deepthroat & facefucking service?

[Sensual Erin 33928]

I am a supporter. lol! I don't mind blunt either, but maybe it could have been worded differently and not so to the point? This is the OP's first post so we can cut him some slack. I opened it so my old school eyes can reap the benefits as I am more on the conservative side on these things. I googled and there is no other way to express this Urban acronym, I don't think. ; ) Will I share this knowledge at my next dinner party? Nope, but it can be entertaining and this is the place to ask. Mind you, I think the OP should have gone through the list of SP's that offer PSE services and asked by pm rather than publically.

 

Another note I would like to mention is this is the first thread this OP has started. I think a little bit of good rapport and history is warrented before this kind of thing is asked. The ladies have no idea who you are yet and it's innapropriate to just ask publically before you make your presence known here. The ladies here need to feel safe and valued.

 

 

Haha I assume this was intended for me big guy. Definately not PG ! It has turned into quite an entertaining thread ! I am quite enjoying it

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I didn't want to add negative points to your rep Sinnister, but this is the OP's first thread here. I think it's disrespecful until he establishes himself on this board as a contributer. Not the way to introduce yourself and it puts the ladies at risk who are recommended with no previous rapport. This act takes great trust and YMMV. However, like I said in an earlier thread, it is his first post and we all conduct ourselves accordingly. Not the words but the quick to jump into the most blunt of questions on an introduction that rubbed me the wrong way.. It's not polite in my opinion.

 

Haha I assume this was intended for me big guy. Definately not PG ! It has turned into quite an entertaining thread ! I am quite enjoying it

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Let's look at this for what it is. For the most part we are men (and some ladies) on a website discussing sex. Vulgarity? Bluntness? C'mon man. This isn't a pg 13 site.

[Capital Hunter 18263]

I have been avoiding this thread until now (I have not read the posts) but the rather (in my view) vulgar title was right before my eyes almost everytime that I came to the Ottawa section. I wanted to read other posts in Ottawa section but for several days this has been the case. Could it not have been worded differently but conveying the same message at least in the title. That is why we have acronyms like fs, daty, kitty.......Steering away from the thread is an option but not seeing the title is NOT.

[Cowboy kenny 50799]

The terms are more common that some of you might think, and we're all adults here aren't we ? To the best of my knowledge there's not gentle way to put it it's an intense act.

 

Oh wait how about facial fornication, I'm not trying to be a wise ass, it's certainly not as offensive and more clinical in the description of the requested act.

 

We all realize that the more we talk about how this thread could be offensive it keeps getting bumped up on the front page for the title to be seen in plain view ? :)

[Capital Hunter 18263]

I suggested using the acronyms instead of the vulgar four letter word that I very much hate to see or hear, if there are any for facewhatever (COF is the acronym I think). As I said my problem is with the title staring in my eyes everytime I try to come to this section. The content can be whatever, I just don't open up the thread or read the posts (I have this option but as I said not seeing the title is not my option).

[Megan'sTouch 23875]

This is an adult escorting board. Sorry to be harsh, but if the word FUCK offends you so much, maybe this isn't the right place for you.

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[Sensual Erin 33928]

I agree with SA. I'm finished with this thread and not many see that this question was his first intro on here. Not polite at all.

[Malika Fantasy 144625]

fuck is a bad word now? damn...I am going to hell now to all the time I actually use it:D

 

I don't see saying fuck as being impolite (ok if it's around kids, yes), but an adult board...come on! and face fucking is an expression, there isn't any acronym for that.

 

:bj:

[Guest E*******h S******s]

Whether the question itself is polite or not seems to be subjective so my opinion with respect to same is immaterial. However, as Erin stated, the OP has no standing on the board and is asking for a service that requires a fairly high level of trust from an SP. It is a service that puts an SP in a state of significant vulnerability in my estimation. If you don't know the client you are offering the service to, things can go south pretty darn quickly.

[Guest W***ledi*Time]

We're talking irrumatio, it seems. Not that I'd have had a clue what this means without the artful aid of google.

 

http://sexsecrets.wordpress.com/2008/07/06/irrumatio-even-better-than-fellatio/

[Capital Hunter 18263]

It is an adult escort board but many adults (I believe the majority) would consider the use of the four letter word as inappropriate, especially in public. I think Most People would avoid a person who randomly uses this word in conversation (specially at work or in gatherings) and the society will reject that person as a person of desire to mix and make friend with. That said, I believe in the total freedom of expression as far as it doesn't infringe on my freedom and right of not seeing or hearing it. Btw, I decide if the board is for me or not (and of course the mod and the town council). All I suggested was the use of acronyms instead....I am done with this thread too.

[scribbles 6031]

I agree with Megan and Malika. I find it hard to believe that the word "fucking" is so abusive to sensitive eyes that it's presence in a title should keep anyone from reading other posts. So, if the subject matter is unpleasant to you (and I'm not big on something that aggressive either), just don't read the thread.

 

I also agree there is a considerable amount of trust the SP would need to have. The standing or seniority of the OP is irrelevant. In fact, isn't it best that this question be voiced and answered by all involved here, in a forum, instead of in person without warning? Sounds safer to me.

[Old Dog 179138]

Let's agree to disagree and move on. This will get too heated and names will be called, feelings will be hurt and someone may lose an eye.

[roamingguy 300292]

Let's agree to disagree and move on. This will get too heated and names will be called, feelings will be hurt and someone may lose an eye.

 

Would have given you rep points my friend, but got to spread the luv around

Bang on, let's agree to disagree and move on

RG

[Sensual Erin 33928]

Oh forget the eyes! lol! I wanted to give you rep points but already spread them around today. I will have marshmallows though. : ) Let this thread go RIP.

 

Haha I assume this was intended for me big guy. Definately not PG ! It has turned into quite an entertaining thread ! I am quite enjoying it

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Let's agree to disagree and move on. This will get too heated and names will be called, feelings will be hurt and someone may lose an eye.

[castle 38816]

fuck is a bad word now? damn...I am going to hell now to all the time I actually use it:D

:bj:

 

You and me both!! Oh well....at least we'll have a great fucking time down there ;)

 

And I just gotta say reading several of the ladies' posts on this thread has turned me right on like nobody's business!!

[Cowboy kenny 50799]

This is the kind of thing that scares people off from posting and asking questions here, the OP has been a memeber for almost a year. Be it is fist question or 1,000 post he's entiled to ask in a respectful manner, which he did. He decided to ask a question about something that he was curious about. Let's not be so quick to judge about the act but to be more friendly and develop a sense of community rather than judgmental silos.

 

We all agree it's service that some providers offer but usually not to a first time visitor and with good reason, like any other extreme services there is a level of trust and communication between all involved for the event to be carried off successfully.

 

As I suggested earlier perhaps for the faint of heart around here we should refer to the act as facial fornication.

[mmad 2842]

I must be somewhat of a prude! I found this thread funny and informative. Never heard of "irrumatio" or "facexx" before. Thanks folks for the many laughs. ;)

[The General 11309]

In public, and mixed company I try to be careful when I express things, to not offend people in general. But I figured on CERB, that this is really a sexually related site, and that being able to be more direct and use terms that are clear, but perhaps something we would not use in public, to be something that should be okay and acceptable the members. So, it surprises me, and particularly lately, that there has been some fuss about the language used on this site. I don't think the OP was trying to be offensive, certainly didn't direct anything to anyone in particular, but was direct and clear. So, I didn't take offense, in fact, I sent a recommendation via PM. I would hope in general, the use of the specific language on this site would not in itself be considered offensive.

[Gabriella Laurence 301887]

After reading this entire thread, I have two questions...

 

How was the OP supposed to ask his question in order NOT to offend anyone with the facefucking part?

Is there a specific format one should follow when asking questions regarding the more "taboo" subjects?

[Mister T 45020]

After reading this entire thread, I have a question...

 

How was the OP supposed to ask his question in order NOT to offend anyone with the facefucking part?

Is there a specific format one should follow when asking questions regarding the more "taboo" subjects?

 

I dont think there is a way to ask a question on the more "Taboo" subjects without losing the point, or seeking information like the OP was seeking. I dont think there are many ways of formulating certain questions. And certain activities do not have "rosie" terms or acronyms (what i would call euphemisims).

 

And i'm not sure i would have done much better; how many ways can this activity be called, really???? ... the question was clear and CERB is a sex site in the end. That includes things that are taboo and that not everyone likes.

 

What i do like in this thread is that there were great responses to the OP's question on his chosen topic.

[BownChickaBown 4829]

hey everyone i am wondering if anyone can recommend a good pse escort for deepthroat facefucking and gagging? thanks

 

Great virgin post joshs00!

 

I could not make such a recommendation for someone to provide such services upon a first rendez-vous here in this market, as in my experience, it's something which takes a building of trust before getting to, especially for gagging, assuming the person even offers all these services in the first place.

 

I've found most success by doing my PSE research and building a good rapport with a lady before respectfully inquiring further. I find sex talk is not unfamiliar to the ladies I have the pleasure of meeting, and they are often very open-minded to talking about pleasures, dislikes, services, boundaries - as much as sometimes during and encounter one does not even have to ask about deepthroating and facefucking, as the SP will simply proceed themselves if they feel comfortable and are in the mood.

 

Maybe also watch for the touring Pornstars whom come here and inquiry with them, as some of them have literally made careers just with these special skills alone.

 

In the end (or front, depending on how you see it :-P ), I believe I am enjoying a lady's time and company as much as her services.

 

Sorry I couldn't help more.

 

(btw, Thanks to all the ladies who have noted their views :-) very informative as always)

 

It is an adult escort board but many adults (I believe the majority) would consider the use of the four letter word as inappropriate, especially in public.

 

Fuck no!!

What reference do you have for this majority you speak of?

 

That said, I believe in the total freedom of expression as far as it doesn't infringe on my freedom and right of not seeing or hearing it.

 

Fuck what??

What reference do you have for this right you speak of?

 

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[Phaedrus 209521]

How was the OP supposed to ask his question in order NOT to offend anyone with the facefucking part?

 

I have absolutely no idea. As has been said by multiple people already, we're all adults here, and all regularly engaged in some rather adult activities.

 

Is there a specific format one should follow when asking questions regarding the more "taboo" subjects?

 

All I can think of for this is to maybe not put it in the thread title, and to start off by saying something along the lines of "Apologies in advance if this offends anyone, but I can't think of a nice way to ask..." That gives everyone fair warning, and those who don't wish to stumble across things they may consider unpleasant or offensive have had an opportunity to avoid them.

[Capital Hunter 18263]

 

Fuck no!!

What reference do you have for this majority you speak of?

 

Fuck what??

What reference do you have for this right you speak of?

 

 

Good morning BCB:

 

As I woke up to get ready for work To my surprise I received intelligence about this and decided to open up the thread again (as I decided last night to never again open up this thread again) and look for it. No I don't see it as an attack but rather another point of view (which you are fully entitled to) but if I may say so respectfully expressed in an aggressive and likely rude manner by calling out on me even though many wise nice people warned earlier about possible hurt feelings if we continue, but you decided to go ahead anyways and call me out..... In the spirit of friendly and classy cerb (at least most of us are) I won't respond to the first part, but I have to clarify my earlier comments also related to second part of your comment.

 

I should have said the majority of people who I associate with, don't use vulgar language. It is clear that we associate with different majorities lol :-). I apologize for not being clear in my earlier comments. Also to clarify that I was NOT offended by the OP. Not terribly pleased with the title everytime I came to this section, may be but not offended. Yes he has every right to ask what he ask. Could it be phrased differently? May be. I am not sure what that act is but COF comes to my mind. Also as I suggested earlier and repeated by Phaedrus it may have been a good idea to use the explicit words within the post rather than the title. Because the title we all see whether we want it or not but openning up the post and reading it is an option.

 

It is natural to have diverse views in a community. It would be even better if all of us have respect and tolerence for our fellow community members as I always have. The anti-prostitution advocates are trying to paint a false picture that prostitutes are drug addicts and hobbyists are abusive vulgar bunch with some money to abuse those in need. With our posts and debates we counter that false argument and we demonstrate that indeed we are a classy caring community who have respect for each other and can carry out respectful civilized educated debates and cerb in most part is the place for that. It will be a thorn in their eyes lol :-). Have to rush to work lol. Btw, We are on the brink of hijacking this thread lol. Have a great day.

[Gntlmn 796]

Politically-correct self-righteousness on a board primarily dealing with prostitution and other sex-related services ... kinda funny.

Also, "FF" (which nobody brought up but I won't let that stop me) wouldn't work cuz it's too ambiguous (female-female, bra-size, loud music).

 

Okay, how about this for those who like to hijack perfectly nice colourful language:

"VNPAOC" (Vigourous Not-Properly-Accomodated Oral Copulation")?

[VedaSloan 119179]

I agree with SA. I'm finished with this thread and not many see that this question was his first intro on here. Not polite at all.

 

So, he's supposed to write some introduction first before he asks his question? That's bullsh. If the guy wants to know who offers or is into face-fucking, and he wants to post a general request rather than search through a ton of websites and so forth, that is his perogative and I really don't see what the big deal is. We're not little kids.

 

Face-fucking really doesn't require that much trust, even if the guy is holding your head. You know why? Because he's got his dick IN YOUR MOUTH. It goes too far or it goes south or whatever, just fucking bite it off. He won't be holding your head or ramming his dick down your throat then, will he?