First-time massage

[ClaRayDeb 100]

As the header suggests, I'm considering a massage, which I've never done before, my experiences being limited to escorts and strip clubs.

 

Not sure of the experience or the rules - is there a page that has this info?

 

I gather it consists of a massage, with hands, and breasts?

 

Is a reciprocal massage (me to her) always included?

 

Is it like an extended champagne room, where I can fondle t&a, but nothing else is really on the table?

 

Are her boobs rubbed in my face too? If so, am I allowed to kiss them? Am I allowed to kiss any part of her body?

[Megan'sTouch 23875]

The answers to your questions vary between providers. You would need to ask the lady directly.

[zorobaby 4121]

The answers to your questions vary between providers. You would need to ask the lady directly.

 

I believe he's looking for general rules though, some rules that most actual MA's offer, not sps that offer massage.

 

I know MP vs indys do vary but most MP's have the no oral rule and no fluid exchange rule, I can't think of much more, but if you wanted to get more indepth, I'm sure as megan has said, messaging your woman of choice may offer more clarity.

 

Zoro

[Sensual Erin 33928]

I agree with the other advice given. All providers are different so asking the lady who interests you privately is the way to approach this. Sessions offered will range from therapeutic to a GFE style massage within those limits. Do your homework and you'll be able to tailor your questions specific to the lady you are interested in. There's lots here to look up. The massage and reco threads should help, as well as the advertisements.

[ClaRayDeb 100]

Yes, it's more general info, though good idea, thanks, to email a lady with any specifics.

 

One trouble though is that on the advertisement section, there's no indication of what type of provider she is, eg escort, massage - usually just a titillating subject line.

[Phaedrus 209521]

Well, to try and answer the original question a bit more specifically...

 

First up, a disclaimer: YMMV. And as has been said already, there's no substitute for asking the lady you're seeing.

 

All MAs I've seen will give you a massage. Definitely with hands. With other portions of the anatomy... some do body-slides, some don't. Some may for a little extra (in MPs in particular you'll sometimes get different rates for different levels of nudity, and with/without body-slides); with others, it's all just part of the experience. As far as touching the lady you're with goes... I think most are OK up to "normal SC limits". Some are OK beyond that. As for kissing your MA, or various parts of her... some MAs are OK with it, some aren't. The ones who are will arrange things so that this is easy for you to do if you like; the ones who aren't will arrange things so you can't reach. If in doubt, ask.

 

Reciprocal massage - you'd really have to ask, if you particularly want that.

 

As for who's an MA and who does FS: ya, sometimes it's a bit tricky to work out. To be honest, the best advice I can give you (assuming you're looking for MAs) is to hang around, read recos and the massage forum and see who's talked about (clue: Megan and Erin are both MAs, and very good ones at that :) ). You'll gradually accumulate knowledge and a list of ladies you'd like to see. The problem is that this list will rapidly become big enough that you won't know who to see next, and having seen some MAs you'll want to go back, which makes things even worse... yes, it's a nice dilemma to have, but tough all the same :)

[ClaRayDeb 100]

Awesome, Phaedrus, thank you.

 

Curious what exactly MA stands for. I can figure it out what it means, but it's not on the acronym list.

[Gabriella Laurence 301887]

Awesome, Phaedrus, thank you.

 

Curious what exactly MA stands for. I can figure it out what it means, but it's not on the acronym list.

MA- Massage attendant ;)

[Phaedrus 209521]

Awesome, Phaedrus, thank you.

 

No problem!

 

MA- Massage attendant :wink:

And although I know this, it nevertheless always manages to become "Massage Artiste" in my head, unless I really think about it. No, I don't know how this stuff gets in there...

[Paradise Spa 24019]

Sounds to me you are seeking an experience more on the GFE-MA (girlfriend experience- massage attendant) side :) So this would be what to look for!

 

As the header suggests, I'm considering a massage, which I've never done before, my experiences being limited to escorts and strip clubs.

 

Not sure of the experience or the rules - is there a page that has this info?

 

I gather it consists of a massage, with hands, and breasts?

 

Is a reciprocal massage (me to her) always included?

 

Is it like an extended champagne room, where I can fondle t&a, but nothing else is really on the table?

 

Are her boobs rubbed in my face too? If so, am I allowed to kiss them? Am I allowed to kiss any part of her body?

[CerbForInfo 100]

Thanks for the good info here as I have never gone the massage route either.So many TV shows lately joke about "Happy Endings" that leads one to believe it is expected.Maybe in the U.S. I wouldn,t want to walk into a MP and ask the lady behind the front desk.General "FAQ" questions and answers should maybe have a "sticky post always at the top of the Massage section. 8-)

[Phaedrus 209521]

If you heard about somewhere here, there's a good bet that the happy endings will be happening :) But yes, I'd hate to have to walk into a MP wanting that without knowing if it was offered...

[Guest s**nflute]

Thanks for the good info here as I have never gone the massage route either.So many TV shows lately joke about "Happy Endings" that leads one to believe it is expected.Maybe in the U.S. I wouldn,t want to walk into a MP and ask the lady behind the front desk.General "FAQ" questions and answers should maybe have a "sticky post always at the top of the Massage section. 8-)

 

A good place to start is the Ottawa Sun.

[Rodehard 2058]

I have found that quite a few of the MA's or MP's (Massage provider as opposed to Service Provider) use a pre-screening process when dealing with new clients.

 

Based on past experience I can tell you that on more than once when dealing with the pre-screening I asked what was or was not available or out of bounds. The replies that I got were quite interesting to say the least. I knew what services were available and what were not and it can vary from MP to MP. You can also get to know about the MP and she gets to know you which can lead to a wonderful encounter....

 

You just have to ask, but be discrete when doing so! A PM or email and ultimately a phone call can save one from stepping over boundries.

 

Rodehard

[whiteman 14028]

Thanks for the good info here as I have never gone the massage route either.So many TV shows lately joke about "Happy Endings" that leads one to believe it is expected.Maybe in the U.S. I wouldn,t want to walk into a MP and ask the lady behind the front desk.General "FAQ" questions and answers should maybe have a "sticky post always at the top of the Massage section. 8-)

You have to be careful in the US, you can get arrested for the stupidest things over there. Finding out if happy endings are available over there is a dance almost.