Ymmv

[dirtybobbie 100]

Hi Ladies,

 

I am going to be experiencing my first sp soon. As I look through girls and sites and read the services and reviews there is a lot of talk about YMMV.

 

I know it means you mileage may vary.

 

Does that mean that those services are extra cost or does it just mean that one person may and the next person may not depending on the individual?

 

Does each sp tell you what services they charge extra for before you start your session or is that better to talk about with the agency or girl when setting up the appt?

 

Lastly, Greek is one of the things I have never experienced and something that interests me. Wondering if have any tips about this. What do most girls charge for this if they offer it? I am pretty thick so does each sp make the decision based on your size?

 

Thanks for the help!

 

Cheers

[Isabella Gia (Banned) 53881]

Hi Bobbie,

 

I found these links that include information on the topics you are curious about.

 

As I posted in the first link's thread and for what I have learned and in my opinion YMMV is about many factors being the more important ones, hygiene and attitude, some mentioned services but I think that is something most escorts have already established and if they don't offer it is not very likely it will happen with someone but it may and will be the case a lady can refuse to do something with a particular guy if for example and the more common reason his hygiene is poor. Chemistry also plays a important part in the YMMV thing.

 

As for 'greek', I can't be very helpful here as I do not offer it but yes, I would think size would be the main reason to decline including it during the encounter. Hope this helps.

 

 

http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=34445&highlight=YMMV

 

 

http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=26922&highlight=YMMV

[dirtybobbie 100]

Thanks Isabella,

 

Your feedback helps a lot.

 

Cheers

 

Bobbie

[Malika Fantasy 144625]

Greek will pretty much be charge extra...and also you are better to pre-book for greek and let the SP know that you would like it, as we need to clean a bit more the area and it does take a bit of time...;)

 

In term of YMMV, yes size does make a difference, let's say if you are hung like Ron Jeremy, it ain't going there...also you need to see how the chemistry is, if the SP feel that you like to play a bit more on the "rough" side then all nice and cuddly...she may refuse it because well, it's easier to tear anal tissues

[SamanthaEvans 166767]

YMMV means that the writer liked whatever happened but recognizes that others may prefer something else or that the chemistry between the two parties may be what makes the difference.

 

Greek may cost more with some companions. Others may include it as part of the menu of options if they're basing their fees on their time rather than specific activities.

 

Make sure you discuss your interest in anal sex with the companion when you book the meeting. Don't just arrive and expect her to be ready and willing to do this with you. Understand that, for some of us, offering Greek can mean that the woman is willing to try having anal sex, not that she's guaranteeing that it will happen. If it's not something she does very often or if the man is larger than most other men, she may have a hard time accommodating him. Also, if for whatever reason she doesn't feel comfortable or that she's able to relax well enough, she may not be able to go through with this activity.

 

To maximize your chances of a good encounter with Greek, it helps to be calm and very respectful, to proceed slowly, and, when it's time for anal sex, to let her take the lead. Ask her to tell you what to do and when. Let her be the one who is completely in charge. Even the most willing companion will generally not appreciate having the man suddenly become very dominant with her at this point, the first time they're together. Where you can take the lead is to be sure to use LOTS of lubricant! Use whatever your companion has provided since she may have strong personal preferences or requirements (for example, many women avoid lubes that have any kind of sugar in them because those ingredients are more likely to cause yeast infections). Use much more lube than you think you could possibly need. Too much is just about guaranteed to be enough to ensure that both parties have a very nice, comfortable and pleasant encounter!

[dirtybobbie 100]

Thanks Malika,

 

I definately dont play on the rough side. Thanks for the advice. It is just one of those things on a long list of items to experience in life and I know I cant have it at home. It is not a must have either so I will mention it when I book and see how things go. thanks again.

Bobbie

 

Additional Comments:

Thanks for the advice Samantha.

 

If it happens, it happens. If it doesnt I wont be upset. I will make sure to be gentle and use lots of lube it it ends up on the table.

 

thanks

[Phaedrus 209521]

...I'm not by any means an expert on this, but AFAIK there are quite a few ladies who don't advertize greek, but may be happy to do it once they've got to know you. That gives them a chance to use your first meeting to work out things like how much they like you, whether the chemistry's there, and whether or not you're hung like a horse - and this is where the YMMV comes in.

 

If you *really* want greek, then you're probably best off going to someone who advertizes it up front - that way you'll probably get it unless the lady decides there's a reason not to. If you're not too hung up on it and you plan on taking the time to sample the various delights that this hobby has to offer, you may choose to wait until you find someone you get on with well and then asking her. No guarantees with this, obviously - I'm sure many SPs just don't do it at all.