JuliasUndies 7288 Report post Posted November 22, 2011 Before I go searching with my head in the clouds, I need an expert that can help me, so I've come to the expert panel of sexy time. I need a book. A book for my man. A book that will teach him how to TALK DIRTY TO ME!!!!!! Any suggestions would be just lovely, toodles :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ottawaadventurer 5114 Report post Posted November 22, 2011 you might want to look for an audio-book... ;-) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123367 Report post Posted November 22, 2011 I don't think a book can teach him...it's in you or it's not. You have to be comfortable with yourself and your partner. Some people just can't do it. I really think it's a confidence thing and or a really horney thing..lol Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Alexandra-Sky 12606 Report post Posted November 22, 2011 "Exhibitionism for the shy" is highly recommended. It's for overall confidence in the bedroom and I think there's a chapter on dirty talk. Good luck! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest n**se_**n Report post Posted November 22, 2011 I don't think a book can teach him...it's in you or it's not. You have to be comfortable with yourself and your partner. Some people just can't do it. I really think it's a confidence thing and or a really horney thing..lol Agreed 100% Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Chanel Reign 28097 Report post Posted November 22, 2011 Try googling dirty talk and view the videos together? If anything, it'll get you both hot! :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Alexandra-Sky 12606 Report post Posted November 22, 2011 If he's in Ottawa, Venus Envy offers Dirty Talk workshops too! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Old Dog 179138 Report post Posted November 22, 2011 OOoooOOOOOoooOOOOOooooh... this one is dirty and nasty..... Robert Munsch - The Mud Puddle.... it's dripping with filth!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
castle 38816 Report post Posted November 22, 2011 Dirty talking is a HUGE turn on for me! I've experimented a lot with sending dirty texts and dirty messages (as you may have noticed, Julia ;) ). But I haven't yet graduated to full on dirty talking. I'd love to though! Having a lady talk dirty to me is always a huge turn on. So maybe I should check out some of these books and workshops too lol. Posted via Mobile Device Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
qwertyaccount 15793 Report post Posted November 22, 2011 Expert is a very big word! I don't fit that description but do have a suggestion - train him a little bit at a time with just a new word or two, and when he gets it right, give him a treat reward, like his favourite candy. We don't want to admit it, but we're pretty much all just trainable animals like any other species. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NTF69 115 Report post Posted November 22, 2011 Hmmm...what about something from Denis Leary? Just kidding...not quite the dirty talk you're looking for, Julia...but then it might get the ball rolling... Cheers, NTF69 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
phigment 3310 Report post Posted November 23, 2011 i think he needs a video not a book. anything starring john leslie will do, he's the man. that'll give some good starters. beyond that the secret to dirty talk, in my opinion, is getting to a point where you don't really give much of a shit about sensibilities. in that regard, being horny out of your skull is a definite advantage. good luck. I don't think a book can teach him...it's in you or it's not. You have to be comfortable with yourself and your partner. Some people just can't do it. I really think it's a confidence thing and or a really horney thing..lol Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300292 Report post Posted November 23, 2011 When it comes to dirty talk don't do what Seinfeld did. There, a Seinfeld episode for every occasion. Sorry I have no sage advice to give though RG :-) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
moosemeat 112 Report post Posted November 23, 2011 That's easy! Dirty Talk for Dummies! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
A****y E*e 6175 Report post Posted November 23, 2011 "Exhibitionism for the Shy" by Carol Queen, "The Fine Art of Erotic Talk" by Bonnie Gabriel and "Talk Sexy to the One you Love" by Barbara Keesling are all great. Also, I love to read erotica to get ideas of sexy things to say... Hope this helps! :) 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites