horwood 104 Report post Posted January 31, 2009 Does anyone know if XXXXXX is still avalable? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kubrickfan 12836 Report post Posted January 31, 2009 Unfortunately, I think XXXXXXX may have retired, at least based on what she said the last time I got a PM from her. She hasn't been on cerb is quite a while. Please dont pm for details ... I dont have many anyways. Its too bad, and she is such a positive, bubbly person and a great conversationalist (among other things ... smile). Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
capitalman 3861 Report post Posted January 31, 2009 With all due respect, this is a hard question to get a serious answer about...here's why: Some girls actually retire, that's great. We all wish them the best, but...... When a girl disappears off the map and claims to be in retirement but actually isn't, it's because their family, boyfriend or a stalker is causing them grief and they want to maintain a low discreet profile. The girl will contact a few select gentlemen and agree to see them but ask them to remain silent about it, all to help maintain the illusion that she is retired. So nobody is going to answer the question honestly. The ones that have seen the retired girl will lie, cause they don't want to lose her, the ones that haven't seen her will tell the truth, but you will never know who's lying and who's telling the truth. If you're lucky enough to be one that is still seeing the "retired" girl on the hush hush, then consider yourself lucky and pity the men that aren't so lucky. And I'm not saying she's faking retirement, I really don't know...but then again maybe I'm one of the lucky ones and I'm lying? I don't want to answer either way. Suffice it to say, just like Kubrickfan said, it's too bad she's gone, but there are many many beautiful women out here waiting for us! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
caveman 147 Report post Posted January 31, 2009 With all due respect, this is a stupid question... Cap, there is no "due respect" in calling it a stupid question. Say what you want to say, man, but why insult the question? Your actual response was very informative, and not something that I knew about. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
capitalman 3861 Report post Posted January 31, 2009 Okay, I'm sorry. I didn't mean stupid...I should have used a different word. Seriously, you're absolutely right that stupid was a poor choice of words on my part. What I said was something that I've had to figure out myself over the course of the last year or so, and I tried to explain what I know eloquently and without prejudice, but I'm not perfect. :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mod 135640 Report post Posted January 31, 2009 Capitalman is not all that good at diplomacy and often speaks his mind (I think he likes to stir the pot so to speak) but he has a good heart. A little too harsh on this one Cap! However... the info you gave is very valuable so I would hate for horwood or anyone else to pass over this as most people do not realize this to be true. Cap is very correct as many of the ladies stop seeing new clients due to issues in their personal lives (often kids, ex-husbands/boyfriend, family... and often all of the above)... but many do retire (or take leave) maybe cause they found a new love or even a new job to take a break (many of the ladies do come back as well). On the flip side some of the ladies change names and try other things to hide and it's a hard call to offer anyone advise who asks (if you have the inside scoop that is) as you could be giving info to someone the lady is trying to avoid. I am asked all the time "Do you remember XXXX and if so do you know if she is still working and how I can get a hold of her" usually this is just a past client who wants to visit her again and has lost touch but it could be the ex-husband/boyfriend/family/etc... trying to dig up info (I always say no whether I know anything or not for her safety and protection - if she wanted you to find her she would make it possible) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
caveman 147 Report post Posted January 31, 2009 No harm, no foul, Cap...I have also been known to "stir the pot" as the mod says from time to time... :-) Thanks for the info and perspectives here, from both Cap and Mod! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
YoungStud 468 Report post Posted January 31, 2009 XXXXXXX is a student and escorting has always been part-time for her. In the past, she has taken several weeks or more away from escorting before because of her studies, travels etc. So all we can do is be patient and hope she returns at some point, as she has done previously. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kubrickfan 12836 Report post Posted January 31, 2009 I'm sure that any of us who have had the opportunity to spend time with this wonderful, sweet young lady will agree that she will be missed. Lets hope we hear from her again soon. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
capitalman 3861 Report post Posted January 31, 2009 Well I changed my original post, and I do admit that I've been told many times I lack tact, but like Mod says I have a good heart...I just react a little quickly sometimes. We must be too hard on our lovely ladies, too many of them retiring all the time! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
d*mm*y 887 Report post Posted January 31, 2009 An excellent way to keep intouch with your favorites is let them know that they appreciate you, tip generously, show them you paying attention buy them gifts that have meaning and gain some trust, you be amazed how many of the good ones will stay in touch with you after they "retire". Be a friend and someone who is genuinely trust worthy! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JoyfulC 132299 Report post Posted February 12, 2009 We must be too hard on our lovely ladies, too many of them retiring all the time! And others will die with their boots on. ;) ..c.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
