Seymour 3970 Report post Posted August 13, 2009 Good luck, but I think your logic may backfire - (on quitting that is) but DEFINITELY try the duo. :-) Ok...I'll quit after I have a threesome because I know I'll be completely satisfied after I have mind blowing , passionate, dream-cum-true s*x with two beautiful women AT THE SAME TIME..... I've seen it once or twice in porno mags and it looks kinda interesting...... That's it....I'll quit the minute my threesome is over........:) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
antlerman 17064 Report post Posted August 13, 2009 Ok...I'll quit after I have a threesome because I know I'll be completely satisfied after I have mind blowing , passionate, dream-cum-true s*x with two beautiful women AT THE SAME TIME..... I've seen it once or twice in porno mags and it looks kinda interesting...... That's it....I'll quit the minute my threesome is over........:) Ya sure......as if!! Been ther done that.......thought the same thing once...then had a threesum......and WOW......did another one...... Thought..Ok I am done....wrong......now I am trying to find that one event all over again to make it end........ but it is like chasing the end of a rainbow.....beautiful...fun...but just out of reach Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shymale 10234 Report post Posted August 13, 2009 i love woman to much to quit. started out in strip clubs and than discovered this great board a couple of years ago lurke on here for a while before starting hobbying. saw a couple of ladys in the last months and after my encounter with prettypaige i know i made the right choice. the only way i would stop is if i meet someone great to start a relationship with, but as long as i'm single i'll be hobbying. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
travelfreak 600 Report post Posted August 19, 2009 It's not hard to quit, I have done it many times :D Nah, I have tried so many times and always came back. There are too many fantastic SP's around and as long as they are there I will probably not succeed. Did the threesome and it only made it worse, now I'm looking for that rush again. This is like a freaking drug and it is useless to fight it because it is programed in our genes. I don't see this happening unless I get hitched in a relationship and/or other personal matters would make it happen. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shortstuff 100 Report post Posted August 19, 2009 Nope. Tried. Even during serious common-law relationship with kids and all, the itch and temptation always there. After I quit cold-turkey, I still checked out Sun listings (before I new about boards) for a little rush with my morning coffee. It was always just a matter of time, money and opportunity to get back into game. I always wanted a taste of variety, even with a SO I loved. I have cut back on amount of hobbying I need in a month, but only to keep it low-profile from SO. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest S***e Report post Posted August 19, 2009 I was forced into retirement about three weeks back as a result of surgery complications. I bailed out off CERB as I thought I would have nothing more to contribute. Today, all's well and I'm out of retirement as I saddled up for a nooner ride today...happy ol' dawg I am. Old Spike Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
whatsup 11893 Report post Posted August 20, 2009 I was forced into retirement about three weeks back as a result of surgery complications. I bailed out off CERB as I thought I would have nothing more to contribute. Today, all's well and I'm out of retirement as I saddled up for a nooner ride today...happy ol' dawy I am. Old Spike Way to go you Ol' dawg yah. 8) Nice to hear all's well. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
coachg 388 Report post Posted August 20, 2009 I was forced into retirement about three weeks back as a result of surgery complications. I bailed out off CERB as I thought I would have nothing more to contribute. Today, all's well and I'm out of retirement as I saddled up for a nooner ride today...happy ol' dawy I am. Old Spike Good for you old dog......nothing like a short retirement to convince one that hobbying is the way to stay young and healthy. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
aceswild 100 Report post Posted August 20, 2009 It`s to hard my friend to give it up , as long as there is beautiful sexy women and cash flow , never will until the day I die. Until they stop wanting me too I guess.:sm185: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
R********2 100 Report post Posted August 20, 2009 We should all listen to the "coach" as they always know what's best for the team lol :wink: Roam Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GHT 798 Report post Posted August 20, 2009 I could definitely quite. But why would I want to. I would need a really good reason and I don't have one right now. I find that hobbying makes me a happier person. This translates into better relations with my SO and everyone else around me. Things are good. GHT Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
travelfreak 600 Report post Posted August 20, 2009 I would think we have all tried to quit at least once during our years of pooning. I'm wondering how many that have actually succeeded in the quest to get out. I think the only thing that can get me to quit would be that my funds drained totally and there was no way to finance this hobby. As said, I think this hobby keeps us going and makes us feel good/young so it is hard to quit something like that. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
survived70s 582 Report post Posted August 21, 2009 I have quit smoking, drugs (maybe someday I could do E), and gambling. But why quit the hobby ? It is not illegal, only soliciting is.... Great sex is a natural high. No one is hurt. The wallet can take a beating, so I quit hitting SCs to afford it. If you are have family concerns, it is understandable. Not sure that children want to know about any of your affairs, right ? It is really between you and your SP, consenting adults, rights ? Now, it is a question of the relationship with your spouse... Logistically, monogomy should not be forced on everyone in society, religions have been instrumental in forcing this on both men and women, exploiting insecurity. Too bad, and I hope that you are not offended by my attitude about organized religions. Christ did have a relation with a SP, so we should folow his example as good christians, right ? IMHO society should encourage open relationships and maybe the world could be a better place. Cheers Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ulixestrojan 3757 Report post Posted August 24, 2009 I think it is possible to modify what you are looking for - wanting the company of beautiful women will never end but how I want them changes and runs in cycles. Posted via Mobile Device Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bigdawg 474 Report post Posted August 25, 2009 seeing as I just started not too long ago I can't see quitting anytime soon but when the time comes I hope to be able to quit, although I have meet some very nice people here which will make the decision to quit harder when the time comes.:) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PistolPete 61421 Report post Posted August 25, 2009 Yes you can quit, just have for about 2 weeks, have I missed it? Dam straight, getting back in the saddle very soooooooonnnnnn:bddog: The very nice thing about stopping, is simply looking at all the new providers! What a list I have got going and so many ladies to choose from ;) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jerican 657 Report post Posted August 25, 2009 Wondering why you have been so quiet Pete! Be good to read about your latest adventures! Yes you can quit, just have for about 2 weeks, have I missed it? Dam straight, getting back in the saddle very soooooooonnnnnn:bddog: The very nice thing about stopping, is simply looking at all the new providers! What a list I have got going and so many ladies to choose from ;) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest f***2f*** Report post Posted August 25, 2009 Yes you can quit, just have for about 2 weeks, have I missed it? Dam straight, getting back in the saddle very soooooooonnnnnn:bddog: The very nice thing about stopping, is simply looking at all the new providers! What a list I have got going and so many ladies to choose from ;) Ha I beat ya...4 weeks for me!! Am I happy...not a bit...I'm bustin out I tell ya!! Don't any of you try to stop me!!:sm185: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PistolPete 61421 Report post Posted August 25, 2009 Well bro, you must be like me ready to burst at the seams:jackoff::jackoff::jackoff::jackoff: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
slurp 7020 Report post Posted September 8, 2009 For some reason while I was mowing the lawn today this topic came to mind. I've been trying to cut back, slow down, wind down as I get older and lil slurp grows more finicky. I realized it is the thrill of a new relationship that makes me hobby. Yes, I like women, sexy women, many different women. I sometimes enjoy the thrill of the hunt, such as seeing what gems i may find at an MP or SC. Broke myself of that for the most part. So why do I have regulars that I remain loyal to? If it's the thrill of new relationships this isn't logical, I said to myself. Then I realized it never gets to "real relationship" stage. I see them, we have great sex and we may even go to dinner, or talk about their relationship or take them shopping. I do all kinds of relationship things with some of my regs. But it's still not a normal relationship where we settle in and see each other every day. Seeing them now and then (and having to sneak around to do it usually) feeds the "rush" just enough I guess. I'm chasing a relationship I can never have so the thirst is never quenched quite all the way. So it's still new in many ways even though we are quite familiar with each other. And I see in the occasional new SP to keep the rush fresh. Old regs retire or move away, new ones come along to take their place. But I've got 2 that have been driving my passions for 4 or 5 years. The whole thing that made me think of this is for some reason I can't get one of my regs out of my head this long weekend. I want her more than ever and the anticipation is driving me wild. Even with Maggie returning and seeing her (it was like the first time all over again and wonderful) I lust after my reg like never before. And I know I can't see her until the long weekend is over so it's making me like a teenager with anticipation. I love this feeling and am really getting off on it. No, we're not in love although we care deeply about each other. And there is another out there that makes me feel in a similar fashion, it's just this sexy SP's turn. But something is making me need her in a way similar to that anticipation you get when you are seeing a top level SP for the first time. Or when you were a teenager and that gorgeous babe finalty agrees to go out with you, the one you heard puts out. The heart is pounding, junior goes wild when you think about her and you just can't wait to see her. I find it amazing I can feel that way about someone I have seen more times than I could count over 4 or 5 years. Maybe JT's arrival later this week kicked it off, I don't know. I am psyched to see her again too. Quit? The rush is still there and if anything getting worse ..... :confused: 4 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shortstuff 100 Report post Posted September 8, 2009 I think you nailed it pretty well slurp. Its complicated and it shifting and we all go through some phases where different impulses or compulses take the lead to answer deep but shifting need inside. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest n----9 Report post Posted November 20, 2012 Well I see Pistol Pete tried and came back. :) I had the same fate...after all, when a legal form of stress relief with so many beautiful people is only a pm or a call away it does make it hard to quit... You know quitting would have been easier if this had been a bad site. So in part I blame the cerb creators and mod`s. Haha. Kidding ofcourse. But for the sake of family and a special lady here I go again. This time for good. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest *ig*a** Report post Posted November 20, 2012 Yes we all have tried to stay away but have failed to do so. See you back in the future. Posted via Mobile Device Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest happytimes Report post Posted November 20, 2012 I graduated quickly from lapdances to lapdances with extras to escorts. My first escort experience was meant to be my one and only experience. I just had an itch to scratch and then I would get back on the straight and narrow. My second escort experience was the very next day. I was away on business for another day so I told myself, since I won't get another chance to do this for a while, I would scratch this itch one last time. I was extremely nervous the first time so the experience was a little disappointing. Exciting and fun but I thought I could do better. This was 18 months ago. Did I stop at number 2? No. I have now lost count. Oops, I think I am addicted. I have had some wonderful experiences with some fantastic women in this hobby. Meeting a SP for a fun sex session, does not jeopardize my deep feelings for my SO. She however, would not see it that way. She would be deeply hurt and it would likely end our relationship. The risk I take everytime I book a session is enormous. It is not a matter of "if" she will find out, but "when". Should I quite? Damn right I should. But I don't think I can. Posted via Mobile Device Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest *ig*a** Report post Posted November 20, 2012 [quote name='happytimes;4041 I agree with you I think its the thrill of doing something we are not supposed to do. 47]I graduated quickly from lapdances to lapdances with extras to escorts. My first escort experience was meant to be my one and only experience. I just had an itch to scratch and then I would get back on the straight and narrow. My second escort experience was the very next day. I was away on business for another day so I told myself' date=' since I won't get another chance to do this for a while, I would scratch this itch one last time. I was extremely nervous the first time so the experience was a little disappointing. Exciting and fun but I thought I could do better. This was 18 months ago. Did I stop at number 2? No. I have now lost count. Oops, I think I am addicted. I have had some wonderful experiences with some fantastic women in this hobby. Meeting a SP for a fun sex session, does not jeopardize my deep feelings for my SO. She however, would not see it that way. She would be deeply hurt and it would likely end our relationship. The risk I take everytime I book a session is enormous. It is not a matter of "if" she will find out, but "when". Should I quite? Damn right I should. But I don't think I can. Posted via Mobile Device Posted via Mobile Device Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites