Timmy 36 Report post Posted March 15 Hi Folks If this is in the wrong area my sincerest apologies, I'm horribly un-tech savvy. I'm also 58 years old and I'm looking for some help in developing a consistent acquaintance when I visit Halifax once a month or so. My issue has been two-fold. 1/ So many of the profiles on LEOLIST are obviously fake but many others are fake but not quite as obvious.....and it's time consuming trying to figure out who is real. 2/ When I do find someone real they tend to over promise and under deliver.....let me explain.... What I'm looking for a) Age is not an issue, size is not an issue....cost is not really an issue....personality means more to me and as fake as that sounds, when you get to be my age, you need personality and intellect. If you're distracted by your phone or non-talkative ....well that's a fun killer, b) I look for an hour or an hour and a half time. (Not against 2 hours) If it's an hour then I'd like a 45 minute massage ending with a happy ending. If it's an hour and a half then I prefer an hour massage ending with a happy ending. Happy ending is either protected fellatio or protected intercourse. c) I like my acquaintance to wear something sexy including stockings.....it's a fetish......Guilty as charged. Stockings alone would suffice. d) I prefer in my hotel room but not a deal breaker What I generally get after acquaintances agree with what I want: a) They show up in torn jeans and not overly enthused.....(although that varies...)....no sign of stockings or lingerie et al b) They begin massaging but get very bored in 5 or 10 minutes and move towards the happy ending quickly c) Once the happy ending is over thy look to leave...... I guess I'm just tired of experimenting if that makes sense? I've only been with 4 different service providers in my life but I'm looking for someone consistent who will honestly give what it is I'm looking for.....and I'm sorry if I'm sounding petty 😞 So my question is also 2 fold: 1/ What's the best way to determine who's fake and who is not? Is there a better site than Leolist? 2/ Does anyone have any recommendations knowing now what it is I'm looking for? I'm also in Cape Breton a little bit so either Halifax or Cape Breton would be great. Thanks all Tim 4 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Incog 1124 Report post Posted March 16 Mr. Wilson is not "off the mark" re: the censorship here on Lyla, where the rule is "say something nice, or don't say anything at all"...but I do disagree, with his comment on the reviews. I, like many on here, leave legitimate reviews of positive interactions with ladies within the profession, both local companions, and touring. The important thing to note in my experience, is that we all have different wants/needs/likes, and YMMV (your mileage may vary) with each and every encounter, so what I felt was a great date with an SP, may not apply to everyone... I gotta ask though Timmy...have you ever massaged someone for 45 minutes to an hour? Done properly, it's a workout, lol. I think the only place you may find that is with a legit RMT...🤷♂️ Despite comments to the contrary, there are some wonderful local ladies, who in my experience anyway, offer just what you're looking for, excepting that hour long massage...😉 While many of them do advertise frequently on LL, some don't at all. Read the reviews, old & new, look at their adverts, weigh the options and I'm confident you will find someone who "fits the bill", so to speak. Know there's value too in your "disappointing" experiences to date, as if nothing else, it gives you an idea/understanding of what to avoid. Good luck in your search amigo! Enjoy each up & down of the ride...😉 5 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sharpe 771 Report post Posted March 16 Hey Timmy there’s a list on Nova Scotia recommendations here on the Lyla website. There are some ladies who have tons of recommendations here like #MsManda, #Stephaniemystique, #EastcoastKimmy, #ExoticTouchDanielle just to name a few. You could always check out their Twitter or Onlyfans accounts to get a preview. 4 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DaveM2 171 Report post Posted March 16 We don't have many options in Halifax, particularly in the massage department. On top of that many of the massage providers don't offer full service. Sydney has significantly less, so you're probably best sticking with Halifax. The closest thing to what you're looking for is probably the YFL agency, the girls are always dressed nicely and most of them offer massage as part of their routine, I imagine they'd be willing to spend more time on the massage and less on other stuff if you ask. I believe they always offer outcall, and In my experience they have always been far more professional than the independents I have seen in Halifax. They also travel regularly which means they have reviews on other websites (i.e. places where you can post positive and negative reviews). A google search of the providers name will be enough to find them. Unfortunately they aren't operating as regularly as they used to, so if you are only here once a month it may not line up for you. Most of the independents work sporadically as well, and many traveling providers end up cancelling their trips because they don't get enough interest. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DaveM2 171 Report post Posted March 16 3 hours ago, Incog said: Mr. Wilson is not "off the mark" re: the censorship here on Lyla, where the rule is "say something nice, or don't say anything at all"...but I do disagree, with his comment on the reviews. I, like many on here, leave legitimate reviews of positive interactions with ladies within the profession, both local companions, and touring. The important thing to note in my experience, is that we all have different wants/needs/likes, and YMMV (your mileage may vary) with each and every encounter, so what I felt was a great date with an SP, may not apply to everyone... This is a fair point, the big problem is that you get a skewed perception because only the positive feedback is allowed. Even a positive review may be forced to leave out key details; an overall positive experience could still have some negative aspects that may matter more to others. And then what to make of providers with no reviews? Are they a legit provider but everyone who's seen them had a negative experience? Has nobody seen them yet? Are they a scam? How about providers with tons of positive reviews that are years old but no recent ones? Did their service go downhill or did people just stop reviewing them? There's too much ambiguity which is not good considering the enormous proportion of scam ads. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
StephanieMystique 1903 Report post Posted March 16 Going through LL is tough. They have their own spam that put on the site to force us to bump ads more often. Lyla is better for professional SWs. Another site to try would be massagerepublic dot com. If personality is a big factor for you, check for social media accounts like Twitter (X), Only Fans, Snapchat and personal websites. It'll help you get a better idea of who you'll be seeing. Recommendations are great back up. Just to say we're real and stick close to our advertising adventures. Overall positive experiences as well. Some of us seasoned SWs have a solid base of regulars that we keep close. Some clients might not post recommendations often due to the repetitiveness of the recommendations. Others don't for the discretion it provides. As for massages, I'm known to give a good massage or two. 😏 I'm in between Halifax and Sydney once or twice a month. I'm happy to iron out schedules if you'd like. Some SPs are more willing to work with you since it's outcall if you give enough notice. If CindyCindy gets back this way, I hear her massage and nuru skills are top notch. Beautiful Bella might be a good fit too. 9 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
k20z 0 Report post Posted March 17 1 hour ago, StephanieMystique said: Going through LL is tough. They have their own spam that put on the site to force us to bump ads more often. Lyla is better for professional SWs. Another site to try would be massagerepublic dot com. If personality is a big factor for you, check for social media accounts like Twitter (X), Only Fans, Snapchat and personal websites. It'll help you get a better idea of who you'll be seeing. Recommendations are great back up. Just to say we're real and stick close to our advertising adventures. Overall positive experiences as well. Some of us seasoned SWs have a solid base of regulars that we keep close. Some clients might not post recommendations often due to the repetitiveness of the recommendations. Others don't for the discretion it provides. As for massages, I'm known to give a good massage or two. 😏 I'm in between Halifax and Sydney once or twice a month. I'm happy to iron out schedules if you'd like. Some SPs are more willing to work with you since it's outcall if you give enough notice. If CindyCindy gets back this way, I hear her massage and nuru skills are top notch. Beautiful Bella might be a good fit too. I've jumped on twitter before but don't even know where to begin searching. To me it's more like a social app. Maybe I just don't know how to use it Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DaveM2 171 Report post Posted March 17 12 hours ago, k20z said: I've jumped on twitter before but don't even know where to begin searching. To me it's more like a social app. Maybe I just don't know how to use it It's too hard to search because like 95% of them won't even show up. Twitter is the only mainstream social media that allows porn but it will still suppress people that post it with the algorithm. You'll need to find some providers who post their account name here or elsewhere and then use that to find other providers that they follow/repost. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
StephanieMystique 1903 Report post Posted March 17 Dave has it down! You're not looking randomly for a provider via twitter. You would find a provider through an ad, their socials are typically linked (because that shows our history and legitimacy). Follow the links to verify the provider is someone you want to see. If you already have a personal account, I suggest creating a different one for this side of the internet. It'll allow your algorithm to work in your favor as we are very much suppressed and shadow banned. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
OldandNerdy 1304 Report post Posted March 18 On 3/15/2024 at 4:37 PM, Timmy said: Hi Folks If this is in the wrong area my sincerest apologies, I'm horribly un-tech savvy. I'm also 58 years old and I'm looking for some help in developing a consistent acquaintance when I visit Halifax once a month or so. My issue has been two-fold. 1/ So many of the profiles on LEOLIST are obviously fake but many others are fake but not quite as obvious.....and it's time consuming trying to figure out who is real. 2/ When I do find someone real they tend to over promise and under deliver.....let me explain.... What I'm looking for a) Age is not an issue, size is not an issue....cost is not really an issue....personality means more to me and as fake as that sounds, when you get to be my age, you need personality and intellect. If you're distracted by your phone or non-talkative ....well that's a fun killer, b) I look for an hour or an hour and a half time. (Not against 2 hours) If it's an hour then I'd like a 45 minute massage ending with a happy ending. If it's an hour and a half then I prefer an hour massage ending with a happy ending. Happy ending is either protected fellatio or protected intercourse. c) I like my acquaintance to wear something sexy including stockings.....it's a fetish......Guilty as charged. Stockings alone would suffice. d) I prefer in my hotel room but not a deal breaker What I generally get after acquaintances agree with what I want: a) They show up in torn jeans and not overly enthused.....(although that varies...)....no sign of stockings or lingerie et al b) They begin massaging but get very bored in 5 or 10 minutes and move towards the happy ending quickly c) Once the happy ending is over thy look to leave...... I guess I'm just tired of experimenting if that makes sense? I've only been with 4 different service providers in my life but I'm looking for someone consistent who will honestly give what it is I'm looking for.....and I'm sorry if I'm sounding petty 😞 So my question is also 2 fold: 1/ What's the best way to determine who's fake and who is not? Is there a better site than Leolist? 2/ Does anyone have any recommendations knowing now what it is I'm looking for? I'm also in Cape Breton a little bit so either Halifax or Cape Breton would be great. Thanks all Tim @TimmyTimmy you have what you are looking for already in this thread. Have a chat directly with @StephanieMystique, she's sweet, she's great to spend time with, she's real and she's spectacular 4 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Timmy 36 Report post Posted March 18 thank you 🙂 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Charlotte Maeve 30 Report post Posted March 20 Definitely check out Tryst! And while I’m not sure if my good friend @Cheeky.char offers massages, she is without a doubt one of the sweetest and most genuine providers I know and is a fun conversationalist. I only wish we lived closer together! 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AVA MARIE 243 Report post Posted March 23 (edited) On 3/15/2024 at 4:37 PM, Timmy said: Hi Folks If this is in the wrong area my sincerest apologies, I'm horribly un-tech savvy. I'm also 58 years old and I'm looking for some help in developing a consistent acquaintance when I visit Halifax once a month or so. My issue has been two-fold. 1/ So many of the profiles on LEOLIST are obviously fake but many others are fake but not quite as obvious.....and it's time consuming trying to figure out who is real. 2/ When I do find someone real they tend to over promise and under deliver.....let me explain.... What I'm looking for a) Age is not an issue, size is not an issue....cost is not really an issue....personality means more to me and as fake as that sounds, when you get to be my age, you need personality and intellect. If you're distracted by your phone or non-talkative ....well that's a fun killer, b) I look for an hour or an hour and a half time. (Not against 2 hours) If it's an hour then I'd like a 45 minute massage ending with a happy ending. If it's an hour and a half then I prefer an hour massage ending with a happy ending. Happy ending is either protected fellatio or protected intercourse. c) I like my acquaintance to wear something sexy including stockings.....it's a fetish......Guilty as charged. Stockings alone would suffice. d) I prefer in my hotel room but not a deal breaker What I generally get after acquaintances agree with what I want: a) They show up in torn jeans and not overly enthused.....(although that varies...)....no sign of stockings or lingerie et al b) They begin massaging but get very bored in 5 or 10 minutes and move towards the happy ending quickly c) Once the happy ending is over thy look to leave...... I guess I'm just tired of experimenting if that makes sense? I've only been with 4 different service providers in my life but I'm looking for someone consistent who will honestly give what it is I'm looking for.....and I'm sorry if I'm sounding petty 😞 So my question is also 2 fold: 1/ What's the best way to determine who's fake and who is not? Is there a better site than Leolist? 2/ Does anyone have any recommendations knowing now what it is I'm looking for? I'm also in Cape Breton a little bit so either Halifax or Cape Breton would be great. Thanks all Tim Tim, I think you and I would get along QUITE well! You just need a provider you’re in alignment with❤️ I do provide massage- erotic, hot rock, you’ve got it - on my professional massage table You can check out my extensive reviews here on Lyla, on X (twitter) my handle is @avamariehalifax, and I also have a website, avamarie.ca 😘❤️Ava Marie Edited March 23 by AVA MARIE 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
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StephanieMystique 1903 Report post Posted March 27 @stevenwilson why are you here? You never have anything nice or positive to add to the conversation. If providers require screening and deposits for the security of their time and peace of mind to enjoy time together. It's not up to you to dictate how we run our businesses. There is enough threads teaching gentlemen what to look for and how to verify the legitimacy of a provider. Multiple profiles, googling the sps info, social media accounts, personal websites and online content. If they don't have at least 3 of the above details, I'd question their professionalism. I promise you are no one special to be excluded from the rules. If anything, it tells me you are a predator taking advantage of people in hard times and manipulating situations to best suit you. Maybe your ego is hurt because most of us have declined seeing based on your toxic personality. Nevermind even getting to the point of screening. Please take your negative comments to other places that don't advocate for the safety of all parties involved. 11 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AVA MARIE 243 Report post Posted March 28 (edited) 10 hours ago, stevenwilson said: I would have replied this comment very much in detail but just realized that there's no point in saying anything coz everything is censored here! And you are right, I am no longer using this platform or neither writing any reviews let alone negative or positive ones. It’s easy to yap when only one side is allowed to speak and other side is taped out. But anyways, you do you. best of luck Yikes.. Addressing safety protocol and tips on locating a safe provider as “yap” is distasteful as much as it is incredibly disrespectful. Stephanie was merely addressing your concerns, and even helping you while also educating you on why your approach is very harmful to our industry. Your experiences would differ and possibly your entire outlook had you given it some thought. Both sides are censored to a degree but you’d have to agree that’s never inhibited you from giving your opinions or making your points. Our safety is paramount always. Best of luck, in all of your future endeavours . Edited March 28 by AVA MARIE 6 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
