Guest t**obb**** Report post Posted January 17, 2012 How long after you see a SP is it ok to provide a recommendation? 1 week? 1 month? 1 year? Although it doesn't change your experience, likely those reading or inquiring are using the info to currently asses the SP, and things may have changed Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest W***ledi*Time Report post Posted January 17, 2012 How long after you see a SP is it ok to provide a recommendation?1 week? 1 month? 1 year? Although it doesn't change your experience, likely those reading or inquiring are using the info to currently asses the SP, and things may have changed If it's been a while, the most straight-forward way to handle it is to say in the reco how long ago it was. Then others can decide for themselves how much weight they'll give it. Recos are always appreciated! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Leber 1328 Report post Posted January 17, 2012 Everyone appreciate any contributions made on Cerb. So write at your earliest convenience. For your reco posts, simply include your date of meeting. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
billybob 20128 Report post Posted January 17, 2012 I agree with Leber, all reco's are welcome, not sure why you would a month to give a review but as long as your reco reflects that I don't see an issue. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest S*rca****sid Report post Posted January 17, 2012 Depends on kate. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Meg O'Ryan 266444 Report post Posted January 17, 2012 Depends on kate. Hahaha I so wanted to say that! Seriously tho, when you have something good to say it's never too late. Just make it clear what the time frame was. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest ***yP*l Report post Posted January 17, 2012 I'm new and moderated so I'll have to wait until such time I would not be regarded as shill (I'm seeing a lady on Thursday). Besides I have no rep icon thingies and hence minimal credibility around here. I understand the system and will wait accordingly. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Phaedrus 209521 Report post Posted January 18, 2012 Yep, recos are always good. Only one caveat: if it's been a while since you last saw the lady in question, it might be worth making sure she's still active... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300292 Report post Posted January 18, 2012 Don't worry about late, like others have said, just specify when you saw the lady A recommendation isn't just nice for the ladies from a business standpoint or for guys when deciding on a lady to see. A lady likes to hear she is attractive and desirable, and to the guy writing the recommendation, she is memorable and a lady worth mentioning...I hope that is worded right As of now I have just recently written a recommendation on a lady I saw a few months ago. I'm just waiting for her to say yay or nay A quick rambling RG Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
spud271 47779 Report post Posted January 18, 2012 How long after you see a SP is it ok to provide a recommendation?1 week? 1 month? 1 year? Although it doesn't change your experience, likely those reading or inquiring are using the info to currently asses the SP, and things may have changed Two weeks, 30 seconds, a couple of years...whenever you feel like writing one. I think it's always best to wait a day or two so you can absorb the experience you had. Honestly though, write one whenever you feel like it and never feel obliged to do so. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
billybob 20128 Report post Posted January 18, 2012 Another thing to keep in mind, I remember once saying to a lady, wow you're so pretty you must here that all the time, and she said, you never get tired of compliments. Giving a lady a "late" recommendation would never be an insult, I wouldn't think. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CristyCurves 169032 Report post Posted January 18, 2012 How long after you see a SP is it ok to provide a recommendation?1 week? 1 month? 1 year? Although it doesn't change your experience, likely those reading or inquiring are using the info to currently asses the SP, and things may have changed I feel it's just courteous to post after the meeting,we all appreciate them ,thanks,cristy Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Luckyme 41401 Report post Posted January 19, 2012 Normally, it is best to write one as soon as possible. But, it also depends on the situation. I am postponing to post one because the particular SP I saw is away for almost a month now, and I am not sure if she'll return. When I see her ad. again, then I'll post it. If I don't see her ad. again, I probably will not post it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
