ulixestrojan 3757 Report post Posted November 6, 2008 I have just returned from 3 weeks of very intense sexual exploration and must say that I am changed. Not that what I was before was bad - quite the contrary - but what i feel now about my energy is that much of the "crust" surrounding the core has been burned away. It would be my privilege if any Cerbites - hobbyist and provider - could share how they have experienced sexual transformations and what effect it had on you. I may be back, participating in the conversation, but I am not the same being. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest f***2f*** Report post Posted November 6, 2008 Awesome man....good to have you back. The last 9 months of pooning has transformed me....I used to settle for sex once or twice a month with my spouse...at her convenience but the last few months have shown me how short life is to live without something which is so vital to my well being. I have a high sex drive, always have and I need regular sex, the hotter the better. I realize that surpressing that all these years has made me a poorer person and an angry bitter person at that. I have shed a lot of that now. I'm much more understanding of other people and more patient. I'm more willing to try new things...not just in the sack and I think I'm more interesting all round to talk to and hang out with. Just my 2 cents worth:mrgreen: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123367 Report post Posted November 6, 2008 One of my Sexual transformations: Leaving my husband was one of my first sexual transformations. I was stuck in a relationship in which he was very demanding with sex and everything else. He wanted it his way all the time. Being a country bumpkin i thought that was just the way it was. I lost interest in him but still was a good girl and never strayed but i had this longing to be free in every way. I wanted to experience everything. I had this burning inside of me to experience real love making, real sex with someone you wanted to be with. ....one day i woke up and decided that was it... Since then i have never been happier....i do what,when and whom i want. There' s so much to explore....but now i only explore what I'm comfortable with.... kisses, Emma A Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
YoungStud 468 Report post Posted November 6, 2008 A few months ago I met someone with whom I not only connected completely sexually but emotionally and intellectually as well. Before in my life, there were several women over the years that I deeply loved but with whom the sex tended to have limited variety, though good for what it was. Of course there were also women, sometimes quite a few, for which the connection was mostly or purely sexual and in quite a wide number of ways. It's made me as happy as I've ever been to unite those two side of me more completely that ever before. Even though my new friend is involved in a long-term live in relationship with someone else, we get together often to enjoy a wide variety of activities both in and out of bed. It's always good when we are together, no matter what we are doing. We both know we're now involved in long-term relationship of our own with all those connections between us, which makes us both feel very glad and fortunate. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
smitty_McFlung 290 Report post Posted November 6, 2008 Sexual freedom is the single most important transformation a person can go through. My confidence, outlook on life just sky-rocketed after having 2 lovely ladies at once. for a fat old bald guy, I can now pretty much go up to any woman on the street and start a conversation, before I was very intimidated by them..lol. I preach sexual freedom to all I can, its amazing! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
d*mm*y 887 Report post Posted November 6, 2008 Simple elegant "Sexual Transformations" ya that will be the title of my next book! It will be at least 12 chapters, starting with chapter one the 14 year old horny kid playing with twins in there aunts basement right through to Dirty old man slut :) and man it has been a seriously crazy ride right through. I could even write about my first love, I was 8 and she was 7 and we played Dr. like there was no tomorrow! Now the party got a little exciting when I met the true love of my life and ex stripper who was working as an escort, that was truly life changing (not to mention the first divorce!!), then a series of hardcore freaks walked across my life, and wife number 2 showed up. This was the most extreme sexual person I had met, she loved group sex, was a feature dancer, and introduced me to a hole new culture of swinging. Then I met my first sub, and then another and another. At every turn I have evolved, the greatest lessons I have learned are, sex is a selfish act, take your pleasure, and the reality is never the same as the fantasy. One truth about sex is the more you are into it the more you will heighten the experience for you partner(s). Being selfish about sex is the best thing for you partner, the energy from getting someone off IS the addiction, the ultimate partner for me gets off on a combination of pain and pleasure. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123367 Report post Posted November 6, 2008 Escorting: loving sex as i do one of my friends convinced me into trying this thing called escorting..At first i was appalled! What, me being a prostitute? No way! {not knowing the difference between the 2} Then slowly i realized what a wonderful life it could be.... I get to meet new people all the time. I can have as much sex as i want{which by the way is very addictive}the more i have the more i want...{just like chocolate} Everyday is like my birthday-gifts and donations I can play dress up and no one looks at me weird...haha Travel feeling wanted and loved and new friends what more can a girl want? Realizing what i do is good for me and my company was certainly another sexual transformation. kisses, Emma A Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Seymour 3970 Report post Posted November 7, 2008 Yes - I know exactly what you all mean - I have been transformed into a lesbian and I'm OK with that. :-P Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest f***2f*** Report post Posted November 7, 2008 Yes - I know exactly what you all mean - I have been transformed into a lesbian and I'm OK with that. :-P i know exactly what you mean man...i too have discovered that i am a lesbian....I like doing exactly the same things that they do ha ha!!!:mrgreen: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
YoungStud 468 Report post Posted November 7, 2008 i know exactly what you mean man...i too have discovered that i am a lesbian....I like doing exactly the same things that they do ha ha!!!:mrgreen: Yes, whenever I get close to my feminine side, I realize how attracted to other women I really am. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Ou**or**n Report post Posted November 7, 2008 Orignally posted by Dumpy:One truth about sex is the more you are into it the more you will heighten the experience for you partner(s). Being selfish about sex is the best thing for you partner, the energy from getting someone off IS the addiction Very sage comments. I never thought it through this way before but a couple of my all time best experiences with an SP were when she stopped being a 'pleaser', took control and totally got herself off with intense orgasms. Having her get off like that was absolutely intense for me. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123367 Report post Posted November 13, 2008 While on tour in SF i met this incredible man H... He had recently discovered a whole new world of sexual freedom...and welcomed me to join...these were the orgies,swing clubs and being with another woman. People that know me know I'm not bi but this exploration of my sexuality has taught me so much. The orgies and swing clubs were so erotic....imagine a room filled with nothing but passion and pleasure...a place where you are totally free to be with and experience almost anything...the smell of sex in the air...people watching you wanting you...touching you...very erotic H and i still share our sexual adventures and now his gf joins us. We still explore as much as we can when together....and i have a nice place to stay while in SF...their lovenest kisses, Emma a Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
brandi 231 Report post Posted November 13, 2008 I find life is always transforming. It is quite an interesting ride sometimes. The last big thing for me was learning to squirt about a year ago. I can?t always do it - only sometimes but it is fun and still new enough that it amazes the heck out of me. It has the same kind of power similar to when I first learned to have an orgasm. I always ponder what will be next to learn. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
spud271 47779 Report post Posted November 13, 2008 My transformation came when an ex-girlfriend of mine wanted to start practicing tantric sex. It was the most amazing sexual experience of my life, and I have never been the same since. Unfortunately I have never been able to find anyone or convince any of my other girlfriends to even venture down that road. The search is still on, but it did bring me to different place in my life! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123367 Report post Posted November 13, 2008 sexual transformation isn't just about sex though its the willingness to be free and open to all....to experience..its the thrill of getting there and the not knowing where you were before... kisses, Emma A Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TRman 536 Report post Posted November 13, 2008 ....and I'm a lesbian too!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Seymour 3970 Report post Posted November 15, 2008 One correction to my last post on the thread - I'm now a cross dressing lesbian. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest f***2f*** Report post Posted November 15, 2008 i'm a trans gendered lesbian:lol: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PistolPete 61421 Report post Posted November 15, 2008 The thrill is incredible, such as being submissive, or allowing your partner to be submissive, performing greek, exploring the other side of my sexual(wild/kinky?) side has been quite outstanding lately, having sex the lasts much longer, ensuring your partner has an orgasm.. ...yes its great to be a young man again;-) BTW-My next experience will be a duo which I never participated in before...I'm looking forward to that. sexual transformation isn't just about sex though its the willingness to be free and open to all....to experience..its the thrill of getting there and the not knowing where you were before... kisses, Emma A Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
d*mm*y 887 Report post Posted November 15, 2008 Geez with all these new ladies around here I am getting hornier and hornier!! Any of you planing on getting enhanced boobs? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Seymour 3970 Report post Posted November 15, 2008 Geez with all these new ladies around here I am getting hornier and hornier!! Any of you planing on getting enhanced boobs? Yes - I am working on enhancing my own boobs. However, somehow I don't think I will be able to help you with your horny problem... 8) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
