CristyCurves 169032 Report post Posted April 6, 2012 Almost every man I have visited with wants the girl on top position,why is this,is it because he has a full view,because he doesn't have to do "any of the work",or is it because it just feels better.I am curious because it's my least favorite position,but since most seem to prefer it I will have to start liking it more maybe. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sniper22 100 Report post Posted April 6, 2012 I think yes you get the full view which is bonus. I think for me its the different angles that the girl can assume... makes the feeling that much better! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Grizzly Slushie 1487 Report post Posted April 6, 2012 For the view, the gravity and comfort of laying down.....then I realized something else. By having the gal on top it gives me a great work out and I perform a better thrust action when underneath. Also I do enjoy having to be able to move my hands all over an SP's body when she is on top. When I am on top, I have to support myself with my hands.....I WANT TO TOUCH HER ALL THE TIME!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest N***he**Ont**y Report post Posted April 6, 2012 It is enjoyable to see the entire beautiful view. Some of us have bad backs and it is easier on us to perform that way. Keep in mind the Reverse Cowgirl is now being promoted in some publications as one of the new positions to try out! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
loopie 15358 Report post Posted April 6, 2012 This position has a variety of advantages: -It's comfortable for men with back problems. -Sometimes a woman prefers it when a man's penis is a bit big for her, that way she can control the penetration. -It leaves everybody's hands free to do other things while having sex. -The aformentioned view of the lady. -Psychologically people prefer it for different reasons, some because they see the person on top as being the dominator, some because they see being on bottom as being pampered. 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300292 Report post Posted April 6, 2012 (edited) Well as a somewhat heavy guy (although I've lost a few pounds, and still losing) I'm aware (and she likely is too) about my weight on the her. With the lady on top, there are no concerns in that regard And yes, there is the benefit of seeing the lady as well I think once I lose more pounds, I'll be comfortable with missionary, but right now, it is probably best that the lady is on top RG Edited April 6, 2012 by r__m__g_uy Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
drlove 37204 Report post Posted April 6, 2012 I've always found the opposite. When I was with my ex girlfriend for instance, she liked being on top since it gave her more control over the action and heightened her ability to orgasm. The thing is, it also decreased the sensation for me, although I was able to last longer because of it. However, for the record I prefer the missionary position. It feels the best and IMO it's also the most intimate. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cometman 35115 Report post Posted April 6, 2012 Gawd, I don't care. As long as your breathing, I'm okay, Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest p**h*x Report post Posted April 6, 2012 I love all positions. You really can't go wrong anyway in my mind. However, I like the feeling of being "wanted" that I get when the girl is on top. It probably has to do with being submissive to a woman that makes me feel that way. Also, I'm kind of shy and spending time with an SP has involved women that are by far the best looking women I've ever been with and there is a bit of an intimidation factor. So I feel more comfortable starting off with the girl on top in that situation... to get things rolling at least. Personally I like being told what to do by a woman so if I were with you Cristy and you told me what position you wanted me to be in then I'd be thrilled to do what you wanted! :icon_wink: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
spud271 47779 Report post Posted April 6, 2012 I am a fan of all positions, but there is just something about having a woman on top. I am pretty sure it have something to do with the view. Being able to see every sexy inch of a woman while she's riding you is so bloody hot! YEE HAW!!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LeeRichards 177238 Report post Posted April 6, 2012 Almost every man I have visited with wants the girl on top position,why is this,is it because he has a full view,because he doesn't have to do "any of the work",or is it because it just feels better.I am curious because it's my least favorite position,but since most seem to prefer it I will have to start liking it more maybe. Cowgirl and reverse cowgirl have always been my favorite.... I hope this doesn't make me sound lazy .... because I am not doing any of the work ;) Never quite looked at sex that way before I guess. Cowgirl because I find it the most erotic...the close facial and eye contact, kissing ...I like to run my fingers through your hair or stroke your cheek so yes I like my hands to be free for various reasons ;) RCG is just a completely different and amazing feel and sensation that I have come to luv !! I very much enjoy every postition I have ever tried so I would hope any lady would tell me if a certain one is their least favorite.....at least on a repeat visit when the comfort level with each other is there and a little more experimentation tends to happen. I rarely will ask and just let things happen naturally. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NotchJohnson 214123 Report post Posted April 6, 2012 I had an ex GF who almost always wanted to be on top. She would squat on top of me and I could see her eyes roll to the back of her head. She liked sitting on my penis and move her body like she was in a hula hoop competition and scream like she was winning it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
April Dawn 12207 Report post Posted April 7, 2012 Bah, I hate being on top. I have inturned hips which depending on the day can make it slightly annoying to full out crying shooting pain. The only way I can do it and have a good time is if the person I am with doesn't move their hips at all or pull on me. Posted via Mobile Device 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
The General 11309 Report post Posted April 7, 2012 I have to say, it is definitely not my favourite position. I don't really enjoy the same feel of things, and doesn't really stimulate me that much. Now doggy, that is a very nice view. Guess I just like the nice bum staring me in the face, and many of the ladies seem to really enjoy this too. I always thought that lady on top, was more ladies choice, but guess that was more from my perspective. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Report post Posted April 7, 2012 Gabriella, you stole the words right out of my mouth. Oh, yes crack the whip and spank me. Sounds like a good time to me. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest S***dst*** Report post Posted April 8, 2012 I love watching the lady move around on top! Especially if she is well endowed or really enjoys being on top. Well I like watching ladies doing anything they enjoy (in terms of sex acts) Rev cowgirl...oh man the bum!!! The way it ripples ever so slightly when she touches down, HOT :D I won't even watch a porn flick/clip/scene more than once if the lady never rides on top. As far as the "work" goes... who considers the act of sex work? Physically demanding at times, yes, it's a workout for everyone regardless. (in fact THE best work out you'll ever enjoy :P) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CristyCurves 169032 Report post Posted April 8, 2012 I love watching the lady move around on top! Especially if she is well endowed or really enjoys being on top. Well I like watching ladies doing anything they enjoy (in terms of sex acts) Rev cowgirl...oh man the bum!!! The way it ripples ever so slightly when she touches down, HOT :D I won't even watch a porn flick/clip/scene more than once if the lady never rides on top. As far as the "work" goes... who considers the act of sex work? Physically demanding at times, yes, it's a workout for everyone regardless. (in fact THE best work out you'll ever enjoy :P) Some people consider sex "work",isn't that why we are in business ,spouses not wanting sex with their partners,ect,because it has become so routine,boring,"work" and I am sure although some may not admit it but some sp's would consider some of their" interactions" with their clients"work". Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
spong 1344 Report post Posted April 8, 2012 Although GoT is probably my favourite position (for the view, and, when seeing an SP, the feeling of having her in control and pampering me), if the lady isn't as in to it, the session won't be as fulfilling. I like doggystyle the least, myself, but i have had plenty of encounters where it flowed naturally into that position and enhanced the experience. As usual it comes down to communication and being open to each other's needs and desires. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Is*****e S**les Report post Posted April 21, 2012 I love being on top and having my nipples sucked while riding a man.. yum! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites