JackOften 100 Report post Posted January 18, 2012 How do Halifax/Dartmouth SP define GFE? Many of the local girls say they provide a GFE; yet, after listing all the things they don't do, it really sounds like FS. I can understand maybe not providing BBBJs, but I would think kissing would be a part of a GFE - after all, most girlfriends allow their boyfriends to kiss them! In Nova Scotia, what makes a GFE more than FS? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
justanotherguy74 111 Report post Posted January 18, 2012 Depends on the SP I guess- some include BBBJ, DATY, MSOG, etc.- others just seem to think it means cuddling and not kicking you out/leaving as soon as you cum. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest J******72 Report post Posted January 18, 2012 Good question, JackOften. Ladies? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mikeyboy 27133 Report post Posted January 18, 2012 This is a question that has come up on numerous occasions with varying opinions. F/S refers to a specific activity, while GFE is a far more subjective term. It encompasses the feel of an encounter, but does not necessarily imply a specific menu. The bottom line is that there are different interpretations of the term. Read the sps ads for specifics and if you still have questions about specific services... Ask them. They don't bite. (ok, maybe some do... You'll have to ask! ) 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Summer Meadows 1676 Report post Posted January 19, 2012 Summer meadows definition of GFE: Kissing Oral for both multiple positions Cbj hj sex with a condom 69er shower fun toys What am I forgetting? ;) GFE does NOT in my opinion (or bedroom) include anal, bbbj, CIM, COF or unprotected sex. Remember that's just me...every girl is different! 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
billybob 20128 Report post Posted January 19, 2012 There are many interpretations of GFE and PSE, it's impossible to nail down the definitions IMHOP. Best thing to do is communicate with the SP and find their definition of GFE/PSE, don't assume anything. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Leber 1328 Report post Posted January 19, 2012 @JackOften: Many tend agree with you on the GFE and kissing. I'm thinking some girls may reject kissing upon meeting their partner. It could be a variety of reasons similar to all of us (or just myself) -- incompatible looks and/or bad hygiene. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
billybob 20128 Report post Posted January 19, 2012 @JackOften: Many tend agree with you on the GFE and kissing. I'm thinking some girls may reject kissing upon meeting their partner. It could be a variety of reasons similar to all of us (or just myself) -- incompatible looks and/or bad hygiene. I think most SP's say up front what services they provide, although there are always exceptions I would think having an SP change their mind around kissing or any other service upon meeting a client would be rare. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Leber 1328 Report post Posted January 19, 2012 I think most SP's say up front what services they provide, although there are always exceptions I would think having an SP change their mind around kissing or any other service upon meeting a client would be rare. I was not implying that the girls would change their mind upon meeting. It was the case where kissing wasn't listed on the menu. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Giapita Isxell 182 Report post Posted January 19, 2012 I tend to agree that GFE should be more about a state of mind... where the time spent is more like someone who enjoys being with you and is happy you are there, not more like a menu item. Or in other words not like welcome in, drow trou and lets get it over with. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JackOften 100 Report post Posted January 19, 2012 Summer meadows definition of GFE:Kissing Oral for both multiple positions Cbj hj sex with a condom 69er shower fun toys What am I forgetting? ;) I like Summer's definition of GFE. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest t**i***n Report post Posted January 19, 2012 I think this may be where the standard disclaimer would apply, YMMV. Kissing and FIV have always been assumed in a relationship, but hey, even then it generally takes more than a hug at the door and 20 minutes of chit chat. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123368 Report post Posted January 19, 2012 You come to my room and your greeted as if your my bf. Kissing passionately ..with tongue ...hugs,small talk {maybe}lol...depends on my mood we might get to it later. I don't feel right if your asking if you can do things..if your curious ask before you come. I like for us to to just melt into each other and go with the flow. Charging extra for things is not my style. The time we are together we are together. kisses, Emma Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AllysonNS 1548 Report post Posted January 19, 2012 Thank you for this tread, I am still learning so it is nice to see what other girls are willing to offer as part of GFE. I tried to read up on it before and the meanings are all over the place. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest J******72 Report post Posted January 19, 2012 You're awesome. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Summer Meadows 1676 Report post Posted January 19, 2012 Any girl that says she does GFE but won't kiss the client should tell him before he books. And then look up the many definitions of GFE. lol :) Pretty sure everyones def includes kissing. Or maybe not. What do I know? ;) I know mine does! 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300292 Report post Posted January 20, 2012 I'm of the opinion that kissing is part of a GFE experience. No it doesn't have to be LFK or DFK, but at least kissing on the lips If a lady doesn't allow kissing, she shouldn't call her service a GFE. With that said, of course goes without saying YMMV (no kissing if you have bad breath for example) and all ladies have the right to set their boundaries and shouldn't be pressured to offer something they don't want to RG Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Andee 220524 Report post Posted January 20, 2012 I'm of the opinion that kissing is part of a GFE experience. No it doesn't have to be LFK or DFK, but at least kissing on the lipsIf a lady doesn't allow kissing, she shouldn't call her service a GFE. With that said, of course goes without saying YMMV (no kissing if you have bad breath for example) and all ladies have the right to set their boundaries and shouldn't be pressured to offer something they don't want to RG Exactly. Back in the day when I first started escorting (outcalls only through an agency) we provided FS (full service) which was intercourse with a condom and may or may not have included oral with a condom CBJ and definitely only one shot on goal. Kissing, DATY, and bbbj and any extras like COF, COB, MSOG and digits were off the menu and if the other girls found out you did and reported to the owner, you'd be run out of the agency. GFE came along later mostly when indies started offering their own brand of service (and thank goodness for that). 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dunkinsailor 1220 Report post Posted January 20, 2012 I look at gfe as a starting point; there's a whole range of quality going from basic gfe to ultimate. I look for: - dfk, and especially if the provider mentions they love kissing. - any statements such us "you'll FEEL like I'm really your girlfriend" - any info on what "sensual" things they like, such as skin stroking, sudsing together. I absolutely love touch, having my hair stroked, eye contact, and exploring the whole range of kissing (those sweet soft lips on lips, the slow deep kiss that makes you gasp inside at the anticipation of each next moment). There's so many areas of the body and mind that can be part of the experience. Someday, I'll be able to put aside enough cash, and hopefully find the right sp, to be able to have the ultimate gfe date. At my age, fs just isn't enough by itself anymore. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
boomer01 5566 Report post Posted January 20, 2012 I think Summers answer sums up Gfe quite accurately. Although BBBJ seems to be still out there with some girls when they talk about GFE I understand it's a risky thing to offer. My only issue is that too many SP's are loosely throwing around the term and not providing anything more than full service. It's a slippery slope for sure...what I like about Cerb is most SP's if you PM them will tell you what their services are and you can decide from there...that's the beauty of this site. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
billybob 20128 Report post Posted January 20, 2012 I would like to jump on the bandwagon, I don't think you should advertise as GFE if you don't want to kiss, can't imagine any guy or girl having a girlfriend and not kissing them. As boomer said the beauty of this site is that you can communicate back and forth with SP's and pretty much know exactly what kind of experience you will have. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
oldblueeyez 15475 Report post Posted January 20, 2012 Yes, GFE should include kissing. I love kissing! I'd be happy just with a kissing session sometimes. There's nothing like inhaling hot breathes of passion from another person, when the body and its chemicals are doing all the talking. Lips, neck, ears, face, shoulder. YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CristyCurves 169032 Report post Posted February 18, 2012 I think mod says it best in the"why so much jealousy" thread,gfe is described well there,check it out. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
stevecurious 42059 Report post Posted February 18, 2012 I think mod says it best in the"why so much jealousy" thread,gfe is described well there,check it out. Cristy, could you provide a link to the thread in question? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Gabriella Laurence 301887 Report post Posted February 20, 2012 Cristy, could you provide a link to the thread in question? http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=79955 Post Cristy is talking about: People assume gfe means some sort of serviceis included (this is not true) gfe is a "style" of service and not any specific services ... All gfe means is that she is not "mecanical" (like right to the point and in / out as quick as possible). Nothing more should be expcted. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
