Minimum age restrictions

[Kanakin 120]

Hi all, long time lurker virgin poster so go easy on me :)

 

I've noticed recently several ads posted by ladies on cerb and elsewhere stipulating minimum age restrictions (seems to generally be 30+ when it comes up) and it got me curious as to the reason behind this and why girls do it.

 

Now obviously a provider is free to see who she wants and I'd never contact one of the ladies in question to bug her or pressure her about it, but as a 25 year old guy it makes me wonder - what gives? I'm a very easy going, respectful person who knows how to properly treat the fairer sex and my money's as good as anyone else's. Is it solely to help filter out the stereotypical rude/rowdy college kid? A matter of chemistry and only being attracted to older men? Or is there some other reason I haven't thought of? :)

 

It's not like this is overly common so I don't mean this as a rant or complaint but I've noticed it enough in the past week to be genuinely curious.

[Malika Fantasy 144625]

I do believe that it's most younger men do not always have the income to actually afford our rates and (no it isn't everyone) but people seem to bargain a bit more for rates and ask for discount because they are young and "good looking", but after 30+ most men are a bit more establish in their financial situation

[Megan'sTouch 23875]

I connect better with men 35+, but I will consider seeing someone younger depending on how they interact with me. As for how young? Well, I'm 26 and I'm sure how I'd feel seeing someone younger than me.

[Meg O'Ryan 266444]

Age is not really an issue, maturity is! Atleast for me! If you treat me with respect during our online/phone interactions then there is no problem. If you act like an overpriveldged spoiled teen, then no go!

[Mr.Goldfinger 2287]

Age is not really an issue, maturity is! Atleast for me! If you treat me with respect during our online/phone interactions then there is no problem. If you act like an overpriveldged spoiled teen, then no go!

 

I agree with that Meg . Age has never been a issue with me either way . I understand that some girls wont want to see someone in the age group because they may run into people they know .

[Guest S***dst***]

I've had many reasons given to me (being a young guy myself)

 

As I'm very tired from this days activities I will just make a list instead of a huge write up

 

- Older men "know what they want" where younger guys don't

- Older men don't argue rates

- Older are less arrogant

- Older are more respectful

- as Megan stated some women tend to be "weirded out" by younger guys

- Some women are just physically attracted to older men.. salt and pepper hair, rougher skin etc etc (not always the case with older men but just examples)

 

I'm not saying I agree with the first 4, the odds are better older guys are those things, but it's my experience that it's simply not true; well I'll give them the first one but that's because they've experienced more having been alive longer :P

 

Don't be afraid to communicate what you DO like...it's just as important as what you DON'T like

[fortunateone 156618]

I am about to tease you here, yet I am serious at the same time:

 

 

:)

 

my money's as good as anyone else's. .

 

 

That is why some sp's have minimum age requirements, because an older guy wouldn't think that sp's see everyone and anyone with the cash, nor do they expect her to just because she's an sp.

 

 

As I said, I playing with you a bit, cuz I'm focusing on this one comment, but at the same time serious, because, frankly, this is an attitude more commonly seen in the younger guys, when they are trying to push their way into seeing an sp who is turning them down, and along the way they will throw in how they should get a discount due to them being younger and therefore hotter than their usual clients.

 

Older guys don't usually assume the sp is going to go mental over their hotliness.

[Meg O'Ryan 266444]

Can't give you rep points but valid point and good catch!

[Finch20 826]

Being well past the minimum age restriction myself, I'm only concerned about passing the maximum age limit. This is something that I will need to be forced to retire from however, and I dread the day that happens.

[Old Dog 179138]

tongue firmly in cheek... why the over 35 crowd gets the girl....

 

1. Multiple shots on goal means a three day booking

 

2. We are extraordinarily grateful that someone will even stay in the same room as us when we are naked.

 

3. Nap time is on the clock.

 

4. Cuddle time may just be the best we can do.

 

5. Less likely to stalk, we barely even remember where we live.

 

6. While we remember to bring the envelope, we might not remember why we came.

 

7. We can help with history assignments in post secondary courses. We were there when it all happened.

 

8. Arthritis prevents us from being too grabby.

[Meg O'Ryan 266444]

ARRRGGGG everytime I try to give rep points ..... anyhow

OD best laugh of the day

[bcguy42 38594]

As a Charter Member of the Over 35 Crowd, lemme see...

 

1. Yup, 2. Yup, 3. Yup, umm.. 4.. where was I? Oh yeah.. a very accurate post! LOL

 

tongue firmly in cheek... why the over 35 crowd gets the girl....

 

1. Multiple shots on goal means a three day booking

 

2. We are extraordinarily grateful that someone will even stay in the same room as us when we are naked.

 

3. Nap time is on the clock.

 

4. Cuddle time may just be the best we can do.

 

5. Less likely to stalk, we barely even remember where we live.

 

6. While we remember to bring the envelope, we might not remember why we came.

 

7. We can help with history assignments in post secondary courses. We were there when it all happened.

 

8. Arthritis prevents us from being too grabby.

[Kanakin 120]

That is why some sp's have minimum age requirements, because an older guy wouldn't think that sp's see everyone and anyone with the cash, nor do they expect her to just because she's an sp.

 

I stated pretty clearly in my post that I acknowledge SPs are free to see who they feel comfortable with and that i'd never pressure a girl who stated this limit. When I said my money's as good as anyone else's I meant it literally. Just saying that I have the money to afford the rate of a quality companion and would never consider haggling over price :) Not that me having money means there's any obligation to serve me.

[Guest S**a*Q]

I like boys/men in general. (Women fall into that category as well). :)

Albeit, to each their own, as we all have rights to choose our clientele.

However, coming from a retail background, I think it's important to treat all propesctive clients equally.

Someone you might expect to be just another date, (or a young'un!!!) could potentially be one of ur best clients.

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[Katherine of Halifax 113932]

Kanakin I totally feel for you situtaion although I am very sure you will find the perfect SP. Some ladies have a certain comfort level regarding age and you just need to be ok with this and accept it.

 

I see gentlemen of all ages but I must admitt when I am seeing someone very young I am careful just because I want to be sure I will be respected and that the date will be fun for both of us.

 

There is nothing worse than expectations being misunderstood and that is why I am careful with questions and answers during the initial contact.

 

Don't despair, the perfect lady is here and you will find her.

 

All the best.

[Guest C*****tte]

While not explicitly stated on my site or advertisements I do not have any particular age requirement other than being of the age of majority. However, I do prefer to see people over the age of 30 because we tend to be more compatible and have a stronger connection outside of the bedroom which makes the in-bed time all the better (not that it must happen in bed - grin). If I receive an eloquent email from someone younger than 30 that meets my standard screening requirements then I proceed with the booking.

 

I am reticent though because in both my professional and personal life I have found younger men to favour a functional and mechanical view of sex and it is not what works for me. I think this is because younger men have been brought up with so much free Internet porn which is very often aggressive in nature with an emphasis on exploitation scenarios - more so than when I was growing up and watching porn.

 

I have had a few younger lovers where this was not the case. They were sensual, open to experimentation and eager to please me, but I am sad to say I have not experienced this very often in an escort client situation with a younger client. I have tried to introduce these elements, but this can be difficult in a one hour session.

 

Granted, there have been older clients who want very functional appointments as well but they are in the minority.

 

I apologize for generalizing, but I am confident in saying it because I have had more sex with more men aged 21 to 30 than any heterosexual man reading this thread. ;-)

[Guest S***dst***]

... because I have had more sex with more men aged 21 to 30 than any heterosexual man reading this thread. ;-)

 

 

I lol'd at this part :P obvious statements make for some of the best humour :D

[Guest C*****tte]

I lol'd at this part :P obvious statements make for some of the best humour :D

 

Best humour, you say? Perhaps being in Montreal while the Just for Laughs festival is going is rubbing off on me. Actually, I have done a little theatre and was told I make an excellent straight man. Though that goes against my first point. Hmm. Now I am experiencing identity confusion. snicker

 

Though back to the topic of the thread - being respectful at the get go shows your maturity and this is so key. Respect a lady's rate and her booking procedure and you will have lots of options in who to see.

 

Younger men tend more than older clients to try to negotiate - saying they have a big penis or are very good looking and hope to get a discount or a service for free. It doesn't work that way. My landlord doesn't accept your penis for a rent cheque.

[mrgreen760 37785]

Well I am an older type. I can honestly say I don't have a huge penis or am particularly handsome......in a certain light (dark) I am fairly palatable. I suppose being older has some advantages (can't think of one off the top of my head). I'm patient and fun and don't have the capabilities to pound away for an hour. I look for smart women as there will be ample time for chatting...lol. I often joke that it will really be sort of like an hour off.

 

Peace

MG

[roamingguy 300292]

Well I am an older type. I can honestly say I don't have a huge penis or am particularly handsome......in a certain light (dark) I am fairly palatable. I suppose being older has some advantages (can't think of one off the top of my head). I'm patient and fun and don't have the capabilities to pound away for an hour. I look for smart women as there will be ample time for chatting...lol. I often joke that it will really be sort of like an hour off.

 

Peace

MG

 

I'm of the older type too. One advantage of less light, less reflection off my head LOL

Seriously, at my age comes maturity. Not interested (or able) to do marathons...well I could but I would only need to book a half hour session, and that includes time to look after the donation, get undressed, some play maybe a five minute break, some more playing and then get dressed

I enjoy the company of a lady, and the encounters I book are two hours minimum (repeats three hours)...and its not because of my stamina (or lack of it LOL). I enjoy the conversation, kissing, and cuddling. Yes, I enjoy the sexual side of the encounter too, but it's more than just sex for me

I may be wrong, but, and I hear it at work, and elsewhere from the younger guys who think they are god's gift to women. I just wonder if that attitude is common amongst the younger guys, and maybe its an attitude that may lead to guys negotiating or acting that they are doing the lady a favour and that can be a put off.

I guess with age comes maturity, and a realistic expectations of an encounter. And the realization that you can enjoy the company of a lady, for more than just sex. Not to mention at our age, not only do we have a little more disposable income, so we're not likely to negotiate. And we're for the most part mature enough to realize that the ladies are doing this for their livelihood, we aren't going to confuse this with dating/relationships

RG

[Guest ****ven]

Generally I don't see younger men, and mainly this is because of a lot of the reasons discussed above. I have several brothers in the 20s range, and if I happened to cross paths with one of there friends it would be messy.

 

I also find that some younger fellows don't have the same respect; bargaining, general misbehaviour, attempting to bend rules and I simply don't like being disrespected like that.

 

That being said I will see younger men if i feel some chemistry in our involvement, but in general I'm only attracted to older men.

[stevecurious 42059]

 

I've noticed recently several ads posted by ladies on cerb and elsewhere stipulating minimum age restrictions (seems to generally be 30+ when it comes up) and it got me curious as to the reason behind this and why girls do it.

 

Now obviously a provider is free to see who she wants and I'd never contact one of the ladies in question to bug her or pressure her about it, but as a 25 year old guy it makes me wonder - what gives? I'm a very easy going, respectful person who knows how to properly treat the fairer sex and my money's as good as anyone else's. Is it solely to help filter out the stereotypical rude/rowdy college kid? A matter of chemistry and only being attracted to older men? Or is there some other reason I haven't thought of? :)

 

I too wondered that when I first started feeling the urge to meet travelling ladies and since I was under 30 years old I felt like I was S.O.L. However, I took the time or should I say the chance and contacted a lovely touring lady and explained my situation. Perhaps I should say I pleaded my case to this very accommodating woman. Anyway I took the chance, contacted her and explained things. I provided my age, available references, all pertinent contact info., etc. In other words I made sure she knew I was not some guy wasting her time and that I was not too immature to be considered. Funny thing was when we met she said it was a combination of the above mentioned characteristics as well as my writing style that helped convince her I was indeed "mature" enough.

 

Moral of the story one can never be too polite and/or courteous when contacting someone whom you wish to meet!

 

A special thank you to that travelling lady who I met two years ago in Moncton, New Brunswick!

[Royalfun 55449]

I can understand the issue about the minimum age. I only hope that there wont be a rule about the maximum age to be accepted by SPs.

 

The real concern is, IMHO, about the behaviour of the bobbyist toward the SP, and, obviously, the behaviour of the SPs. Everything lies on the way we communicate and we enter into a "relationship" with eachother, with all its limits.

 

Young or older, to be respectful is the fundamental aspect of this "business", both on the side of the Sp, and the hobbyist.

 

For one, I am not an acrobat, and I dont expect from myself to be a sexual performer; I just want to have a exciting time with another nice person that is open to fantasy, and pleasure.

[Andee 220524]

Since I never had any children, I am not as fussy as some mature ladies who think it`s creepy to see a guy who may the same age or younger than their children. I don`t blame them in a way because I can relate in that for example, I would not be comfortable with doing duos with ladies who under 25 years old because my oldest niece is 21.

 

As long as you are respectful of my boundaries, don`t try to bargain me down, are clean and courteous, I will consider anyone who is 19 years of age or up.

 

But that`s just me!

 

I have some very nice young, respectful men come and see me who were actually easier to handle than some older men, so I never try and generalize because there are always exceptions.

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

Hi all, long time lurker virgin poster so go easy on me :)

 

I've noticed recently several ads posted by ladies on cerb and elsewhere stipulating minimum age restrictions (seems to generally be 30+ when it comes up) and it got me curious as to the reason behind this and why girls do it.

 

Now obviously a provider is free to see who she wants and I'd never contact one of the ladies in question to bug her or pressure her about it, but as a 25 year old guy it makes me wonder - what gives? I'm a very easy going, respectful person who knows how to properly treat the fairer sex and my money's as good as anyone else's. Is it solely to help filter out the stereotypical rude/rowdy college kid? A matter of chemistry and only being attracted to older men? Or is there some other reason I haven't thought of? :)

 

It's not like this is overly common so I don't mean this as a rant or complaint but I've noticed it enough in the past week to be genuinely curious.

 

I've met a few young guys and don't mind them now because I am older but when I was younger as an SP, I had a big problem with it. I have booked appts over the phone and didn't know they were young until they showed up and they didn't sound like it before I met them which was great.

 

Now what I really can't stand and if someone really wants to get a bad response from me is when some 20 something dude calls me and tells me that he shouldn't have to pay the full amount because he "is sooooo good looking and that I'd want to do him for free". Hahaha. My response to these guys are "Honey, your so called good looks don't pay my bills." It seems as though they are legends in their own minds. LOL.That doesn't impress me and if I want a hot guy, I've got my own personal stash on file on my own time.

 

I hate the cocky arrogant attitude that some of these younger guys have or the ones who say they want a student discount because they can't afford it. What am I? Shopper's Drug Mart or Subway? This is a luxury service and if some guys can't pony up the cash then don't bother. It is an insult when they ask us this or try to bargin for a discount. This is probably the reason why many SPs don't want to see young guys. Yes, they give a bad name to those who are willing to pay for a lady's time.

 

There is often a sense of entitlement there and seeing an SP is a privilege, not a right and like I said, it's a luxury service, not a necessity. Would someone go into a designer clothing store and attempt to bargin with the sales person for a deal on clothing? It wouldn't happen. I offer a very good experience for the rate I quote and it is very reasonable. Older men have a lot more disposable income and are realistic in the fact that this is a service and most don't try and cross the boundaries and want to "hang out" with us. They have their own lives and many are married men with families.

 

I can usually tell immediately when I talk to them what I am getting into and I will either get them off the phone or book them if they don't cause me grief. Before I wouldn't deal with anyone under 30 but with my experience and maturity over the years, I can read people like a book when I speak to them. I am very intuitive so sometimes I have to weed through the inquiries and b.s. before I find someone I am willing to meet. Some will ask if they can get MSOG on a half hour appt. That's fine but don't expect me to go overtime if you can't pull it off just because you want to get your money's worth. It doesn't work like that. Others will ask for a laundry list of services and when they get there, they want to treat you like a rag doll or try to direct you mechanically like you were starring in a porn movie. Nice, real nice. lol. A good way to bore me to tears and have me secretly yawn while you have me with my face down in the pillows. Maybe I will take a nap while you bang away endlessly without any passion. Not my kind of experience even if you are paying me as I am GFE. On the other hand, I've met some nice guys under 30 who were mature, respectful, didn't push boundaries or question my rates.

 

However, if you think just because you are young and hot that you don't have to pay for it, get a reality check because you are looking in the wrong place. We are girlfriends on the clock, not off. You pay us to leave. I am running a business and if I wanted a boyfriend, I would leave this job and be with one. I'm not trying to sounded jaded here because I am very good at what I do and only speak from experience as I have seen and heard everything.lol.