I have been asked twice now on this topic..

[PistolPete 61421]

In the past couple of weeks I received a couple of pm's from male members requesting that hobbiest put in their top ten reasons for selecting a date with an SP.

 

I personally do not have a top 10 list for selecting a SP, but I'm sure if others were to participate the top 10 reasons would assist others in their selection process.

 

The reason for this was they did not have a great experience during their encounters.

 

I want to make this quite clear that YMMV in every encounter.

 

I have been with an SP's during encounters where there was no chemistry, so it always depends on the mood set of both parties.

 

So for myself, here is my reasoning for selection of a date..

 

a) Incall service offered.

b) Reviews from local recommendations and other outside resources.

c) Web site with pictures and discription of services offered.

d) I'm a repeat customer.

 

 

I hope this may assist others participating here on this board, and this was the only reasoning behind this thread.

 

You will also notice that I did not make any comment on the donation requirement, for myself I have been with ladies that charge from 2 bill mark up to 4 + bill mark, it is a matter of personal preference.

[Jabba 18389]

Hi Pistol,

Good thread -

Some may call me a snob, but here are my criteria (in descending order of importance):

 

1. Incall available

2. Pics available

3. Phone # available - Talk with SP to judge if she's coherent or if there's chemistry. Failing that, email usually weeds 'em out if they can't string two words together.

4. Location - if incall is in a poor neighborhood, I'll pass.

[antlerman 17064]

bingo.....it is all so many variables which make an encounter enjoyable.........you can not pin it down.....

[etasman2000 15994]

So for myself, here is my reasoning for selection of a date..

 

a) Incall service offered.

b) Reviews from local recommendations and other outside resources.

c) Web site with pictures and discription of services offered.

d) I'm a repeat customer.

 

(a), (b) are a must for me. © I'm willing to take a chance but a pic is a plus. As for rates, if I want to see her bad enough I'll put aside each week/month for it. IMHO part of the fun is the wait.

 

My 2 cents

[whatsup 11893]

 

So for myself, here is my reasoning for selection of a date..

 

a) Incall service offered.

b) Reviews from local recommendations and other outside resources.

c) Web site with pictures and discription of services offered.

d) I'm a repeat customer.

 

 

a) Incall service offered.

b) Reviews from local recommendations (especially CERB members) and other outside resources.

c) Web site with pictures and description of services offered.

Which GOE ( http://www.gardenofedenescorts.com/ottawaescorts/listingview.html?listingID=67 ) provides on their website and if you are on their mailing list they offer a discounted rate. Also ( http://www.originalgfe.com/ )

Take note Ottawa agency's.

d) I'm a repeat customer.

 

SPs should use their profile more to their advantage by utilizing the availability of the album feature.

[spud271 47779]

I am pretty much with Pete on this one, I don't really have a top ten either and yes YMMV in every encounter. I like to do a bit of research on the sp and read reviews, mostly from local hobbyiest. Then try to correspond with the lady for a bit to see if I will hit it off with them. There are a couple of ladies that I have really hit it off with and see on a regular basis now, so it has worked very well for me personally.

 

 

In the past couple of weeks I received a couple of pm's from male members requesting that hobbiest put in their top ten reasons for selecting a date with an SP.

 

I personally do not have a top 10 list for selecting a SP, but I'm sure if others were to participate the top 10 reasons would assist others in their selection process.

 

The reason for this was they did not have a great experience during their encounters.

 

I want to make this quite clear that YMMV in every encounter.

 

I have been with an SP's during encounters where there was no chemistry, so it always depends on the mood set of both parties.

 

So for myself, here is my reasoning for selection of a date..

 

a) Incall service offered.

b) Reviews from local recommendations and other outside resources.

c) Web site with pictures and discription of services offered.

d) I'm a repeat customer.

 

 

I hope this may assist others participating here on this board, and this was the only reasoning behind this thread.

 

You will also notice that I did not make any comment on the donation requirement, for myself I have been with ladies that charge from 2 bill mark up to 4 + bill mark, it is a matter of personal preference.

[Capital Hunter 18263]

Here is a list of my 10 top reasons in the order of importance:

 

1 - Outcalls offered

2 - GFE related services offered (Daty, DFK, Digits)

3 - Looks (tall, natural blondes or pale skin brunettes are my favorites, but also small cuties are welcomed too)

4 - Age (19 to 25 my preference)

5 - Naturally unshaved (hard to find but real bonus)

6 - I can afford the donation (around $$$ or less)

7 - Weekend daytime appointment possible

8 - Good reviews on board

9 - Good web site with pictures and service description

10 - Good contact info (email as well as phone number)

[d*mm*y 887]

I need to have a good correspondence either email or telephone conversation with the SP. Or if there is a strong recommendation from someone that I know (thank you lunch club!).

 

I tend to go with my gut feeling from the conversation as to weather there is chemistry or not. Pictures, web sites, generic recommendations are all interesting but I often don't bother with it all.

 

I do agree that GOE has sent some excellent ladies up and I am glad to be on the mailing list!

[nntsci 11076]

I was looking through past posts... going back to 2007 and came upon this thread about the top 10 reasons for selecting a girl... Some things have changed. It would be interesting for those who replied years ago to say if their reasons have changed at all.

 

Here are my main reasons.

 

(a) The pictures of the girl attracts me... typically that means long dark hair (preferably curly), nice curves, and clearly defined cleavage (not too small; not too large) and preferably natural breasts.

 

(b) A pretty smile.

 

© I like a image that allows me to imagine myself with her... no idea of what exactly what that means but I know it when I see it.

 

(d) I'm not fond of leather, but I really like skirts; a girl in a skirt is more likely to get my attention.

 

(e) The time available... I try to see a lady after I finish work but before my wife finishes work... that's free time for me because she doesn't know my where abouts during my commute (or her commute). Recently I drove to the other side of Toronto on Saturday to see a lady (who I think of as a friend) because my wife was working on Saturday.

 

(f) I used to look at reviews or recommendations, but rarely find them for the women I am interested in, and rarely find them useful, so I've stopped looking. I've also stopped writing them in part because three times a Lady's price went up after I wrote a review; don't know if it was my review but I'm not taking any chances.

 

(g) I have had very good experiences with nearly every lady I've selected, (I LOVE YOU ALL!!!!) and I don't regret any. The ones I have had the best experiences with I repeat with, and its her personality that defines the best experiences. Over the years I have developed friendships with some of the ladies and we always have a great time together.

[emiafish 30979]

Great resurrection! It is interesting to see how much we have in common and how we differ significantly. Adding my personal experience to the thread...

 

Selection Considerations

A) Availability - no use looking further if our schedules fail to lineup. I am flexible and I enjoy the company of lovely providers frequently, however I do have black out periods. If we don't match I move on.

 

B) Appeal - basically it depends on what I am lusting for at the moment of my search. This also influences my availability criteria, cause sometimes I just can't wait. I love all types and have a passion for those who enjoy receiving as much as giving.

 

C) Attitude - those who I see frequently share common attributes, they are authentic, they are enthusiastic and they love sex. Attitude comes through the Lyla advertising, the posts on various discussion threads, blogs, websites and even through their pictures. The more I can get a sense of someone's personality the greater the chance l will select them.

 

D) Arrangement - how easy is it to book a play date? Some providers prefer specific contact protocols. Others are more flexible. Some can be unpredictable. I will jump through a few hoops to make a connection, especially the first time, but I have my limits.

 

These considerations typically run in the background while I browse Lyla to see what fun I might have.