Anyone see Sonia Dubois before?

[AdamSandler 210]

Hello! I was wondering if anyone has seen Sonia Dubois before? I just had a quick question I figured someone here could help with rather than me filling out her full booking form. 

Cheers,

AS

[NewGuy_411 14]

I'm very interested in her as well. Please fell free to pm me with any info as well please. 

[jnhfxboy 591]

Looks like she plans to be here for the month of April.

[spencer00 446]

Looks like a recent review on a Winnipeg board.

[AdamSandler 210]

48 minutes ago, spencer00 said:

Looks like a recent review on a Winnipeg board.

Wow. That combined with the other thread on the same forum where she is quite rude in multiple messages...

[Njosnavelin 148]

She requests not to be reviewed or discussed on the forums. If people choose to not honour that request they invite a bit of sass. I would also be tired of having my boundaries pushed. 

[NewGuy_411 14]

16 hours ago, Njosnavelin said:

She requests not to be reviewed or discussed on the forums. If people choose to not honour that request they invite a bit of sass. I would also be tired of having my boundaries pushed. 

 

It is still a very bad look to be rude over the forums. There are far better alternatives instead. Such as Dm the op and ask they remove the review.  It says a lot about the overall experience you MAY possible have with the provider as a whole. I for one would deffinitly take it as a negative. And possible not reach out to boom at all. There needs to be respect and kindness on both sides.  

[AdamSandler 210]

2 hours ago, NewGuy_411 said:

 

It is still a very bad look to be rude over the forums. There are far better alternatives instead. Such as Dm the op and ask they remove the review.  It says a lot about the overall experience you MAY possible have with the provider as a whole. I for one would deffinitly take it as a negative. And possible not reach out to boom at all. There needs to be respect and kindness on both sides.  

I agree. I’ve definitely had negative/rude interactions with providers which made me stop talking to them and not book. I remember a thread here a while ago about a specific provider who tours here and I was far from the only person who found her to be quite rude. She, of course, responded defensively and rudely on the thread. I think it was taken down.

[Njosnavelin 148]

To each their own. Personally, when I see someone standing up for themselves after being clear on their boundaries it endears me to them. OP decided to start a thread here after visiting another forum from a different region where a service provider objected after their request not to be discussed or reviewed on forums was ignored . Then these guys complain the SP is rude when they get called out...

[AdamSandler 210]

1 hour ago, Njosnavelin said:

To each their own. Personally, when I see someone standing up for themselves after being clear on their boundaries it endears me to them. OP decided to start a thread here after visiting another forum from a different region where a service provider objected after their request not to be discussed or reviewed on forums was ignored . Then these guys complain the SP is rude when they get called out...

I started this thread but not the other one in question. I hadn't seen that thread before I posted here. Also until I read that thread I didn't know that Sonia Dubois having a "no reviews" policy also meant "no open discussion of any kind" which I think is taking it a little far. I also wasn't asking for a review but I know many providers are pretty short and sometimes rude when they get asked questions before a booking I was just trying to avoid bothering her.

[Sonia DuBois 1144]

hello, I was just about to place an ad here. As this isnt a PERB/TERB/MERB related site I will respond here. In order to respond on one of those sites, you have to be a paid advertiser. You also have to be a paid advertiser to access the blacklist - which is a safety concern. Either way, both of these things take away power from women working in this industry. There was no way for me to respond to this, as I left Winnipeg. The only reason why I advertised on that board, which attracts the lowest tier of clientele accross Canada, was due to it being the main advertising site in Winnipeg. The man lied several times and was pushy in the booking. I did ask PERB to review it and even sent the screenshots, but they do not care as the client has been on the site for 8 years and I only payed like 50 bucks for an ad, and I toured to winnipeg 4 times since 2020. So clearly the regular paying client who writes reviews gets the pass.

 

You have to realize we are women working in adult entertainment. We are bound to encounter dangerous and pushy and rude men, that can weild power over us by threatening bad reviews (motivation for him was a power trip). There is also a positive review on there from years ago, and I believe things were written here as well as I toured to Halifax in 2022 and I am touring April 11-22 and possibly Moncton for a few days after.

 

I may seem short in the messages, because random men don't read the ad and text me trying to start some kind of conversation. It's clear from the ad, read the booking form or provide the info to book. We all have lives and you are not the only man texting us. When multiple people text at a time and we are on tour, we have to schedule our days to make money, and we don't have time for that. You have no idea how many men timewaste even if we are polite (for free attention). That being said, I've lived overseas. Maybe my speech seems "rude" to some Canadians who are used to a less direct way of speaking - especially in smaller cities like Winnipeg or Halifax, it's a cultural difference as well. 

 

A few bad apples ruin this and think because I am an escort I have to tolerate anything in a booking, as well as harassment, disrespect, dehuminization and even stalking (which happened once on my last tour to Halifax). This may be customer service, but I still have to enforce boundaries and speak up if I feel uncomfortable, and I have a right to ask someone to leave if they are being aggressive.

 

This client on Perb also lied, saying my hair was black and I was mid 40s, and he was in the room for over 30 minutes as he arrived 20 minutes early and I have screenshots of this. He was grabbing my face and being aggressive, and I asked him to leave due to this. He did not ask for a refund for the 30 minutes he had left, he didn't even make eye contact and just ran away, then texted me "I'm going to leave a bad review". Generally if someone leaves halfway through the session for whatever reason, they ask for a refund - which he didn't. He literally ran out the door when I told him he was being too pushy and I was stopping the booking. He said the session only went on for 10 minutes and nothing happened, which was also a lie as we had sex. Clearly he wanted something that he could throw around because again, some people see us as vulnerable and having to take anything instead of realizing that the majority of our clientele being nice and respectable men. I have the right to withdraw consent anytime. Which clearly made this guy upset and act childish on the internet instead of taking responsibility for why I kicked him out. Also, a lot of workers go along with pushy behaviour but everyone has their own boundaries and sorry, grabbing my face and pushing me around is too aggressive. Maybe for someone else it would be fine, but that's exactly why client's shouldn't just assume because someone else was okay with it (or afraid to say no), everyone will be. And sorry he couldn't coerce or threaten me with a bad review to make me change my mind, he should have asked for a refund for the 30 minutes he didn't use.

 

In terms of the boards - Lyla is fine, and CAF in Alberta is great. It's mainly regional - we have to advertise on boards depending on the region we are touring to because some sites have all the traffic, it's just where the local clientele go. This applies to smaller cities in Canada. Larger cities use Tryst. Lyla is where the east coast clients go, not tryst, and in winnipeg, they mainly go to PERB, not tryst. Same thing with CAF in Alberta, and I tour to Alberta like 7 times since 2021, and I don't have a bad review on there. But that's where I have to advertise to find clients. That being said I ask for no reviews because I don't like play by play summaries of sexual encounters online, I find it a bit weird to read about myself, and I've been doing this job for years, and I only got bad reviews by assholes with some kind of vendetta.

 

Anyway my tour is confirmed and I appreciate the business of any clientele who are respectful and don't view me as a commodity. We are people as well and unfortunately this job attracts some terrible people, and I wish for any women working this job not to encounter them nor be punished when they also have to fear for their safety. It is not fair to us to have to literally FEAR some men (rape, assault, robbery, stalking, murder, bad reviews, mental distress reading hateful shit on the internet) and we have the right to ask them to leave, and we should also have the right to respond to them on a board or list them as being dangerous - which I did not as my paid advertisment ran out. Luckily the admin on LYLA are good and I can also reccomend to East Coast workers to tour to Alberta and use CAF, because the clientele on there are good and the Mod is good as well. Thanks.

 

The last thing I'm going to say is, if you are a client that saw me on my 2022 tour to Halifax (I was in Halifax for two months) and you had an OK or good time lol, please feel free to respond here to this thread. I'd apprecaite it.

[Reddog2402 2226]

Well said Sonia.  I hope you have a wonderful visit to Halifax.  

[AdamSandler 210]

1 hour ago, Sonia DuBois said:

hello, I was just about to place an ad here. As this isnt a PERB/TERB/MERB related site I will respond here. In order to respond on one of those sites, you have to be a paid advertiser. You also have to be a paid advertiser to access the blacklist - which is a safety concern. Either way, both of these things take away power from women working in this industry. There was no way for me to respond to this, as I left Winnipeg. The only reason why I advertised on that board, which attracts the lowest tier of clientele accross Canada, was due to it being the main advertising site in Winnipeg. The man lied several times and was pushy in the booking. I did ask PERB to review it and even sent the screenshots, but they do not care as the client has been on the site for 8 years and I only payed like 50 bucks for an ad, and I toured to winnipeg 4 times since 2020. So clearly the regular paying client who writes reviews gets the pass.

 

You have to realize we are women working in adult entertainment. We are bound to encounter dangerous and pushy and rude men, that can weild power over us by threatening bad reviews (motivation for him was a power trip). There is also a positive review on there from years ago, and I believe things were written here as well as I toured to Halifax in 2022 and I am touring April 11-22 and possibly Moncton for a few days after.

 

I may seem short in the messages, because random men don't read the ad and text me trying to start some kind of conversation. It's clear from the ad, read the booking form or provide the info to book. You have no idea how many men timewaste. That being said, I've lived overseas. Maybe my speech seems "rude" to some Canadians who are used to a less direct way of speaking - especially in smaller cities like Winnipeg or Halifax, it's a cultural difference as well. 

 

A few bad apples ruin this and think because I am an escort I have to tolerate anything in a booking, as well as harassment, disrespect, dehuminization and even stalking (which happened once on my last tour to Halifax). This may be customer service, but I still have to enforce boundaries and speak up if I feel uncomfortable, and I have a right to ask someone to leave if they are being aggressive.

 

This client on Perb also lied, saying my hair was black and I was mid 40s, and he was in the room for over 30 minutes as he arrived 20 minutes early and I have screenshots of this. He was grabbing my face and being aggressive, and I asked him to leave due to this. He did not ask for a refund for the 30 minutes he had left, he didn't even make eye contact and just ran away, then texted me "I'm going to leave a bad review". Generally if someone leaves halfway through the session for whatever reason, they ask for a refund - which he didn't. He literally ran out the door when I told him he was being too pushy and I was stopping the booking. He said the session only went on for 10 minutes and nothing happened, which was also a lie as we had sex. Clearly he wanted something that he could throw around because again, some people see us as vulnerable and having to take anything instead of realizing that the majority of our clientele being nice and respectable men. I have the right to withdraw consent anytime. Which clearly made this guy upset and act childish on the internet instead of taking responsibility for why I kicked him out. Also, a lot of workers go along with pushy behaviour but everyone has their own boundaries and sorry, grabbing my face and pushing me around is too aggressive. Maybe for someone else it would be fine, but that's exactly why client's shouldn't just assume because someone else was okay with it (or afraid to say no), everyone will be. And sorry he couldn't coerce or threaten me with a bad review to make me change my mind, he should have asked for a refund for the 30 minutes he didn't use.

 

In terms of the boards - Lyla is fine, and CAF in Alberta is great. It's mainly regional - we have to advertise on boards depending on the region we are touring to because some sites have all the traffic, it's just where the local clientele go. This applies to smaller cities in Canada. Larger cities use Tryst. Lyla is where the east coast clients go, not tryst, and in winnipeg, they mainly go to PERB, not tryst. Same thing with CAF in Alberta, and I tour to Alberta like 7 times since 2021, and I don't have a bad review on there. But that's where I have to advertise to find clients. That being said I ask for no reviews because I don't like play by play summaries of sexual encounters online, I find it a bit weird to read about myself, and I've been doing this job for years, and I only got bad reviews by assholes with some kind of vendetta.

 

Anyway my tour is confirmed and I appreciate the business of any clientele who are respectful and don't view me as a commodity. We are people as well and unfortunately this job attracts some terrible people, and I wish for any women working this job not to encounter them nor be punished when they also have to fear for their safety. It is not fair to us to have to literally FEAR some men (rape, assault, robbery, stalking, murder, bad reviews, mental distress reading hateful shit on the internet) and we have the right to ask them to leave, and we should also have the right to respond to them on a board or list them as being dangerous - which I did not as my paid advertisment ran out. Luckily the admin on LYLA are good and I can also reccomend to East Coast workers to tour to Alberta and use CAF, because the clientele on there are good and the Mod is good as well. Thanks.

 

The last thing I'm going to say is, if you are a client that saw me on my 2022 tour to Halifax (I was in Halifax for two months) and you had an OK or good time lol, please feel free to respond here to this thread. I'd apprecaite it.

Hi Sonia D!

I’m sorry to hear that happened to you but doesn’t entirely surprise me as I’ve heard from a few other providers they don’t enjoy tours in Winnipeg as the men are too aggressive. I appreciate the post and detail you provided here and I truly hope you have a much better time here in Halifax than you did out west. I’ll have to see if I can find any free time to meet with you while you’re here.

Do you have a twitter account where you post some occasional additional photos or are the only pics you have on your Tryst and website? I find sometimes it’s nice to see some more casual and less heavily edited pics to go along with the professional photos. I saw twitter mentioned elsewhere for you but couldn’t actually find an account when I looked. 

Cheers,
AS

[Sonia DuBois 1144]

I never had an issue in Winnipeg nor have I had any other issue that was serious like rape or robbery. He was just very pushy and of course then I feel fearful and it's not the first time this has happened, but it's the threat itself. Also I don't welcome the guy stalking me the last time to try to book me in Halifax and his name starts with K on here so if you see something he posts, I didn't meet him. I am busy right now but I will atttach screenshot and place the ad later. Winnnipeg is kind of sketch in general but I had 4 tours there and no issue before. However, Winnipeg is extremely lucrative to tour especially in winter because nobody goes then. But I wont return as I refuse to pay PERB, though I can recommend to tour there as you make $$$ quickly. I have been to Halifax before, for 2 months in 2022. I deleted twitter and don't use social media sorry, it's just too energy absorbing.

[Sonia DuBois 1144]

so here is the only screenshot I have which outlines what happened - as you can see I didn't respond to the threat of the bad review. I forgot to mention that online in the "review" he also posted the address of where I was staying. I mentioned that to PERB, and they may have removed it. To be honest I didn't want to read the thread or care

 

https://imgur.com/a/t5vobfk.

 

He should know that when he arrives, that's when his booking time starts - if he aims to arrive early to try to squeeze out unpaid time for a 1 hour booking, he pays for that time. I could be still with another client, showering, or cleaning. Just arrive at the scheduled time.

 

Also, this guy pretended he didn't know what he was doing and saying he was "new to this" for the excuse that he he was early and grabbed my face and forced me to kiss him aggressively so I couldn't move my head at all (both hands around my head holding it in place) meanwhile he was a reviewer online for 8 years.

 

Anyway, meeting someone for a sexual encounter isn't guaranteed 100% of the time to be good regardless if you meet an escort or not. If someone asks you to leave, ask for the remainder of the time back (as long as it's not 30 minutes or less of a payment because you then just waste the escort's time & income). Don't freak out and write a bad review if money is the concern or you feel you were "ripped off" after running away and not asking for the remainder of the money back. And also, if you book 1 hour don't get off in 30 minutes and then ask for the rest of the hour back just to be cheap. I'm talking about cases where there is an uncomfortable situation where I have to resort to asking someone to leave and lose money due to that. To be clear, I won't refund money just because someone got off faster and wants a discount - I need to make a living and I expect everyone who books an allotted time to stick to that time.

 

Think about it, you are meeting strangers from internet (here we didn't even see each other's faces) and anything can happen, it's not guaranteed to work out every time, and clients can't expect us to tolerate anything or go along things we don't want to do (that's going into assault territory) just because we are escorts. At that point, that's when trauma from the job happens, which I want to avoid, as most clients don't behave this way - something that men like that won't ever understand. Kicking someone out is a small minority of cases (like 2% of the time if that) but it happens. I'm not also responsible for this guys' frustration towards women or sexual frustration for not getting off or inability to ask for money back instead of running away - but he blamed me for that, which tbh isn't my fault? lol. I'm sure this man would act the exact same if he was on an unpaid date with a civilian woman and she didn't put out, it's just this type of personality which doesn't reflect on his own behaviour.

 

Last thing I'm going to say here is, if you want a "rough" session or whatever, make sure to ask for that before you book the person, maybe some people are fine with it. Like "Hi my name is Bob and I'm looking for submissive escort and something rough, do you do that?" In fact it's generally good if you have anything specific you'd like to explore to write it in your initial message BEFORE paying a deposit and agreeing to a time. Don't surprise people.