voltio8836 100 Report post Posted September 12, 2008 So, if possible, what would do you want your client to be? And on that note, why do some SPs have a minimum age restriction (such as 35+) if the client is willing to pay? And for those who do, would you still turn the person down if he was a 25 yr old Brad Pitt looking person? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cat 262460 Report post Posted September 12, 2008 Age is a tricky thing when it comes to entertaining. For me, age is more of the mind than the body. Maturity is the desired characteristic, and we all know those that are wise beyond their years and those that never grew up. I have a current age restriction which is motivated by the age of my children. Can't visit with those that could date my daughters. Even a Brad Pitt look alike would have a tough time getting past the couch. It makes me feel like a dirty old woman! That being said, it is the attitude which determines whether or not someone is welcome. With younger guests, there is often more unrealistic expectations that life has already explained to the more mature man. As I have expressed before, I like mine to be fully grown mancubs regardless of their chronological age. I love a man who wants to experience the moment and participate in it fully with me. Less mature playmates miss the "now" going thru the mental checklist of comparisons and preoccupations. I can't speak for other SP's, but for me it's about the quality of the time together, regardless of what the birthdate on the drivers license is... Catherine Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
capitalman 3861 Report post Posted September 12, 2008 There's another thread on this topic, I'm sure of it. I'm pretty sure a lot of SP's don't like their peers being clients. Us old farts have more money (usually) and won't see the girl at the local nightclub or rave the next day....so we're a safer bet. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rickoshadows 937 Report post Posted September 12, 2008 Every twenty-year-old wants to be thought of as "mature", Meanwhile you won't find any of us over 40 who will admit to being mature! :mrgreen: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
brandi 231 Report post Posted September 12, 2008 So, if possible, what would do you want your client to be? And on that note, why do some SPs have a minimum age restriction (such as 35+) if the client is willing to pay? And for those who do, would you still turn the person down if he was a 25 yr old Brad Pitt looking person? A mans age is unimportant to me, what I do care about is that the gentleman is clean and behaves well. The variety of ages and personalities is what keeps it interesting for me. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123367 Report post Posted September 13, 2008 I agree with Catherine on the age of gentlemen i will see. I also have an age restriction and will not see anyone under 25 if i can help it...lol I much prefer someone my own age and up...with age comes experience,respect, and a better attitude towards sex. Sometimes i think the younger lads have watched to much porn and think that it's real...they think that sex is supposed to be that way. I much rather take my time and experiment with the gentlemen...{hey boner..you know what I'm talking about}lol...... kisses, Emma A Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JoyfulC 132299 Report post Posted September 13, 2008 I prefer guys in the 40+ range, and I always did. It's not about the money, and for sure it's not about maturity (...I think by the time a guy gets to be 40, he's decided that maturity is over-rated). I'm not sure what it is. Maybe it's a life-experience thing. I always did prefer guys in this age range, even when I was very young. Now I'm older than some of them (the ones under 50), and it's still what I prefer. I can't really say why I do, but should I have to? How many guys here have preferences? Big tits? Small tits? Blondes? Brunettes? Redheads? Orientals? Blacks? Whites? BBW? Petite? How can we ever explain our personal preferences? I don't think we should have to. But that said, I will note that I'm probably pretty lucky in my preference in that most guys over 40 are probably a bit more heads-up than some younger guys. It's not that I never see younger guys -- sometimes one slips through my best guard, and what am I going to do if the kid is standing there with the money in his hand and a big expectant grin on his face? Ruin his day? I try to avoid the younger ones, but when one sneaks through, there's really nothing to do but put my preferences aside and focus on having fun. I don't think younger guys should take it personally if an SP prefers older guys though. At least you have that to look forward to. Imagine if it were the other way around; if an SP were rejecting you because you were too old. ..c.. (BTW, I'm posting this from my new mac -- a first for me! Now I've got some experience on DOS, UNIX, all Windows, some Linux and a little bit of Mac. Oh, and I actually had a job working on Wangs back in the early 80s!) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
suburb1 153 Report post Posted September 13, 2008 JoyfulC glad you didn't say U worked on a PDP11:smile: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
voltio8836 100 Report post Posted September 13, 2008 Ok so for the most of the SPs its about a maturity issue but that would have the implication that you've all had past negative incidents with younger guys. But i've always thought that most guys old or young will arrive clean and well behaved and etc. Of course there can be a rotten apple in both baskets (under 35s and the over 35s) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123367 Report post Posted September 13, 2008 I wouldn't say i had a bad experience with a younger man....i can play with the best of them...but like Cat i have chrildren as well {mine are boys} and my oldest is almost 20 so yea it would just be weird seeing somone around my son's age. ick....it's bad enough i always have a housefull of young adults visiting my son's..lol... and your right you can get bad apples at any age... kisses, Emma A Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ehhh 100 Report post Posted September 13, 2008 I prefer guys in the 40+ range, and I always did. It's not about the money, and for sure it's not about maturity (...I think by the time a guy gets to be 40, he's decided that maturity is over-rated). I'm not sure what it is. Maybe it's a life-experience thing. I always did prefer guys in this age range, even when I was very young. Now I'm older than some of them (the ones under 50), and it's still what I prefer. I can't really say why I do, but should I have to? How many guys here have preferences? Big tits? Small tits? Blondes? Brunettes? Redheads? Orientals? Blacks? Whites? BBW? Petite? How can we ever explain our personal preferences? I don't think we should have to. But that said, I will note that I'm probably pretty lucky in my preference in that most guys over 40 are probably a bit more heads-up than some younger guys. It's not that I never see younger guys -- sometimes one slips through my best guard, and what am I going to do if the kid is standing there with the money in his hand and a big expectant grin on his face? Ruin his day? I try to avoid the younger ones, but when one sneaks through, there's really nothing to do but put my preferences aside and focus on having fun. I don't think younger guys should take it personally if an SP prefers older guys though. At least you have that to look forward to. Imagine if it were the other way around; if an SP were rejecting you because you were too old. ..c.. (BTW, I'm posting this from my new mac -- a first for me! Now I've got some experience on DOS, UNIX, all Windows, some Linux and a little bit of Mac. Oh, and I actually had a job working on Wangs back in the early 80s!) JoyfulC.. unless I am mistaken, you are STILL working on Wangs.....And expertly so, I might add (sorry, I couldn't resist). Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
r100rs 859 Report post Posted September 13, 2008 hey suburb1, how did you know about my pdp11 days :wink: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites