Smirk 1920 Report post Posted December 12, 2011 I do enjoy well done erotic photographs, I like looking at them; I love being in them. However, I've never been a big fan of porn movies. I've watched many but beyond one or two they just haven't appealed to me. I was thinking about why this was last night, and I think that I may have stumbled upon the answer. I think that perhaps I don't like watching porn because I can have the real thing whenever I desire it, and am blessed to experience such things on a frequent basis. I am blessed with freedom and the opportunity to explore all of my whims. If I desire two men in my bed, I can have that. If I desire another woman in my bed, I can have that as well. Does porn during a session enhance your experience? xoxo Porscha Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Megan'sTouch 23875 Report post Posted December 12, 2011 Personally, porn does nothing for me. I'll take the real thing and, if I can't for whatever reason, my imagination is better than any porn out there. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
farmboy 848 Report post Posted December 12, 2011 (edited) Awwww...and here I was thinking you were contemplating making some porn , and were looking for a volunteer.....and I was willing to offer myself for this worthwhile cause , as how much better could porn be , than to be making it!!!....as for my personal preference...I dont get anything out of porn while being with a lady , as I much prefer to be looking at her , and doing things with her versus watching some actors getting involved..just my 2c worth. I think its almost every mans dream to be in a porn, or to be with a pornstar......albeit most ( myself included) would be to bashful, or feel threatened by all of it! Edited December 12, 2011 by farmboy missed something Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Smirk 1920 Report post Posted December 12, 2011 Awwww...and here I was thinking you were contemplating making some porn , and were looking for a volunteer.....and I was willing to offer myself for this worthwhile cause , as how much better could porn be , than to be making it!!!....as for my personal preference...I dont get anything out of porn while being with a lady , as I much prefer to be looking at her , and doing things with her versus watching some actors getting involved..just my 2c worth.I think its almost every mans dream to be in a porn, or to be with a pornstar......albeit most ( myself included) would be to bashful, or feel threatened by all of it! LMAO - such a guy ... of course thats fun! right up there with being photographed. :-)) send me your resume & some pics, well, just the pics. *** just kidding! *** Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Badger133 183 Report post Posted December 12, 2011 It isn't a big deal for me either when I'm with someone. There are far better things to do with her than watch porn! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mrgreen760 37785 Report post Posted December 12, 2011 Nope does zero for me. And seriously how often can two hotties not have enough dough to pay the Pizza delivery guy any way??? :) Peace MG Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
whiterabbit 485 Report post Posted December 12, 2011 I actually like Porn... but very randomly however I am a visual being and I find Porn very enticing. Most porn does nothing but turn me off but every once in a while it clicks and I enjoy watching porn with others. I also like porn when I smoke weed.... and I enjoy sex while smoking weed also WR Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
livenudecats 4072 Report post Posted December 13, 2011 I'll have your porn. I love it! ;) What have you got? Well, there's egg and bacon, egg sausage and bacon Egg and PORN, Egg, bacon and PORN Egg, bacon, sausage and PORN, PORN, bacon, sausage and PORN PORN, egg, PORN, PORN, bacon and PORN PORN, sausage, PORN, PORN, PORN, bacon, PORN tomato and PORN PORN, PORN, PORN, egg and PORN PORN, PORN, PORN, PORN, PORN, PORN, baked beans, PORN, PORN, PORN, PORN. (Choir: Porn! Porn! Porn! Porn! Lovely Porn! Lovely Porn!) Or Lobster Thermidor aux crevettes with a mornay sauce served in a provencale manner with shallots and aubergines garnished with truffle pate, brandy and a fried egg on top and PORN. Wife: Have you got anything without PORN? Waitress: Well, the PORN, eggs, sausage and PORN. That's not got much PORN in it Wife: I don't want any PORN! Customer: Why can't she have eggs, bacon, PORN and sausage? Wife: That's got PORN in it! Customer: Hasn't got much PORN in it as PORN, eggs, sausage and PORN has it? (Choir: Porn! Porn! Porn!...) Wife: Could you do me eggs, bacon, PORN and sausage without the PORN, then? Waitress: Iiiiiiiiiiiich!! Wife: What do you mean 'Iiiiiiiiiich'? I don't like PORN! (Choir: Lovely Porn! Wonderful Porn!) Waitress (to choir): Shut up! (Choir: Lovely Porn! Wonderful Porn!) Waitress: Shut Up! Bloody Vikings! You can't have egg, bacon, PORN and sausage without the PORN. Wife: I don't like PORN! Customer: Shush dear, don't have a fuss. I'll have your PORN. I love it, I'm having Porn, Porn, Porn, Porn, Porn, Porn, Porn, baked beans, Porn, Porn, Porn and Porn! (Choir: Porn! Porn! Porn! Porn! Lovely Porn! Wonderful Porn!) Waitress: Shut Up!! Baked beans are off. Customer: Well, could I have her Porn instead of the baked beans then? Waitress: You mean Porn, Porn, Porn, Porn, Porn, Porn, Porn, Porn, Porn, Porn, Porn, Porn, Porn and Porn Choir (intervening): Porn! Porn! Porn! Porn! Lovely Porn! Wonderful Porn! Porn Po-o-o-r-rn Porn Po-o-o-r-rn Porn. Lovely Porn! Lovely Porn! Lovely Porn! Lovely Porn! Porn, Porn, Porn, Porn! 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ashley Ann 75247 Report post Posted December 13, 2011 (edited) I love porn, always have...with that being said, I have my limitations on what I like to see...I really love D.P scenes, (find them fascinating to watch, probably due to the fact that I have never, nor will ever do that) but anything more than that aka more than 2 , unless it's an "airtight" type of scene..I find it disturbing. But that's just me... Me & my long ago ex-bf used to watch porn together alllllll the time, it was a very nice enhancer lets say, it's an awesome scenario when the both of you love porn & watch it together, just don't expect to get through seeing the whole movie ;) if ya know what I mean :aol_doggystyle: Edited December 14, 2011 by V****sa Va** Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123367 Report post Posted December 13, 2011 I can't say I have anything really against porn but having it on while on a date i find insulting. It makes me feel as if i'm not good enough. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SmartGUY 140 Report post Posted December 13, 2011 ...I think you're missing the point of porn for couples. The good stuff, used at the right time and under the right conditions. I agree that porn is usually option C (when the fabulously attractive partner is not available, and a lack of funds prevent me from visiting a fabulously attractive SP). But as a shared experience, it can be great. Not as background to sex. But as foreplay. At my place, we call it "pants optional" nights. Curled up on the couch in undies, watching some good porn and drinking copious amounts of wine, lots of mutual touching. The best for my partner is a long, gentle massage of her pussy through her panties. Once they're soaked through, they come off and more touching. All while watching some porn. Honestly, my partner likes seeing attractive woman being pleasured - not something she'd get to see without some female POV porn. Either way, its incredibly satisfying to see how long we can last before someone has to put their mouth on some part of the other's person's anatomy. I can assure you, while we've watched the beginning of many good porn movies, we've never seen the endings! For those of us too shy or inhibited to go to a Swinger's club, good porn is a great foreplay enhancer. You've got to do your research and look for productions that have the kind of actors you find attractive. We like natural bodies and don't like anything that's too abusive or rough. When we find the right one, bingo! It really amplifies the pleasure. The defense rests. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
scribbles 6031 Report post Posted December 13, 2011 It's interesting to note that throughout the history of porn, porn has been used in the spirit of spying into the private lives and bedroom activities of normal people. Porn with higher production values, elaborate scripts and plots and so on did not become common until shortly before the boom that saw the Mitchell brothers become famous. And, we're seeing a resurgence of this voyeuristic spirit in the popularity of gonzo porn and amateur porn. Some argue that porn in the internet age is dangerous because it is teaching people an incorrect expectation of what "normal" and good sex should be. I'm not sure; is porn, so to speak, art imitating life, or life inspired by art? Ladies, do you feel the sex you have with clients has been influenced by what they see in movies? Personally, I like sex in a variety of forms, and am not formulaic about it. I enjoy porn, but find some of it distasteful. Particularly, I don't like anything involving simulated abuse or violence, including slapping, choking, forced gagging, etc. Maybe that's a kink that some women actually like, but I'm never sure and I'd rather not see it and assume. Porn with a partner can be fun, and has been in the past. But, I'm usually a lot more focused on the lady I'm with than the one on the screen. ;) Sent from my HTC EVO 3D X515a using Tapatalk Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
n1ght0wlbilly 221 Report post Posted December 13, 2011 I would much rather 'do' than watch. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kate von Katz 49953 Report post Posted December 13, 2011 @ livenudecats: HA HA HA!! Gotta love Monty Python! Though I like your version better than the original Spam version... ;-) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
livenudecats 4072 Report post Posted December 13, 2011 I've known alot of smart animals in my day but Mr. Scribbles is by far the SMARTEST cat I have ever known. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
steelydan 130 Report post Posted December 14, 2011 Sorry Live, but that lengthy......whatever it was.... could turn anyone off of porn even with eggs lol. No Offence intended. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hoji 307 Report post Posted December 14, 2011 I have one brain, one set of eyes porn during sex is too distracting as Amadeus Mozart said (in the film version) "too many notes!" I also got a sore neck from it once Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
klsho 100 Report post Posted December 14, 2011 I am getting older, yet new to the hobby, but I agree too. I have always liked to concentrate on my partner and give as well as receive pleasure,which makes it better in the long run. I find I am the type of person that can't do that and (let's be honest) watch something I can't measure up to on a screen. Being new the question I have is....do none, some, most, or all providers like that or are they just waiting for it to be over anyway? I am looking for a little more than just an expensive hobby and hope to get something more out of it, perhaps a little tenderness without strings. Is that possible or is it like getting into a revolving door? Sorry, not such a Quick Reply. Have a Great One, klsho Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
livenudecats 4072 Report post Posted December 14, 2011 That's what happens when an appointment I had from 8 to 10 am cancels at the last minute and I have too much time on my hands. LNC ;) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rileydaniels 1901 Report post Posted December 14, 2011 After doing porn myself, there is no spark for it to be around me anymore. i much rather have music playing then porn in a session. and the whole experience of doing porn myself wasn't that great so I don't need the reminder of it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
spud271 47779 Report post Posted December 14, 2011 After doing porn myself, there is no spark for it to be around me anymore. i much rather have music playing then porn in a session. and the whole experience of doing porn myself wasn't that great so I don't need the reminder of it. I'm with Riley. Having worked in porn, the last thing I want when visiting a SP is to have porn in the background. I'd rather have some great music on instead. That's not to say I don't like to watch it, but I don't find I need that to make the experience with a SP more erotic. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest b**ws***4 Report post Posted December 16, 2011 If you can't have porn, there is always spam. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
