lovemassage 97 Report post Posted August 10, 2011 Pay for one time sex Or Pay for dinner and have sex as many times without paying for it Posted via Mobile Device 4 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest E*******h S******s Report post Posted August 10, 2011 I'm sorry, but....huh? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
swegin 5885 Report post Posted August 10, 2011 I'm not sure we can do the math on this choice without further information. How does this work? Is there some kind of time limit for the multiple sex encounters? Could it be any dinner? Are we talking lobster served with garlic drawn butter at market price, or a McLobster value meal? Do you have to have sex right after eating or is their time to digest? These are important considerations here. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest S***dst*** Report post Posted August 10, 2011 Sooo..what? lol I'm not sure what you are going for here... (FYI buying dinner/going on a date and getting sex is the same as paying for it, just not directly) Plenty of Fish Vs CERB for companionship... plenty of fish is a roulette of what you can expect, Cerb is full of ladies in which you can't really go wrong...but also can't take home afterwards (you know what I mean lol) Now lets choose between shoes and chairs :D Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest S**a*Q Report post Posted August 10, 2011 Pay for one time sex Or Pay for dinner and have sex as many times without paying for it Posted via Mobile Device Hahaha, it's not just that... I'm not sure what world you live in, but it's not that easy, if it was I would live in your world for sure... When do the crazies from POF come in? Or do you just manage to avoid all of them...? What about girls that want more than "just sex" from an online relationship...? I wish you luck with that my friend... Sex is never free... I'd so much rather get an escort HA! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Megan'sTouch 23875 Report post Posted August 10, 2011 Pay for dinner and have sex as many times without paying for it Paying for dinner does not mean we are in any way obligated to have sex with you. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Alexandra-Sky 12606 Report post Posted August 10, 2011 Pay for one time sex Or Pay for dinner and have sex as many times without paying for it Posted via Mobile Device This post is SO arrogant! 1. What is with the 'fellas' lingo? 2. People on plenty of fish are the for a myriad of reasons, not just for sex. 3. I would say that the same goes for CERB. While sex is a big part in all of this, I know from experience that there is a lot more to this than just sex and that some people seek the 'other' aspects of these encounters too. 4. CERB and the sex-work industry can more or less guarantee a no strings arrangement which works out well for a lot of folks on here, especially if they are married or want to be discreet. 5. One time sex isn't necessarily always the case for people who find dates off CERB. You can come back and pay again:) 6. It makes me wonder why it is that you're even on CERB when you claim to get all you need and more on POF. Maybe you should delete your account? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lovemassage 97 Report post Posted August 10, 2011 Hahaha, it's not just that... I'm not sure what world you live in, but it's not that easy, if it was I would live in your world for sure... When do the crazies from POF come in? Or do you just manage to avoid all of them...? What about girls that want more than "just sex" from an online relationship...? I wish you luck with that my friend... Sex is never free... I'd so much rather get an escort HA! Pof is free dating site..few chats here and there...exchange numbers...meet up for cofee...and if chemistry is right, the rest is history...sex can be free trust me... Posted via Mobile Device 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest E*******h S******s Report post Posted August 10, 2011 Pof is free dating site..few chats here and there...exchange numbers...meet up for cofee...and if chemistry is right, the rest is history...sex can be free trust me...Posted via Mobile Device Excellent! Away you go then... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Paradise Spa 24019 Report post Posted August 11, 2011 Pay for one time sex Or Pay for dinner and have sex as many times without paying for it Posted via Mobile Device Well if you take out your calculator you are gonna spend a lot more $$$ in the long run in order to keep that lady around from POF....not to mention the time you gotta invest keeping the POF lady on the hook. SP is the better route imho. Have your fun and go on your merry way afterwards....the joy's of a professional transaction :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mister T 45020 Report post Posted August 11, 2011 Pof is free dating site..few chats here and there...exchange numbers...meet up for cofee...and if chemistry is right, the rest is history...sex can be free trust me...Posted via Mobile Device No such thing as free sex ... there is always something at the end of it. This was also discussed recently in this thread : http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=45500 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest C**rAz****e Report post Posted August 11, 2011 Nothing is free in Capitalism :P Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PistolPete 61421 Report post Posted August 11, 2011 Is that you are digging a bigger hole..each time with a comment, you are losing more and more rep points...trust me :) Oh BTW sex is not free,sorry disagree. Pof is free dating site..few chats here and there...exchange numbers...meet up for cofee...and if chemistry is right, the rest is history...sex can be free trust me...Posted via Mobile Device Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MiaBella 10988 Report post Posted August 11, 2011 Even if you did meet a girl from POF the circumstances under which you have agreed to meet are likely much different than those on this site. When you see an escort/masseuse/dancer the agreement is usually pretty straight forward and simple. Money in enchange for your choice of service. There is no hidden agenda, you don't need to dote on her with compliments, presents, and constant approval and/or reassure her of the shared relationship. We know what's up and we're more than happy with it. When you see a lady from POF the situation can go many ways. You could take the lady to lots of dates before you get lucky(if you do). I myself am kind of a prude in my private life, and you really have to work hard and long to get into my pants(aren't you glad you can just pay for it in cash with a guarantee!? lmao). Plus, who says she ISN'T after your money anyways?!?!?! Oh, and what if she becomes needy, or worse yet a stalker psycho? Lol I don't think that's what you anticipated when you signed up though, right? Hmm, but I guess you never know till you try...... Let me know how your Free Pussy Adventures go hun! Actually, I kinda liked this comparison. I think it was a good thread hehehe 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lovemassage 97 Report post Posted August 11, 2011 Even if you did meet a girl from POF the circumstances under which you have agreed to meet are likely much different than those on this site. When you see an escort/masseuse/dancer the agreement is usually pretty straight forward and simple. Money in enchange for your choice of service. There is no hidden agenda, you don't need to dote on her with compliments, presents, and constant approval and/or reassure her of the shared relationship. We know what's up and we're more than happy with it. When you see a lady from POF the situation can go many ways. You could take the lady to lots of dates before you get lucky(if you do). I myself am kind of a prude in my private life, and you really have to work hard and long to get into my pants(aren't you glad you can just pay for it in cash with a guarantee!? lmao). Plus, who says she ISN'T after your money anyways?!?!?! Oh, and what if she becomes needy, or worse yet a stalker psycho? Lol I don't think that's what you anticipated when you signed up though, right? Hmm, but I guess you never know till you try...... Let me know how your Free Pussy Adventures go hun! Actually, I kinda liked this comparison. I think it was a good thread hehehe Don't get me wrong I like cerb and I will still use it for my monthly massage needs lol..but this notion of sex not being free is false..all it takes is a little of bit of work..you surprised how manly lonly females out there who just need attention *thats where I coming* Posted via Mobile Device Additional Comments: Is that you are digging a bigger hole..each time with a comment, you are losing more and more rep points...trust me :) Oh BTW sex is not free,sorry disagree. Could care less about rep pts...I always treat the ladies with the utmost respect. Posted via Mobile Device Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PistolPete 61421 Report post Posted August 11, 2011 F.B.A lol...thanks Mia! ...... Let me know how your Free Pussy Adventures go hun! Additional Comments: And so do I, but I still disagree about free sex, happy "free pussy adventures" to you Could care less about rep pts...I always treat the ladies with the utmost respect. Posted via Mobile Device Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lovemassage 97 Report post Posted August 11, 2011 F.B.A lol...thanks Mia! So every single male out there getting pussy is paying for it? lol Posted via Mobile Device 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
toine 30556 Report post Posted August 11, 2011 ..but this notion of sex not being free is false..all it takes is a little of bit of work.. Amusing: we didn't sit in the same Econ 101 course: do you recall the concept of opportunity cost, and the layman's translation: time is money? Well, admittedly, an evening out with a woman can be quite enjoyable, but in some cases it is just boring, and you'll pray for the phone to ring to give you a way out... Anyway, I wish you the best! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PistolPete 61421 Report post Posted August 11, 2011 I would say they are in one sense or another, you just need to take the blinders off, different strokes for different folks. ;) So every single male out there getting pussy is paying for it? lolPosted via Mobile Device Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mrgreen760 37785 Report post Posted August 11, 2011 One way, you pay someone to hopefully be nice to you and the other way, you pay so someone hopefully will be nice to you. Odds are likely better in the first case :) Peace MG Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lovemassage 97 Report post Posted August 11, 2011 I would say they are in one sense or another, you just need to take the blinders off, different strokes for different folks. ;) Let's just say its not free...so let's do the math Its an investment,I Take her out, show her a good time and i can have sex with her on demand. Spend 100 bucks on a chick and and have sex 30 times Or the other option Spend 200 on a escort and have sex once Hmmm.... Tough choice... Posted via Mobile Device 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rickoshadows 937 Report post Posted August 11, 2011 Let's just say its not free...so let's do the math Its an investment,I Take her out, show her a good time and i can have sex with her on demand. Spend 100 bucks on a chick and and have sex 30 times Or the other option Spend 200 on a escort and have sex once Hmmm.... Tough choice... Posted via Mobile Device The $200 is not for sex! It is for the "no strings"! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lovemassage 97 Report post Posted August 11, 2011 The $200 is not for sex! It is for the "no strings"! Never heard of "friends with benefits" Posted via Mobile Device Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cordsboy 184 Report post Posted August 11, 2011 Why bother with either then? Just wrap your dick with a $20 bill give it a few tugs, wipe the mess with the $20 and put it back in your pocket. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Icebreaker 3938 Report post Posted August 11, 2011 My experiences on POF were definitely not the same as the OP. Mind you I was looking for a conventional dating relationship at the time, which stress the point that comparing CERB to POF is like comparing apples to oranges. First off if you're in the long term or dating sections most ladies will automatically put on their profiles that they do not want messages from guys looking for encounters or those who have sent messages about encounters. I was not looking for encounters on POF as the ladies were not either. Secondly although you may get the quantity (as I did) the overall quality is not consistent. By that I mean that most in my experience are looking strongly for the financial component in a guy. It is not always apparent at first and most hide it for the first few dates but it quickly comes through. Many dates were more arduous than a job interview. Speaking to Mia's point many do have hidden agendas in looking for the best financial partners. I've had a couple of relationships from POF only to find out later they never left the system and were still actively searching for someone while supposedly dating me. There is very much the attitude of "i'm not going to settle" on POF which usually means financial. If that's what they were looking for fine but just be honest that you are still dating others. Thirdly I found a lot of baggage came with POF ladies like a lot of ladies hadn't quite broken up with their BF and were just looking to make them jealous or went back shortly after dating. I don't mean to paint everyone on POF with the same brush, I may have just had a run of bad luck over there. But that experience makes me appreciate the ladies on CERB all that much more. Here the expectations are much more honest, genuine and straight forward (more so than any of my recent dating experiences). In terms of money I'm sure if I add up the cash spent on dinner, flowers, movies etc in POF relationships and conventional dates that were dubious at best it would prove that nothing was free (either in cash or in drama). One of the biggest reasons for coming here is that I was tired of the games. My experience here is there is a much higher level of quality, beauty, charm and honesty on CERB from the ladies than POF. Posted via Mobile Device 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
