latteur 100 Report post Posted October 30, 2008 (edited) mmmmmmmmmm Edited May 16, 2009 by latteur my wife find me here Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cowboy kenny 50799 Report post Posted October 30, 2008 if she initiates the conversation i see no problem, that means she enjoys chating with you off the clock. I'm sure if it was problem she'd let you know. You still havent' told us much about this sp you've met, spill the beans partner this community is about sharing! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hunter08 182 Report post Posted October 30, 2008 just delete her from your msn Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
latteur 100 Report post Posted October 30, 2008 just delete her from your msn mmmmmmmmmm Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tangoman 100 Report post Posted October 30, 2008 There is no harm in chatting with someone. If you both enjoy it, keep it up. Who knows where it could lead to. Maybe she will want to see you "off the clock". Just be aware of what you could be getting into. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
YoungStud 468 Report post Posted October 30, 2008 Also, you can always just ask her, "Do you mind chatting like this with me for free?" It never hurts to check to see where the other person is coming from rather than just make assumptions. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
getiton76 100 Report post Posted October 30, 2008 Like other(s) have said, if she initiated, then roll with it. No harm in talking to her, it might even lead to good things. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
THRacer 370 Report post Posted October 30, 2008 Maybe have a conversation with her if she is chatting too much and set some ground rules. I's sure is nice. I am sure she likes cahtting with you. She may be lonely between calls and wants someone to talk to. Doesn't mean she is trying to have you visit her evey day. If it is too much chat for you for sure you can tell her respectfully that you cant chat so much without insulting her. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
esoterica 624 Report post Posted October 30, 2008 I have not found an SP yet who isn't a good talker, or should I say, conversationalist. Maybe I am lucky. With the strength needed to be an SP, I am sure if you were not welcome, you would know by now. You are probably a nice guy and elle desire parler avec toi. Bonne chance. Posted via Mobile Device Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cat 262460 Report post Posted October 30, 2008 Also, you can always just ask her, "Do you mind chatting like this with me for free?" It never hurts to check to see where the other person is coming from rather than just make assumptions. This is an excellent suggestion. Talk to her about it and ask her directly. Tell her you enjoy the conversation, explain how often your finances allow you to visit her and she'll let you know either by telling you straight out or just easing up on the chat... Catherine Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest f***2f*** Report post Posted October 30, 2008 i've exchanged emails and chat with quite a few sps and it's just normal "keeping in touch" as far as I'm concerned. I don't abuse the priviledge by flooding their inboxes and they don't flood mine...the sps are human beings too...it could be she just likes to chat with you...as cat and others say just get the ground rules straight. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites