JuliasUndies 7288 Report post Posted November 27, 2011 To each their own when it comes to bbbj's ...i prefer to give them but also I'm tested regularly..and have never had an sti. Maybe it's luck but luck or not it's at My DISCRETION and I don't feel i should be judged on it. I feel i have many very happy clients. If someone wanted a a cbj i will happily oblige. There are no wrongs when it comes to our own bodies. I sure hope no one judges you or anyone else on preferences. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VictoriaJolie 64127 Report post Posted November 27, 2011 First i want to explained my post as it seem it got misinterpretated. I wasn't lashing at Julia but asking a question ... They are previous tread that i start that she answer to a question i was asking gents.. Needless to say seeing this tread did make me wonder too I think that setting the tone to witch hunt or trying to put down someone for their opinions isn't what was reflecting on my post...I used Icons ... I think it got blow out of proportions as it was a simple question that deserve simple answer ..to take it with a smile.. I didn't know that the credibility of someone depending on how many posts one have...I guess i am not credible ...And that is fine by me :) As for the original question well yes it is a subject that has been discuss often and many ladies/gents have provide enough links to the op to let him make his own conclusion.. I so not post often but i lurk once in a while .. P.s yes i have highjack treads in the past to light things up..I guess things were too serious to attempt it here And now i will go back to :sex_porn: this :bddog: and this :chug: :ThankYou: And Good night! :makeout: VJ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SilverThunder 216 Report post Posted November 27, 2011 To me the taste and feel of latex is thoroughly unnatural but I do take precautions to avoid the negative consequences :) JuliasUndies and I met back in grade 5 and as since have had the chance to get up close and personal with all her womanly parts :) This site is filled with many brilliant and unique individuals. Ive always enjoyed the non-judgemental diversity of topics. Stay beautiful! Posted via Mobile Device 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Old Dog 179138 Report post Posted November 27, 2011 If I see a thread aimed at the ladies to determine if they prefer receiving manual stimulation or DATY....and, just for example, Old Dog comments that he thinks he would probably prefer DATY, I don't think anyone would suddenly start thinking he's a woman. It would be clear to everyone that he meant that IF he was a woman, he would prefer DATY. There would be no fuss, except for maybe one smartass comment from someone said as a joke, and taken as a joke, and that would be the end of it. So why shouldn't this be the case here? To be perfectly clear, I have a wiener, not a vajayjay. I only pee sitting down when I am tired or lazy. If I had a vajayjay (which I do not currently possess nor is there an option for purchase later on) I would welcome DATY cuz that would be the kind of man with a vajayjay I would be, if I had a vajayjay, but I don't cuz I have a wiener. I currently have a wiener verification team deployed, who will verify the distinct lack of vajayosity in my immediate vicinity, even though I could use a bit of work on my chest. I have sub A cup moobies. Genetically and mentally a man, that's what I am. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Gringo_Love 573 Report post Posted November 27, 2011 Lol @olddog...that's the way to lighten up the thread and back onto bbbj's .... Seems to me that if you want safety then you play safe and study the risks (not opinions). If one prefers to give or recieve bbbj then hopefully they are doing so with knowledge and safe practices. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jamesbeam1975 140 Report post Posted November 27, 2011 Personally I prefer bbbj, but that's me. I completely understand the SP's and/or clients who only go for cbj. And I don't think either the "cbj" or "bbbj" crowd should have any right to judge one or the other. To each their own. Of course there's a greater risk with bbbj over cbj. Bareback anything is a greater risk than covered anything. There's also a greater risk of catching something from DFK rather than a peck on the cheek. It's all about that particular person's comfort level and no one has a right to judge that. That is unless they're going all out with the BB...ie, BBFS. Then judge away. Don't get me wrong! To me there is no comparison. Nothing feels the same through a raincoat..... I guess I've just become a bit of a coward with time and use helmets, winter tires and raincoats with BJs. I'll live dangerously today to take the edge off.... and drive without a seatbelt! or maybe order a Big Mac at Wendys. Today I go crazy..... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
southman 101 Report post Posted December 3, 2011 As long as the SP and you have safe-sex with everybody else and save bareback just for the two of you, then it is very safe. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tbear 100 Report post Posted December 5, 2011 you can still get sti but its wayy safer than vaginal sex. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Old Dog 179138 Report post Posted December 10, 2011 It's also not so safe when you are receiving and you are on the edge of a cliff. It's all good until release... then there's trouble. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300292 Report post Posted December 10, 2011 It's also not so safe when you are receiving and you are on the edge of a cliff. It's all good until release... then there's trouble. Is this the Cliff you are talking about...just wondering, with that grin he looks like he's expecting a bbbj, and we all know he was on the edge, of what we don't know LOL Sorry, best humour I can muster on only my first cup of coffee RG :-) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VedaSloan 119179 Report post Posted December 15, 2011 Basically (and this is straight from the mouth of my health practitioner), the risk of transmission is low for both parties, though it is slightly higher risk for the PROVIDER. The provider can lessen the risk by not brushing his/her teeth right before providing oral as this can increase the chance that you might have a cut or bleeding gums, etc, which will increase your risk of catching something. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites