someguy 67067 Report post Posted January 2, 2014 Any of you newbies have great stories to share with us :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
A1B2C3D4E5 1120 Report post Posted January 6, 2014 My first experience was only a few months ago so I remember it very well. I was extremely nervous and did research for about a month, deciding back and forth over and over whether to go through with it or not. Eventually I narrowed down my choices and contacted my first choice and she agreed to see me. I booked a longer session with her knowing that I'd be nervous and so that I don't feel like I am in a rush. When I saw her she was extremely personable, laid back, and easy going. I thoroughly enjoyed every second spent with her from the moment I walked through her door to the moment I left. As a matter of fact - I enjoyed the experience so much that I haven't branched out, but I went back to see her a few times already and have an upcoming appointment with her that I am very much looking forward to. I got really lucky to find someone like her on my first try, and don't wanna risk seeing someone else only to have a bad experience. Besides every booking has been even more enjoyable than the last. That's not to say I won't branch out in the future though. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
someguy 67067 Report post Posted March 27, 2014 Many new Newbies have joined recently. Many of you have taken your first plunge with meeting a MA or SP. Any good stories to tell us about your first experience? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
someguy 67067 Report post Posted July 2, 2014 Any new interesting stories to tell? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest B*o***32 Report post Posted July 2, 2014 A few months ago I decided to start checking BP and it didn't take long to realize that 99% of them were scams and since I live in a small town I didn't expect much else. Finally I noticed someone that seemed legit. Her own website, well reviewed, gorgeous...I knew that this was my chance, as long as she could arrange everything by email, for I did not want to have a pooning phone. She was more than helpful. Of course I prebook like 2 weeks in advance for an hour of GFE and it was all I could do to not go crazy thinking about it, I seriously felt like a kid looking at a huge Christmas present under the tree. When the day FINALLY came, I went to her hotel, knocked on her door and she was exactly what I was hoping for. I told her I was very happy to see her and that I was super nervous. She said that was alright, and she escorted me to the bedroom. Unfortunately for me, my nerves were so shot that I couldn't get past half mast, but she was a pro and drained me twice in a half hour, which was absolutely fantastic and frankly unheard of since my 20's. We talked and cuddled for awhile and then I decided to end it with 15 mins still on the clock. When I was on the way down in the elevator, I realized that all I can do is smell her perfume! I didn't realize how much was on her and now I felt soaked in it! Not good! I got home, took off my clothes to find that I had white deodorant stains from when I pulled off my shirt! Not good! Ok, threw my clothes in the washing machine, got showered, no worries. Note for next time, no perfume, clear deodorant, lesson learned. It took me a couple more times until I cured my nerves (Forte works, lol) and it still is a rush. It's probably a good thing now that I do live in a small town since I'm sure that I would spend waaaayy to much money if I lived in the city. Love ya ladies, can't wait till you tour through again! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
someguy 67067 Report post Posted November 23, 2014 It's been a while since we've heard some interesting stories. There must be a lot of new members here that can tell us about their first experience ? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Honey Man 12759 Report post Posted November 25, 2014 I was 35 years old. I married my child hood sweet heart. I came home one day and she said its over. I said whats over and she said we are over. I said why and she said she did not love me anymore. She said I need to move out and she was keeping my children. That night I ventured out not sure where I was going or what I was going to do. I saw this lady hitchhiking and stopped to give her a ride. I had no idea she was working. She offered me some fun and I said yes. At that point in time I had never kissed another woman or been with another woman in my life. Considering my ex was seldom intimate with me I would say I was the closest to a virgin you would ever find. It was my way of dealing with the pain. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest D***el B***e Report post Posted December 3, 2014 I started in the pre-internet days ... OMG, I don't know if it was just me but boy did I ever go through a lot of hit and miss. Terrible beginning. I was just looking for physical affection, I had none at home and still to this day, but I do recall the first few encounters. Forget it! I'm not saying, just too ashamed and you're going to laugh at me I guess! lol Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kmwq 5477 Report post Posted December 7, 2014 A little embarrassing is the best way to describe my first with MP. I was in Germany back in 2006 and I found this website about 4 handed tantra massage. I didn't know what would happen but was hoping that having two ladies giving me a massage would be stimulating. The session started with a shower and me coming back into the room in a thin robe that was provided. The two ladies were also wearing similar robes and we started by standing close to each other and just light touching, then they removed my robe which surprised me because I was expecting to lay on the massage table and be covered but no complaints as it was a happy surprise. They then removed their robes and again we stood in silence, three naked bodies close together with their hands gently touching my chest and outer thighs. Then one of the ladies cupped me gently with one hand which was extremely arousing. I stood still and just waited to be directed. I should say that information provided on the website was very vague on what to expect but very clear that I was only to receive and not to touch. Anyway, onto the table and the massage starts and it's very light and sensual all over my back and felt very good with the four hands all over. It was all very rhythmic and choreographed by the two ladies and they seemed to be in a trance. The embarrassing stuff happened when they help me flip over. Again, the rhythmic strokes started and all of a sudden I feel a very strong urge to pee! I hold on for a little but their stroking of my abdomen sent me over and I had to stop then and ask to use the bathroom. Here I am running to the bathroom down the hall to pee. I get back all deflated and get back on the table. The touching starts and it doesn't take long but I get aroused again as they start paying more attention to my mid section albeit very light brushes with the side of their hands. The touching changes slightly here and I start feeling their bodies touching me as they continued their four handed massage. I am now in all my glory and very happy. Then one of the ladies gets on the table with me and sits between my legs while the other stand at the other end and leaning over me to reach my mid section. In this position, her breast brushed my face over and over. I am now full of anticipation as it seems that we were heading to the big finish and they start touching me more directly. Four hands focused on pleasuring me was, in a word, amazing when out of the blue I lose control and finish all over myself. It took all of a minute or so of their focused touching and it was over! You should have seen the look of surprise on their faces! Of all the times to lose control prematurely, that was pretty bad timing. They clean me up and left me to gather myself and shower before returning to say goodbyes. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest N***he**Ont**y Report post Posted December 7, 2014 Three years ago coming up I saw an ad in the local newspaper that caught my attention. I felt emotionally dead after a breakup and kind of buried myself into my work and was becoming a recluse. So I answered the ad by email and sent out a description of who I was and that I was interested in meeting with her. I answered what I thought was all the questions she would be looking for for her pre-screening process ., Now I had no references so to speak of but I hoped my respectful response would be acceptable. It was. We exchanged contact information and made a date. She was wonderful. Since that time we have become friends on a personal level.. Ms.Stormy Redhead thank you for being my friend. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
someguy 67067 Report post Posted March 25, 2015 Lot of new people on cerb. Let's hear some of your first time experiences :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
someguy 67067 Report post Posted April 26, 2015 Any of you newbies like to share some of your first time stories. I've enjoyed reading them. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CasinoMing 1967 Report post Posted April 26, 2015 Back in 1995 I was in Montreal on business. After a particularly draining day, I decided to indulge in a little company. Now remember, this was before internet, so the "search" consisted of looking at the ads in the local newspapers. One ad caught my eye. Blonde quebecoise, 21yrs old, blue eyes. Sounded good. I called the number and arranged for a one-hour date. "Kim" arrives at my hotel room. Yup, she was gorgeous, but something was adrift. She walks in, calls the agency and the date begins. She undresses and lays on the bed. I was massaging her back when it hit me.. she fell asleep!! Wow, someone else had a worse day than me! Then the snoring started. Wonderful. I tried to shake her a bit to wake her up, but she was sound asleep. A bit of panic set in. I didn't know what to do. I am still dressed, so I decide to sit on the chair and have a smoke. Kim was on her stomach, naked and sound asleep, in a pose that reminded me of Jill Masterson covered in gold in the James Bond movie "Goldfinger". After about an hour, a woman calls the hotel room, says she is calling for Kim. I explained the situation and the woman on the phone yells out "merde!". Another 15-20 minutes go by and there's a knock on my door. The person identifies herself as the woman from the agency. She enters and proceeds to wake up Kim. Kim is groggy but starts to put her clothes on. The other woman checks Kim's purse and makes sure she is dressed ok. The woman returns my envelope and apologizes. Both women left my room a few moments later. Thus ended my first experience. It would be another two years before I even thought of entertaining another encounter. CM 6 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
someguy 67067 Report post Posted December 19, 2015 Would like to hear more stories about your first experience. It's been 5 years now for me and sometimes when meeting a new woman for the first time, it feels like my first time. But that is part of the excitement and fun of this lifestyle. It's the nerves the jitters. Once that feeling is gone, then it is time to retire from this lifestyle. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest st*****ens**ors Report post Posted December 19, 2015 Very interesting thread. I have had only very limited, and fairly recent experience, or so I thought. On reading through, I was reminded that my first time seeing an MA was actually nearly 20 years ago. The experience was so awful I didn't try again for two decades, and I'd nearly managed to forget it had ever happened! I had just reached the end of a brief and unhappy marriage, and though too emotionally bruised to be ready to date I was lonely. I probably was also taking a swing at the rules that I had always followed so scrupulously, and which had let me down. I had seen a sign for exotic massage on the second floor of a strip mall. I knew nothing about it beyond the sign, and was utterly clueless about exotic massage itself. My hands were shaking and I was almost lightheaded with nerves as I climbed the stairs. A bored receptionist in a shabby little lobby led me down a narrow hallway to a small room. Now, because I had no idea of what to expect I didn't bolt when I saw the mattress on the floor, but I didn't like it. The sheet at least was clean. There were rows of lotions and oils and a stack of clean towels, but no shower or sink. It was a depressing setup. After an interminable wait, the door opened and a slim young woman entered. She was fairly pretty, but looked about as excited to see me as a dental drill. "Why aren't your clothes off?" She asked, sounding irritated. I stammered in apology that I was a first timer and didn't know what was expected of me. Without a word she stepped forward, grabbed my hands and planted them on two prominent portions of her anatomy. I froze, absolutely confused by how abrupt the move had been. "What's wrong? Are you a virgin or something?" This with a measure of scorn. And that was enough for me. I hadn't known what to expect but this was damn well sure not it. I reclaimed my hands, apologized for wasting her time, paid the stipulated amount for the session, and left. As I exited the room, she called over my shoulder. "Come see me again sometime!" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
judo 894 Report post Posted December 28, 2015 My story isn't as spectacular..... It was 1999 and I was young and hadn't seen action in a year, came across some ads in the back of a newspaper by accident and got pretty excited at the thought of having someone I didn't know come by for a little "in and out". Worked up the nerve, called and before I knew it there was a knock at the door. The lady standing there was much older than I expected, probably twice my age at the time, I wanted to send her away but I figured it had got this far and may as well take it all the way. While getting things started enjoyed as CBJ and exploded within a couple minutes. Changed to a new rain jacket and couldn't get it up.... that pretty much ended the night - embarrassed and underwhelmed 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Manluvsex 13731 Report post Posted January 3, 2016 I have been at this for about 5 years and still feel a bit of a nimrod. Although I am a little more relaxed about meeting a new SP, I still often get the jitters as I wait in my car, usually way too early for the date. Most of the women I have met more recently have quickly put me at ease and helped me have some very exciting encounters. One of my earliest -- pre Lyla -- days, I would look for SPs on local newspapers, the ads for which were pretty sparse and dodgy to boot. Based on the basic stats and about 10 words of description, I chose one SP. Contacting went OK, although the communication was very cryptic in our information exchanges. Chose and hour and arrived on time. Needless to say the strip motel was a low-end 2 star max. The door opened and my SP was on her cell...for about 5 minutes before she acknowledged me. I didn't know what to do with myself so I sat on the edge of the bed, feeling a sense of dread coming over me. The delay allowed me to take a quick look around and the place was a mess and smelled heavily of cigarette smoke. So she finally got off the phone and abruptly asked me to undress as she did expeditiously, lying back on the bed with an absent look in her eyes. I immediately realized that the lady looked nothing like her written description and seemed at least 10 years older than expected. Our laborious tryst was interspersed with cigarette smoking, snacks and answered phone calls. Not unexpectedly, junior was having a hard time getting it hard. She continued to operate on me in a purely mechanical way, which did not help my situation. After a short while she criticized me for not getting my appendage erected in time. This was a real turn on -- not! She then started looking at her watch and cell phone intermittently, all the while touching me like I was a three day old fish. She then got up to go to the powder room and came back fully dressed. She invited me to get dressed only 30 minutes into our 1 hour meeting. Sending out the door confused and dejected she smiled at me -- for the first time -- and said she hoped to see me again........ (When hell freezes over!) Live and learn, my experiences have only got better and better over time and especially since I joined Lyla and using the great recommendation section and other helpful commentary by all members to guide me on my sensual voyage. 4 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
xxxlol 211 Report post Posted January 8, 2016 i was on a really bad date (she ditched me 20 min into it) and i roamed around the area for a bit. after a while i stumble upon this old beat up looking building with this smoking hot blond standing in front of the the building as i walk by she ask if i want to come in and get a massage. Being young (only 19 at the time) it did not seem weird that a massage place would be open at 10:30 on a Wednesday but a bit drunk and still upset over the getting ditched i just went with it and end she taught me a lot of things that night :p overall it was a good night 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Monstermash 583 Report post Posted January 12, 2016 1984 with a street walker in TO. Scared yet excited! Treated her with respect and promptly lasted a few short minutes actually maybe seconds! 32 years later its still exciting and scary yet the ladies seem to like us more mature clients. Shared respect goes a long way to a great experience 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
someguy 67067 Report post Posted June 29, 2016 Hoping to hear some new stories from all the new members here. Always enjoy reading about somebody's first experience. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Prufrock Cummings Report post Posted June 30, 2016 Mine was purely accidental. I was in my 20's and went to Montreal with my best friend; it was the late 1980's. My buddy wanted to show me to these booths that you go into and put coins in and you get to watch porn (yes, pre-Internet days, lol). So I went into my booth, inserted some coins and wasn't even 10 seconds into the flick, and there was a knock on the door. I opened it up and there was a gorgeous woman on the other side. She asked to come in, and I naively asked "Why?" She whispered in my ear, I turned red and said "ok". Strange, sexy, hot, amazing, unplanned and unforgettable! Afterward, I caught up with my friend and he asked "What took you so long?" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ll99 150 Report post Posted July 10, 2016 I actually literally just had my first SP experience. Was looking around the board, CL, BP and eventually found an ad for someone visiting. Decided to send her a message seeing if she was available since it was getting pretty late. Luckily she was and now I can't wait for her to visit again lol. I'd have been pretty clueless without this board though. Thank god for these stickies. 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
someguy 67067 Report post Posted April 17, 2017 Lot's of newbies here since I last posted on this thread. Would be interested in hearing your first time experience. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
WhereIRoam 21825 Report post Posted April 17, 2017 My first time... I was 18 years old. A friend and I had just left a Rave in Ottawa, I think it was around 6 am, and found ourselves wanting some "company". We had friends who lived together downtown and they happened to live next to a massage parlour (brothel really). Being not far away from there at the time and in need of company, we decided it was proper time to visit this place. Shortly after entering the establishment and settling fees with an older gentleman, he left. Two women were available and since I had covered expenses my friend let me choose first. These women were in their early 20's and they were very friendly with us. We spoke for a few minutes before being led to our separate areas. They quickly realized we were inebriated and asked if we could help them to join in my friend and I's state at the time. I, being the nice guy that I am, helped them out with this. After about 15 or 20 minutes the woman I had selected took me by the hand and led me upstairs. I must admit it felt a little odd to start this activity for the first time with a woman I had literally just met. She got comfortable before I was and helped me to get ready. It didn't take long for me to feel at ease, she knew what she was doing. After about 30 minutes she looked at me and I could see she was becoming inebriated. We had a lot of fun. I don't know how long we were there but I know it was much longer than what I had covered fees for. When her friend knocked on the door and asked to come in, the woman I was with stood up and went to the door. They spoke a short while and decided that since the older gentleman had left, that I had given them "supplies", we were nice guys and that they were having fun that we could stay a little longer. It was a great first experience. My friend and I definitely walked out of there content and smiling. 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lesuisse1234 186 Report post Posted April 18, 2017 My first time was about three years ago. After doing VERY little research I found and an agency That offered a SP of my dreams (petite and redhead). It took me about four hours (nerves!!) to make the call to book the appointment. The agency was based in Ottawa and i had a job in Petawawa, so i asked the Booker if it would be possible, he said yes no problem but pay travelling for the driver and the lady 2 hours to go and 2 hours to come back plus a 4 hour encounter. One the lady showed up her eyes color match her hair. i just took it as i was a long trip. We talk for about an hour as we stared to get more intimate she says why do i have blood down here. She got up took a shower and left. I did not know what to do or say because all i knew is that there was a men (the driver) just outside waiting for her. But i must say a big thank you to all members of Lyla for this great board. After 3 years of research i am now a happy man and getting to meet lovely ladies from this board. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites