Is Anal All It's CRACKED Up To Be ?!

[Guest W***ledi*Time]

when u watch porn movie and the girls bend over and spread there butt checks that is not a small whole must be all the anal they do so it must be the more you do it the more the whole get's bigger

 

Remember that they've prepared off-camera.

[Roxcii Rachelle 696]

I went out today and bought a plug to use , so like suggested , I am going to start off slow and be in complete control of it myself ! Hopefully it isn't too painful , and I can get the hang of it .. This should prepare me to take the next step ! :)

[cat 262460]

It seems to me that anal has now become mainstream and everyone is expecting it or expected to give it. Almost all porn includes it now. There is novelty and excitement surrounding it because it's TABOO and DIRTY and in all honesty I like it, but once you've had it on a regular basis it's no big deal.

 

I do however like the dominance it provides....the sense of control over the receiver. It's easier for a lady to push a guy away when he's just entering her regular holes but in the ass it's just got this control factor that raises the level of excitement. Just my humble opinion.

 

I think girls that really enjoy it, enjoy this part of it more than the physical feeling.

 

The control factor is not what I enjoy. My partner is not in control in any way when I play anally. He is on his back, laying flat sometimes tied to the bed even. I very seldom do anal on my knees as it does nothing for me in that position. For me it is the physical sensation itself...

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[bewlayb 7480]

I went out today and bought a plug to use , so like suggested , I am going to start off slow and be in complete control of it myself ! Hopefully it isn't too painful , and I can get the hang of it .. This should prepare me to take the next step ! :)

 

Not to be voyeuristic, but I would be curious to know how this initial experiment goes for you. I mean, whether you enjoyed it or not. I hope you update us.

[Roxcii Rachelle 696]

Not to be voyeuristic, but I would be curious to know how this initial experiment goes for you. I mean, whether you enjoyed it or not. I hope you update us.

yes for sure , keep looking for updates

[Jazzitup 5652]

Ladiitrill,

 

Is it a vibrating plug? Would you consider using one of those?

[Chanel Reign 28097]

Goodness how did I miss this thread?? Oh yes, I was having a salon day!

 

May I suggest NEVER starting off with a strap on or a hard penis. One works up to this by stages. At the rate of the receiver. If you start out slow and already hot and bothered, a distraction such as caressing or kissing other body parts makes you relax. That is the key. Your partner should have a variety of sizes of plugs and little finger vibes. They should also tell you what they're doing so there are no unpleasant surprises.

 

But it is also in your head. There are a myriad of emotions that are attached to this activity. Vulnerability, sexual excitement, chemistry with the person you're with, etc etc, and for me..one horny lady.

 

It's really not for everybody, not even a little teasing; but it also is a wonderful area for both sexes to explore because, yes, the orgasms are different and awesome.

 

Pleasing someone this way is even better, but everyone's mmv.

[Roxcii Rachelle 696]

Ladiitrill,

 

Is it a vibrating plug? Would you consider using one of those?

No it not a vibrating plug , but I'm sure if this plug works well I would be willing to try a vibrating one !

[stevecurious 42059]

No it not a vibrating plug , but I'm sure if this plug works well I would be willing to try a vibrating one !

 

Remember, not all

are safe for anal play...

[Old Dog 179138]

Remember, not all

are safe for anal play...

 

I was thinking the same way....http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P6VftPFWtwE

[stevecurious 42059]

I was thinking the same way....http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P6VftPFWtwE

 

On a related note I think I had this toy when I was a child.

 

[Roxcii Rachelle 696]

On a related note I think I had this toy when I was a child.

 

 

Lol , thanks for the heads up

[Old Dog 179138]

[stevecurious 42059]

 

With fries and a Coke?

 

Great post Old Dog but I wonder if we should steer the conversation back on topic...seems like I deviated from the discussion with the Transformer anal toy (ages 18+).

[Roxcii Rachelle 696]

With fries and a Coke?

 

Great post Old Dog but I wonder if we should steer the conversation back on topic...seems like I deviated from the discussion with the Transformer anal toy (ages 18+).

I think the Transformer would be a fun little toy ! :) I would LOVE to invest in one of those !

[stevecurious 42059]

I think the Transformer would be a fun little toy ! :) I would LOVE to invest in one of those !

 

On a related note I think I had this toy when I was a child.

 

 

I will have to get into my attic and look for my old toy box...

[Roxcii Rachelle 696]

I will have to get into my attic and look for my old toy box...

 

That would be GREAT ! ;) I'm looking forward to it

[Jazzitup 5652]

I would think if you were just starting out and experimenting, that the plug should mage of a soft/pliable material. And be sure to use it with a condom and then keeping it clean is easier.

[Roxcii Rachelle 696]

So I finally tried it out ! It isnt as bad as I thought it would be , but anal is not for me I dont think .. It was interesting but it did not make me feel good sexually so I think I am going to stay away from that until the right time , but thanks everyone for all the advice and tips ! I appreciate it , xo

[stevecurious 42059]

I think I can speak for the guys when I say:

 

[Old Dog 179138]

So I finally tried it out ! It isnt as bad as I thought it would be , but anal is not for me I dont think .. It was interesting but it did not make me feel good sexually so I think I am going to stay away from that until the right time , but thanks everyone for all the advice and tips ! I appreciate it , xo

 

Glad you said that... went to the doc for the annual checkup today. I discovered that anal is not for me either. Of course, he didn't leave me an envelope in clear view nor did he try to sweet talk me. I must say that I was rather unprepared for the intrusion. All I heard was " drop trow, I need to check for hernias and prostrate problems".... then AYE CARUMBA!!!!! I sobbed a little bit. Went home and read some Jane Austen and put on a Hugh Grant movie to console myself. I felt so... so... so... ummmm... violated.

 

For Steve... I know!!!! Dinner would have been nice. Even a cuddle. He won't call again, I know it.

[toine 30556]

Hugh Grant! I feel for you, you must've felt real bad...

[Old Dog 179138]

Yup. I watched "Notting Hill", "Love Actually" and "About a Boy".... crying over my little tub of Hagen Dazs Cookies and Cream... and then I put on Norah Jones, Sade and Savage Garden. It was that awful.

[stevecurious 42059]

Old Dog, what you described sounds familiar...oh yeah!

 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xHKTE75dgE4

[Old Dog 179138]

Yup. That was pretty much it. Except I did have the dignity to pull up my pants... and my walk was a little... ummm... well let's just say that my gait was a degree or two wider.