My eyes are up here

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In my experience no lady wants any attention that moves past a compliment to leering, or comments that would make them feel uncomfortable.

 

I believe, If you're interacting with anyone, observe the cultural norm, regarless of dress. In my experience, many cultures have trouble looking directly into the eyes of elders, or people they report to. That doesn't mean I have carte blanche to examine their goods.

 

I think a ladies attire is more about her personal empowerment.

The idea is that you take in the whole picture. Some prefer to accentuate, what they believe is their best assets.

 

In many/most cases the persons dress is suited to the situation. At a standard business office, many ladies don't want to be seen as a sexual object, and may dress professional as a boss, demure as an assistant, powerful and ladylike as a salesperson etc.

 

At night, with their friends, they may dress as best suits their character.

In the bedroom... we can only hope.

 

just some of my thoughts!

[April Dawn 12207]

I like being naked, as such I wear minimal clothes. I'm a very chesty lady and I attract more then my fair share of attention there. Just because its there doesn't mean its for you to leer at. A casual glance I can deal with, if I'm jumping up and down I can understand wandering eyes boobs in motion can be distracting :p Every woman should be free to wear what she wants without someone saying "oh I can do this because

she is dressed like this"

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[bcguy42 38594]

As this article points out, "Interacting with women makes men stupid."

 

http://www.ottawacitizen.com/technology/Interacting+with+women+makes+stupid/5380924/story.html

 

(This is one of those studies where I wish someone had just given me the money and I would have told them yup, of course!)

[SamanthaEvans 166767]

When I dress like that, I fully expect that people will look at me. Sometimes they look too long, leer too much or make comments too loudly; I chalk that up to inexperience or poor manners. Otherwise, I enjoy being appreciated and I won't dress in such a provocative way unless I am prepared to deal with the attention.

 

Notice, if you can, that even when I'm in a very playful mood and barely speak to you when you arrive, I will always look into your eyes for a brief moment before, or while, I move down onto my knees to address you more intimately.

 

Double standards are tricky things. While no man I recall has ever objected to this very familiar, intimate greeting, most women, including me, would probably not find such a greeting appropriate.

 

When you talk to me, talk to me, not my cleavage. I'm a very direct woman. Within 5 seconds of meeting me, you will have no question about whether it's okay to look me in the eye.

[Katherine of Halifax 113932]

When I go out for the evening I dress in any way that suits my mood or the occassion. What other people may think of my attire has no bearing on what I wear, I always dress for myself.

 

Recently my friend Angel and I went out for the evening, we started out in a quiet club before moving on to the dance floors. We did notice that some of the ladies were looking at us us a way that was not flattering to to say the least. We were both very aware of the staring or should I say glaring.

 

It is always fun and interesting to see the reactions of people when they are assessing your attire. Neither of us were offended at the behaviour, I'd say more entertained.

[Megan'sTouch 23875]

Go ahead and check me out, but please don't stare. It makes me uncomfortable.

[Old Dog 179138]

Go ahead and check me out' date=' but please don't stare. It makes me uncomfortable.[/quote']

 

Would a number of well timed, but diligent furtive glances constitute a stare or just a mild ogling?

[Guest E*******h S******s]

Would a number of well timed, but diligent furtive glances constitute a stare or just a mild ogling?

 

If a diligent furtive glance is truly well-timed, it's irrelevant whether it is a stare or a mild ogle as we won't notice when it occurs and therefore won't be offended.:icon_wink:

[jdstar 1065]

When I walk around with my fly open I often draw unwanted attention too. I don't mind a little glance, but I really find the leering a bit uncalled for.

[qwertyaccount 15793]

This seems to be one of those situations where a guy can't ever win.

 

Not all girls, but some, could be doing this while telling me if I can't look her in the eye it's my problem:

 

 

To avoid the possability of ever making anyone the least bit uncomfortable, I'm just going to start wearing these all the time:

 

[Old Dog 179138]

This seems to be one of those situations where a guy can't ever win.

 

Not all girls, but some, could be doing this while telling me if I can't look her in the eye it's my problem:

 

 

To avoid the possability of ever making anyone the least bit uncomfortable, I'm just going to start wearing these all the time:

 

 

and keep a shine on the old patent leather shoes ;)

 

[Lexy Grace 103697]

It doesn't bother me at all, look and I may even give you a wink. I like it when a nice little glance is given and much more the double glance. Makes me think to myself "oh yeah, I still got it" and puts a little pep in my step. But the constant long stare kind of freaks me out.

[qwertyaccount 15793]

 

I wore this on the subway today; some women just stared, some whistled, some yelled "nice junk", some came up to me to talk and spent the whole time just looking at my package and never even looked me in the eye once.

 

I felt like just a piece of meat.

 

Why can't I wear whatever I feel pretty in and be treated like a human being.

[Old Dog 179138]

I know exactly how you feel... this is what I wore out today....

 

[qwertyaccount 15793]

I know exactly how you feel... this is what I wore out today....

 

 

Old Dog, why can't they just love us for our minds?

[Old Dog 179138]

Old Dog, why can't they just love us for our minds?

 

I know man... it hurts. Sometimes I walk down the street and I get those looks, you know the ones I am talking about. Eyes go right to the package... and they stare... and in their minds they are thinkin', "Dance white boy, dance." And I am ashamed to say... I do it. I dance. I dance like no one is watching. I thrust my pelvis backwards and forwards, to and fro, up and down... and they can't see the invisible tears I am shedding. I need a tissue....

[JuliasUndies 7288]

I rarely pay attention to others and where they are looking. I will say im a naughty girl, my man and i will stare at womans breasts in aww, often i ask to touch them and i havent been turned down yet. I always notice if a mans fly is down, and grope those without asking no complaints yet, just sayin

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[roamingguy 300292]

I rarely pay attention to others and where they are looking. I will say im a naughty girl, my man and i will stare at womans breasts in aww, often i ask to touch them and i havent been turned down yet. I always notice if a mans fly is down, and grope those without asking no complaints yet, just sayin

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With my luck I wouldn't run into you though, but this guy instead

Not only complaints, I'd feel dirty and violated, not to mention not be respected for my mind

 

 

RG :-)

[qwertyaccount 15793]

With my luck I wouldn't run into you though, but this guy instead

Not only complaints, I'd feel dirty and violated, not to mention not be respected for my mind

 

 

 

RG :-)

 

I fgeel your pain RG, this guy wouldn't quit felling my ass, telling me how firm it is and all.

 

[roamingguy 300292]

I fgeel your pain RG, this guy wouldn't quit felling my ass, telling me how firm it is and all.

 

 

The pain I can handle, it's the humiliation that hurts LOL

But your post/photo is sending confusing messages, because underneath the photo of "this guy wouldn't quit feeling my ass..." is your signature

"I think making love is the best form of exercise."

-Cary Grant

[JuliasUndies 7288]

With my luck I wouldn't run into you though, but this guy instead

Not only complaints, I'd feel dirty and violated, not to mention not be respected for my mind

 

 

RG :-)

 

You guys are too much!! Hahaha.. I'd touch your junk anytime baby, as long as you stare at my tatas and tell they look like they need a good feel.

[roamingguy 300292]

You guys are too much!! Hahaha.. I'd touch your junk anytime baby, as long as you stare at my tatas and tell they look like they need a good feel.

 

These two guys heard you'd touch their junk and let them stare at your tatas

You can see the reaction

 

 

RG :-)

[JuliasUndies 7288]

These two guys heard you'd touch their junk and let them stare at your tatas

You can see the reaction

 

 

RG :-)

 

Got Junk? damn, I love Junk, any Junk, heck I'd Love to start collecting Junk as a hobby!

[qwertyaccount 15793]

The pain I can handle, it's the humiliation that hurts LOL

But your post/photo is sending confusing messages, because underneath the photo of "this guy wouldn't quit feeling my ass..." is your signature

"I think making love is the best form of exercise."

-Cary Grant

 

I was hoping that the two were separated enough that no one would notice :)

 

These two guys heard you'd touch their junk and let them stare at your tatas

You can see the reaction

RG :-)

 

 

Thanks for the fond memory - I loved that show!

 

You guys are too much!! Hahaha.. I'd touch your junk anytime baby, as long as you stare at my tatas and tell they look like they need a good feel.

 

Julia, here's another place were junk touching is encouraged and staring at tatas occurs:

 

[JuliasUndies 7288]

I was hoping that the two were separated enough that no one would notice :)

 

 

 

 

Thanks for the fond memory - I loved that show!

 

 

 

Julia, here's another place were junk touching is encouraged and staring at tatas occurs:

 

 

You know me so well!!