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Hello! I was wondering if anyone has seen Sonia Dubois before? I just had a quick question I figured someone here could help with rather than me filling out her full booking form. 

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AS

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48 minutes ago, spencer00 said:

Looks like a recent review on a Winnipeg board.

Wow. That combined with the other thread on the same forum where she is quite rude in multiple messages...

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She requests not to be reviewed or discussed on the forums. If people choose to not honour that request they invite a bit of sass. I would also be tired of having my boundaries pushed. 

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16 hours ago, Njosnavelin said:

She requests not to be reviewed or discussed on the forums. If people choose to not honour that request they invite a bit of sass. I would also be tired of having my boundaries pushed. 

 

It is still a very bad look to be rude over the forums. There are far better alternatives instead. Such as Dm the op and ask they remove the review.  It says a lot about the overall experience you MAY possible have with the provider as a whole. I for one would deffinitly take it as a negative. And possible not reach out to boom at all. There needs to be respect and kindness on both sides.  

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2 hours ago, NewGuy_411 said:

 

It is still a very bad look to be rude over the forums. There are far better alternatives instead. Such as Dm the op and ask they remove the review.  It says a lot about the overall experience you MAY possible have with the provider as a whole. I for one would deffinitly take it as a negative. And possible not reach out to boom at all. There needs to be respect and kindness on both sides.  

I agree. I’ve definitely had negative/rude interactions with providers which made me stop talking to them and not book. I remember a thread here a while ago about a specific provider who tours here and I was far from the only person who found her to be quite rude. She, of course, responded defensively and rudely on the thread. I think it was taken down.

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To each their own. Personally, when I see someone standing up for themselves after being clear on their boundaries it endears me to them. OP decided to start a thread here after visiting another forum from a different region where a service provider objected after their request not to be discussed or reviewed on forums was ignored . Then these guys complain the SP is rude when they get called out...

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1 hour ago, Njosnavelin said:

To each their own. Personally, when I see someone standing up for themselves after being clear on their boundaries it endears me to them. OP decided to start a thread here after visiting another forum from a different region where a service provider objected after their request not to be discussed or reviewed on forums was ignored . Then these guys complain the SP is rude when they get called out...

I started this thread but not the other one in question. I hadn't seen that thread before I posted here. Also until I read that thread I didn't know that Sonia Dubois having a "no reviews" policy also meant "no open discussion of any kind" which I think is taking it a little far. I also wasn't asking for a review but I know many providers are pretty short and sometimes rude when they get asked questions before a booking I was just trying to avoid bothering her.

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1 hour ago, Sonia DuBois said:

hello, I was just about to place an ad here. As this isnt a PERB/TERB/MERB related site I will respond here. In order to respond on one of those sites, you have to be a paid advertiser. You also have to be a paid advertiser to access the blacklist - which is a safety concern. Either way, both of these things take away power from women working in this industry. There was no way for me to respond to this, as I left Winnipeg. The only reason why I advertised on that board, which attracts the lowest tier of clientele accross Canada, was due to it being the main advertising site in Winnipeg. The man lied several times and was pushy in the booking. I did ask PERB to review it and even sent the screenshots, but they do not care as the client has been on the site for 8 years and I only payed like 50 bucks for an ad, and I toured to winnipeg 4 times since 2020. So clearly the regular paying client who writes reviews gets the pass.

 

You have to realize we are women working in adult entertainment. We are bound to encounter dangerous and pushy and rude men, that can weild power over us by threatening bad reviews (motivation for him was a power trip). There is also a positive review on there from years ago, and I believe things were written here as well as I toured to Halifax in 2022 and I am touring April 11-22 and possibly Moncton for a few days after.

 

I may seem short in the messages, because random men don't read the ad and text me trying to start some kind of conversation. It's clear from the ad, read the booking form or provide the info to book. You have no idea how many men timewaste. That being said, I've lived overseas. Maybe my speech seems "rude" to some Canadians who are used to a less direct way of speaking - especially in smaller cities like Winnipeg or Halifax, it's a cultural difference as well. 

 

A few bad apples ruin this and think because I am an escort I have to tolerate anything in a booking, as well as harassment, disrespect, dehuminization and even stalking (which happened once on my last tour to Halifax). This may be customer service, but I still have to enforce boundaries and speak up if I feel uncomfortable, and I have a right to ask someone to leave if they are being aggressive.

 

This client on Perb also lied, saying my hair was black and I was mid 40s, and he was in the room for over 30 minutes as he arrived 20 minutes early and I have screenshots of this. He was grabbing my face and being aggressive, and I asked him to leave due to this. He did not ask for a refund for the 30 minutes he had left, he didn't even make eye contact and just ran away, then texted me "I'm going to leave a bad review". Generally if someone leaves halfway through the session for whatever reason, they ask for a refund - which he didn't. He literally ran out the door when I told him he was being too pushy and I was stopping the booking. He said the session only went on for 10 minutes and nothing happened, which was also a lie as we had sex. Clearly he wanted something that he could throw around because again, some people see us as vulnerable and having to take anything instead of realizing that the majority of our clientele being nice and respectable men. I have the right to withdraw consent anytime. Which clearly made this guy upset and act childish on the internet instead of taking responsibility for why I kicked him out. Also, a lot of workers go along with pushy behaviour but everyone has their own boundaries and sorry, grabbing my face and pushing me around is too aggressive. Maybe for someone else it would be fine, but that's exactly why client's shouldn't just assume because someone else was okay with it (or afraid to say no), everyone will be. And sorry he couldn't coerce or threaten me with a bad review to make me change my mind, he should have asked for a refund for the 30 minutes he didn't use.

 

In terms of the boards - Lyla is fine, and CAF in Alberta is great. It's mainly regional - we have to advertise on boards depending on the region we are touring to because some sites have all the traffic, it's just where the local clientele go. This applies to smaller cities in Canada. Larger cities use Tryst. Lyla is where the east coast clients go, not tryst, and in winnipeg, they mainly go to PERB, not tryst. Same thing with CAF in Alberta, and I tour to Alberta like 7 times since 2021, and I don't have a bad review on there. But that's where I have to advertise to find clients. That being said I ask for no reviews because I don't like play by play summaries of sexual encounters online, I find it a bit weird to read about myself, and I've been doing this job for years, and I only got bad reviews by assholes with some kind of vendetta.

 

Anyway my tour is confirmed and I appreciate the business of any clientele who are respectful and don't view me as a commodity. We are people as well and unfortunately this job attracts some terrible people, and I wish for any women working this job not to encounter them nor be punished when they also have to fear for their safety. It is not fair to us to have to literally FEAR some men (rape, assault, robbery, stalking, murder, bad reviews, mental distress reading hateful shit on the internet) and we have the right to ask them to leave, and we should also have the right to respond to them on a board or list them as being dangerous - which I did not as my paid advertisment ran out. Luckily the admin on LYLA are good and I can also reccomend to East Coast workers to tour to Alberta and use CAF, because the clientele on there are good and the Mod is good as well. Thanks.

 

The last thing I'm going to say is, if you are a client that saw me on my 2022 tour to Halifax (I was in Halifax for two months) and you had an OK or good time lol, please feel free to respond here to this thread. I'd apprecaite it.

Hi Sonia D!

I’m sorry to hear that happened to you but doesn’t entirely surprise me as I’ve heard from a few other providers they don’t enjoy tours in Winnipeg as the men are too aggressive. I appreciate the post and detail you provided here and I truly hope you have a much better time here in Halifax than you did out west. I’ll have to see if I can find any free time to meet with you while you’re here.

Do you have a twitter account where you post some occasional additional photos or are the only pics you have on your Tryst and website? I find sometimes it’s nice to see some more casual and less heavily edited pics to go along with the professional photos. I saw twitter mentioned elsewhere for you but couldn’t actually find an account when I looked. 


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AS

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I never had an issue in Winnipeg nor have I had any other issue that was serious like rape or robbery. He was just very pushy and of course then I feel fearful and it's not the first time this has happened, but it's the threat itself. Also I don't welcome the guy stalking me the last time to try to book me in Halifax and his name starts with K on here so if you see something he posts, I didn't meet him. I am busy right now but I will atttach screenshot and place the ad later. Winnnipeg is kind of sketch in general but I had 4 tours there and no issue before. However, Winnipeg is extremely lucrative to tour especially in winter because nobody goes then. But I wont return as I refuse to pay PERB, though I can recommend to tour there as you make $$$ quickly. I have been to Halifax before, for 2 months in 2022. I deleted twitter and don't use social media sorry, it's just too energy absorbing.

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so here is the only screenshot I have which outlines what happened - as you can see I didn't respond to the threat of the bad review. I forgot to mention that online in the "review" he also posted the address of where I was staying. I mentioned that to PERB, and they may have removed it. To be honest I didn't want to read the thread or care

 

https://imgur.com/a/t5vobfk.

 

He should know that when he arrives, that's when his booking time starts - if he aims to arrive early to try to squeeze out unpaid time for a 1 hour booking, he pays for that time. I could be still with another client, showering, or cleaning. Just arrive at the scheduled time.

 

Also, this guy pretended he didn't know what he was doing and saying he was "new to this" for the excuse that he he was early and grabbed my face and forced me to kiss him aggressively so I couldn't move my head at all (both hands around my head holding it in place) meanwhile he was a reviewer online for 8 years.

 

Anyway, meeting someone for a sexual encounter isn't guaranteed 100% of the time to be good regardless if you meet an escort or not. If someone asks you to leave, ask for the remainder of the time back (as long as it's not 30 minutes or less of a payment because you then just waste the escort's time & income). Don't freak out and write a bad review if money is the concern or you feel you were "ripped off" after running away and not asking for the remainder of the money back. And also, if you book 1 hour don't get off in 30 minutes and then ask for the rest of the hour back just to be cheap. I'm talking about cases where there is an uncomfortable situation where I have to resort to asking someone to leave and lose money due to that. To be clear, I won't refund money just because someone got off faster and wants a discount - I need to make a living and I expect everyone who books an allotted time to stick to that time.

 

Think about it, you are meeting strangers from internet (here we didn't even see each other's faces) and anything can happen, it's not guaranteed to work out every time, and clients can't expect us to tolerate anything or go along things we don't want to do (that's going into assault territory) just because we are escorts. At that point, that's when trauma from the job happens, which I want to avoid, as most clients don't behave this way - something that men like that won't ever understand. Kicking someone out is a small minority of cases (like 2% of the time if that) but it happens. I'm not also responsible for this guys' frustration towards women or sexual frustration for not getting off or inability to ask for money back instead of running away - but he blamed me for that, which tbh isn't my fault? lol. I'm sure this man would act the exact same if he was on an unpaid date with a civilian woman and she didn't put out, it's just this type of personality which doesn't reflect on his own behaviour.

 

Last thing I'm going to say here is, if you want a "rough" session or whatever, make sure to ask for that before you book the person, maybe some people are fine with it. Like "Hi my name is Bob and I'm looking for submissive escort and something rough, do you do that?" In fact it's generally good if you have anything specific you'd like to explore to write it in your initial message BEFORE paying a deposit and agreeing to a time. Don't surprise people.

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A few things I’ve found.  

First, I would note that she’s been a member here since 2016.

Second, I found an old ad of hers where she says she’s “moving to Berlin March 1, 2018” which uses almost all of the same pictures from her most recent ad. That ad from 2018 listed her age as 32.

Third, there are a scattering of posts from her or taking about her on other forums. I would encourage others to google “Sonia Dubois escort” and read through them to get a sense of her personality (at least how she comes across on the internet).

I am genuinely curious to hear from someone who has first hand (in person) experience with her. Please PM me. I promise not to reveal any details publicly so as to “out” you as the source.

I hope everyone stays happy and healthy. And remember folks, giving out your PII details to a stranger on the internet is always a risk. Even if they are in a good space now and genuinely believe they would never share that  information publicly, that might not always be the case. And once it’s out there, it’s out there.

 

 

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Hey everyone,

I had the pleasure of meeting Sonia a few nights ago, and I just wanted to share what a genuinely great experience it was. She’s very selective about who she sees and clearly takes her health and hygiene seriously; something I highly value and respect. From the moment we met, she was warm, respectful, and the entire experience felt more like spending time with a caring girlfriend than anything fake. She’s also incredibly beautiful with a stunning figure.

What stood out the most to me was how attentive and invested she was in making sure I felt comfortable and enjoyed myself. The time was about ME. She had the most wonderful smile the entire time and seemed to be enjoying our time together just as much. Of course I'm not naive and I know there's a certain level of acting involved, however, the fact that there was a certain level of connection and enjoyment was something I haven’t experienced with other SPs.

I’d absolutely recommend seeing her, but please, treat her with the kindness and respect she deserves so she’ll want to come back.

About her age, I'm cant confirm 100%. I would say that she lots a bit of weight since she's taken her pictures which is totally normal. She looked in her early 30s to me but of course I haven't seen her ID or anything haha. I can say that she's really pretty with beautiful eyes and a gorgeous face. I am really tempted to see her again though.

After meeting her, I’m confident that any negative experience anyone might’ve had would only be due to them not respecting her boundaries. Paying for someone’s time is never a license to disregard their comfort or dignity. Respect goes both ways, and Sonia certainly offers hers.

 

I can provide more details in PM as far as it would be within the boundaries of respecting her and my own privacy.

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I would note a few more things. First, as of this writing, both that poster and Sonia have the exact same last login time (rounded to the hour). That post is also inconsistent with what I was messaged from a trusted user. I went ahead and loaded that post, along with testimonials from her site, her self description on another site, and her post above, into an AI model. It says the following (note, I mean no offense to anyone, but I am interested in making sure both SP’s and clients have a safe and enjoyable experience):

 

Stylistic & Structural Comparison

1. Grammar & Punctuation

  • The second forum post is grammatically clean, uses polished punctuation, complete sentences, and avoids casual errors.
  • This aligns with Sonia’s self-description and testimonials, but not with the first forum post, which has many grammar and spelling issues.

Inference: The second forum post matches Sonia’s edited voice, not her raw voice. If she wrote it, she was being careful and intentional.

2. Tone & Vocabulary

  • The second forum post uses phrases like:
    • “Attentive and invested”
    • “Health and hygiene seriously”
    • “Time was about ME”
    • “A caring girlfriend”
    • “Respect goes both ways”

These match closely with wording and themes in Sonia’s self-description and testimonials, which emphasize:

  • Attentiveness
  • Connection and communication
  • Mutual respect
  • Cleanliness, professionalism, boundaries

Inference: The voice in the second forum post sounds suspiciously like Sonia writing in the role of a client, echoing exactly the brand values and buzzwords from her own marketing language.

3. Self-Promotion Consistency

  • The second forum post makes a targeted defense against possible criticisms (re: age, appearance, being “rude”).
  • It also contains “planted” clarifications about the experience being consensual, warm, and client-focused — while explicitly saying “any negative experience… would only be due to them not respecting her boundaries.”

This directly mirrors the first forum post’s core defense: that bad reviews result from boundary violations, and that she shouldn’t be judged by those.

Inference: The message structure in the second forum post supports her business narrative, rather than feeling like an independently motivated client reflection.

4. Subtle Tells

  • One phrase stands out in the second post:
    “Of course I’m not naive and I know there’s a certain level of acting involved…”
    This level of detachment and awareness is unusual for a client post and mirrors Sonia’s own nuanced, intellectual tone from her bio.
  • Additionally, note the oddly detailed age comment:
    “I would say that she lots a bit of weight since she’s taken her pictures…”
    This sort of phrasing is more likely to come from someone talking about themselves indirectly.

Conclusion: High Likelihood of Self-Written Post

With all of the above in mind, and under the assumption that Sonia wrote both the bio and the first forum post:

  • It is very likely — bordering on certain — that the second forum post was written by Sonia DuBois herself, posing as a client.
  • The writing matches her curated voice.
  • The themes, vocabulary, structure, and messaging are aligned with her brand.
  • It addresses known criticisms and reinforces her preferred narrative.

Probability estimate (if useful):

85–95% chance the second forum post is not a real client review, but a self-authored defense disguised as one.

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The first time I posted a review about Rosalie French, I got a warning because I didn't have enough posts. Maybe that will settle the score because I don't think Sonia would create a fake account to post about another SP lol.

 

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5 minutes ago, SincereSerenade said:

I mean I don't need to prove anything to you but I would say, same way you can use AI to determine if something is fake, people can use it to reword/proof their writing.

If you’re real just keep doing your thing. Gain some time on the site and give some reviews which other more veteran members agree and report similar to you. Then eventually people will begin to trust your opinion as well. What you don’t do is get defensive when someone comments they would rather see a review from someone who has been on the site more than a month. 

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That makes sense. However, this came a bit stronger than I would've hoped to. Also, I'm just trying to help people. Help the clients to find service from someone good, and help a SP if I can. I don't stand to gain anything except putting time, especially during working hours going back and forth about this.

But I'm with you. Over time, everyone will be clear. Have a great rest of the day.

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On 4/14/2025 at 10:31 AM, SamIsDTF said:

 

A few things I’ve found.  

First, I would note that she’s been a member here since 2016.

Second, I found an old ad of hers where she says she’s “moving to Berlin March 1, 2018” which uses almost all of the same pictures from her most recent ad. That ad from 2018 listed her age as 32.

Third, there are a scattering of posts from her or taking about her on other forums. I would encourage others to google “Sonia Dubois escort” and read through them to get a sense of her personality (at least how she comes across on the internet).

I am genuinely curious to hear from someone who has first hand (in person) experience with her. Please PM me. I promise not to reveal any details publicly so as to “out” you as the source.

I hope everyone stays happy and healthy. And remember folks, giving out your PII details to a stranger on the internet is always a risk. Even if they are in a good space now and genuinely believe they would never share that  information publicly, that might not always be the case. And once it’s out there, it’s out there.

 

 

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I wasnt going to answer this, but this is a scraper site. I never posted on escort20

 

Also the age doesn't add up per year but try again.... 

 

I've been booked for the past 5 days. If I was mid 40s, someone would have written that on here by now, because everyone has found me through this website. I also spent 2 months here in 2022.... and nobody wrote anything. You are talking about some isolated incident in Winnipeg with some psycho I had to kick out to justify some argument when you're not even going to book me.

 

It would take you guys less time to book and see for yourself if I look 50, 40 or 30 or younger with the amount of unpaid time some of you spend on here which you could have been using to just work to afford to book someone.

 

I didn't make a "shill" account - if you don't believe me about that, write the mods and see that it's not the same IP address.

 

And TBH? I'm starting to get the feeling some of these "clients" posting here are actually "shilling" for local women as I'm touring, in some attempt to ruin business.

 

You want to know why I didn't update my pics in years? I look exactly the same. The last photoshoot I did was 2022 - first photos of my ad, and 2023, in the black lingerie kneeling. Go to my website and obsessively look that up as well, then you should take that pic and put it next to the other pics, go back and forth, and realize that maybe my toenail polish was a different colour. There's literally no reason NOT to use these photos. If I didn't look like my photos, again, someone would have mentioned it by now.

 

I welcome any "veteran" client's booking to "validate" me or whatever. The thing is, my base rate is 500. That's peanuts for someone with actual money. They don't spend hours researching people "maybe this maybe that" for some one hour booking- they just book. The guy in Winnipeg was an uber driver and I have the SMS record of that. For him it was a lot of money but he retartedly ran away not asking for half back. That is HIS problem.

 

And now please go off about "my personality" and spend countless hours obsessing over me for no reason. 

 

Cuz everyone needs to know every single little negative thing you can scrape together for what I'm like so the local girls can still make money right? I really question the motivation behind this since clearly, you don't want to book me, so why are you trying to find these slivers of negative shit? Using the same pics? Asking people to DM you to talk about me? Kind of a bit of a reach dont' you think? You should have just written a fake bad review, it would have been less obvious you were trying to sabotage my tour then this bullshit.

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