Preferred customers

[nntsci 11076]

Dear ladies;

 

You gals spend a lot of time trying to please us... and we are thankful. I'm curious about percentage of your customers are younger, or good looking, or older sagging middle aged types like myself?

 

Also what percentage of your customer are married or not married?

 

And finally, do you have a preferred customer profile?

[CristyCurves 169032]

Dear ladies;

 

You gals spend a lot of time trying to please us... and we are thankful. I'm curious about percentage of your customers are younger, or good looking, or older sagging middle aged types like myself?

 

Also what percentage of your customer are married or not married?

 

And finally, do you have a preferred customer profile?

 

I found your comment"older sagging middle aged types" to funny,I never look at a man that way,my preferred types are clean,respectful,horny guys that are into me.His looks ,weight,height, hairline,don't matter, as I have never been one to be visually attracted to anyone anyway.Just be nice,clean,reliable,polite,confident and don't gossip about other sp's and I will love you!

To answer your other questions,most of my clients are married,or attached,I get alot of young(20 somethings) wanting my services,and tend to turn down alot as I am more comfortable dealing with over 30's,all in all most of my clients seem to be married early 40's.

[nntsci 11076]

I found your comment"older sagging middle aged types" to funny,I never look at a man that way,my preferred types are clean,respectful,horny guys that are into me.His looks ,weight,height, hairline,don't matter, as I have never been one to be visually attracted to anyone anyway.Just be nice,clean,reliable,polite,confident and don't gossip about other sp's and I will love you!

To answer your other questions,most of my clients are married,or attached,I get alot of young(20 somethings) wanting my services,and tend to turn down alot as I am more comfortable dealing with over 30's,all in all most of my clients seem to be married early 40's.

 

Thanks Cristy. I work out everyday... I work hard on my rounded figure.

[zorobaby 4121]

This is a great idea for a thread. Reading through posts i was always curious who would use the services more of an sp or ma, us younger guys or slightly older guys (i dont wanna make it seem like im calling anyone old, sorry if that offended someone).

[roamingguy 300292]

I think you'll find most ladies preferred customers are those guys who are gentlemen.

Married, single, divorced, skinny, heavy etc, I would think is moot to most ladies. But treating the ladies like ladies for that is what they are, and being a gentleman (and that includes good hygiene and paying in full), that would be, I'm guessing, a preferred customer

Some ramblings from this older gentleman's perspective

RG

[April Dawn 12207]

My preferred client would be around 40 plus, married or widowed, clean, respectful, funny. I mostly see clients who fit this description. I've never cared about physical appearance. I find the longer I have been in this business the older my preferred customer becomes.

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[Meg O'Ryan 266444]

I have enjoyed the time I have spent with men from 19 to 70. Short, tall, skinny, large, hairy, bald...makes no difference as long as they are respectful, shiny clean and fun to be with. The intimacy then just comes naturally!

[SexxxyRebecca 57989]

Like Meg said, for me its not about ''age'' or ''apparence''... You can be Brad Pitt, but if you dont have a good attitude, the chance I will enjoy my time are low.

 

Personnaly, I prefer ''mature'' gents. Ive met some guys really mature for 25 and some arent mature yet at 60 ;)

 

For me, Respect, attitude & hygiene are the MOST important.

[Malika Fantasy 144625]

My preferred customers are those that have good hygiene, don't push my limits, respect me and are polite...

 

BUT if you want facts and numbers...

 

I would that 80% are in a relationships or married (also guys...don't need to remove your wedding band, we do see the different skin color:P)

 

85-ish give or take are caucasians, 10% asians et 5% others ethnicities.

 

The average age seem to be from late 30's to mid-50's, I will see more late 20's/early 30's than late 50's/early 60's. I would probably guess this because the fact that I am young myself and older gentlemen don't always feel comfortable with women that can be as young as their daughter.

 

Most people are average BMI, maybe a little bit of the belly, but I wouldn't say that most people are obese, I don't seem to get a lot of skinny guys

 

 

Personally I prefer people that in a relationship, as I don't have as much drama that some of my customers that are single (for example when they start to fall in love or would like to have a FwB arrangement...) and I prefer gents over 35+ as most of them are often more considerate and don't always try to do a sex marathon or do the best performance of their life...

[mrgreen760 37785]

I am 58 years old, in pretty decent shape, well groomed, very polite, interactive, selective, appreciative, funny, shy and confident at the same time.

 

I accept that I may or may not be everyone's cup of tea or client preference....but I've never not been invited back ;)

 

Peace

MG

[Chanel Reign 28097]

Good thread! And a very subjective one. Gentlemen, if I may make a suggestion; take note here what the Ladies say. This is what is important for us, so we know whats important to you. :)

 

This is my perspective:

Seeing naked bodies in an intimate environment is different that just being around naked people at camps and events or photoshoots. One is sexual and one is not. Somewhere along the way I think my lines got blurred (in a good way), and so I do not see parts but the whole.

 

An example: David Lee Roth. OMG sexy in the day and I bought into it. Until he opened his mouth. Crass, no class, and in my opinion, stupid as a bag of nails. Completely lost it for him right there and still find him revolting.

 

So since 99.9% of us are "normal" by our own cultural dictates; I have to look further than a body to prefer a Client.

 

Lady or Gent, you must be squeaky clean. Respectful, but also understand that I am also part of the 99.9 that you walk beside everyday. I am much more than you see, and live on the same planet you do. Therefore, friendly; and it will be reciprocated. In other words some should lose the "whore and slut" attitude, because what does that make you?

 

With women I am totally enamoured of boobies!!!! And nipples!!! Oh my!

 

I do admit to loving mens butts however. And believe me, cute bottoms come in all shapes and sizes!

 

Age again is a no go with me. I know too many people that defy their chronological age....unfortunately both ways! lol But in this biz, I draw the line at around 25 or so.

 

I have a Gent who is 81 and a snowbird. He WALKS to my location for our playdate. There is nothing gross or disgusting about this man. He is eloquent and open, and I look forward to our summer sessions together.

 

There are so many versions of "married" out there these days, I rarely ask or look. Sometimes it is shared, and if I see the Gent regularly and we have such a rapport; I will sometimes quietly ask why they see me. The answers are usually the same variation. For the younger men, I tend to mostly get single ones.

[mrrnice2 157005]

Chanel in her post above was right on in so many areas. The basics apply to both men and women, client and service provider. Her statement "I do not see parts but the whole," is what attracts me to this business.

 

In the same light, I have to look further than a body to prefer an SP.

[Athos 108589]

I'd like to think I'm preferred client material.

 

One of the things I learned long ago, as Chanel suggests, is to leave preconceptions behind. Of course, physical attributes are important factor in attraction, they aren't everything. You really do need to look at everything about a person, and how you interact with them. Increasingly I prefer longer sessions for that reason, and tend to see fewer ladies with whom I repeat more often.

 

I also learned that just as there is such a huge variety of clients, there is also huge variety in providers. I guess I've been very fortunate, but I would say that over 80% of the ladies I've seen have been just wonderful and delightful persons. Hard working, compassionate people, caring for family, trying to improve their lives, provide for children, seek opportunities for advanced education, etc. etc. in short, I've encountered far more arrogant and unpleasant individuals in a host of other professions than I have in this biz. It's one of the things that so pisses me off when I hear news commentary and other media portrayals of sex workers.

 

As they say in Newfoundland, the ladies I've met are all "best kind". And I'd like to thank them for sharing their time and their intimacy with me. I truly feel enriched by knowing all of you, some in person, and others through forums like CERB.

 

Porthos

[castle 38816]

It's interesting that a few ladies have mentioned that they prefer married or attached men as clients. I've always figured there would be more drama involved with married men...not less. But apparently I was mistaken

 

As a single man this honestly makes me feel a little self conscious now. I've always thought of myself as the ideal client....but it looks like I'm not :(

 

Hmmmmm....maybe I should go get myself hitched so I can be a better client :p

[roamingguy 300292]

It's interesting that a few ladies have mentioned that they prefer married or attached men as clients. I've always figured there would be more drama involved with married men...not less. But apparently I was mistaken

 

As a single man this honestly makes me feel a little self conscious now. I've always thought of myself as the ideal client....but it looks like I'm not :(

 

Hmmmmm....maybe I should go get myself hitched so I can be a better client :p

 

My guess on this is that single guys (probably younger) may view this lifestyle as an alternate to LavaLife or eHarmony LOL and a single guy may start trying to put a dating/relationship aspect to the ladies he sees, in a lifestyle that should be no strings and drama free

I would also guess (and not profiling here) but it would likely be younger single guys that would be more app to do this. Me, I'm single, but middle aged, and got involved in this lifestyle because I don't want to date anymore. But I still do enjoy female companionship (in all aspects), and find the encounters and ladies I have met have enriched my life. And had I been involved in a relationship or married, I never would have met any one of the ladies

A rambling

RG

[Athos 108589]

Married guys are relatively drama-free, unless the SO finds the SP's phone number in your jacket pocket!! :icon_eek:

[backrubman 64800]

Married guys are relatively drama-free, unless the SO finds the SP's phone number in your jacket pocket!! :icon_eek:

 

That so reminds me of a funny story I heard from one of the ladies I so trust and respect on this happening to her. To make a long story short and not hijack the thread it was very much like "Oh, so your not his girlfriend, you're an escort and you knew he was married? Yes, that's right. Well then, I'm so very sorry to have bothered you honey, my sincerest apologies, you have a great evening. Fred!!!! F-R-E-D!!! &^%!&!!&%" Phone call ends :)

[nntsci 11076]

Thanks for all the replies, great discussion.

It doesn't surprise me that married men come with less drama.

I betcha we really appreciate what the ladies do for us cause it isn't happening otherwise.

In fact being in this hobby, reduces drama at home.

But married men can also fall for their escort.

A friend of my wife apparently left her for an escort (and drove away in a Ford Escort, she told me).

Though from trying unsuccessfully to get her off the phone once without being rude, the escort might have been just an excuse for the guy to escape.

But, yes, one must not take home any evidence.

I actually left the phone number in my pocket once that went into the laundry and fortunately my wife usually doesn't check pockets. I haven't made that mistake since.

Of late I figured the big potential weakness was coming home smelling different (of Axe jell or whatever), so I've taken to washing up afterwards with my own soap.

Anyway, thanks for all the information.

[Chanel Reign 28097]

It's interesting that a few ladies have mentioned that they prefer married or attached men as clients. I've always figured there would be more drama involved with married men...not less. But apparently I was mistaken

 

As a single man this honestly makes me feel a little self conscious now. I've always thought of myself as the ideal client....but it looks like I'm not :(

 

Hmmmmm....maybe I should go get myself hitched so I can be a better client :p

 

You are who you are. Married or not, drama follows those who invite it. If you have regular ladies who love seeing you, then you are the ideal Client. :)

 

Silly man! ;)

 

Additional Comments:

My guess on this is that single guys (probably younger) may view this lifestyle as an alternate to LavaLife or eHarmony LOL and a single guy may start trying to put a dating/relationship aspect to the ladies he sees, in a lifestyle that should be no strings and drama free...

RG

 

This has happened to me twice in 2+ years, where a single younger Client has "fallen" for me. Situation corrected.

 

Judging by what you are saying I do believe there are a few out there that do believe this. I frequently direct them to dating sites or Fetlife if they continually sext me or want to date.

[Secrets of Victoria 7208]

I fully agree here!

A gentleman, good hygiene and pays (without having to be asked) is definitely my preferred client.

Age, weight, marital status,height, hair.... irrelevant, it's how they conduct themselves while they are with me that's more important.

I think you'll find most ladies preferred customers are those guys who are gentlemen.

Married, single, divorced, skinny, heavy etc, I would think is moot to most ladies. But treating the ladies like ladies for that is what they are, and being a gentleman (and that includes good hygiene and paying in full), that would be, I'm guessing, a preferred customer

Some ramblings from this older gentleman's perspective

RG

[Amelia Fox 9064]

My Prefered client

 

40-50s,clean shaved,educated, good conversationalist,and funny.. His marital status does not matter. Someone whom is a gentlemen and a little old school( please her before yourself).

[zorobaby 4121]

I'm getting kind of worried that I'm to young to hobby lol, being only 24. It seems i might have to wait a few years before i see another lady :(

[Meg O'Ryan 266444]

I'm getting kind of worried that I'm to young to hobby lol, being only 24. It seems i might have to wait a few years before i see another lady :(

 

In the last couple of years (since my SP debut) I have come to realize that age is just a number. Jerks can be 19 or 70 as can gentlemen. I have met some 20yr olds that are far more mature than some 50yr olds I've met :)

[roamingguy 300292]

This has been an interesting read...but at the end of the day, for me, I'm not worrying about falling into a lady's ideal profile for a good client.

But I will always try to be the best client I can be, respectful, clean, and most of all, a gentleman. Fortunately for me, no play acting is needed, when I have an encounter, all I have to be is myself.

A morning rambling

RG

[loopie 15358]

I would like to think I am a good client. I try to be respectful, polite, and hygenic. I feel those are the important things.

 

I don't really worry about whether I am what an SP would find attractive or not. It's up to the SPs to decide who they want as their clientele and to develop a screening process that gets them that clientele. If an SP puts it in their ad that they won't see men under 40, I will respect that barrier and not contact that SP. But if the SP doesn't communicate any demographic barriers, then I assume she doesn't have any.