Narman 117 Report post Posted November 4, 2008 I was thinking about this. Where does the average guy play? Its probably not at home, and not all girls do in-call. Do you rent a hotel just for the date? I personally mostly frequent MPs or in-call, and usually only see outcall girls when I'm away from home and in a hotel. Though I'm very discreet when out of town since the hotel is usually paid for by my employers, and occasionally I'm on the same floor as collegues. Anyway I'm just curious. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
spud271 47779 Report post Posted November 4, 2008 I sometimes see women at home if they only do outcalls. I figure there is no point in me renting a room where I have a pretty nice place right here in Ottawa. I prefer it when they offer incalls, but it ultimately does not matter to me. If it is out of Ottawa, I don't usually go for an incall, unless it's a city I know well. I usually stay in swanky hotels anyway, so I don't mind having the ladies come and visit me. It ultimately depends on your situation, I'm single so I can basically do what I want when I want. Not everyone is in the same situation, so I can understand why incalls are best for most people. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
buggernot 588 Report post Posted November 4, 2008 I always do it at home. Being single allows me to do that of course, but there's definitely a comfort in knowing that I can 'order in' and relax. Only reason I would try an incall in the future is to see how it's like on the SP's turf, and maybe get to play with some of her toys ;) But I feel safer at home and in some cases the rate is no different. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Capital Hunter 18263 Report post Posted November 4, 2008 Yes exactly me too. I am single and I only take outcalls and I have the lady at my apartment. I make my apartment very bright. If daytime, I open all the blinders and if evening, then I turn on all lights including flashing lights with a bottle of my favorite red wine (or grape fruit if the lady prefer non-alcoholic drinks) and two glasses in order to create party like environment. I also turn on the large screen TV playing either retro music or (female only) scenes from Playboy channel. I have a King size comfortable bed in my bedroom where we can both share comfortably. I prefer home much more than hotels where I have to pay large sums and end up in a small room and small bed with little light and then having to check out a couple of hours after I check in!!! No hotel in the world can have the home advantage. With dancers the home advantage is even greater as after the dance is over we usually order food and drink wine and hug and kiss and chat. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
getiton76 100 Report post Posted November 4, 2008 Her place. I can't do outcalls, don't have the capability to host. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
YoungStud 468 Report post Posted November 4, 2008 You're a real Hugh Hefner there, Secret. lol Myself, I prefer in-calls in Ottawa and out-calls when traveling. I know most of my neighbours along my street, and though I live alone now, prefer some discretion, rather than having people ask me about all these young women in cabs pulling up in front of my house regularly. It's just easier when you don't have to explain. lol Plus, my favourite provider only does in-calls.:???: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest f***2f*** Report post Posted November 4, 2008 I do incalls when in hometown....outcalls at my hotel in other city or their place if they do incalls...prefer indies. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Ou**or**n Report post Posted November 4, 2008 Age old issue... For me I can't host, so its mostly incalls with the local indies and the occasional travelling provider that has a hotel room. If I could do outcalls to my place it sure would expand my horizons... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Capital Hunter 18263 Report post Posted November 4, 2008 You're a real Hugh Hefner there, Secret. lol No not really YS. With a few $ one can create the party like environment. Flashing lights and a bottle of wine really doesn't cost much and everyone has a bed and TV. I am curious though for those of who who are checking into a hotel, is it not embarrassing to check out a couple of hours later??. A couple of years ago I used to travel to Montreal and on a couple of ocassions I did check into the hotel since I don't have a home in Montreal and when I was checking out about 3 - 4 hours later, I did get some weird looks from the hotel receptionist!!!. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest i***k*** Report post Posted November 4, 2008 I prefer incalls myself. I could have outcalls to my place but I live "in the country" so would feel bad having a lady come out here. The cost of the cab ride out here would not really be worth it for the SP either. I've toyed around with the hotel idea but don't think I'd go that route unless I was planning an extended stay with a lady (or two). The expense just doesn't make it worthwhile for an hour or two. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rick_falcon 911 Report post Posted November 4, 2008 Being single, I have almost always lived alone so, incalls or outcalls, didn't really matter to me. It was more for the convenience of the lady. But over time, I came to prefer incalls. If a lady offers incalls, it's because she doesn't mind and might prefer it that way. Also, it's often a bit cheaper because there is no transport fee. Finally, I still get to keep my anonymity in terms of my place of residence. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PistolPete 61421 Report post Posted November 4, 2008 It has always been incalls here in Ottawa. I find it actually safer, more so when you are going to a SP's residence, or hotel.On the road, have participated in the outcall service a few times only. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bangminton 145 Report post Posted November 6, 2008 No not really YS. With a few $ one can create the party like environment. Flashing lights and a bottle of wine really doesn't cost much and everyone has a bed and TV. I am curious though for those of who who are checking into a hotel, is it not embarrassing to check out a couple of hours later??. A couple of years ago I used to travel to Montreal and on a couple of ocassions I did check into the hotel since I don't have a home in Montreal and when I was checking out about 3 - 4 hours later, I did get some weird looks from the hotel receptionist!!!. When I book a hotel room, I tend to make it worthwhile (seeing 2 different SPs with a break of a couple of hours in between to recharge my battery) I normally book the rooms via PriceLine and check in around 5 p.m. and check out after mid-night or sometimes the morning after. Work out well for everyone involved... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ulixestrojan 3757 Report post Posted November 6, 2008 Book with Hotwire. Use room and then walk out when done. There is no reason to revisit the lobby unless you think the check-in hostesses are hot. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
YoungStud 468 Report post Posted November 6, 2008 I agree. Book online. Let them validate your credit card info when you check in. Then, when you're done, just leave the key card on the dresser and go. No need to check out unless you need to confirm your pay-per-view porno movie consumption and mini-bar usage. :???: Book with Hotwire. Use room and then walk out when done. There is no reason to revisit the lobby unless you think the check-in hostesses are hot. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Seymour 3970 Report post Posted November 6, 2008 No need to check out unless you need to confirm your pay-per-view porno movie consumption and mini-bar usage. And - perhaps explain all those feathers scattered all over the room - which by the way didn't come from the pillows. :neutral: Butt kidding aside - can't play at home, too many nosy neighbors! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dreamer8 510 Report post Posted November 6, 2008 Incalls all the way! Better price like rick said because there is no travel time or expense to the SP's more anonimity less chance of bait and switch the SP is more confortable in her own room which traslates to a better time for both of us. Sometimes when I arrive the SP is nude or close to it .. (no time is wasted) When I am in other cities I do have outcalls but only when I don't know how to get around in that city. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites