MSOG question for ladies

[Guest h****hedl]

I would have to say as a hobbyist, that I prefer a one hour session. In that one hour, I am sure that at least one SOG is going to be just AWESOME! (Like alot of the ladies have mentioned in this thread - some would prefer to work up one amazing shot that would be much more satisfying). I 100% agree that - if done right, one can easily equal two! I can't even see myself requesting that in a half hour. Guess there are others much more confident in their abilities than I am...

 

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[Jake_1957 1301]

I offer it, but do not encourage it unless the client insists he's sure he can do it because there is nothing more frustrating than someone who cums in the first 5 minutes and then is struggling down to the 30th minute to cum again and then can't.

 

Or they cum in the first 5 minutes and then realize they were only good for one pop and unless they want a back rub or want to tease me or just talk, I find most will just leave and I feel bad that they didn't get their full time they paid for.

 

In 15 years of escorting, I can count on one hand the number of clients who have tried and were successful in getting off more than once in 30 minutes.

 

Don't understand guys who would just leave if they cum in the first 5 minutes of a 30 min session, there are so many other fun things to do with you lovely ladies, and if the little guy rises to the occassion again, no harm in a little play even if it doesn't end in a SOG.

 

Personally I've only scheduled 1 hr sessions, and if the 1st SOG happens after 15 or 20 mins, I still want to continue to play and would enjoy working towards a 2nd SOG, even if it doesn't happen.

[YoungBeautyMirella 5600]

Yes I agree 100%.. I do NOT do msog for 30 minutes because gentlemen pay for my time not pay to see how many times they can orgasm.

There are ALOT of other pleasurable stuff to do even after the shot on goal..

 

I get alot of gentlemen (or boys should I say) who say to me well I am quick so if I pay for 30 minutes I want to come as much as I want.. and I say oh really? and which classy SP offers as many times as you want??.. lol

 

I don't go to the Keg and say I eat fast so throw in an extra steak.... macdonalds won't even do it ;)

[SexxxyRebecca 57990]

I dont think we should judge others SP if they are ''classy'' or not from what they offer. I think its at the discretion of each SP. Personnaly, I will offer MSOG in half hour once in a while to some gents who can easily cum twice in that frame time. If you cum after 15min and you want to cum another time I will refuse... but I wouldnt kick you out and we can enjoy the time left.... ;)

[Guest E*******h S******s]

Yes I agree 100%.. I do NOT do msog for 30 minutes because gentlemen pay for my time not pay to see how many times they can orgasm.

There are ALOT of other pleasurable stuff to do even after the shot on goal..

 

I get alot of gentlemen (or boys should I say) who say to me well I am quick so if I pay for 30 minutes I want to come as much as I want.. and I say oh really? and which classy SP offers as many times as you want??.. lol

 

I don't go to the Keg and say I eat fast so throw in an extra steak.... macdonalds won't even do it ;)

 

While I can understand not wanting to offer MSOG in a 30 minute appointment, I don't understand being so judgmental of those that do. Personally, I don't offer 30 minute appointments. I market myself towards older gentlemen (50+) who would rather take their time. That doesn't mean that I think I'm any better or "classier" than ladies that offer 30 minute appointments, I just run my business in a manner that works for me. We are all individuals. What works for one lady isn't going to work for another.

 

Btw, gentlemen are allowed as many orgasms as their body is willing to deliver during the time they are in my company. :icon_wink:

[Meg O'Ryan 266444]

As far as I am concerned u can have as many as you are able to in a half hour or in four hours. I don't really see what the issue is with msog and why it is such a big deal. I mean seriously, it's ultimately about the O most times so no need to mask the fact. :)

[Isabella Gia (Banned) 53881]

Confused here. If you say gentlemen pay for your time then why you don't allow them to orgasm twice?

 

Yes I agree 100%.. I do NOT do msog for 30 minutes because gentlemen pay for my time not pay to see how many times they can orgasm.

 

They do if you pay for it. I don't think is a logic comparison as is a very different line of business, they do not go by time but by products sold.

I don't go to the Keg and say I eat fast so throw in an extra steak.... macdonalds won't even do it ;)

[cat 262460]

Every provider has her own rules which she has defined for herself. If a woman is comfortable with a SSOG, that is her perogative. Back in the day, SSOG was industry standard. A second SOG involved more $ because it involved more work. Today, many things have changed. Services available for new clients are now more varied and expected. I remember when Greek, DFK and DATY were only available to good regulars, now it's expected on the first visit. Women recognize the value of client based service and many tailor their services to ensure their clients complete satisfaction on the first visit.

 

We are independent business women. We choose who we see, what we do with our clients, how much we charge and when we want to work. There are no two alike so perhaps it's best to simply state our personal preferences and not issue opinions on others preferred business models.

 

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[southman 101]

This whole topic just blows my mind. I don't understand any of it. I guess I'd have to be there to get it? Why does it matter how many times? And, is my junk gonna become junk when I'm 50? And should I contain the SP to just one orgasm per 30 minutes? You better not have a multiple or I want some money back! lol I guess in having MSOG, if you disrupt the natural flow and the experience is abrupt and fragmented, that wouldn't be fun.

[Studio 110 by Sophia 150333]

On my first encounter with someone, I usually will ask if they are sensitve, or if they like MSOG. This way I can gage how intensly or softly they would like it.

If someone tells me they are very sensitve but yet want MSOG, I tend to " get the first one out of the way" then we have lots of time to bulid desire again, and go more slowly for the remaining of the time, most often leaving 40 min to the hour.

But if I see they are not looking for MSOG, then I take our time, building in desire, so that we are going for quality rather than quanity.

There are times when they want MSOG but yet I can tell they are holding back....I remind them if they hold back too long, they may not be able to get the desired goal, or they may run out of time.

I only offer MSOG in an hour appt, not 45 min sessions.

[YoungBeautyMirella 5600]

What I meant by "pay for my time" is that some guys that try booking with me ask for msog 3 or 4 times for a half hour sessions(I have absolutely noo problem at all with MSOG for longer sessions as all the gentlemen I have seen know I myself want it and am very into the experience) and if I haven't met him before I don't know how a session will be so as I said before I have no problem with MSOG if it is a repeat visit and there are OT'S of other things to do besides actual intercourse for an orgasm hand, etc

Sorry if I offended anyone in the last post I wrote it on my phone fast and should have worded it differently but I am not saying girls who offer msog in 30 min appoinments are not classy, I was just meaning that 3 or 4 times is a bit unrealistic and I got a guy ask me on the phone if he pays my half hour rate can he do whatever he wants because he's spending his last $ and I politely said he's paying for my time and I am not a piece of meat, I do whatever I feel comfortable with.

 

Late night checking of the new blackberry .. :P

[Andee 220524]

What I meant by "pay for my time" is that some guys that try booking with me ask for msog 3 or 4 times for a half hour sessionsP

 

They can ask all they want, but take it from an "old pro", I highly doubt you will ever see a guy come 3 or 4 times in half an hour. Believe me, I've only seen twice a handful of times over the years.

 

Oh, and if they say they can, but it depends on how good "you are", just remember, it's not about us, its about what their bodies dictate. It's a just a game for some to see how you'll respond.

 

At the end of the day, it's not about how many orgasms someone has had, it's the overall experience.

 

I echo what Elizabeth said that they can come as many times as they're able to, because my time is paid for, not number of shots.

[bokbokbok 100]

1 hour session should be good enough for 2 shots. Otherwise it may feel rushed after the first shot.

[Guest L**gh M****e]

Personally, I agree with most that have replied...it's all up to both individuals. Most gentlemen will know their own performances on the matter. I offer 1/2hr appointments to those professional gentlemen that live a busy schedule and therefore their time may be limited to just the half hour...whether it be because that's all the time that they have from their busy work/business schedules or perhaps it may be something more personal.

 

I had one gentleman that could only meet for the half hour because he was so nervous about his car being seen...so I respected this!

 

Also, I agree with what Elizabeth and AngelaofOttawa says on the matter.

 

Hope this has helped!

[roamingguy 300292]

They can ask all they want, but take it from an "old pro", I highly doubt you will ever see a guy come 3 or 4 times in half an hour. Believe me, I've only seen twice a handful of times over the years.

 

Oh, and if they say they can, but it depends on how good "you are", just remember, it's not about us, its about what their bodies dictate. It's a just a game for some to see how you'll respond.

 

At the end of the day, it's not about how many orgasms someone has had, it's the overall experience.

 

I echo what Elizabeth said that they can come as many times as they're able to, because my time is paid for, not number of shots.

 

You are right Angela. It is the overall experience of the encounter that counts. I personally see ladies for far more than just sex. It is their companionship, in it's entirety that I seek. I would feel like I denied myself if all I sought was a sexual encounter. And there is much much more to an encounter, if you allow it, than just sex. And the memories of the encounter are more than just the sexual side.

A quick rambling

RG

[VedaSloan 119179]

 

Do SP's feel dissappointed if the client doesn't get a shot off? In my case the SP was upset by it as if she did something wrong, It wasn't her, just me being tired, stressed, and biology. It happens.

 

Yes, unless you otherwise explained the reason for not being able to go (medical, anxiety, whatever), I tend to automatically assume it's me and want to know what I can do to improve. I can't help it. I'm a perfectionist.

 

As for the original question, yes I offer MSOG on 30 minute appointments. I'm like Elizabeth, if you can do it, by all means go nuts. You paid for my time, what we get up to is largely up to you. If you want to try to cram in as many shots as you can, that's your prerogative. Just respect my time and we're good.

[justplayin 102]

Personally, its much more about the journey than the destination with my encounters. I haven't been hobbying for long but I can tell you that the 1hrs I have been booking are already starting to feel too short for a good 'build-up' so I will be looking towards longer sessions as $$ can accomidate. I can't even phathom trying to cram msog in 30 mins - not much fun in that.

[thedriver 6179]

I would like to give two different prospectives from the same person. Me!

 

I will start with Me today as a middle aged man in his late 40's. I prefer a sensual and erotic encounter with a single shot at the end of my 30 minutes. A session that's about slow and deep stroking penetration with a few positions and a gradual buildup to orgasm. As others have said "more about the journey rather then the end".

 

As a younge man in my 20's with a high sex drive and strong stamina the sessions were much more about relieving pent-up sexual tension. I would cum the first time within 5 or 10 minutes without my erection fading in the least. It was as if I had not cum at all. I needed more and could easily cum again within 15 minutes. Even with two orgasms within 30 minutes my sexual tension was barely satisfied. There were times I could cum 3 or 4 times in a few hours with my SO.

 

Though things have changed for me over the years I can empathize with those who would like MSOG. I wish it would have been available for me at that time.

 

Offering MSOG does not mean that you will get takers every day but offering it could make all the difference in the satisfaction of a client and making him a repeat customer!

[MellyBelly 15058]

lmao old!!! you did it to me again...hilarious

[Old Dog 179138]

The most ironic thing is that your best years for multiple shots on goal are the years you are just learning your basic stick handling skills ....

[Carrie Moon 68826]

I'd like to describe a very funny instance of a 20 yr old I saw about 3 years ago. I was living in Toronto on the 14th floor.. He booked a 1/2 hr session and was dressed and out the door in under 10 min... and then called me from the parking lot outside to say he was hard again.. I laughed and invited him up for round two.. telling him as he left the 2nd time that he was welcome to stay and chat between rounds when he rebooked me.

 

Younger guys... why begrudge them a 2nd shot on goal? They can't help it if they shoot first and ask questions later!

[billybob 20128]

The most ironic thing is that your best years for multiple shots on goal are the years you are just learning your basic stick handling skills ....

 

so true....so true

[Dipper 1033]

At my age, a second shot on goal would mean booking for the weekend.

[BootyLoving 2441]

I'd like to describe a very funny instance of a 20 yr old I saw about 3 years ago. I was living in Toronto on the 14th floor.. He booked a 1/2 hr session and was dressed and out the door in under 10 min... and then called me from the parking lot outside to say he was hard again.. I laughed and invited him up for round two.. telling him as he left the 2nd time that he was welcome to stay and chat between rounds when he rebooked me.

 

Younger guys... why begrudge them a 2nd shot on goal? They can't help it if they shoot first and ask questions later!

 

Carrie is such a sweetheart!

 

Personally, I've never been able to MSOG on paid dates. Maybe I just never met someone really into it. Historically for me, MSOG is something that only happen with a partner who really is into it, and wants more. My body at it's more advanced state will only fullfill those request when the partner demands it, else, it's just as happen after scoring the first goal.

 

A little bit of verbal and oral coaxing goes a long long long way!

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

I do offer it on half and hour appts but it rarely happens unless something is acheived in the first 5-10 minutes and i am warned of this beforehand. When a guy asks me this prior to booking, I will say yes as long as it is within the half hour but I often find that they never end up going for a second round in 30 minutes. I can equate it to going to a restaurant wanting to know if there is an all you can eat buffet or more value for their money. And I don't mean this as a remark that could be considered insulting. I think with some men once they are comfortable in knowing that, perhaps they feel you won't have them out the door in 10-15 minutes. Or their eyes are bigger than stomach type thing.lol. But don't ask me at the 29th minute because it won't happen.lol. My guests always stay for the half hour unless they decide to leave early for whatever reason. In my experience, MSOG occurs more on one hour appts.