The G Spot, Hot Squirting, SP's, Girls and You

[Guest o*etw*****e]

I've been asked by several guys (oddly) about squirting and felt this would be a great place for a discussion!

 

Just a little disclaimer right off the bat: I'm speaking from my experience. To the lovely ladies who do AND don't squirt: please feel free to chime in! Constructive additions to encourage men and ESPECIALLY women to try, would be great.

 

There's obviously TONS of resources online so I'm going to try to not repeat what you can just Google yourself. I will include some links that I do think are good. Squirters: please share some as well!.. There's a lot of crap sites out there to sift through!

 

 

My Background with Squirting:

 

I was different when it came to watching porn in my late teens. I always felt focused on whether or not the girl was actually enjoying herself. The majority of porn is simply male gratification. To me this is BORING. Nothing gets me harder than a girl turned on.

 

So one day, about 9 yrs ago while still in Uni, I came across squirting porn... It was a clip from what turned out to be an "educational porn" video. You could clearly tell the girl was involuntarily convulsing and in heaven! I was in a relationship with a french girl (swoon @ french girls) at the time and we were very open about sex and communication. We experimented and it wasn't long until our sex was so wild and so wet that, when we recently reminisced, we agreed that during our 3 years together, sex was NEVER routine. From the end of that relationship forward, I would try my best to teach (as best I could as a guy) my girlfriends about the joys of squirting.

 

 

What Should be Obvious: Foreplay

 

It's different from a clitoral orgasm BUT still requires build-up! Ie- FOREPLAY, FOREPLAY, FOREPLAY. Perhaps this is one of the reasons why I only, just the other day, tried an SP for the first time... I'll be broke by the time I even get my pants off! lol. Anyway, my ex's and I would spend absurd amounts of time with foreplay... Yes, we still had quickies, but foreplay was a game to make sex mind-blowing. Getting the gspot flowing is no different.

 

One of my ex's would always want to have a clitoral orgasm before gspot orgasms. The rest would feel like the gspot was "easier" to get to quickly. It really depends on girl. Communication = success!

 

Stimulating The G Spot

 

It's just inside the vagina and feels like a wall with ridges on it (uretheral sponge)... Mmmm... Some people may say "whats the big deal" but it has become such a beacon of pleasure in my mind! Stroking and pressing just the right way can completely destroy the concentration of your partner. So. Much. Fun.

 

I'm a big advocate of the "come here" motion from your fingers. Especially if the girl you're doing it with hasn't squirted before.

 

Many videos show a more aggressive upward thrusting with fingers. I have a friend who's boyfriend used that technique their first time and she was a bit sore afterwards. lol.

 

My stance is this: if she's a squirter, go for it but it doesn't hurt to start more gently and work your way up to a more agressive thrusting... You know, just like proper sex!

 

For example, this story I posted. I started gentle but toward the end it was VERY aggressive. It's all about using your (hopefully good) judgement and communicating with your partner/sp.

 

Another technique that kind of "trained" the gspot and myself was this: I would stimulate the gspot with my fingers to the point where it was hard as a rock. At that point I would switch and use my penis to thrust which would make her squirt. Important note: Your lady WILL have to communicate to you when to "pull out" so that she can release! Generally, if you're thrusting with your cock or have your fingers inside her- you're blocking her from being able to squirt.

 

 

Squirting: for the Ladies Who Don't & Men who want a clue

 

This is where I hope some of the ladies can really chime in!!

 

I hope to share with guys what I've learned from my experiences though.

 

I've asked all of my girlfriends how to explain the sensation of squirting. They all had pretty similar answers. During stimulation, it feels GREAT. Eventually that turns into a sensation of "feeling like you have to pee." But rather than pee, if they "let go," they squirt.

 

There is so much confusing information on this but I do believe nearly EVERY girl can squirt.

 

From my experience, one of the biggest obstacles of squirting is the girl being "okay" with "letting go" and trusting that you're not going to pee all over the place. lol. This is of course assuming you're with someone you can trust/be in comfort.

 

I do have a friend couple who have tried so many times and "nothing." The truth is the girl admits that the stimulation feels good but she doesn't feel comfortable going that next step. Now, she has personal reasons that she believes mentally block her from getting there. No need to get into that but perhaps some of the squirting woman can shed some light on this? Inspire some women who may be holding back?

 

 

Let's Get Practical & Nerdy about Squirting

 

This is easily one of the best pieces of exercise equipment for men. lol. It's true though. You want your hands to be able to hold out longer than she can. :)

 

This could be useful for the ladies and guys...

 

I can't remember where I heard this but a GREAT way to keep things from getting too messy is a towel and a garbage bag. Doesn't sound very romanic, right? Hold your judgement!

 

1. Take a garbage bag and split it into two pieces.

2. Roll out a towel.

3. Place one of the garbage bag pieces over the towel so that it covers it.

4. Then attach them together using bobby-pins.

5. Roll it up and place it under your bed or a place close to where the action happens!

6. Repeat.

 

Now you have perfect way to not break the mood and to keep your mattress from becoming a squirt-bed. lol. The garbage bag prevents the squirt from soaking right through the towel!

 

Another tip, two of my girlfriends said helped was how well hydrated they were. One would drink a TON of water all day knowing that we'd be fucking at night. LOL. But because I'm a guy, I can't really comment much more on this.

 

My girlfriends never had any Gspot toys (aside from my penis and hands ;) ) so maybe some of the girls could suggest some great toys for the ladies who want to try experimenting themselves!

 

 

To The Non-Squirting Ladies

 

If you're afraid of bodily fluids, sure, squirting might not be for you! ;)

 

I think the "peeing" sensation for women is very similar to what guys experience with one KEY difference: men are conditioned from a young age to know that "liquid" leaves their penis when they orgasm... and that it's not pee! Once women realize their squirt is the same (it's NOT urine):

 

I think because squirting is very slowly becoming more mainstream that it will eventually be a common part of the female sexual experience. Through the ages women have been constrained in so many ways. Their sexuality has obviously been a huge part of this.

 

I know I'm just a random guy but to the ladies who haven't tried squirting, I promise you, you're missing out.

 

My girlfriends would tease me that they could ejaculate (they'd call them "G Spot Orgasms") throughout our sex and then STILL have a clitoral orgasm... They'd be like "you must be jealous." Of course they were teasing and I wasn't jealous... It was just a turn on for me. When we became so in-sync with each other that after a clitoral orgasm, I'd go back to stimulate one more gspot orgasm, I would cum on her as she squirted one last time. Fun stuff! :D

 

To the Squirters:

 

How did you learn about squirting?

 

What was your first experience like? (who were you with, etc?)

 

What would be the one thing you could say to encourage women to try it?

 

 

Guys

 

Educate yourselves. Then educate yourselves more. Be patient. And even if you're nervous, your lady will hopefully

.

 

The G Spot is not a faucet and I would NEVER go into an encounter with any lady "expecting" squirting. Would totally ruin the mood.

 

Finally, I do think you have to be the right personality type to want/enjoy this. I have a friend (we're about to hit 30), good looking smart guy, who doesn't believe in G Spot orgasms/squirting and calls it "pee." Yes, this is even AFTER hearing my stories from me AND my GF's over the years. My only reply to him is a half-jokingly/serious "I feel bad for Sarah" (his fiance). He's not even into going down on her... :icon_neutral: If you've read this far I imagine you find that as lame as I do! So there it is.

 

 

 

LINKS LINKS LINKS

 

Wikipediaaaa Not the most useful but safe place to start.

Diagram

G Spot Site

 

If you want to see a REAL squirter porn star, the best would be "Cytheria." There's a lot of fake "squirting" porn out there. To me, it's hard to describe other than saying the way the squirting happens is nothing like the real squirters I've experienced in life. In fact, Cytheria reminds me the most of how my first long-term girlfriend was when squirting.

 

 

Anyway, rather epic post. Hope this helps anyone! If anyone has questions, please don't PM me. Open discussion! Helpful to all! :D

[Rodster 476]

I had never heard of this until about 4 years ago. Women ejaculating? "No way" I thought and so began my research. I became fascinated by it. I have since only experienced a woman squirting a few times and my first time was my most memorable.

 

It was in Montreal 3 years ago and I had arranged to see someone there. We were enjoying ourselves immensely and nothing had been discussed about squirting. Then, during a very passionate 69 she cries out, buries herself more into me and gushes all over my face. I was completely taken by surprise. At first I thought "what the..." and then realized she had just squirted and no, it wasn't pee and didn't even remotely taste like pee.

 

When I asked her if she just squirt, she replied "Sure did. Want me to do it again?" all in a hot french accent btw.

 

Anyway, my first and most memorable experience confirmed for me it's real and it's not pee. Those women who can squirt, really seem to enjoy the pleasure. Squirt on.

[oparala 544]

Thanks onetwothree XD

[Gabriella Laurence 301887]

123, I'll take the time to reply to the great thread you've started in more details tomorrow... I just want to add a quick tip about how to easily protect your mattress without complications... A shower curtain, a bed sheet and a few towels will do the trick ;)

[Guest o*etw*****e]

Then, during a very passionate 69 she cries out, buries herself more into me and gushes all over my face. I was completely taken by surprise. At first I thought "what the..." and then realized she had just squirted and no, it wasn't pee and didn't even remotely taste like pee.

 

Confident girl. Hot story.

 

Additional Comments:

123, I'll take the time to reply to the great thread you started in more details tomorrow... I just want to add a quick tip about how to easily protect your mattress without complications... A shower curtain, a bed sheet and a few towels will do the trick ;)

 

Good idea. But I think mine's simpler & ready unexpected romps :icon_razz:

[Parker 19761]

 

Stimulating The G Spot

 

It's just inside the vagina and feels like a wall with ridges on it (uretheral sponge)... Mmmm... Some people may say "whats the big deal" but it has become such a beacon of pleasure in my mind! Stroking and pressing just the right way can completely destroy the concentration of your partner. So. Much. Fun.

 

I'm a big advocate of the "come here" motion from your fingers. Especially if the girl you're doing it with hasn't squirted before.

 

Many videos show a more aggressive upward thrusting with fingers. I have a friend who's boyfriend used that technique their first time and she was a bit sore afterwards. lol.

 

My stance is this: if she's a squirter, go for it but it doesn't hurt to start more gently and work your way up to a more agressive thrusting... You know, just like proper sex!

 

Though I know this works for many, I find the 'come here' finger motion distracting and uncomfortable to the point where if I was going to 'squirt', this would ruin it for me. If you're stimulating my gspot with your fingers, I need softer and very slightly changing movement. (I actually prefer bigger hands for this as well..)

 

I'm, personally, much more likely orgasm/squirt from dick.. in simple positions, (Having my hips cocked to the side at weird angles with my limbs in all directions will not help me come, lol.) but I can come from fingers if done right.

 

And while I love that my clients want to make me come, a lot of the time I have other things to do in the day. Making me come over and over for an hour at noon can put a real knot in the rest of my day. (I know guys can't multi as easily, but that doesn't mean it's easier on my body than it is on yours.)

I come easily and hard.. it's a whole body experience. Even enough clitoral orgasms can leave me drained, tender and tired for the better part of the rest of the day...

 

My advice would be to enjoy the experience... I'm not an escort because I want every guy to make me come, it's because I enjoy giving pleasure as well. I come (and relax) more when I know that the person I'm with is enjoying themselves and me.

 

When I sense that they're not enjoying themselves because they're frustratedly fingerbanging me and it's not making me squirt hot lady come in their face-- it takes me out of the moment and ruins it for me.

Just going with it, enjoying yourself and listening to any directions I have will make me come every time.

I'm less likely to come if I notice you're trying hard to make me.. but that's just me.

[SmartnSexy 2089]

Thanks for this thread onetwothree.

 

This is something that has intrigued me for some time now. I've tried (usually without really telling the lady I'm trying it on) for some time now and my efforts have yet to yield any success.

 

As you stated there is a lot of material out there and I've done copious amounts of research on the subject, but I just don't seem to be able to find the spot. If I were to insert my fingers as far into a woman's vagina as I could and did a slow scanning motion backwards towards the entrance I would still not detect any different in texture at all.

 

Admittedly I haven't had very much practice and it's not every lady who allows digits, so that cuts my practice down even more. But still, going on "it feels different/rigid/spongy" hasn't really produced much in the way of results. Is there any additional information you could provide that can help a gentleman find this magical location?

[jg24 3708]

Very interesting topic I for one have a had success in this area. I have found when not planned is the best way rather than planning.

 

I have met a few ladies here that can squirt one was planned and it didn't happen. The element of the moment I believe is most important

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[Parker 19761]

Thanks for this thread onetwothree.

 

This is something that has intrigued me for some time now. I've tried (usually without really telling the lady I'm trying it on) for some time now and my efforts have yet to yield any success.

 

As you stated there is a lot of material out there and I've done copious amounts of research on the subject, but I just don't seem to be able to find the spot. If I were to insert my fingers as far into a woman's vagina as I could and did a slow scanning motion backwards towards the entrance I would still not detect any different in texture at all.

 

Admittedly I haven't had very much practice and it's not every lady who allows digits, so that cuts my practice down even more. But still, going on "it feels different/rigid/spongy" hasn't really produced much in the way of results. Is there any additional information you could provide that can help a gentleman find this magical location?

 

I would suggest getting her highly aroused first... Mine is hard to find if I'm not already turned on. It's not that far back, maybe a finger length. (my own.)

It does feel different than the surrounding area, at least mine does. Mine's slightly smoother, yet firmer. If you google "urethral sponge" you'll find those medical looking cross sections, though since women are different it may be in a slightly different location, but in the general area.

 

Next time you're with a lady you could ask her to direct you to it, so you know what it feels like. ;)

[Guest o*etw*****e]

And while I love that my clients want to make me come, a lot of the time I have other things to do in the day. Making me come over and over for an hour at noon can put a real knot in the rest of my day. (I know guys can't multi as easily, but that doesn't mean it's easier on my body than it is on yours.)

I come easily and hard.. it's a whole body experience. Even enough clitoral orgasms can leave me drained, tender and tired for the better part of the rest of the day...

 

I completely understand but I hope people don't take away from my post that I think they all start doing this with SP's! I mentioned doing it while in a relationships, not expecting anything from SPs and that I hadn't even been with an SP till just recently because I know what you wrote above turns me on... and it's not realistic for me to expect it.

 

Hopefully people can use some common sense. Anyway, this post is more about the pleasures.

[katie 1337]

I finally found the "Squirting Thread".. 

I will comment.. Very soon... When I have more time... 💦💦.. ;)..  

   1st Special Friend/Client... About 1.5 years ago.. 

 Tell more very soon.., Stay Dry .. Hehe .. 😘

 

[Guest]

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[NotchJohnson 214134]

I have this fetish to have a female ejaculate on me and have succeeded many time to get it done.  A lot of foreplay and mutual pleasuring, don't go looking for it like mentioned before and it will cum.

[katie 1337]

On February 6, 2019 at 11:57 AM, 500 Pound Gorilla said:

For perfect bed protection, check out RipnGo sheets...Canaduan product 

Great, thanks for the info... Sheets would be ideal. I did Hunt down a "Blanket", that protects. I'll look the sheets up ;).. 

😏

[katie 1337]

On February 6, 2019 at 5:41 PM, NotchJohnson said:

I have this fetish to have a female ejaculate on me and have succeeded many time to get it done.  A lot of foreplay and mutual pleasuring, don't go looking for it like mentioned before and it will cum.

 

On February 6, 2019 at 5:41 PM, NotchJohnson said:

I have this fetish to have a female ejaculate on me and have succeeded many time to get it done.  A lot of foreplay and mutual pleasuring, don't go looking for it like mentioned before and it will cum.

Nice Fetish, Notch..... ;).. 

     And you are so right,Foreplay and Mutual Pleasuring...... one would never go Thirsty.. 😏

   

[Andee 220524]

So if a lady was unable to squirt, would that be a deal breaker?

[Jabba 18389]

4 hours ago, Mature Angela said:

So if a lady was unable to squirt, would that be a deal breaker?

Not for me.

But for the sake of engaging your question, are you suggesting one should quit having sex with a lady if she can't squirt?

[Ice4fun 78407]

9 hours ago, Mature Angela said:

So if a lady was unable to squirt, would that be a deal breaker?

Deal breaker?????? Of course not

You should never give up on something until you have succeeded....  Put your head down and stay with it till the problem is licked...

(PS two well placed fingers palm up bending and straightening might also help 😉 )

Just my Opinion 

[waterat 20911]

9 hours ago, Ice4fun said:

Put your head down and stay with it till the problem is licked...

 

Even if this doesn't work it's an excellent approach!

[katie 1337]

21 hours ago, Mature Angela said:

So if a lady was unable to squirt, would that be a deal breaker?

Gosh, I would hope not. Personally, if a person was Inquiring, I'm not sure how I would react ... 

Ex: "Hi Katie,are you a Squirter"......

Nahh, I wouldn't respond,and DNR him.. 

I personally find it Ruid but that's just me. 😉xoxo's

[MelissaCarter 1075]

Some girls can squirt as often as they want and pretty much on command. I however can only squirt when you hit a special spot. There are 2 spots for me. The g-spot and the c-spot which is right around the cervix. That means the deeper you dip into the well the wetter it will be! 

[Ice4fun 78407]

1 hour ago, MelissaCarter said:

Some girls can squirt as often as they want and pretty much on command. I however can only squirt when you hit a special spot. There are 2 spots for me. The g-spot and the c-spot which is right around the cervix. That means the deeper you dip into the well the wetter it will be! 

So tell me again when you are coming to NL 😉

[zoneman 357]

I have made women in my personal life squirt before but never an sp until a couple days ago. I’ve made sp’s orgasm many times but not squirt until the other day. Think I found my favouite companion 😉

[HenryOcean 196]

I have experienced it once as @NotchJohnsonsaid 

On 2/6/2019 at 5:41 PM, NotchJohnson said:

 A lot of foreplay and mutual pleasuring...it will cum.

then so did I 

Though I was still inexperienced, I learned not all woman can do so easily but i am still willing to learn however many tries it takes! As most men I hope would agree... its a major turn on having a lady be pleasured... squirting or not! 

[katie 1337]

14 hours ago, HenryOcean said:

I have experienced it once as @NotchJohnsonsaid 

then so did I 

Though I was still inexperienced, I learned not all woman can do so easily but i am still willing to learn however many tries it takes! As most men I hope would agree... its a major turn on having a lady be pleasured... squirting or not! 

You Got'er 😉