Joe11109 39 Report post Posted May 22 Something which I have noticed in a few ad's lately is the ladies stating "absolutely no BB", this is very concerning to us as "customers" but more so to the ladies themselves, this tells me 2 things... 1. People are requesting BB more which runs the risk of spreading STI's etc. 2. As someone who only practices "safe services" I feel very hesitant about seeing any new ladies. It is for this very reason that I stick to seeing only a select few ladies who I know are very strict regarding safe services only. I respect this might be a sensitive subject with a select few but for everyones safety (and respect) providers shouldn't have to state "absolutely no BB", this should be a given fact, thats just my opinion... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RobertDion 70 Report post Posted May 22 (edited) But are they specifying BBFS or BBJ ? Big difference, BBFS is a given with everyone, goes without saying, but BBJ is very common, BJTC maybe not so common for sure, but BBJ seem very common. So that's why you're seeing "no BB" that means straight FS and BJs are covered, that's all. Their right, their choice, they're in in charge. If it's NOT posted in the ad, then the client can ask. https://jamirodman.com/sex-industry-dictionary-acronyms-glossary-lingo-codes-terminology/ Edited May 22 by RobertDion 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DaveM2 165 Report post Posted May 22 This isn't anything new, you can ask any provider there have always been clients asking for this. There's no way for you to ever confirm that the girl you are seeing is always practicing safe services either. For all you know she bends the rules for certain clients/prices, doesn't practice it in her personal life etc. You're always taking a risk but you can substantially lower it by only engaging in safe services yourself. That's really all you have control over, there are always going to be both clients and providers willing to take risks and it's virtually impossible for you to tell who is. It's probably more common with lower-end providers but then again virtually every pornstar offers it (with a test) so who really knows? 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
thor13 1042 Report post Posted May 24 On 5/22/2024 at 6:01 PM, DaveM2 said: You're always taking a risk but you can substantially lower it by only engaging in safe services yourself. THIS. Just practice safety on your side. A sugar baby I once met who seemed quite well to do (in sugar daddy business) offered BBFS on our second meeting. I was really shocked because she was only 25 and working towards a nursing degree and yet took this business so lightly. Thankfully I was using my larger brain and insisted on protection but this was a learning moment for me - it is always best to assume that the person on the other side is NOT practicing safe, and always use your larger brain and not the tiny one :-). Stay safe all! 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
