PistolPete 61421 Report post Posted November 14, 2008 For the past month I've had the same re-curring fantasy dream about one of my most visited,and favorite SP's. I simply cannot not believe the tossing and turning, the major hard-on, the waking up and the pillow is wet from me sweating.I actually have to get out of bed and pour cold water on my face! I feel like I'm frigging teenager all over again, having those boy~hood crushes on a girl! We are having this great sex, in another country to boot! Frig, am I going nuts...or is it normal to dream/fantasize about a gorgeous woman whom you have made love to several times? Would you tell her (your SP) that you are having these dreams of erotic pleasure? Just wondering if I'm losing my marbles, and should stay out of the game for a while? I know I have been playing the hobby game for a while, but wondering if other long time members or in fact SP's have ever gone through the same ordeal? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
brandi 231 Report post Posted November 14, 2008 For the past month I've had the same re-curring fantasy dream about one of my most visited,and favorite SP's. I simply cannot not believe the tossing and turning, the major hard-on, the waking up and the pillow is wet from me sweating.I actually have to get out of bed and pour cold water on my face! I feel like I'm frigging teenager all over again, having those boy~hood crushes on a girl! We are having this great sex, in another country to boot! Frig, am I going nuts...or is it normal to dream/fantasize about a gorgeous woman whom you have made love to several times? Would you tell her (your SP) that you are having these dreams of erotic pleasure? Just wondering if I'm losing my marbles, and should stay out of the game for a while? I know I have been playing the hobby game for a while, but wondering if other long time members or in fact SP's have ever gone through the same ordeal? Enjoy it while it lasts as these fantasy come and go threw out life or at least they have for me. Don?t judge it or worry about it; just enjoy. It is very normal. Even though we try not to get personal as we are going our separate ways after the session we are after all humans with feelings, emotions and can not always just turn those off. There are clients I sometimes think about when they are not here. No don?t stay out of the game for awhile as you put it because it is obviously bringing you great pleasure and stirring something in you other then the body. This is why she is your favorite, she moves you. Whether you tell her or not is your call. When guys tell me things like this I have mixed emotions part of me is flattered and it boosts my ego. This just makes me want to please them all the more harder. Don?t worry so much. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
o*****j***e 136 Report post Posted November 15, 2008 i'm not a long time member on cerb, but i am a long time hobbiest. I have been feeling somewhat the way you have been. It's totally normal when you click sexually and are able to talk to the SP on a personal level at the same time. geez, life is so complicated...LOL Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Seymour 3970 Report post Posted November 15, 2008 Pete - I think the force is strong with you.. :-) - so is that so wrong? Not in my books - as long as in your moment of pleasure you are not screaming the wrong name - would not want to tip off or tick off the SO. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
p22*** 236 Report post Posted November 15, 2008 Hell ya tell her, if anything thats a huge compliment...What girl wouldn't want to hear, your my fantasy... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest f***2f*** Report post Posted November 15, 2008 Well.....i know exactly what you're talking about...having been unable to be with her (my fav) for the last 3 weeks the fire is cooling a little though....i'm way too busy to fantasize right now but my heart does a little flip whenever i get an email or a pm from her...exactly the way i was when I was 16 and a girl called me or kissed me....i think we're hard-wired to do this....and it sure feels good doesn't it??!!:grin: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
suburb1 153 Report post Posted November 15, 2008 Yes, it sure is disconcerting but nice, reexperiencing those feelings of years bygone, in the most unexpected manner and stage of life :???:. I still experience these emotions over a year later after meeting and really getting in sync with a very hot and intelligent SP. It's a crazy life afterall! Enjoy!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
d*mm*y 887 Report post Posted November 15, 2008 Happens to me all the time Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kih 458 Report post Posted November 15, 2008 Pete-- Enjoy it! I have to admit that it has happened to me as well recently. Its nice to have prevailing Karma and such powerful connection is made. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
E.D. man 691 Report post Posted November 15, 2008 Actually I think customers and sp's all have fantasy's. About each other especially if their is chemistry. And if you wake up in the morning with that hardon don't waste it. do the 5 minute forearm excercise.:twisted: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PistolPete 61421 Report post Posted November 15, 2008 Enjoy it while it lasts as these fantasy come and go threw out life or at least they have for me. Don?t judge it or worry about it; just enjoy. It is very normal. Even though we try not to get personal as we are going our separate ways after the session we are after all humans with feelings, emotions and can not always just turn those off. There are clients I sometimes think about when they are not here. No don?t stay out of the game for awhile as you put it because it is obviously bringing you great pleasure and stirring something in you other then the body. This is why she is your favorite, she moves you. Whether you tell her or not is your call. When guys tell me things like this I have mixed emotions part of me is flattered and it boosts my ego. Don?t worry so much. Not worried sooo much, just wondering if that if I tell her, would you feel weird that this guy is now really has an infactuation with you Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PistolPete 61421 Report post Posted November 15, 2008 You are correct, there is always that powerful connection:-D Pete-- Enjoy it! I have to admit that it has happened to me as well recently. Its nice to have prevailing Karma and such powerful connection is made. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest i***k*** Report post Posted November 15, 2008 I think it's completely normally and I'd definitely tell her the next time you see her. I think most girls love the idea they're tormenting you in a good way while you sleep. :) I personally dream of a girl I've been with constantly. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PistolPete 61421 Report post Posted November 16, 2008 Yes, it has been you Paige:-D that I've had these occurring delightful dreams/fantasy's...it has always started by staring deep into your "sparkling bedroom eyes" kissing your luscious sensual lips, followed by a beautiful warm smile from you...yes the rest of my infactuation has been like you were laying beside me..(talk about tormenting myself) your gorgeous body from your long flowing hair to your outstanding physique, so tonight I will hopefully again have those sweet dreams of a lady that just makes me feel young again.:mrgreen: Hell ya tell her, if anything thats a huge compliment...What girl wouldn't want to hear, your my fantasy... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest i***k*** Report post Posted November 16, 2008 Yes, it has been you Paige:-D that I've had these occurring delightful dreams/fantasy's...it has always started by staring deep into your "sparkling bedroom eyes" kissing your luscious sensual lips, followed by a beautiful warm smile from you...yes the rest of my infactuation has been like you were laying beside me..(talk about tormenting myself) your gorgeous body from your long flowing hair to your outstanding physique, so tonight I will hopefully again have those sweet dreams of a lady that just makes me feel young again.:mrgreen: After meeting Paige I can definitely agree that she is worthy of daily fantasies! I was literally in shock at her immense beauty when I first saw her. I mean how can someone look THAT good!?!? :) Sorry to hijack your fantasy but I had to jump on the "worship prettypaige" bandwagon. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PistolPete 61421 Report post Posted November 16, 2008 Yup.... thanks for your hijack..but no problem..Paige is beautiful, and a great person. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest f***2f*** Report post Posted November 16, 2008 welcome to the ranks of the infatuated...we all have our favorites...i can certainly understand the attraction to paige...a truly beautiful person!:-D Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
A***** A***** 510 Report post Posted November 16, 2008 To the op, you are fine, not going crazy in the head. Fantasies, are just that, and yes I have had my shares of them myself ;) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
A******g A****n 105 Report post Posted November 17, 2008 Frig, am I going nuts...or is it normal to dream/fantasize about a gorgeous woman whom you have made love to several times? Hello Pete, I think it's totally normal. No need to question your sanity. Keep in mind that according to scientific findings men fantasize more than women (on average of course!). :) Thanks for sharing this little hot story...xo Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
spud271 47779 Report post Posted November 17, 2008 My hat is off to you Pete, you are a much braver man than I. I still haven't said anything to the woman I have been fantasizing about! Still working up the courage to say something! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
esoterica 624 Report post Posted November 17, 2008 Pete: that was gutsy. It was also very mature. Some of the cerbites think that by mentioning one name, that others will feel left out. This applies to clients and providers. I would like to believe that we are all polyamorous here, and that we love them all - but some a little more differently for their own special reasons. I certainly love each and every one that I have met here with great passion. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PistolPete 61421 Report post Posted November 17, 2008 We love them all, I do as well, it was just something I needed to ask others if they had the same pleasure or dreams OR fantasy's, and I'm sure we all have.Paige said" hell ya tell her", so I did, it is nothing that it is weird, we all carry that pit in our stomach and say god she is a fantastic person not just as an SP but as friend (so are all the ladies I've met through hobbying) Each individual we see in our daily routine become very special and we carry good thoughts about that person. Lately I'm just having erotic thoughts/dreams and finding completely normal. I would like to say that my intent was to be open, not offend other lovely ladies I have seen as you are all very special.:-D Pete: that was gutsy. It was also very mature. Some of the cerbites think that by mentioning one name, that others will feel left out. This applies to clients and providers. I would like to believe that we are all polyamorous here, and that we love them all - but some a little more differently for their own special reasons. I certainly love each and every one that I have met here with great passion. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Seymour 3970 Report post Posted November 18, 2008 Well said gents - kudos. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
girorok66 110 Report post Posted November 19, 2008 It is perfectly normal to fantasize. We all do once in a while :mrgreen: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
capitalman 3861 Report post Posted November 20, 2008 Hey Pete, you're a lucky guy! I pray for those kinda dreams man! I definitely think it's important to tell a girl about your dreams or whatever. I think it's a compliment to her. Now I must confess, since meeting you PP, I've been dreaming of you. :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
