TrentSteele 100 Report post Posted January 28, 2009 I have been wanting to set up an appointment with an SP for some time now, for either an overnight visit, or a longer session (5-6hrs). I have seen several SP's who do provide this, but in all honesty, I do not know what to expect. I love the idea of sitting across from a beautiful girl, having dinner/drinks and not having to worry about where things might lead to later. I just don't know if the experience will live up to the expectations, or come close. Does anyone have any experiences they can share, or what to expect. I would love to hear the SP's side of view as well...see where they are coming from in these types of situations. Trent Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123367 Report post Posted January 29, 2009 I think its always best to do this with someone you know and enjoy being with. I recently spent 2 wonderful days with a very special friend here in Halifax. He was here on business and since i had met him a few times before it was wonderful. WE knew we would have fun together....he wrote about it in the recommendations part for Halifax... So find someone your comfortable with,lay out a plan and have fun. I know for me the more time i spend with someone the better everything is...wink... kisses, Emma A Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
etasman2000 15994 Report post Posted January 29, 2009 I would say see someone for an hour or 2 perhaps on a dinner date first. If you both gel then go for the overnight option. You don't want 8 hours of head butting! (unless that is your fetish :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TrentSteele 100 Report post Posted January 29, 2009 I completely understand where you are coming from Emma, and I have thought of that. But first, I like the thought/excitement of meeting someone for the 1st time...the mystery of it. I know...crap shoot and all. There have been one or 2 women who I have met, and would love to spend the extra time with, but they usually do not offer such services. Plus, I kind of want to do this away from home, so I would be in cities where I have not seen someone before. Now I have thought of your idea etasman, booking some a couple of hours, make sure we gel as you said. But if we do hit it off, can I then opt to spend more time with them then and there? I guess that would depend on whether they had another appointment after. But would they rather take the sure money, especially if it is say for overnight? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123367 Report post Posted January 29, 2009 you could estabilsh a rapport with someone throught emails..perhaps. Then meet with them for a few hours. I don't know if i would go for the overnight that night...what if you met for a few hours and you really were not into them ...you might hurt her feelings by not asking for the over night right away...that might be just me though...i'm always worried about others feelings...hehe kisses, Emma Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest f***2f*** Report post Posted January 29, 2009 I guess too it depends on how easy to please etc you are. I am a guy that takes a few sessions with a gal to really get to know her well enough that I would want to spend more time with her, but that's probably just me. I can think of a handful that it was instant chemistry and I would consider staying on in a heartbeat. There are others that it was all I could do to hang in for the hour I'd paid for.....in fact one young lady pissed me off so much I left after 30 minutes (bad attitude) I think that the advice offered by others here is probably sound. Take your time...have a date or two with one who offers this service and then talk with her about it. Sps are very open in my experience and they will tell you what to expect on an overnight and what she would expect of you. Sounds like fun...I've never done it but not saying I won't some time. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
etasman2000 15994 Report post Posted January 29, 2009 via email or chat is an excellent idea and I have done so with a 2 individuals, one at great length to the point that I would be content to just met her and chat for several hours! however most ladies might find it inappropriate since it consumes their time without any assurance of a booking. the dont-call-me-for-phone-sex rule being in effect only with an email medium. it is hard to meet them that day and expect an instant overnight booking since they may have other (unrelated) plans. not surprisingly i rather someone tell me 'no not tonight' compared to someone willing to drop other clients just for a sure thing. they might drop you for just as little! regarding the 2 ladies whom you would like to overnight. have you ask what their objections are ? it could be a simple family logistic which you could help work around. if you are willing to take that extra small step people in general tend to appreciate that. book a nice 5 star local hotel and it would be just like going away :) i had toyed with the idea as well, twice actually. however the stars conspired. *shrug* best of luck and i for one am curious how things turn out. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TrentSteele 100 Report post Posted January 30, 2009 Thanks Emma and etasman for the help and advice. I think you helped me make my decision. I was going to try one of the girls in the T.O. area, but not being from there I had never seen her (or anyone else) from there before. I think now I will definitely try to this with someone who I have seen on occasion...I am really looking forward to the experience, whenever that may happen. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VedaSloan 119179 Report post Posted January 31, 2009 I've had clients extend their time with me while I was there. ie. They booked an hour and then decided that they needed more time. I am sure that I am the exception in this case, but I only work in the evenings for the Playgirls, so the option for spontaneity is there, as I never have anything booked, it's up to me to decide whether I want to stay longer or not. Rapport is key though. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest i***k*** Report post Posted January 31, 2009 While I think it definitely helps to know the lady you want to have an overnight with, I doubt you'd have a problem finding someone interested if you can afford the going rate (which isn't cheap). At the end of the day it's a business and money talks. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123367 Report post Posted January 31, 2009 While I think it definitely helps to know the lady you want to have an overnight with, I doubt you'd have a problem finding someone interested if you can afford the going rate (which isn't cheap). At the end of the day it's a business and money talks. hmmmmmmmmmm thats not always the case.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VedaSloan 119179 Report post Posted January 31, 2009 Yeah, gotta agree with Emma on that one. Just because you have the money and want to book me for an overnight, does not mean I'll accept. I've had a couple of clients want to keep me for a longer amount of time and I've declined because the time I had with them was enough and the money wasn't worth the extra irritation. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123367 Report post Posted January 31, 2009 Yeah, gotta agree with Emma on that one. Just because you have the money and want to book me for an overnight, does not mean I'll accept. I've had a couple of clients want to keep me for a longer amount of time and I've declined because the time I had with them was enough and the money wasn't worth the extra irritation. thats way too funny...... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
etasman2000 15994 Report post Posted January 31, 2009 I've had a couple of clients want to keep me for a longer amount of time and I've declined because the time I had with them was enough and the money wasn't worth the extra irritation. i feel the same way with some of my customer! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
YoungStud 468 Report post Posted January 31, 2009 While I think it definitely helps to know the lady you want to have an overnight with, I doubt you'd have a problem finding someone interested if you can afford the going rate (which isn't cheap). At the end of the day it's a business and money talks. hmmmmmmmmmm thats not always the case.... From my discussions with a number of providers over the years, the quality escorts can and do chose their clients. They're people, not commodities. If you turn out to be a jerk during a date, you could be given your money back and told to leave, no matter how thick your wallet (or your dick - lol) is. And you certainly won't receive another appointment. Experienced and skilled independents prefer reliable friendly repeats to one-time big-spending a-holes and can weed out the jerks without hurting their bottom line in the long run. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest i***k*** Report post Posted January 31, 2009 It's interesting the replies I received to my post. YMMV of course but my experience (although limited) does indicate to me that it is a very available option. Of course I'm not saying a dickhead is not going to get thrown out on his ear by a classy lady. Rather that when properly thought out and executed you can easily obtain the services of a lady overnight, even if it is your first meeting. I hope this clarifies my position a bit. :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123367 Report post Posted January 31, 2009 From my discussions with a number of providers over the years, the quality escorts can and do chose their clients. They're people, not commodities. If you turn out to be a jerk during a date, you could be given your money back and told to leave, no matter how thick your wallet (or your dick - lol) is. And you certainly won't receive another appointment. Experienced and skilled independents prefer reliable friendly repeats to one-time big-spending a-holes and can weed out the jerks without hurting their bottom line in the long run. Thats right Youngstud. Doesn't matter how much money you have if your a jerk your a jerk and no amount of money will do. kisses, Emma A Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
