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All very informative stuff in this third, and as others have said, read, read and read. There's much info here and don't be afraid of older info, it's still applicable. Researching is key.

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This valid question is great and the answer just as good but I still can't find the reviews for escorts in Ottawa. Plz be as descriptive as possible or direct me to a thread that can guide me.

Thanks in advance there is good in the world.

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I have a couple of questions about this whole shindig. I'm new to this whole thing and have spent some time looking through BP for escorts that fit my tastes. I've found a few, but what happens next? What is the protocol for setting up a session? I've texted a few but don't really receive any answers other than rate/services/location. Is it expected that they'll take a few days to reply? Can I expect to have a few questions answered by text? There seems to be some not-so-obvious taboos. I'm not interested in negotiating prices, but I want to ask about specifics yet no one has answered my questions.

 

Also what can I expect from visiting an SP? Is it like show up, chat for a few minutes to talk about expectations, then the time starts and after the time cleanup with a shower or something?

 

One of the ladies I contacted told me her location for incalls is a hotel. What's the protocol for that? Do I confirm with her the time, book the hotel room on my own, and then give her the number and expect her to show up? What if she doesn't? Or does she provide the hotel room number?

 

What kind of tone should I expect when texting? Are ladies generally willing to hold a bit of a conversation or should it be short and sweet? Is there some 'inner-circle' type deal where no one explicitly talks about the situation at hand for legal reasons and it's all implied or is it not taboo to be more frank? What can I ask of an SP? Can I ask for a picture of her face? Can I ask for a topless picture? What if my fetish is for a specific kind of breast shape? Can I ask for a picture of her holding a paper with something written on it I specify? Is it expected that I give some kind of identifying feature for safety reasons or is just "I'll be there in an hour" good enough?

 

Thanks to anyone who provides an answer, I'm interesting in hiring an escort but the rituals people seem to be used to aren't very obvious.

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My advice is to stick with one of the many well reviewed SPs here first. Hotels not that odd. You don't pay. You get room number and sometimes the actual hotel 1-3 hrs before as an average. I would not ask for photos of face. Most SPs here have a gallery on their profile page that will give you a rough idea of their look. Jube polite and respectful with your inquiries

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What is the protocol for setting up a session? I've texted a few but don't really receive any answers other than rate/services/location. Is it expected that they'll take a few days to reply? Can I expect to have a few questions answered by text?

 

ladies have there favorite ways of being contacted. Email, texting or calling. Do the one the lady prefers.

It should never take a few days to answer you. I'd give her at least 24 hrs but most of us will answer asap. It's illegal to ask about services.

 

Also what can I expect from visiting an SP? Is it like show up, chat for a few minutes to talk about expectations, then the time starts and after the time cleanup with a shower or something?

 

Time starts once you enter her in call.

 

One of the ladies I contacted told me her location for incalls is a hotel. What's the protocol for that? Do I confirm with her the time, book the hotel room on my own, and then give her the number and expect her to show up? What if she doesn't? Or does she provide the hotel room number?

 

yes many of them s use hotels when travelling. You book appointment then she will give you her instructions on what to do next. We usually don't give hotel name until an hour or so before appointment. Room number was you confirm you are there.

 

What kind of tone should I expect when texting? Are ladies generally willing to hold a bit of a conversation or should it be short and sweet? Is there some 'inner-circle' type deal where no one explicitly talks about the situation at hand for legal reasons and it's all implied or is it not taboo to be more frank? What can I ask of an SP? Can I ask for a picture of her face? Can I ask for a topless picture? What if my fetish is for a specific kind of breast shape? Can I ask for a picture of her holding a paper with something written on it I specify? Is it expected that I give some kind of identifying feature for safety reasons or is just "I'll be there in an hour" good enough?

 

Dont ask for any pictures and please don't send us Dick pics.

Many of us will ask for your name, age, cell number and a reference from another established provider.

 

 

 

Good luck and have fun

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This valid question is great and the answer just as good but I still can't find the reviews for escorts in Ottawa. Plz be as descriptive as possible or direct me to a thread that can guide me.

Thanks in advance there is good in the world.

 

 

https://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=125

 

On the main page, if you scroll down past the general section, new members, etc, you will see the various provinces. Go to Ontario and you will see a section for Ottawa. Once there you will see the recommendations section, advertising section and discussion section.

 

Enjoy!

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I love to take pictures with the ladies I meet, is this okay or will they refuse?

Some may allow it, and may or may not charge extra for the service... but I suspect most would refuse. You can always ask, but don't try to argue or haggle if the answer is no.

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I love to take pictures with the ladies I meet, is this okay or will they refuse?

 

Welcome to the board. To add a little on Phaedrus answer, It's the kind of request you can ask indy(independent) providers after a few sessions if the chemistry is good. But better not if she works for an agency/procurer or in a massage parlour/ brothel. This is as much for your protection than hers.

 

For many ladies, it's not a career choice but a temporary source of income. And the last thing they need are pictures that could potentially derail future endeavors. The same goes for you.

 

Good memories remain forever and are far more private.

 

Hope you'll find great ladies and experiences.

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I love to take pictures with the ladies I meet, is this okay or will they refuse?

 

To echo the two previous comments, you definitely need to ask for permission first.

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how much more extra should I offer if I wanna take a few pics and stuff?

 

It's not up to you to make an offer. Ask for what you want, and she's OK with it then she'll tell you what it'll cost you. At that point, you can take it or leave it.

 

And - don't ask to "take a few pics and stuff". Be precise about what you want; it'll save time.

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how much more extra should I offer if I wanna take a few pics and stuff?

 

Again, it's not a question of money! It's about privacy, trust and respect!

 

You don't seem to understand the concept that they are women and not trophies! If she says NO, it's a solid non-negotiable NO!

 

End of story!

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Hello, might I suggest starting a bit slower with perhaps a Body Rub/Massage type place. The experience at these places is usually top notch, especially in Ottawa.

Just my 2 cents, body rubs are still my favorite experience.

Goodluck!

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Hello, might I suggest starting a bit slower with perhaps a Body Rub/Massage type place. The experience at these places is usually top notch, especially in Ottawa.

Just my 2 cents, body rubs are still my favorite experience.

Goodluck!

Totally agree.

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I agree take your time and research from people their experience. Ottawa recommendation board is handy as well.

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