Sessions and Time?

[tepic 91]

I'm learning as much as I can here, I've been thinking lately though about how much time a person should plan for for a good session with an SP

 

Obviously the longer the better, but is there such a thing as too little time? I see some SPs advertising as little as 15 minute sessions. That seems really short! Would a 15 or 30 min appointment be worth it? (I mean, as a hobbyist you could indulge more often, but it seems like that would be rushed and you'd be better off saving up for longer sessions. And do SPs actually enjoy short sessions, or do they only offer it to meet demand?)

 

Wondering some thoughts from others on this. Thanks in advance for your knowledge

[fortunateone 156618]

Half hour sessions work really well for both sides, for a variety of reasons. Sometimes it is all the person needs/wants as they have things to do and trying to fit it into their day without having a noticeable absence, or due to physical limitations where the longer session really isn't required.

 

My sessions start with sensual massage, so the idea that a half hour might feel rushed is not the case. There is conversation time, foreplay, stimulation, etc, along with the more obvious activities. There is sometimes a misperception (maybe reviews, maybe porn) that intercourse is "supposed" to last a certain amount of time, but the reality is that it really is unlikely to last for much more than 5 minutes the majority of times. The extra time is used in prep, or if someone is expecting msog, etc, but for many half hour afficianados, they don't have the msog as an option anyway, physically speaking.

 

As an sp, I do enjoy these sessions, and one benefit is that yes the client is likely to repeat more often at that lower rate, shorter time. I do have clients who only take up to 15 minutes, tho I do not offer any sort of 15 minute rate. I don't like the idea of them, I don't feel that it benefits the client in any way, it seems to me more of a money grab than someone doing even half hour sounds like someone who wants to spend some time getting to know you, not just getting you off. Having said that, a 15 min session would be appropriate for someone who does a blow-and-go type of service. If they aren't doing massage, not doing full service, etc, and it is strictly bj and on your way, I can't see that needing more time. In some ads, 15 minutes sessions is just code for bj only, I believe.

 

 

I like the immediacy and spontanaiety also that comes with a half hour option. It is usually a short notice appt, and someone arrives fresh and ready, and off you go, a pleasant and enjoyable lunch break interlude lol..

 

Also for client and sp, it can be better to start off with a shorter session, see how things go, then on a 2nd visit commit to more time. It can also be good for a 2nd or 3rd visit, when the client or sp doesn't have as much time to spare, since they are already familiar with each other, a shorter session can cut to the chase, so to speak.

[Mister C 1725]

For my first visit to an SP I would want at least an hour. Let the two of you get comfortable. A little talking, touching, teasing is a great start. Further visits will depend on what it is you are after. If the SP does offer 30 minutes and thats all you are looking for go for it. Best of luck and enjoy all the wonderful ladies we have to offer.

[roamingguy 300292]

Well for me, if it is my first time with a lady, I like to have a two hour session...and no, not because I'm some marathoner. It allows time to meet, get acquainted, sex, kissing/cuddling. The risk run is this, if you don't click, then it could be two long hours...but if you do click, well one hour goes by pretty fast, and even two hours will be over pretty fast

When I see a lady a second time or more, I usually, no change that, always thus far have a minimum three hour encounter. And just as a little sidebar, with repeat encounters, the dynamic changes, it becomes less sp/client, and more like a friend...with benefits

RG

[Surf_Nazis_Must_Die 8958]

Personally I prefer a longer visit.

 

It helps to have a chance to get settled and relax before getting to business, or a bit of time to do some quick stretches if need be ;)

 

Plus you might be pleasantly surprised if you give yourself a chance to sit down and talk to the lady. Usually some great conversation develops and even though you came with something else in mind, you wind up enjoying yourself in multiple ways.

[mrgreen760 37785]

I think 45 minutes would be perfect for me. And sometimes I get that without even asking :)

 

Peace

MG

[Guest f***2f***]

My personal preference is a minimum one hour with a new SP I've never met before. For a repeat with a favorite minimum 2 hours but 3 is really what I like best.

 

One hour with a newbie gives me a chance to get to know her a little, some teasing and foreplay and some chat after. I usually like to bring some wine, or if it's a morning or afternoon have a soft drink, water or even a coffee or tea together.

 

Two to three hours with a regular really is nice. Relaxing and with all of the above, maybe have some food together, listen to music....take our time...share what's going on in each other's lives a bit (within reason of course).

 

I can't see the 15-30 minute session myself other than a simple release...wham bam and thank you Ma'am...not my cup of tea...but then each to his or her own.

[Katherine of Halifax 113932]

In my opinion 30 minutes is much to short. I am considering not taking any 30 minute appointments in the future unless there is a really good reason.

 

Just my opinion and I am sure there are lots that love the 30 minute appointment. :icon_smile:

[Kubrickfan 12836]

I think you would enjoy yourself more by getting to know the person first a bit .... Otherwise it's just a mechanical act without a lot of sensuality.

 

1 hour minimum.

[whatsup 11893]

I prefer the one hour encounters when meeting new ladies this gives time to chat and become more familiar with one another, and as time avails itself I like to go with two hour encounters with ladies that I have met and cherish.

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

I prefer half hour or one hour appts when meeting new clients. I find that in order to meet someone for 2 hours or more that there has to be a chemistry established because I want the client to enjoy themselves and I want to have a good time as well. I can't tell you how many times in the past that I did a 2-4 hour appt with someone I didn't know and it was zzzzzz. It felt like an eternity because a) I didn't know them b) they weren't much of a conversationalist c) they just laid there and were not very interactive.

 

I never offered half hour appts before but there are guys out there who really don't have time during the day for one hour appts because they may be visiting me on their lunch hour. If it turns out that they just want a quickie, they only paid for a half hour and is a fair price for what I offer. A lot of my favorite regulars come to visit me for a half hour every week or every 2 weeks and they find they are satisfied with the whole experience in that amount of time.

 

Half hours also works for me because I am running another business, and I can skip in and out of my incall location in my own area and do what I need to do instead of just sitting around. When someone wants a half hour of my time, I can get back over there very quickly.

 

I have many clients that visit me for an hour and this is even better if you are looking for MSOG. I also find that most of these clients book in advance which I like. You also have the ability to take things a little slow than a 30 minute appt would allow you.

 

It all depends on what you are looking for. If it's just a little teasing and a nice release, half hours are perfect. If you want to relax, chat, have a drink, be teased, I'd suggest an hour.

[Touch 57501]

Ten years ago I did one hour appointments, now 2 hours appointments are the norm for me, but sometimes I am glad for a 90 minute option. If I hope for a 2nd SOG I am going to need a three hour appointment -- if after the first SOG I seem especially frisky I might ask for an extension of the original appointment if that is possible. I usually make the extension request as early as possible so we can both adjust to the time-frame available.

 

BTW ladies what do you think of extension requests (compensated of course)?

 

(I am pretty much an out-service kind of hobbyist.)

[Carley Chase 18985]

I prefer longer sessions. As you really get to spend quality time together. Its not rushed, you just get the chance to sit back and enjoy each others company. Also it makes you valued.

 

Of course when it is someone you know well, there are different circumstances were you sometimes need to meet in the middle. For whatever reasons. That is fine.

 

Also it is each to there own. I guess it is, what ever you feel comfortable with. As a SP or a hobbiest! Either short or long visits, I am sure the two in company will enjoy them selves.

 

Additional Comments:

 

BTW ladies what do you think of extension requests (compensated of course)?

 

(I am pretty much an out-service kind of hobbyist.)

 

I do not mind extension requests. Although it is normally better to have the duration planned in advance to guarantee longer time together. Because you never know if the lady has plans, for anything, after your guys date!

[SamanthaEvans 166766]

I've done different things at different times, but I've never offered 15 minute service. It doesn't appeal to me and I refuse to do things just because I can do them. I want to enjoy my client.

 

I don't do last-minute or same-day bookings unless the client is an established regular. It's rare to get an appointment with me in the same week a lot of the time. I find the delay and the anticipation to be a good thing. These days, I only offer new clients 2 or 3-hour meetings so that we have time to relax and get acquainted. We've usually exchanged a few e-mails and spoken on the telephone. By the time the client and I meet, I'm eager: I feel like I'm putting all the pieces together, at last and I'm ready to enjoy him and to be at my best for him, too.

 

My 3-hour meetings include lunch or dinner as well as private time. For prospective clients who may be very cautious about things, I offer lunch meetings in a good restaurant with no expectation of time together in private that day. Sometimes I seem to have a lot of these booked; sometimes weeks can go by without one--I'm not sure why.

 

I generally don't book meetings that are more than 4 or 5 hours long unless I know the client fairly well already. Longer meetings just about always include a meal, sometimes a concert, a movie or some other event. I enjoy having an extended time with out of town clients who want to get to know Vancouver a little bit. It's a beautiful city and I'm proud to show visitors my favourite places.

 

Once I've met with someone once, if it went well for both of us, I'm often willing to see him again for a shorter time--an hour or 90 minutes. Half hours are an option, sometimes, too. Many of my returning guests continue to meet with me for 2-3 hours, but others go back and forth between shorter and longer sessions.

 

I decided a long time ago that I wouldn't entertain anyone unless I honestly felt that I would enjoy spending time with him. That's been a good guiding principle for me.

 

BTW ladies what do you think of extension requests (compensated of course)?

 

(I am pretty much an out-service kind of hobbyist.)

 

Extension requests are fine, but I can't offer them much of the time. When I can, I will.