Cockrings

[castle 38816]

As I've mentioned before in another thread I have difficulty staying errect with a condom on. Which, understandably, seriously restricts what activities I can participate in when with a SP. I've tried cialis but that didn't really help. It gave me a longer hard on but didn't really help with the condom issue. I've been thinking about trying a cock ring as I've heard and read a lot of good things about them. But know next to nothing about them. Just wondering if any guys and/or ladies who have some experience with cock rings have any suggestions about brands, different types, etc. Thanks all!!

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[Malika Fantasy 144625]

hmmm not that I actually wear them all the time:P...but I know for a fact that you aren't suppose to wear them more then 30 minutes straight, even 20 minutes is pushing it.

 

Metal is the more durable, probably the one that work the best at some point...but from experience it is cold and will stay cold and if you do hard fucking, I can feel it banging against me and it isn't fun.

 

Silicone or rubber is always your best bet, there is some that you can even put in the dishes washer... also some of them vibrate:D

 

Personally, I am not a really big fan of them, not sure why, though I just want to keep poking them all the time 0_o

[capitalman 3861]

Cock rings are not just to keep you hard. Sure it does work, but just because someone wants to wear a cock ring does not mean they can't stay hard without one.

 

A cock ring, or anything tied around your cock and balls (panties, rope, scarf, etc.) traps the blood and increases hardness, thickness and sensation.

 

Be careful not to tie too tight or you could do damage and also it's important that semen can flow out easily....too tight and your semen can't come out!

 

I've found cock rings too hard to get on and off but a pair of panties or leather cock ring with snaps is much easier to remove upon ejaculation or after.

 

That's about all I want to say as I'm shy. :)

[SamanthaEvans 166767]

a leather cock ring with snaps is much easier to remove upon ejaculation or after.

 

Cock rings come in different materials and configurations.

 

In my experience with older men and men with erectile uncertainties, the man's comfort with the device is very important. I urge men to check out the various models and decide what they want to try. Every one of these has advantages and some drawbacks. All of the toys here are available at Honey Gifts in Vancouver.

 

There are the leather ones with snaps that capitalman mentioned.

These are well made from good-quality leather. With four snaps, there are several adjustment options. The snaps make it easy to remove the ring after ejaculation. Leather rings cost $12-15.

 

There are lasso-type adjustable ones:

These work best when slipped around the penis and scrotum. The one on the left is made of medical-grade surgical rubber which will make it easy to clean. However, if you're allergic to latex, this may not be the best choice. The ring on the right is made of silicone. Both are fully adjustable for the fit that feels best for you. The rubber one costs about $10 and the silicone is about $19.

 

There are silicone ones that come in different sizes and shapes:

 

These silicone rings are very stretchy. You slide them on over the penis and you can stretch them to go around the scrotum, too, if you like. I keep a set of the ones on the far left in my condom bag. The ones in the middle have different bumps and spines of different textures, all intended to provide additional clitoral stimulation for the woman. The one on the far right is similar to the trio on the left, but has a bigger diameter. These silicone rings cost about $10 for the sets as well as for the single one.

 

And there are some elite models that are beautifully designed and include variable pulse vibrators:

This model is made by Lelo, is fully adjustable, rechargeable and costs $126.00. I've never used this model, but Lelo makes ultra high-quality sex toys that are durable, beautifully designed and, the women's toys, at least, are worth every penny.

 

There are other models that have built-in clit vibrators and perineum stimulators. Good ones are made of silicone and can be found in adult toy stores. Cheap, disposable models are available on the racks where condoms are sold in drugstores. I wouldn't use the drugstore variety as most of them are made of a gel substance that is often used in inexpensive sex toys but which can have some unpleasant health consequences for women who are exposed to it frequently.

 

Cock rings should fit snugly, not tightly. As capitalman said, they help to maintain erections by restricting the blood flow. However, if too tight, they may make ejaculation difficult or impossible.

 

Even though these are designed for men, it's important to consider the woman with whom they are used. I am very picky about what can come in contact with my body, particularly my genitals. For that reason, if you are with me, we can either use one of the stretchy, silicone rings that I provide, or you can bring a brand-new, still-in-the-original-sealed-package model of the kind you prefer. I will discard the one you bring after we part company (I don't keep toys in labelled envelopes for each client). The silicone rings are boilable and can be washed in the dishwasher, which means that I know how they were cleaned. As I noted, above, I won't use toys made of gel, at all.

 

Since these toys are inexpensive, buy a couple of different kinds and try them by yourself. See what feels easiest to put on and take off, whether you want more adjustment control or whether you just like the feel of one more than another.

 

I usually ask clients to put the rings on themselves to avoid pinching or pulling pubic hair uncomfortably.

 

Finally, although it's easy for me to say, please don't feel embarrassed or anxious about using a cock ring with a paid companion. Erectile difficulties happen to all men at some point. Being with a new partner can increase anxiety a bit in addition to the various health problems that are a product of aging and lifestyle.

 

Using a cock ring with a condom can be a great way to have a very satisfying, safe encounter with a paid companion.

[thedriver 6179]

That is a great overview Samantha with some very positive insight!

 

When I saw the leather cockring I had a flashback to a story that happened to a friend; One night as he is sitting watching TV with his wife thier 14 year old daughter screemed out to him "dad can I borrow your leather bracelet?" And he replied "what leather bracelet?" She walked into the room holding up her arm "this one, I found it in your dresser drawer and it fits perfectly and it must be too small for you!" A bit stunned he said sure as his wife sat next to him giggling!:smile: