all my fellas... plenty of fish vs cerb. who wins?

[MNO4 789]

On the cerb you pay so you can cum AND you pay so you can just go

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[Mister C 1725]

This will be my first and only post in this thread.

 

I'm pretty sure after reading this none of the lovely ladies here would want to spend any time with you. But I'm certain your fine with that. Have fun with POF.

[castle 38816]

A friend of mine found his wife on POF. Which is exactly what most of us here are NOT looking for! And "friends with benefits"? No such thing. When seeing a non-sp there's no such thing as a "no strings" relationship. That friend of mine and his wife? They started out as "friends with benefits". When dealing with sex in the "real world"...attachments will inevitably develop for one or both persons. And if the attachment is not shared by both parties then feelings will be hurt and all kinds of drama will inevitably ensue. Which is exactly what we "fellas" here are trying to avoid. There have been stories here of this kind of drama happening in the SP/client relationship but it's rare....it's a lot more likely to happen on POF. Like rickoshadows said...we're not paying for sex....we're paying for the "no muss, no fuss" aspect of seeing a SP. So for me....at this stage of my life it's the hobby over POF any day. If at some point I decide I'm ready for something more than I may check out POF. But this whole idea of "no strings attached" "friends with benefits" and "free sex" is a myth.

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[Emma Alexandra 123368]

Pof is free dating site..few chats here and there...exchange numbers...meet up for cofee...and if chemistry is right, the rest is history...sex can be free trust me...

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Let's just say its not free...so let's do the math

 

Its an investment,I Take her out, show her a good time and i can have sex with her on demand.

Spend 100 bucks on a chick and and have sex 30 times

 

Or the other option

 

Spend 200 on a escort and have sex once

 

Hmmm.... Tough choice...

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Never heard of "friends with benefits"

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Lol at the idea of looking for long term...I tell the ladies in advance that I'm looking to hang out..which means sex lol

 

Pof is nice..you just have to be patient and send as many messages..its all about the numbers

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First date I noticed most females pay for their own..and if your lucky which is 30 percent of the time.. You can get the pussy in a week..again depending on a girl...but its better than paying for every single encounter

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With cerb you pay for every encounter..compare that to pof..finding a fwb(friends with benefits) is a lot cheaper..she calls me up when she wants to fukk..simple as that..no cost

 

But I guess everyone is different..

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Ya and she can get the dick..I'm not a sexist..if there's mutual attraction, anything is possible..

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Wow so I'm sexist, women basher now lol...why is everyone so cotdamn sensitive?

 

I'm single, I don't have a wife or gf like most of these men here...go save that speech for them..I'm not cheating on anyone

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No we go out, dinner, bowling movie etc

And usually if the chemistry is there, I'd say 80%, then sex follows..

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wow dude you are sure full of yourself...free sex= emotions plus so so so much more...and not all good.

A couple of my very good male friends belong to POF...good looking guys too...i know all the work they have to put into it and once they actually get a date the chick is usually nothing like what she says she is...my friend Irish Dave filled me in on all the funny dates he had{none of which he had sex btw} one lady had a mustache, another smelled like moth balls and another was older then Jesus.

So sure go get your so called "free" sex...or stay here and get your massage from ladies who are really beautiful and have reco's to prove it. ;) although at this point i think you'll be hard pressed to fine one.

[Meg O'Ryan 266444]

Perhaps the only pussy to be found now....you can use the vessel once it's empty! :)

 

[Sensual Erin 33935]

First, where do you get the notion that if you buy a woman dinner it equates to free sex? You need to give your head a shake. In my personal relationships I've paid to take a man I'm interested in out for dinner, and bring him home for sex. My "put out" mechanism is between my shoulders and someone that thinks like yourself would never even stand a chance. This thread almost made me spew out my coffee though laughing. Meg you are too funny!

[Guest f***2f***]

wow dude you are sure full of yourself...free sex= emotions plus so so so much more...and not all good.

A couple of my very good male friends belong to POF...good looking guys too...i know all the work they have to put into it and once they actually get a date the chick is usually nothing like what she says she is...my friend Irish Dave filled me in on all the funny dates he had{none of which he had sex btw} one lady had a mustache, another smelled like moth balls and another was older then Jesus.

So sure go get your so called "free" sex...or stay here and get your massage from ladies who are really beautiful and have reco's to prove it. ;) although at this point i think you'll be hard pressed to fine one.

 

OH my yes!! As a guy who no longer frequents POF I have some stories that could really curl your hair (In Sara's case uncurl) and I really should write a book!

 

Most encounters I had did not survive the first date. They were all looking for a husband and a significant commitment and most of them are probably still looking. In the end I ended up with a stalker who dangerously resembled the lady who was the female character in "Fatal Attraction" who was most displeased when I decided I was way too creeped out to keep going. I figured it was easier to end it before intimacy further complicated matters and she would have gotten pretty nasty I imagine given her reaction when I broke it off.

 

I'm done feeding the troll too. Dude you're really in the wrong sites. Both CERB and POF don't sound like good places for ya...try CL Casual Encounters or something.

[Cleo Catra 178382]

I haven't read any of the responses to this so sorry if its already been said but:

 

While there definitely are women on POF and other dating sites who are just looking to get laid (I've known many guys who've gotten sex this way), those same women are also likely to call/text you a million times a day, may decide at the end of the dinner date that they're tired and just want to go home, let you know that oral sex is something they're just not into, etc etc.

 

All normal things that come up with dating, which is why, when a guy just wants to have sex with a hot girl who's actually into sex, they call US.

 

You don't have to spend three hours at dinner with me to get into my pants (although I do make a fine dinner companion :D ). I'm not going to kiss your cheek at the front door then leave you on the doorstep. When you call Cleo, you know what you're going to get, guaranteed. Now in my personal life, if you take me out on a date, things are different. Very different. Sex isn't even guaranteed (GASP!) Because I, like many, many women, don't 'date' for sex. And like I said above you may find girls on POF who just want to get laid, but mostly, they want a BOYFRIEND.

 

Honestly, using POF for sex versus hiring an escort are really not even in the same category, and I don't see how they can be compared as equal options.