How many times does your SP orgasm?

[NotchJohnson 214136]

Never mind. Emma will you and Miss Cloe marry me LOL :-D

I have asked emma to marry me the first day that I saw her and I still think that I have good chances, I have been seeing emma ever since and to let everyone know she never faked an orgasm with me. lmao:lol:

[jerican 657]

All I know is I am enjoying reading people like Emma, Anita, Erin and Cloe describing/discussing orgasms and how much they enjoy them. For that reason only this is one of my favorite threads.:grin:

 

For me (and I think this was mentioned by others) I look to the body cues, the little things like hands clenching and unclenching, involuntary twitching and the flushing of the upper body to tell me if I am having an effect. I am like buggernot, my enjoyment comes as much from giving pleasure as it does from receiving it.;-)

[coachg 388]

Of course, women are all different and can show various signs right before an orgasm or during... Hopefully, the following informative reading might help you answer your question!!!

 

Just remember, not every woman feels the need to fake an orgasm for her partner especially when she can have a REAL one or many amazing ones!

;)

 

http://www.whitelotuseast.com/FemaleOrgasm.htm

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What happens during climax

After a woman becomes sexually aroused, her heart beats faster while her breathing quickens. Often, she'll tighten various muscles all over her body. Her breasts usually enlarge somewhat, the nipples tend to stand out while the areolas become noticeably enlarged. Some women flush red on their face, neck and chest. The visible part of the clitoris also swells slightly.

Secretions occur inside and at the opening of the vagina. Her labia flatten and open. The vagina lengthens and widens internally, changing what was a potential space into more of an actual space. These vaginal changes are mainly a result of a rush of blood to the pelvic area -- called engorgement -- which provides a generally pleasurable warmth in a female's genital area.

As her arousal increases, so does engorgement as well as most of the changes mentioned above becoming more pronounced. The one area that doesn't follow this pattern is the clitoris. Instead of continually swelling, it actually begins to retract under the clitoral hood and decreases in length by about 50%. This is a sign that orgasm is imminent for most women, as long as optimal stimulation continues.

The orgasm itself begins with strong muscle contractions. These contractions can be finished within four seconds or last up to about 15 seconds. They tend to occur at intervals of 0.8 seconds. Also, the inner two-thirds of the vagina usually open up even more, while the uterus contracts.

During orgasm, skin flushing generally reaches its maximum. Muscles may keep contracting, while blood pressure, heart rate and respiratory rate continue to rise. Some women make sounds reflecting the pleasure they are experiencing.

Signs confirming orgasm

Rhythmic muscle contractions occur in the outer third of the vagina, the uterus and anus. The first muscle contractions are the most intense, and occur at a rate of about 1 per second. As the orgasm continues, the contractions become less intense and occur at a more random rate.

 

• A mild orgasm may have 3 -5 contractions, an intense orgasm 10 -15.
  
• The "sex flush" (redness) becomes even more pronounced and may cover a greater percentage of the body.
  
• Muscles throughout the body may contract during orgasm, not just those in the pelvic area.
  
• Some women will emit or spray some fluid from their urethra during orgasm. This is often called female ejaculation.
  
• A woman's facial expression may indicate that she is in pain when she is having a pleasurable orgasm.
  
• At the peak of orgasm the entire body may become momentarily rigid."
  

xox

 

Very good information....that should help determine if it is real or a fake....pretty hard to fake all those signs of pleasure. Thank you for that Miss Cloe. Who would want to fake one if they can experience the real deal???

[coachg 388]

Apex my Fb,

damn you seem a bit jaded...we are not all Sp's some of us are Ep's and sure some might fake it but why? Some of us are not just in it this biz for money...sure i'm not saying its a bad thing its just you have to know who your seeing...i love sex...i love to make love and i know there are others here that do as well ex:Miss Cloe. All of us are in the biz for different reasons....when you find the lady who is not all an act or just here to make money then you will find a true experience...we are out there and we love what we do...and PS you don't want to fake it FB...you want to go with the flow....relax and let things happen...hehe

kisses,

Emma A

Goddamn Emma...well said...god bless the EP's of the world...when you find the women that love sex and absolutely enjoy it, then take those beautiful women and just enjoy the experience that you share. Another very good reason why you have to visit Winnipeg!

[explorer69 3513]

Don't forgert that this is a business transaction , no matter what we think or how big of ego we have. It is part of the fantasy that the SP makes us feel like a great lover, no matter what our skill level.That is why it is called a GFE. Just enjoy the fantasy.

[Emma Alexandra 123368]

Never mind. Emma will you and Miss Cloe marry me LOL :-D

 

Everyone knows i don't believe in marriage ...lol...but if you want to be one of my bf's 'll see what i can do...lol

 

I have asked emma to marry me the first day that I saw her and I still think that I have good chances' date=' I have been seeing emma ever since and to let everyone know she never faked an orgasm with me. lmao:lol:[/quote']

 

I'm so gald you cleared that up with everyone T....we can't have them wondering about that ....:lol:

[Gabriella Laurence 301887]

I have asked emma to marry me the first day that I saw her and I still think that I have good chances' date=' I have been seeing emma ever since...[/quote']

Everyone knows i don't believe in marriage ...lol...but if you want to be one of my bf's 'll see what i can do...lol

T'Storm... You will have to share with me ;)

 

xox

[PistolPete 61421]

I was interested in what you were saying in this thread.I always spend my first 30- 40 minutes providing a lady with conversation,kissing,carressing, and then onto fine dining for her, because I like the lady to feel wanted with lust, passion and with real feelings, not your "wham bam thank-you mam" as I thoroughly enjoy giving pleasure as well.

 

So after reading this post from Anita I decided "stop being so fucking selfish Pete"..let the lady decide, if you still have gas in the tank, change up at the last and go to your selfish position at the end.

 

(Normally, I really love being in the missionary position, right on top and taking charge and beating my own drum to my beat and rhythm.. sort to speak).

 

But my last 2 ladies I asked, their preference, both loved being on top, because "they wanted complete control".

 

So to your point I supplied my cock, they got on and rode me cowgirl. Both ladies set their wonderful slow grinding pace were able to CUM to their climax.

 

Their eyes rolled back, they sat up straighter as the grinding got deeper and quicker, their faces and upper bodies were quite flushed, so I knew I done good.

 

So this thread apparently has some great merits and points well taken.

 

 

 

 

 

Just in case you are interested in my humble opinion....;)

 

If you want to bring a woman to orgasm, the surest way is (after of course you've played around a little or a lot) to let her do what she wants.

 

Look at it this way: you supply the cock, she does with it what feels good to her. Let her sit on top, that is the easiest way for her to climax. Let her set the pace that she knows instinctively will get her off.

 

If you insist on your way, all you will achieve is that she will fake it, and because she doesn't actually have a climax with you, she will have a lot of headaches;)

 

Believe me, women know what feels good and will tell you if you listen. Just don't be a bonehead and don't insist on something, just because you've been told, saw it somewhere, or because other women achieved orgasm that way.

 

Don't ever patronize her if you want to have a good sex life. If you insist on your way every time and you can't make her orgasm it is YOU who is at fault, not her.

 

Where I come from we have a saying: "There are no frigid women, only clumsy men."

 

peace :)

[capitalman 3861]

I figure if the girl I'm seeing is faking it, then I'm seeing the wrong girl. I will try another. If this pattern repeats then I figure I'm not doing something right. So I learn and change.

 

It's a growth opportunity. We learn, experiment, experience, repeat, try again....it's all good.

[a******s.m*****e 187]

So this thread apparently has some great merits and points well taken.

 

Thanks Pete, I am glad you found it useful:) Maybe I should join Samantha and we should open up a sex therapy clinic together :)

 

I have a very goal-oriented mind and like to simplify everything ;)

 

Women have orgasm by rubbing their clits against something the way it feels good for them. Just like men have to rub their penis, women do the same to get off.

 

I don't care what others say about vaginal, oral, anal or whatever orgasm, this is the surest thing and works 99% of the time. Best combination is a cock inside + rubbing clit.

[a******s.m*****e 187]

If you like missionary, try to rub your pubic area against her clit and that might work, too.

[shaved 3174]

T'Storm... You will have to share with me ;)

 

xox

 

I will be only to glad to share with you Miss Cloe :razz:.

As long as you share with me too ........ LOL

[Emma Alexandra 123368]

T'Storm... You will have to share with me ;)

 

xox

 

 

 

I will be only to glad to share with you Miss Cloe :razz:.

As long as you share with me too ........ LOL

 

Don't i get a say in whom i'm being shared with? :?

[shaved 3174]

Don't i get a say in whom i'm being shared with? :?

 

By all means. Who would you like to be shared with? :oops:

[etasman2000 15994]

Don't i get a say in whom i'm being shared with? :?

 

hmm....look like it has been decided for you. of course if it doesn't work out for you you are always welcome back to my place ;-)

[Emma Alexandra 123368]

hmm....look like it has been decided for you. of course if it doesn't work out for you you are always welcome back to my place ;-)

 

Can i take Miss Cloe with me?:???:

[coachg 388]

Can i take Miss Cloe with me?:???:

Hey Emma...you can certainly bring the wonderful Miss Cloe when you get the opportunity to come to the Peg....although you might have to stay a little longer......more womanly pleasures to take advantage of and I am sure it would be so hot, that Mandalay could not help but join the action.

[Guest i***k***]

I originally made this topic and poll more for shared enjoyment rather than any type of competition. :) I'm sure there are people that fake orgasms and that's not necessarily a bad thing when you're looking for a fantasy. The real thing definitely is hot, and such a turn on for me that I enjoy when a woman orgasms multiple times when she's with me. :) If she doesn't that doesn't mean she didn't enjoy it either! Remember it's all about pleasure!

[a******s.m*****e 187]

I originally made this topic and poll more for shared enjoyment rather than any type of competition. :) I'm sure there are people that fake orgasms and that's not necessarily a bad thing when you're looking for a fantasy. The real thing definitely is hot, and such a turn on for me that I enjoy when a woman orgasms multiple times when she's with me. :) If she doesn't that doesn't mean she didn't enjoy it either! Remember it's all about pleasure!

 

I understand, but I would love to be a fly on the wall when the 10+ orgasm happens just to see how is the guys counting?

 

If a guy like that exists, he doesn't have to see escorts. First of all his SO will chase him around all day and cooking his favourite meals and rubbing his back with gratitude (I know I would), secondly, every single woman he's ever been with would keep calling him and offering him free sex. :)

 

If this is not happening, you are probably just kidding yourself and the whole thread is nothing but "I have a bigger dick than you do" kinda thing LOL

 

Sorry for party-pooping, and just have fun, don't mind us people who like to take these things seriously... :)

[Guest i***k***]

I understand, but I would love to be a fly on the wall when the 10+ orgasm happens just to see how is the guys counting?

 

If a guy like that exists, he doesn't have to see escorts. First of all his SO will chase him around all day and cooking his favourite meals and rubbing his back with gratitude (I know I would), secondly, every single woman he's ever been with would keep calling him and offering him free sex. :)

 

If this is not happening, you are probably just kidding yourself and the whole thread is nothing but "I have a bigger dick than you do" kinda thing LOL

 

Sorry for party-pooping, and just have fun, don't mind us people who like to take these things seriously... :)

 

You mistakenly assumed I was looking for large numbers in the higher categories of the poll... Thanks anyway for your feedback.

[Guest W***ledi*Time]

SPs please feel free to vote as well with your best experiences!

 

I would love to be a fly on the wall when the 10+ orgasm happens just to see how is the guys counting?

 

Inaluki invited both the guys and the SPs to respond to his poll ... maybe the "more than 10 times" responders are not the guys but the SPs ... ha ha ha ...

 

It would be interesting to pull this poll apart into two sections and compare the guys' claims to the SPs responses ...

 

Or maybe start a separate poll for SPs only asking for most orgasms (and, to really stir the pot) most faked orgasms in a session ... (although as we already know from previous experience, specifying a poll for "SPs-only" doesn't keep the guys from voting in them anyway ... if we guys aren't smart enough to figure out which polls we're not supposed to vote in, can we really be expected to be smart enough to count up to ten?? lol) ...

[VedaSloan 119179]

Inaluki invited both the guys and the SPs to respond to his poll ... maybe the "more than 10 times" responders are not the guys but the SPs ... ha ha ha ...

 

It would be interesting to pull this poll apart into two sections and compare the guys' claims to the SPs responses ...

 

Or maybe start a separate poll for SPs only asking for most orgasms (and, to really stir the pot) most faked orgasms in a session ... (although as we already know from previous experience, specifying a poll for "SPs-only" doesn't keep the guys from voting in them anyway ... if we guys aren't smart enough to figure out which polls we're not supposed to vote in, can we really be expected to be smart enough to count up to ten?? lol) ...

 

 

Haha, oh my god, I love it. Let's have a poll for the most dramatic, theatrical, most faked orgasms in a session. Hahaha.

 

Or at best, let's all make up stories about the lengths we went to to fake an orgasm.

 

Frankly, I don't fake with clients, if a dude wants to go down on me, and he's not doing it for me, I will offer some polite tips and do my best to cum on his face :)

 

However, in my more youthful days (hahahaha), before I realized that faking doesn't help you with anything (unless you want to get the dude out faster and not enjoy yourself), I faked a few with guys I was dating. In fact, I did it once just recently with this guy who I invited back to my place. He was all talk and no follow through. And it was so bad that I didn't even want to give him pointers, I just wanted him away from my vagina. ASAP. My sincerest apologies to the next girl he tries to bone. But yeah, back to my "orgasm". Possibly the most over-the-top, porn-style O I've ever concocted. I was bucking my hips and moaning and breathing hard and then when I decided I'd been "turned on" long enough, I shouted "DON'T STOP I AM GOING TO CUM, OH YEAH I'M GOING TO CUM! AHHHHHHHH" like a madwoman in the throes of ecstasy. The worst part was him telling me after that he knew I couldn't have faked because you can't fake that kind of thing. BAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHA. It was so beautiful, I almost wanted to blow my cover and tell him he sucked balls and it was an act. But I didn't. I just smiled to myself and cackled like a hyena the second he was out the door.

[YoungStud 468]

Erin, you bad, but you also so good! :???:

[Guest W***ledi*Time]

"DON'T STOP I AM GOING TO CUM, OH YEAH I'M GOING TO CUM! AHHHHHHHH"

 

YES, YES! Erin, that sounds just EXACTLY like the ladies I see!

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BAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHA.

[jerican 657]

Haha, oh my god, I love it. Let's have a poll for the most dramatic, theatrical, most faked orgasms in a session. Hahaha.

 

Or at best, let's all make up stories about the lengths we went to to fake an orgasm.

 

Frankly, I don't fake with clients, if a dude wants to go down on me, and he's not doing it for me, I will offer some polite tips and do my best to cum on his face :)

 

However, in my more youthful days (hahahaha), before I realized that faking doesn't help you with anything (unless you want to get the dude out faster and not enjoy yourself), I faked a few with guys I was dating. In fact, I did it once just recently with this guy who I invited back to my place. He was all talk and no follow through. And it was so bad that I didn't even want to give him pointers, I just wanted him away from my vagina. ASAP. My sincerest apologies to the next girl he tries to bone. But yeah, back to my "orgasm". Possibly the most over-the-top, porn-style O I've ever concocted. I was bucking my hips and moaning and breathing hard and then when I decided I'd been "turned on" long enough, I shouted "DON'T STOP I AM GOING TO CUM, OH YEAH I'M GOING TO CUM! AHHHHHHHH" like a madwoman in the throes of ecstasy. The worst part was him telling me after that he knew I couldn't have faked because you can't fake that kind of thing. BAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHA. It was so beautiful, I almost wanted to blow my cover and tell him he sucked balls and it was an act. But I didn't. I just smiled to myself and cackled like a hyena the second he was out the door.

 

I think I smile every time I read your posts Erin. Thanks for making this board a ton of fun consistently.:wink:

 

In all seriousness tho when I was a teenager and having sex at a cottage the gf started doing exactly what you did, but it really didn't seem right. We stopped and talked (we were both very new at this sex thing) and she confessed that her older sister told her to act that way.

 

Nothing magical happened that night, but the next time we had sex I must have fumbled my way to the magic spot (very inexperienced at the time lol) and she went completely silent and twitchy. She could hardly move for about 10 minutes and the first thing she wanted to do was tell her sister she didn't know what she was talking about! :grin: