IslandIndependent 521 Report post Posted September 30, 2011 This is a question for the other sps. Im sure you get requests for extra services and im just wondering what are ones you will and or wont do? for ex greek, facials, golden showers, prostate massage, toy play on client ect. i am a fairly openminded person and like to get freaky but some things arent for me i guess or i have never done them. I will try most things once but i am wondering your thoughts about exras. I'm also fairly new to this and in the case of the stuff i havent done yet but would like to, how would you suggest i go about doing them so i can provide these services to my clients well done instead of trying for the first time with then and being horrible at it i guess that fear is stopping me from doing some things. So what will you do and not do, and how do u get educated on doing certain things so you know what your doing. if you dont mind my asking. Thanks xo xo sarah Posted via Mobile Device Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cat 262460 Report post Posted September 30, 2011 An excellent question, you should contact MOD about access to the SP section as you would get far more detailed responses imo. I do not offer a list of services. My rule for what I will or won't do is extremely simple... "There isn't a game that I don't love to play, just playmates I won't play them with." For those that need it translated, I am open to all games, twists, bends and naughties always respecting health and safety but I will not be commanded or expected to do anything unless I want to. I will not agree to anything until I have met a guest and there are certain games that are played with only trusted playmates. If you would like to see how certain games are played, check out some of the amateur porn sites. FetLife is an excellent source of information as well. I would be upfront with guests who are requesting a service if it is something you are interested but inexperienced with. Let them know you are willing to experiment with them but you set the boundaries. If it isn't fun, call time and stop the game... cat 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300292 Report post Posted September 30, 2011 Well I'll offer a guy's, well this guys opinion, even though you asked for SP's opinions Only offer those services, or menu items that you feel comfortable providing. If you don't want to offer certain services, you have a right not to If you'd like to try certain services, but haven't done them before, and the guy you are seeing would like that service, tell him up front you're inexperienced at it, but would be willing to try...honesty the best policy For those who believe that paying a lady entitles them to every service under the sun, well the money is for the lady's time A quick rambling Hope it helps RG Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest W***ledi*Time Report post Posted September 30, 2011 ... how would you suggest i go about doing them so i can provide these services to my clients well done instead of trying for the first time with then and being horrible at it i guess that fear is stopping me from doing some things ... Just addressing one narrow aspect of this from a client's viewpoint. If there's something specific you yourself are interested in exploring as part of self-motivated curiosity, or if there's something that a non-regular client has requested that you are willing to try out ... but you're a bit leery of not pulling it off to the client's satisfaction ... ... then consider your tried-and-true regulars as potential "partners-in-crime". They may be thrilled to have you ask them to help you in test-driving something new. Personally, as a regular, I'm always intrigued and turned-on when one of my favourite ladies asks me to help her with something new to her. Not everyone is up for everything of course, but knowing that a lady is interested in something specific gets my synapses firing. When you're playing with the right regular, who you're comfortable with, he'll enjoy the novelty of being in on the ground floor of professional or personal development. He'll understand that mistakes and goof-ups along the learning curve are fun; they help chase away any hints of boredom and enrich his experience. Do your research to the best of your ability first - then indulge in the give-and-take of mutual enjoyment and exploration in the safety of a supportive atmosphere. Think about your regulars - if one springs to your mind when reading the above, you're halfway there already! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Studio 110 by Sophia 150333 Report post Posted September 30, 2011 I have seen myself evolve within this industry. Some of the things I offer now, I never dreamed of in the past! But one golden rule for me from the start, and was a promise to myself, was to never do anything that made me feel bad about myself! For if I would feel bad about it, I knew it would become self-destructive. So at the end of the day....only do what feels natural to you at this time. If you have to become nervous or anxious then best to wait till you feel like you are ready. For heaven sakes, always hold your chin up high! hope that helps? Additional comments: I do not like to advertise all services either, as I will offer some services that I may not otherwise offer another. For me, it is decided when I am in communication with the potentail client. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
IslandIndependent 521 Report post Posted September 30, 2011 very true and thank you everyone and i understand the not listing. How do i get ahold of mod? And i think there are certain requirements to access the sp only area. And keep posting id like to know what everyone thinks about this. And like i previously mentioned i am fairly new to this i started in june and absolutly love being an escort and making peoples fantasies become a reality as well as pleasing a man or woman and knowing im turning them on and getting them off, but i tend to be somewhat of a perfectionist and want to know i am doing everything right hence why i want to have experience doing whatever before i meet with a client. Its not so much being nervous of the actual act its that i want to do it right. Keep them comments coming though. And i would just like to say that i love this site and want to thank everyone on here your always so helpful, i can feel the kindness and caring from everyone and is so nice to be a part of this community. Posted via Mobile Device Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Phaedrus 209521 Report post Posted October 1, 2011 How do i get ahold of mod? By PM... the mod's profile is here. And i think there are certain requirements to access the sp only area. Yes, in the FAQ, here. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
