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[Redcap 787]

I've had an SP come to my residence before. Yes, it has a level of risk to it, but honestly so does taking anyone new home.

 

In this case, it was a very well reviewed, and well established lady with a great reputation. 

 

Not something that I would do all the time, and I only did the once.

[Exotic Touch Danielle 31734]

On 10/16/2024 at 5:25 PM, DaveM2 said:

It's not a good idea, go flip through the scam section and ask yourself if you want these kinds of experiences happening in your home. A lot of these providers who are all sunshine and rainbows online have pimps, are involved in organized crime, have major mental issues/substance abuse problems etc. Not a good idea to potentially bring that into your home. Don't forget this is an illicit industry, you should keep your personal info out of reach. And on that note:

In case anyone isn't aware, your personal phone number is enough info to get your home address. 

If you feel this way about us then perhaps you shouldn't engage in this type of activity 

Trust goes both ways wether it's us come to you or you come to us

What some of you forget to remember is that WE are human and not just objects 

I for one do not nor have I ever had a pimp, engage in drugs or have mental issues lol

 

I always like to sit back and just read through the post and and keep a mental note on who's who and how you guys talk about us

 

[DaveM2 171]

4 minutes ago, Exotic Touch Danielle said:

If you feel this way about us then perhaps you shouldn't engage in this type of activity 

Trust goes both ways wether it's us come to you or you come to us

What some of you forget to remember is that WE are human and not just objects 

I for one do not nor have I ever had a pimp, engage in drugs or have mental issues lol

 

I always like to sit back and just read through the post and and keep a mental note on who's who and how you guys talk about us

 

I'm not accusing anybody specific, or saying everyone has these problems. I'm saying it's a risk that people should keep in mind before inviting a stranger they met online over to their home. 

[Exotic Touch Danielle 31734]

1 minute ago, DaveM2 said:

I'm not accusing anybody specific, or saying everyone has these problems. I'm saying it's a risk that people should keep in mind before inviting a stranger they met online over to their home. 

Okay as we should take the same precautions with you correct?

[DaveM2 171]

18 minutes ago, Exotic Touch Danielle said:

Okay as we should take the same precautions with you correct?

Correct, it's also a risk for you to invite a stranger you met online over to your home. 

[Babygirl_brooklyn 241]

1 hour ago, Exotic Touch Danielle said:

If you feel this way about us then perhaps you shouldn't engage in this type of activity 

Trust goes both ways wether it's us come to you or you come to us

What some of you forget to remember is that WE are human and not just objects 

I for one do not nor have I ever had a pimp, engage in drugs or have mental issues lol

 

I always like to sit back and just read through the post and and keep a mental note on who's who and how you guys talk about us

 

I’m with Danielle, I think it’s glossed over on this forum just how much we, the providers, risk in providing such an intimate service. She’s right in pointing out that we do keep notes of who says what and it could be a determinant if we want your business in the future.

 

There are so many great reputable women here in Halifax, do your research, and follow their screening processes. We put these in place for a reason and I can honestly say, do not care to or would never, disclose a client’s personal information. That puts our reputation and business at risk. 

[boredmale 55]

34 minutes ago, Babygirl_brooklyn said:

She’s right in pointing out that we do keep notes of who says what

 

So you make a list of who is naughty or nice, and if they message you you check that list twice?

[Exotic Touch Danielle 31734]

2 hours ago, boredmale said:

 

So you make a list of who is naughty or nice, and if they message you you check that list twice?

Sounds about right

[Redcap 787]

3 minutes ago, Exotic Touch Danielle said:

Sounds about right

And honestly, why shouldn't you? Hobbyists discuss providers and share notes all the time, so it's a reasonable assumption that providers do as well.

In fact, it's probably best for the mutual safety of providers to do so. It's arguably the more dangerous position to be in, and bad clients ruin things for everyone.

[Exotic Touch Danielle 31734]

3 minutes ago, Redcap said:

And honestly, why shouldn't you? Hobbyists discuss providers and share notes all the time, so it's a reasonable assumption that providers do as well.

In fact, it's probably best for the mutual safety of providers to do so. It's arguably the more dangerous position to be in, and bad clients ruin things for everyone.

Definitely..i have to look out for my best interest and safety and have absolutely no desire to meet with anyone being disrespectful and nasty towards us 

Energy is everything .. 

If you are on here being an asshole I could only assume you will be one In person as well

 

I'm not for everyone and everyone isn't for me!

[Timmy 36]

1 hour ago, Exotic Touch Danielle said:

Sounds about right

I can't imagine a world where you wouldn't do that?  My assumption may be wrong but I would hope that most of you converse with each other about bad experiences in order to keep each other safe.  But I'm just not 100% sure why you seemed so perturbed by the OP's comment that you shouldn't engage with SP's at your home?  I mean if you have a running relationship/experience with a particular SP maybe that's different.  But in my opinion, both the client and the SP should be on their highest alertness...... But I'm old and paranoid 🙂

...and maybe I missed something in the conversation......

 

[Exotic Touch Danielle 31734]

44 minutes ago, Timmy said:

I can't imagine a world where you wouldn't do that?  My assumption may be wrong but I would hope that most of you converse with each other about bad experiences in order to keep each other safe.  But I'm just not 100% sure why you seemed so perturbed by the OP's comment that you shouldn't engage with SP's at your home?  I mean if you have a running relationship/experience with a particular SP maybe that's different.  But in my opinion, both the client and the SP should be on their highest alertness...... But I'm old and paranoid 🙂

...and maybe I missed something in the pl

45 minutes ago, Timmy said:

I can't imagine a world where you wouldn't do that?  My assumption may be wrong but I would hope that most of you converse with each other about bad experiences in order to keep each other safe.  But I'm just not 100% sure why you seemed so perturbed by the OP's comment that you shouldn't engage with SP's at your home?  I mean if you have a running relationship/experience with a particular SP maybe that's different.  But in my opinion, both the client and the SP should be on their highest alertness...... But I'm old and paranoid 🙂

...and maybe I missed something in the conversation......

 

Please kindly re read what I said...

The part about us having pimps, being drugs addicts and mental issues is what I responded to

I never said it was wrong to be careful about whom you invite into your home, I would expect everyone to be 

Reason why majority of us ask for deposit or have other screening measures 

 

[Timmy 36]

4 hours ago, Exotic Touch Danielle said:

 

duly noted

[Andee of Burlington 28]

On 10/16/2024 at 8:18 PM, Sydneymale54out said:

I always use a burner phone. Most of my meets are now sugar babies and Ive been seeing them for years. INteresting thing happened awhile back. A girl was coming to the hotel that Ive had over dozens of times to the same hotel. She must have hesitated when looking for my room and a hotel worker stopped her and asked who she was looking for. She didnt know my name. Years of seeing her (and others) and Ive trained myself to give a false identity. So I had to go to the lbby and retrive her LOL. Note: hotels have immigrants working in them now and they are big on acting like security guards. AS I was taking her to the room I got her to point out the kid. 

I would never go to a hotel unless I had the clients legal name and room number. And before I would set out, I would call the hotel and ask for the room number to make sure that they are really there. The reason I would need their legal name is sometimes reception will ask for the name of the guest. 

In other words, I would never go to an out call to a hotel that was booked by a client from his mobile phone only.
 

Call me old-school, but when I first started in this business when it was out call only, that was the norm for booking calls to hotels. If it was somebody’s residence, they would give us their name and phone number and we would actually look them up in the phonebook and then call them back to make sure that they answered because we didn’t have called display then to make sure they were legit. But now with cell phones and text app numbers it’s a lot more difficult to verify a real address. So as you might imagine, unless I receive a deposit, I am not going to somebody’s place of residence because of the number of fake bookings that often occur. 
 

When I am told that they won’t send a deposit because they’ve been scammed what I say to them as well you want me to trust you, but you’re not willing to trust me well, sorry I’m not going to make the trip without it and if I was going to scam you, I think I would ask for more than $50 because I’m not willing to waste my time leaving my place just to find out when I get there. It’s a fake booking.

 

It happened to me twice and I wasn’t going to go for a third time.  It’s unfortunate that there are so many scammers out there but it’s not just providers who are scamming clients. It’s also would be clients playing around with our livelihoods.
 

[cutescott69 333]

On 10/18/2024 at 10:57 PM, boredmale said:

 

https://www.secretbenefits.com/

 

They advertise all over leolist.  I should start off by saying I don't live in Halifax(I live in Thunder Bay, ON) so I can't comment how that site is for your city.  I haven't had any luck with the website.  For me it just feel like a bunch of bots trying to get me to spend "credits"(whish are rather costly).  In 2 months I have had 3 what I would assume to be females message me and we have a convo beyond the person messaging me and saying Hi I would like to get t know you, then not saying anything after that(which basically costs you like 10 credits to read the first post).

 

The 3 I did have convos with, 1 just stopped messaging me because I didn't have snapchat, the next basically stopped talking to me because she wanted to go shopping and I was working that day(a Saturday), the last went full dirty chat, claims she came then didn't talk to me after that.

 

Personally I am not sure do I try be a gentleman or go full blown perv. lol

 

If you do join only advice I would give is buy the cheapest package of credits because once you run out they will make you an offer for 50% off the higher packages.

Secret Benefits as a scam. Not only hundreds of fake profiles, but they send fake messages out from real profiles, without the ladies even knowing messages are being sent from their account.  I’ve validated this on three occasions with women I’ve known… challenged them and got a refund before they blocked me.   Never assume anyone who messages you on there is legit.  

[boredmale 55]

11 hours ago, cutescott69 said:

Secret Benefits as a scam. Not only hundreds of fake profiles, but they send fake messages out from real profiles, without the ladies even knowing messages are being sent from their account.  I’ve validated this on three occasions with women I’ve known… challenged them and got a refund before they blocked me.   Never assume anyone who messages you on there is legit.  

I have to agree it feels like the bulk of the women there are scams to eat your credits.  I am not going to buy any more.  I think of all the girls there(it should be noted I live in a smaller city than Halifax) I had like 5 actual conversation but even those didn't last long and 2 of them seemed like people who wanted me to buy then stuff without getting anything back.  The other 3 seemed interested but just went quiet after 1 convo