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[Timmy 36]

 

 

 

[Taigh815 295]

Yes, there is some risk with DATY, which puts some providers off, but some also don't like it or get nothing from it. The risk is pretty small though in the grand scheme of things. GFE usually just means and more intimate session, with DFK and often DATY. Since I started hobbying regularly, I've made friends with the urban dictionary on many occasions and am pretty much up on most of the abbreviations/acronyms, though some have a pretty wide range of interpretations, depending on the provider. If you're just looking for a purely physical rather than emotional connection, then stick to the ladies who offer something less than GFE and maybe edge more towards the vanilla or PSE. I have found that as I have got older (I have a few years on you!) I look for a more intimate experience rather than the simply mechanical and have found that the providers in their 30s and 40s, even 50s in one case, fit the bill better than the younger ones, though there are some real stars in that category as well.

[boredmale 44]

42 minutes ago, Taigh815 said:

I look for a more intimate experience rather than the simply mechanical and have found that the providers in their 30s and 40s, even 50s in one case, fit the bill better than the younger ones, though there are some real stars in that category as well.

 

I by no means am an expert here but since I got back into escorts(I am 51 now) I have seen 4 of them, one in her 40s, 2 in their early 30s and a 23 year old.  The 23 year old was the best of the bunch, she seemed to go the extra mile and seemed to be on the same wavelength of knowing what I wanted without me asking at times(and this isn't a knock at the other 3, they had their good points as well)

[Timmy 36]

4 hours ago, Taigh815 said:

 If you're just looking for a purely physical rather than emotional connection, then stick to the ladies who offer something less than GFE and maybe edge more towards the vanilla or PSE. I have found that as I have got older (I have a few years on you!) I look for a more intimate experience rather than the simply mechanical and have found that the providers in their 30s and 40s, even 50s in one case, fit the bill better than the younger ones, though there are some real stars in that category as well.

Firstly I'm shocked that I'm not the oldest person here but there you go 🙂  I find your comment on "purely physical" interesting.  I would argue that one of the issues I've had thus far is that I want something more than physical.  I need someone who is going to talk, not just when I say something but rather a true conversationalist......I want someone who is going to enjoy petting and flirting and all that intimate stuff.......and listen there's risk for both in any level of physicality ....... so it's about minimizing the risk as much as you can and still enjoying your time with the SP and part of that is that they enjoy it too......thanks for the comments  

[Timmy 36]

4 hours ago, boredmale said:

 

I by no means am an expert here but since I got back into escorts(I am 51 now) I have seen 4 of them, one in her 40s, 2 in their early 30s and a 23 year old.  The 23 year old was the best of the bunch, she seemed to go the extra mile and seemed to be on the same wavelength of knowing what I wanted without me asking at times(and this isn't a knock at the other 3, they had their good points as well)

As I've said before, I don't have a lot of experience but for me......there's been no real correlation between age and satisfaction for me..... 

[Taigh815 295]

5 hours ago, Timmy said:

As I've said before, I don't have a lot of experience but for me......there's been no real correlation between age and satisfaction for me..... 

Oh I agree. There are some very skilled, experienced younger providers out there, one or two from Montreal I have met in particular. The more mature ones who have been in SW for a decade or two I find generally more compatible, probably in part owing to my own advanced years. A couple of the local ladies I like to think I've established genuine, if necessarily limited relationships with, though that may be hubris or projection on my part. With my particular favourite, we often spend at least a quarter of the time, before, during and after playtime just chatting and not just about SW.

[Timmy 36]

20 hours ago, Taigh815 said:

With my particular favourite, we often spend at least a quarter of the time, before, during and after playtime just chatting and not just about SW.

I really like that type of arrangement.  I'm not suggesting that me and the SP have to be the best of friends but just chatting before and/or after the fun is a nice compliment to a good session.