adambigallow 210 Report post Posted March 22, 2012 I am a newbie, I love CERB very much, I learn a lot valuable information for the board and also the people. As I am young, I don't have girl friend, I want to try escort girl; on some point, people always talking about casual sex is unsafe, disease, AID etc. But from forum, it seem a lot people posting the enjoyable experience and don't have any problem about the issue. I would appreciate information how to minimize the risk, how to build up confidence when I have fun with escort girls. Thank you in advance information, have a nice day. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300292 Report post Posted March 22, 2012 First welcome to CERB, and you will find many great ladies here As to the issue of STD's, and casual sex, here is a short and sweet answer, and no, I'm not being smart...but the only 100% safe sex, guaranteed that you will never contract a STD is masturbation...but it is lonely and empty Even wearing condoms is a risk reduction, but doesn't guarantee 100% no STD's What you will have to find is a balance between human sexual companionship/intimacy/and safe sex practice, along most of all with the ladies' boundries. And one more thing, this applies to all intimate relationships, not just those in this lifestyle RG Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
backrubman 64800 Report post Posted March 22, 2012 I am a newbie, I love CERB very much, I learn a lot valuable information for the board and also the people.As I am young, I don't have girl friend, I want to try escort girl; on some point, people always talking about casual sex is unsafe, disease, AID etc. But from forum, it seem a lot people posting the enjoyable experience and don't have any problem about the issue. I would appreciate information how to minimize the risk, how to build up confidence when I have fun with escort girls. Thank you in advance information, have a nice day. This chart can help you assess the risks and decide what activities are too risky for your personal tolerance or level of comfort. http://healthnurse.wordpress.com/faq-about-sexual-health/sti-risks-chart/ I do have to point out that I personally feel safer with a "professional" lady and most do have great respect and care for any fear you might have about this. I travel a LOT (used to travel even more) and have no fear of flying, but I am always amazed at how well the flight attendants take that extra care, compassion and see to every possible comfort for someone that is very nervous about flying and sensible enough to tell the flight attendant this before takeoff. I'm guessing most all CERB ladies would react in a similarly positive way if you tactfully discussed the subject and your concerns. By tactfully I mean you should make them aware of your concern for this but please be careful to make it clear that this is not directed as concern specifically about them or if they were tested recently, etc. which would be very inappropriate. As long as you make it clear you are not referring to them specifically you should get a positive reaction. And at the very least, tell them you are a newbie and let them show you the way :) 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
adambigallow 210 Report post Posted March 23, 2012 Thank you all gentlemen, very valuable information. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Chanel Reign 28097 Report post Posted March 29, 2012 Try looking at it from the other side of the fence for a moment. As an SP: If this is ones chosen profession, you should be educated and aware of the risks before engaging your first Client. You should know what you feel is safe, what your willing to do and not. And communicate that clearly on your web site. And then you protect and take care of that asset. You cant pull another you out of the drawer or off the rack. It is my opinion that SP's as a whole are much more educated and practice much safer sex than the general population. As for confidence...we're just folks, be yourself. :) 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nntsci 11076 Report post Posted March 29, 2012 Welcome to the hobby. I had similar concerns when I started. But I got started in Nevada (Winnemuca) where the brothels are legal, regulated, have stringent health standards (the girls check the mans parts before sex), and are very expensive. Problem is I don't travel to Nevada nearly enough. Minimize your risk by learning as much about how disease spreads and don't just learn about the most severe diseases (e.g., AIDS), because they are typically the least common; learn about the most common diseases as well (e.g., Chlamydia). Avoid practices that expose you to more risk. Alway use a condom. Also, having one disease apparently increases your risk of getting additional diseases. And if you are worried, get yourself tested. There are clinics that will do so quickly and discretely. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
zorobaby 4121 Report post Posted March 29, 2012 One piece of advice i can pass on, don't double wrap your whacker before you attack her... the extra added friction from the two condoms rubbing together can cause either the inner one to break, or the outer one to fall off inside the sp... or at the very worst circumstances, both. When i was very young and VERY stupid i learned the hard way, luckily it was just the second one falling off and not both or i might have been in trouble... but hey it was my first time lol Zoro Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
