castle 38816 Report post Posted February 23, 2012 I've made it no secret that I prefer a more PSE type of encounter when seeing SP's. Not too crazy, actually in a lot of ways you might even consider me "vanilla" compared to some. But I do tend to prefer things to be at least a little dirtier than the norm. So much so that I'm starting to worry that the years of spoiling myself with the PSE has ruined "regular" sex for me. I'm kinda worried that just straight up "making love" would bore me now without the ....err....bells and whistles. I'm worried about meeting that woman who is perfect for me in every way....but is a total prude in the sack. I know sex isn't the be all end all of a good relationship. But it is a very big factor. The ideal thing would be to meet someone I'm absolutely crazy about who, sexually, is into all the same things as me. But what are the odds of that? Anyone else share this concern? Do you think participation in this lifestyle (either as a client or provider) has spoiled "regular sex" for you? Posted via Mobile Device Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
canuckhooker 19203 Report post Posted February 23, 2012 Nope, not at all. I think we all have different desires or needs depending on our moods, how stressful our day has been, how playful we are feeling. I have had some pretty intense, "hot monkey sexin'" PSE style sessions with a lady and then on our next encounter have had a slow passionate time together. I think it is how you relate to the person you are with, and what your mutual desires are at that particular moment that influences how you behave together. I love sex to be adventurous and vigorous and push the boundaries, but I also like it to be tender, passionate and comfortable. It depends on what experience the two of you want to share on the day, that determines how things play out. 10 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
