company you are with and enjoy her for who she is. There is no correct order on taking turns, just go with the flow. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SamanthaEvans 166766 Report post Posted July 23, 2011 I never book first-time meetings that are less than 90 minutes long. Two hours is also a fine amount of time. I'll take re-bookings for an hour, but not first meetings. I don't charge a lot more for that additional half hour (I have a "new clients" rate). I do find that the extra time is always valuable. We can relax and get acquainted a bit before getting busy doing other things. Taking the time tends to make for a much better meeting overall, in my experience. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nicolette Vaughn 294340 Report post Posted July 23, 2011 Hey, My first time with a sp will be coming up in a few weeks. Looking for anyone recommendations on should my first time be a 1 hr appt or 1.5 hrs. I will be in TO for a few days so I was thinking of 2 - 1hr appts with 2 different sp's. Will 1 hr be rushed for my first time or will it be ok? also, should I worry about trying to give SP one first before i have one? Thanks for help Cheers I would book a 1 hour appt with an 2 different SPs because you don't know if the chemistry will be there or not. Imagine booking 1.5 hours o even 2 hours and it doesn't work out for whatever reason? You will walk away disappointed. If you book 2 different SPs for one hour, you will have different experiences and hopefully both encounters would be a success. I now have a rule of not booking more than 1 hour sessions with new clients because I do believe there has to be a chemistry and if you're not feeling it after the first hour, then it will be a disappointment. Perhaps not so much for the client because I do offer a good service but I do like to enjoy the company that I keep. I firmly believe in not seeing someone if I feel it's not working. An hour is an hour but more than that, there has to be a connection imo. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dirtybobbie 100 Report post Posted July 23, 2011 Cool. Lots of different opinions. I was starting to get caught up in making sure everything was right for the first time with a sp but from everyone comments it sounds like I should just relax and enjoy. Thanks everyone... much appreciated! Cheers Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VedaSloan 119179 Report post Posted July 23, 2011 Personally, I'd book one hour with one SP and see how that goes. If you find that the time goes by too quickly, then you can book a second SP (or the same SP if you really like her) for two hours. Plus, you may also find that the chemistry isn't there and then you're stuck trying to make two hours go by with someone you're not that interested in. In terms of your second question, I agree with the other ladies--just let it flow naturally! Relax and have fun. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
