Location of SPs

[Incognito 331]

I don't demand fancy, but I certainly demand clean. And fortunately, the vast majority of venues have passed that test. I can think of one or two that didn't unfortunately.

 

And what Cat was too modest to say is that her place is 5-star spectacular; as all who have been there can attest.

 

I believe that the environment is a direct extension of the provider. There have been times when I had less than desirable locations and I find it makes it difficult to set the tone for the visit. What is important to remember is the variables in the equation. The cost involved in setting up a location can be overwhelming for a beginner or someone who is entertaining part time. If she is an "end of the month" provider (meaning she only entertains when there is a shortage of money) then you very well may get the fruitloops in the couch and laundry on the kitchen table because the children have just been dropped at Granny's for the night and now has to get her bootie in gear to ensure the rent check clears. She usually knows things should be put together better, but with her full time job and raising her babies it's hard to find the time.

 

Full time independents take time and invest heavily in their surroundings but their considerations reflect that and many guests have a budget to respect. It all boils down to what you want to spend. It is a challenge, but there are always quality providers out there within a reasonable budget. Letting a provider know that her place was less than desirable is tricky, but I would rather someone tell me than just go on the hunt for someone else...

 

Catherine

[YoungStud 468]

Clean, tidy, simple surroundings. Dirty, messy, complicated sex.

 

Works for me. lol

[bjqueen-eve 100]

I remember when i first started as an escort....i had nothing but an air mattress...lol...but the gentlemen came to see me and not where i lived. I have upgraded since then to 2 apts in halifax but we all have to start somewhere.

 

kisses,

Emma A

I have to agree with Emma here. Most Sp's start out of desperation. It might be children to feed, a hungry addiction, I have seen girls put themselves through school. Which ever reason, everyone still felt like the had no other choice. They felt desperate enough to go to the last resort. ( I don't want to ruin the male fantasty, most Sp's are in the buisness because we are oversexed nymphos, who want more, more, more, more.............. Thats the real reason)

When I first started I didnt have a place of my own. I had to work up to it. So when I finally did get one I was so proud. I bought all my "friends" over and felt good about it. I know the place was a dump, I knew than too, it was just "My dump." So I had no quams about anyone comming there. It actually felt good that I had somewhere to bring them.

One day I had a disagreement with a "freind". I guess we didn't connect on the personality level. Sometime later that afternoon there was a new post in his name stating that "I sucked and my place sucked!".

As stupid as this might sound, it really effected me. I started feeling uncomfortable when people would come ove. I spent the whole time apologising for how "unprofessional' my apartment looked. I pretty much stopped taking bookings if they were incalls. Eventually I just packed up and left.

I'm staying at a hotel now, I do feel better about people comming. It is a professional enviroment, and clean. ultimately I guess I'm split on this one. Were in a buisness to "entertain" alot of times this is at your location. In that case I do believe there should be a level of professionalism with it. I also think you might want to look at individual cases, or even better if you really enjoy the sp it won't matter what the location looks like, just enjoy your time with her.

[YoungStud 468]

Don't want to hijack the thread but to digress a bit on one point in Eve's post:

 

I don't want to ruin the male fantasty, most Sp's are in the buisness because we are oversexed nymphos, who want more, more, more, more.............. Thats the real reason

 

I have been told this by quite a number women in the business. That's what a lot of guys apparently think. The other popular fantasy, apparently, is that women in the business are looking for boyfriends through their work.

 

I've always found both of these fantasies totally weird. Along with the one that GFE means she's actually your "girlfriend". My experience has been that almost all women in the business are in it mostly for the financial benefits (many varied sub textual reasons behind that one). Sometimes they may be trying also to deal with unresolved and sometimes ambiguous issues about acceptance, affection and approval from men. For the ones that do it best, they like the money, they like meeting people and they are very comfortable with their own sexuality.

 

I have a friend who's been in the business for several years who has a very healthy and insistent sexual appetite. Which she satisfies totally outside of her work in quite a variety of ways. Having a fairly large number of sexual partners outside of work probably makes it easy for her to feel more comfortable having a fairly large number of sexual partners within work. But though she'll laugh and call herself a "sex maniac", she finds the idea that most of the clients she sees are at all sexual satisfying to her is fairly amusing. Just one example of course. But I would think her views are fairly widely shared. Other SPs comments more than welcome. (In which case, we probably should start a separate thread.)

 

So anyway, yeah, sure, they're all doing it because they are nymphos looking for us to be their boyfriends. ;-)

 

Bottom line: just casual paid sex for fun works pretty well for me. Your fantasy may vary, of course.

[Guest i***k***]

Don't want to hijack the thread but to digress a bit on one point in Eve's post:

 

 

 

I have been told this by quite a number women in the business. That's what a lot of guys apparently think. The other popular fantasy, apparently, is that women in the business are looking for boyfriends through their work.

 

I've always found both of these fantasies totally weird. Along with the one that GFE means she's actually your "girlfriend". My experience has been that almost all women in the business are in it mostly for the financial benefits (many varied sub textual reasons behind that one). Sometimes they may be trying also to deal with unresolved and sometimes ambiguous issues about acceptance, affection and approval from men. For the ones that do it best, they like the money, they like meeting people and they are very comfortable with their own sexuality.

 

I have a friend who's been in the business for several years who has a very healthy and insistent sexual appetite. Which she satisfies totally outside of her work in quite a variety of ways. Having a fairly large number of sexual partners outside of work probably makes it easy for her to feel more comfortable having a fairly large number of sexual partners within work. But though she'll laugh and call herself a "sex maniac", she finds the idea that most of the clients she sees are at all sexual satisfying to her is fairly amusing. Just one example of course. But I would think her views are fairly widely shared. Other SPs comments more than welcome. (In which case, we probably should start a separate thread.)

 

So anyway, yeah, sure, they're all doing it because they are nymphos looking for us to be their girlfriends. ;-)

 

Bottom line: just casual paid sex for fun works pretty well for me. Your fantasy may vary, of course.

 

I definitely have to agree with you here YS.

[Seymour 3970]

I'm devastated by this revelation - so I must go have some "casual paid sex for fun" to get over my devastation. ;-)

[YoungStud 468]

I'm devastated by this revelation - so I must go have some "casual paid sex for fun" to get over my devastation. ;-)

 

Hahahaha! Good one, Seymour.

[ekimout 188]

The location or type of place that an SP works is not as important to me then the cleanliness of the place. If an SP doesn't take the time to clean up then they just don't care much about themselves or me as a client.

 

It's not about expensive hotels, condos or even expensive furniture. It's creating an ambiance and providing great service. It's the little things that go a long way, a candle, a scent, the lighting. The attitude of the SP is very important as well no matter the location.

 

I find different locations exciting and that it adds to the overall experience.

[MightyMouse 839]

The location or type of place that an SP works is not as important to me then the cleanliness of the place. If an SP doesn't take the time to clean up then they just don't care much about themselves or me as a client.

 

It's not about expensive hotels, condos or even expensive furniture. It's creating an ambiance and providing great service. It's the little things that go a long way, a candle, a scent, the lighting. The attitude of the SP is very important as well no matter the location.

 

I find different locations exciting and that it adds to the overall experience.

 

 

I agree with Ekimout. It's the small things like cleanliness, atmosphere, candles, and good lighting that go a long way in my being a repeat customer. If it's a last minute booking, then I can see where the SP might have little time to make the place look right. By no means am I judging the ladies here because they are all trully exceptional!! If I were to have an incall, I would scrub every inch of my place (and body).. :twisted:

[Guest f***2f***]

I like a nice classy, clean location. If it's a hotel I don't want to be in some flea bag flop house. If it's a lady's place then it should be clean and tidy. Tastes vary so I'm not worried about the decor....I'm just not into dirt and mess.

[spud271 47779]

I agree with you 100% boner, as long as the place is clean, I really don't care about the decor. Location doesn't matter to me either, as long as it is kept clean then I don't mind where it is.

 

 

I like a nice classy, clean location. If it's a hotel I don't want to be in some flea bag flop house. If it's a lady's place then it should be clean and tidy. Tastes vary so I'm not worried about the decor....I'm just not into dirt and mess.

[ekimout 188]

I like a nice classy, clean location. If it's a hotel I don't want to be in some flea bag flop house. If it's a lady's place then it should be clean and tidy. Tastes vary so I'm not worried about the decor....I'm just not into dirt and mess.

Agreed!

I don't want a flee bag either but location is not as important. It may be a new SP that can't afford an apartment in an expensive neighborhood. As long as she has taken the time to clean the place and make it a comfortable environment for her clients, that's great. As for decor it's total hit and miss, so not very important.

[p22*** 236]

I am a candle fan, and scented oil...Adds a super nice touch. I actually love candles so much I still use them even after I set my hair on fire..

 

I decided to do a lovely lap dance and got way too into it. I hade hair down to my bum at the time, and when I started to do my head twirl. I flipped up to see a shocked impression on my clients face. Then I noticed my burning hair...Ackward...lol

 

Oddly he came back...lol

Kiss to my hard hat man...

[p22*** 236]

Didn't mean to high jack...laughter helps all, in not having a heavy heart...

[Guest f***2f***]

I am a candle fan, and scented oil...Adds a super nice touch. I actually love candles so much I still use them even after I set my hair on fire..

 

I decided to do a lovely lap dance and got way too into it. I hade hair down to my bum at the time, and when I started to do my head twirl. I flipped up to see a shocked impression on my clients face. Then I noticed my burning hair...Ackward...lol

 

Oddly he came back...lol

Kiss to my hard hat man...

 

you don't have hair to your bum anymore??? it's been too long!!:mrgreen:

[caveman 147]

I decided to do a lovely lap dance and got way too into it. I hade hair down to my bum at the time, and when I started to do my head twirl. I flipped up to see a shocked impression on my clients face. Then I noticed my burning hair...Ackward...lol

 

So what's the abbreviation for the burning hair, just in case someone else wants to request that service? :-D

 

Maybe HOF...Hair On Fire? And would the gentleman need to supply the fire extinguisher? :mrgreen:

[ekimout 188]

I am a candle fan, and scented oil...Adds a super nice touch. I actually love candles so much I still use them even after I set my hair on fire..

 

I decided to do a lovely lap dance and got way too into it. I hade hair down to my bum at the time, and when I started to do my head twirl. I flipped up to see a shocked impression on my clients face. Then I noticed my burning hair...Ackward...lol

 

Oddly he came back...lol

Kiss to my hard hat man...

 

LOL...

Great story, it must have made for a fiery session. :wink:

[Dreamgirl 246]

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[kih 458]

i think the most important is to have a clean place, even if it s not luxurious or a high end condo... if it s clean... it should be good

 

Well said Julie...I couldn't agree more

[ulixestrojan 3757]

Clean is important - but smells good. Nothing is a bigger turn off to me that musty smells, animal, or smoky stinkiness